So I did a thing

I messed up and started romantically engaging a virgo recently...the connection is intensely deep and I can easily see myself falling for her we talk all the time about anything and help each other through issues....that is until recently when she came over and then left telling me she needs space because she feels like my feelings for her are greater then hers are for me (no shot I'm a scorpio) thus severely confusing me. So is it to early to give up on her? Should I hold on to hope that she wont run from our connection? oh P.S. funny thing is she still calls me everyday after that although I've been much shorter with her in order to protect my own feelings now/scorpio scorned thing although I try to be very careful/respectful of her feelings. P.P.S we have only been talking a month

Its actually my situation. Virgos are easily scared by intense feelings. And one more thing there must be two reasons why she keeps calling you

She is attached to you

She loves you.

She will take it slow because i have read somewhere virgo takes relationship very slowly with a scorpio. So be patient and if you feel like move on then dont waste your feelings and time.

What is ‘romantically engageing’ to you?

Are you going on dates together or is it just hang outs.

I just KNEW this was going to be a Scorpio/Virgo post

I just felt it.

Question: what exactly about her pushes for this intense deep feeling/connection you’re feeling?

I’ve never quite experienced this so I’m curious😐

Get ready for testing your patience to the limit.. I hope you know what you're into.

Relationships with them are very slow paced most of the time and you might give up if you run out of patience. Worth it? Probably yes, but to get there it will take huge amount of time. Get ready for months or even years, no joke (experience is talking..).

Posted by LadyNeptune

What is ‘romantically engageing’ to you?

Are you going on dates together or is it just hang outs.

lol thanks for putting me on the spot I guess it's more of hang outs and not quite dates yet...but that's not from lack of trying. She seems to take things extra slow.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

What is ‘romantically engageing’ to you?

Are you going on dates together or is it just hang outs.

lol thanks for putting me on the spot I guess it's more of hang outs and not quite dates yet...but that's not from lack of trying. She seems to take things extra slow.

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Dude read the writing on the wall. Your friend zoned.

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

I just KNEW this was going to be a Scorpio/Virgo post

I just felt it.

Question: what exactly about her pushes for this intense deep feeling/connection you’re feeling?

I’ve never quite experienced this so I’m curious😐

well it's really annoying this is my second time talking to a virgo last time I had much less patience and just cut her completely out my life shortly because I wasnt getting a sufficient amount of passion from her (young scorpio) I've matured since then...wait I haven't answered your question yet...anyway it feels like your talking to a kindred spirit and you dont feel the need to put on a mask which is refreshing(since i have on a mask when talking to 98% of people) your heart feels safe talking to them to the point where you can find yourself effortlessly opening up to them which is rare and the witty banter can go on for hours in the early stages as a scorpio you literally see everything you can want in a partner Safety, Security, Mental stimulation and Compassion(even if it is directed at friends and family and not you yet) and there's an intense bond right off the bat the only negative is that they either cant see it or are scared of it.

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Get ready for testing your patience to the limit.. I hope you know what you're into.

Relationships with them are very slow paced most of the time and you might give up if you run out of patience. Worth it? Probably yes, but to get there it will take huge amount of time. Get ready for months or even years, no joke (experience is talking..).

Years?? Oh no no no...

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Posted by LadyNeptune

What is ‘romantically engageing’ to you?

Are you going on dates together or is it just hang outs.

lol thanks for putting me on the spot I guess it's more of hang outs and not quite dates yet...but that's not from lack of trying. She seems to take things extra slow.

Dude read the writing on the wall. Your friend zoned.

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I feel like I am but it's the weirdest friend zone ever...she still calls me the same amount if time even though she claims she's stingy with her time as am I and as I'm typing this she's calling me...plus for my birthday within a week of knowing me she got me a card and kissed it and added her scent to it along with other presents.

Posted by Virgogirl_

Its actually my situation. Virgos are easily scared by intense feelings. And one more thing there must be two reasons why she keeps calling you

She is attached to you

She loves you.

She will take it slow because i have read somewhere virgo takes relationship very slowly with a scorpio. So be patient and if you feel like move on then dont waste your feelings and time.

why do they take it so slowly if there's such an obvious connection...she's pretty vulnerable with me and shows me her emotions regarding situations and events in her life. Which I can tell is a big deal for her.

Posted by Crazykid

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

I just KNEW this was going to be a Scorpio/Virgo post

I just felt it.

Question: what exactly about her pushes for this intense deep feeling/connection you’re feeling?

I’ve never quite experienced this so I’m curious😐

well it's really annoying this is my second time talking to a virgo last time I had much less patience and just cut her completely out my life shortly because I wasnt getting a sufficient amount of passion from her (young scorpio) I've matured since then...wait I haven't answered your question yet...anyway it feels like your talking to a kindred spirit and you dont feel the need to put on a mask which is refreshing(since i have on a mask when talking to 98% of people) your heart feels safe talking to them to the point where you can find yourself effortlessly opening up to them which is rare and the witty banter can go on for hours in the early stages as a scorpio you literally see everything you can want in a partner Safety, Security, Mental stimulation and Compassion(even if it is directed at friends and family and not you yet) and there's an intense bond right off the bat the only negative is that they either cant see it or are scared of it.

