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Raising Virgo children
Praise often but dont baby them especially not to the point of over protection. In the long run its better to 'underprotect' than to overprotect a child which will utimately undermine their self confidence as they get older, virgos have enough issues with that without parents adding to it. i'd recommend treating them like little adults, letting them decision make on their own by offering choices but still providing structure
Posted by sefflee
I am blessed/cursed with 3 Virgo children (one of which being Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon, Virgo Rising)
While they demand SO much recognition for EVERYTHING. LITTLE. THING they do, their awareness, intelligence and observation of details absolutely STUNS me.
Anyone raising Virgo children have any stories/advice?
I have a Virgo son as well and he is very bonded to me. The only behavior issues I have with him are his expressions of empathy...he can be so stone-faced it seems insincere.
The 55-year-old-Virgdog, whatever his name is, hit the nail on the head when he said that Virgos have the propensity to have high functioning autism, known as Asperger's ... the trait to not quite grasp how/what an expected response is, which leads them to appearing indifferent is certainly present in every Virgo I've ever encountered.
It's not that Virgo doesn't get what you said or did .... they are just uncertain as to what response/reaction you were expecting of them, so they remain rigidly quiet, while looking at you intently.
That ^^^^ is a behavioral trait of a person with autism.
It's not that Virgo doesn't get what you said or did .... they are just uncertain as to what response/reaction you were expecting of them, so they remain rigidly quiet, while looking at you intently.
That ^^^^ is a behavioral trait of a person with autism.
Posted by sunnyvirgo83
Good Qualities
I have a Virgo son. He's the sweetest kid in the world. So sensitive and very caring. He has like 5 planets in Virgo...He loves to make sure everyone is happy and love to dance. He loves to read stories for you and wants to help.
Virgo Sun,
Aqua Moon
Merc, Venus, Mars, Lilith, all Virgo....and Rising is Sagitarius.
Bad Qualities
HE is quite a handful. He is very stubborn, and very demanding at sometimes. But I really put my foot down on him because he'll walk right over me. He loves gadgets and figuring out problems.
Educational or Entertainment
He loves to take things apart re build them...or build things period. He loves using his mind and hands together. He has a hard time calming down, he's always on the go. It's a good thing at sometimes but when it's naptime or bedtime it's hard...but we've established a good routein. He needs that...he's having difficulties in school right now, but it's being worked on and evaluated!!!
Other than that...I really love him and want what's best!!!
That is so cute! My oldest daughter has practically the same chart and this describes her to a T
Little peacekeepers, they are. 🙂
Posted by virg_gokiPosted by P-Angel
The 55-year-old-Virgdog, whatever his name is, hit the nail on the head when he said that Virgos have the propensity to have high functioning autism, known as Asperger's ... the trait to not quite grasp how/what an expected response is, which leads them to appearing indifferent is certainly present in every Virgo I've ever encountered.
It's not that Virgo doesn't get what you said or did .... they are just uncertain as to what response/reaction you were expecting of them, so they remain rigidly quiet, while looking at you intently.
That ^^^^ is a behavioral trait of a person with autism.
Having one single 'symptom' does not equate to having the syndrome.
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Don't come at me with stupidity ... you came to refute something I never even implied, much less stated.
Take your dumb-ass self, and step away from me.
Posted by P-Angel
The 55-year-old-Virgdog, whatever his name is, hit the nail on the head when he said that Virgos have the propensity to have high functioning autism, known as Asperger's ... the trait to not quite grasp how/what an expected response is, which leads them to appearing indifferent is certainly present in every Virgo I've ever encountered.
It's not that Virgo doesn't get what you said or did .... they are just uncertain as to what response/reaction you were expecting of them, so they remain rigidly quiet, while looking at you intently.
That ^^^^ is a behavioral trait of a person with autism.
This is so not true. Autism or Asperger's disease have no correlation to astrology. These are diseases of the brain. If you are suggesting that a child born under a particular sign gains or loses abilities via their sun sign in relation to a particular disease you are way off.
People who have autism don't stare at you they avoid eye contact. That is an autism trait.
Treat them like grown ups and let them have their little quirks. And be affectionate...I cannot stress this enough.
The following rang really true for me:
"These children should have a kitten or a bird, so they can learn the lessons of love quietly and unobtrusively, by caring for the helpless. Don't buy him a St. Bernard or a police dog. If he's a typical Virgmian youngster, he'll prefer a smaller pet. He'll be fascinated by one of those ant vil?_lages. Watching the tiny ants industriously going about their business at close range should really intrigue his curious, practical little mind.
Listen to him when he talks. He has a wisdom beyond his years. You can afford to keep nagging at a minimum, because he'll try very hard to please you if he knows exactly what you expect of him. Remember that his imagination needs plenty of boosting and lots of room to grow, or it can easily become stifled. You need never worry about spoiling him or giving him too many illusions. The Virgo child is made of sterner stuff than that.
Give him all the lovely dreams you can crowd into his heart. Such bright moments of fantasy will guarantee him a much-needed emotional balance when he grows up. Be very sure he has a secret star to wish on. Memories of magical daydreams will keep him from being lonely in the years to come, and there will be many occasions for future loneliness. Unlike other children, the young Virgo may not be very fond of fairy stories and make-believe. He's a true little realist. Perhaps that's why he needs them most of all."
http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/virgo.htm#_Toc6672011
The following rang really true for me:
"These children should have a kitten or a bird, so they can learn the lessons of love quietly and unobtrusively, by caring for the helpless. Don't buy him a St. Bernard or a police dog. If he's a typical Virgmian youngster, he'll prefer a smaller pet. He'll be fascinated by one of those ant vil?_lages. Watching the tiny ants industriously going about their business at close range should really intrigue his curious, practical little mind.
Listen to him when he talks. He has a wisdom beyond his years. You can afford to keep nagging at a minimum, because he'll try very hard to please you if he knows exactly what you expect of him. Remember that his imagination needs plenty of boosting and lots of room to grow, or it can easily become stifled. You need never worry about spoiling him or giving him too many illusions. The Virgo child is made of sterner stuff than that.
Give him all the lovely dreams you can crowd into his heart. Such bright moments of fantasy will guarantee him a much-needed emotional balance when he grows up. Be very sure he has a secret star to wish on. Memories of magical daydreams will keep him from being lonely in the years to come, and there will be many occasions for future loneliness. Unlike other children, the young Virgo may not be very fond of fairy stories and make-believe. He's a true little realist. Perhaps that's why he needs them most of all."
http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/virgo.htm#_Toc6672011
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While they demand SO much recognition for EVERYTHING. LITTLE. THING they do, their awareness, intelligence and observation of details absolutely STUNS me.
Anyone raising Virgo children have any stories/advice?