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Posted by rockyroadicecreamWhy is there a 17 page pity party still going on? You gave an in depth description of what you think about the commenters but you quote me like as if I put too much into this post. Good bye and carry on lady.Posted by PayMeek_NoMindThank you captain state the obvious.Posted by rockyroadicecreamI agree under normal circumstances his attitude was selfish but I considered your exception when I first read the OPs post and here's why.Posted by RedemptionSongInteresting how that works.Posted by rockyroadicecream
Fun fact. The OP edited her post 3 times.
For a newb who just joined that day, she sure knows how to navigate the weirdly placed edit feature that isn't obvious. Newbs have a hard enough time even figuring out how to create posts, yet this one created AND edited it 3 times?
If the disappearing after one post wasn't much of a give away, that adds to the troll factor.
Ethical dilemma presented. OP creates a person with an obvious lack of character to test Virgo loyalty. As predicted Virgos swoop in to defend there own despite the obvious lack of personal character and everyone else wonders wtf they are thinking. 5 points to the troll.
Also shines blaring light on age division. 30 and up are like hell no he left her hanging. 30 and under are like well she could uber it, her boyfriend is not responsible for her well being. Hmm.
It's also great to see how selfish and callus the millennial group is. I bet if they were in the same boat they'd be crying the same story.
The only exception I could see in a scenario like this is if she's one of the save a hoe types and just can't be bothered to do anything on her own. But other than that, denying someone help in a situation like that is dog shit. I don't care if it's boyfriend, friend, family, whatever.
She mentioned that he is selfish, so why'd she expect him to be any different today? Never said it was okay but it's what she settled for.
She also mentioned that he didn't answer her many request, I couldn't see myself asking someone one time let alone numerous times for help when I know they are selfish. That's def a needy trait when you'll beg a careless selfish person to do something before you try to figure it out on your own.
I am not excusing his behavior but there's always two sides to a story I know how it feels to be nagged by a needy person who calls you for everything. Then when you react you are looked at like the bad guy for finally putting your foot down because when it's told it's told like from the wolf cry POV. Reminds me of Pisces behavior but that's just IMO.
It's been established this is a troll thread. I'm not taking it all that seriously, so detailed and pick apart analyses is pointless.
Nevermind that a good portion of the people have shitty reading skills and have twisted all of this out of proportion.
"Selfishness" was stated after the whole story was told, not something she thought of prior to all of this, so your point is moot.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74Right and turned this into a 19 page pity party for a troll and tried to call me out for stating the obvious after being 17 pages into her typing just to hear her keys make noisePosted by hippiecriteRocky’s first post is 14th on the first page and her comment was basically trying to understand why the behavior of the OP’s was being excused. Six of those 14 were critical/discounting of the OP with three of them being in the first five. Maybe two to three actually asked questions and the rest defended the OP. But really that’s semantics and the overall theme of questioning and discounting the OP’s story is what dragged this thread out. That’s obvious and beyond any personal perception.Posted by beautifulsoul74Then you’re seeing what you want to see. From the very first page, people were asking questions, in order to get a better understanding of the situation.Posted by hippiecriteNot what I saw. The criticism of the OP a.k.a. discounting began long before there was any attempt to discover whether the O.P.’s story was true or if she’s a troll...which in reality is irrelevant.Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
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Posted by beautifulsoul74Right and turned this into a 19 page pity party for a troll and tried to call me out for stating the obvious after being 17 pages into her typing just to hear her keys make noisePosted by hippiecriteRocky’s first post is 14th on the first page and her comment was basically trying to understand why the behavior of the OP’s was being excused. Six of those 14 were critical/discounting of the OP with three of them being in the first five. Maybe two to three actually asked questions and the rest defended the OP. But really that’s semantics and the overall theme of questioning and discounting the OP’s story is what dragged this thread out. That’s obvious and beyond any personal perception.Posted by beautifulsoul74Then you’re seeing what you want to see. From the very first page, people were asking questions, in order to get a better understanding of the situation.Posted by hippiecriteNot what I saw. The criticism of the OP a.k.a. discounting began long before there was any attempt to discover whether the O.P.’s story was true or if she’s a troll...which in reality is irrelevant.Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
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