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Hmm I see. Sounds... nice.

We are aware of it, see the bond, but we’re scared of it. Not really the type to embrace passion of those heights with open arms like Scorpios are. It will take time and even then she will still need her space. Take things slow.

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Posted by Virgogirl_

Its actually my situation. Virgos are easily scared by intense feelings. And one more thing there must be two reasons why she keeps calling you

She is attached to you

She loves you.

She will take it slow because i have read somewhere virgo takes relationship very slowly with a scorpio. So be patient and if you feel like move on then dont waste your feelings and time.

why do they take it so slowly if there's such an obvious connection...she's pretty vulnerable with me and shows me her emotions regarding situations and events in her life. Which I can tell is a big deal for her.

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She feels comfortable around you. But she doesnt wants to admit her feelings. She will check your patience tho. But she surely feels comfortable. And maybe she fears something from her past. Shes just being cautious.

You gotta take things slow with us....it is what it is.

I personally dig the intensity but that doesn't mean I just jump into things all Willy nilly and match yours 💯. I need to trust you before you get all that.

We say off the wall shit sometimes because we aren't where you are yet...not that we don't care or like you... majority of us don't know how to process stong emotions. We are logic based...we feel but we need time to understand what we feel and why. It's hard for us to just let go and fall and push logic out the window.

I'm dealing with a scorp now myself. Even though I like him...he's trying to rush things. Although I appreciate knowing where I stand and not having to wonder how he feels....it's still freaks me out a little but not enough to run....yet lol. One side of me understands but the Virgo side of me...needs him to slow it down (which we talked about and he gets but still pushes lol)



What the rest of her chart and yours?

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Posted by Virgogirl_

Its actually my situation. Virgos are easily scared by intense feelings. And one more thing there must be two reasons why she keeps calling you

She is attached to you

She loves you.

She will take it slow because i have read somewhere virgo takes relationship very slowly with a scorpio. So be patient and if you feel like move on then dont waste your feelings and time.

I don't think she loves him, she might be cautious in pursuing or really only likes him as a friend

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I know thats why i told him she must be attached.

Posted by Crazykid

Posted by Virgogirl_

Its actually my situation. Virgos are easily scared by intense feelings. And one more thing there must be two reasons why she keeps calling you

She is attached to you

She loves you.

She will take it slow because i have read somewhere virgo takes relationship very slowly with a scorpio. So be patient and if you feel like move on then dont waste your feelings and time.

why do they take it so slowly if there's such an obvious connection...she's pretty vulnerable with me and shows me her emotions regarding situations and events in her life. Which I can tell is a big deal for her.

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"she's pretty vulnerable with me and shows me her emotions regarding situations and events in her life. Which I can tell is a big deal for her."

unfortunately, it seems she is in love secretly with someone else, who doesnt want her

this behaviour is not virgo specific, its universal

you are handy to be there when she wants to call or whatever, because she cant call the one she is interested in

PS. I would say its very selfish to go to you and declare she doesnt have feelings and then continue to calling you whenever it suits her

but ppl are selfish if they are rejected by their loved ones they go to seek comfort with anybody who is willing to talk to them at their whim... again, not virgo specific

They are a very confusing. Very hot and cold. I don’t envy your position. I would advise you to hold back and do your own thing, try not to obsess too much. You don’t know her that well and you want to make sure it’s not a I want what I can’t have situation.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

What is ‘romantically engageing’ to you?

Are you going on dates together or is it just hang outs.

Ohh dear lot..

Let me sleep with you..

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Hard pass

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Posted by Crazykid

Posted by LadyNeptune

What is ‘romantically engageing’ to you?

Are you going on dates together or is it just hang outs.

lol thanks for putting me on the spot I guess it's more of hang outs and not quite dates yet...but that's not from lack of trying. She seems to take things extra slow.

Dude read the writing on the wall. Your friend zoned.

I feel like I am but it's the weirdest friend zone ever...she still calls me the same amount if time even though she claims she's stingy with her time as am I and as I'm typing this she's calling me...plus for my birthday within a week of knowing me she got me a card and kissed it and added her scent to it along with other presents.

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Friends call each other.

Friends give each other their time.

Friends give bday cards signed with love an kisses.

Your really reaching here. For your own sake take her at her word and accept the friendzone.

Posted by Crazykid

I messed up and started romantically engaging a virgo recently...the connection is intensely deep and I can easily see myself falling for her we talk all the time about anything and help each other through issues....that is until recently when she came over and then left telling me she needs space because she feels like my feelings for her are greater then hers are for me (no shot I'm a scorpio) thus severely confusing me. So is it to early to give up on her? Should I hold on to hope that she wont run from our connection? oh P.S. funny thing is she still calls me everyday after that although I've been much shorter with her in order to protect my own feelings now/scorpio scorned thing although I try to be very careful/respectful of her feelings. P.P.S we have only been talking a month

I hope I'm not too late, but DON'T GIVE UP ON HER!! Virgos aren't clingy and are very independent so the fact that she calls you every day proves that she's very attached to you. She's scared to be vulnerable.

Can I get an update on this girl?