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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeHypothermia which can lead to death.Posted by LadyNeptuneSerious health risks like what?Posted by IxionYeah sorry that doesn’t fly with me. Agree to disagree on this one.Posted by LadyNeptuneCause and Effect and while not everyone has an excuse everyone has a reason for why they do something.Posted by IxionWhat details are we missing?
Exercising some patience here would be prudent.
They put a story out that is missing several important details that will outline the context that this interaction happened in. Until the OP provides those details (which we can only get from the OP at this early juncture) essentially Y'all are all speculating from A-Z.
No interaction happens in a vacuum and to make a call on an interaction between two or more people without knowing the basic history of the relationship and the circumstances framing the OP's ask for help (did he have work?, was he sick?, was he involved in something that may have been even more important than her momentary discomfort?, Is there relationship healthy? By whose standards? His or hers? The list can go on indefinitely...but it doesn't have to, but there are important salient questions that are missing answers here.
Its comforting to assume that he is the bad guy immediately (and he very well might be) it is also equally comforting for some to paint the OP as the bad woman or the aggrieved party (she very well might be either).
But without knowing the context that surrounds this interaction people are not really basing their opinion off of the merits of the relationship and the people involved in the interaction...but more so off of their own preconceived notions of right and wrong and patterns from their own experiences instead of judging the interaction primarily off of the story as presented plus the supporting information that will really give any potential judgment call here actual validity and weight.
What good would a conclusion on a situation be if it fails to take into account all of the likely major things that would filter into someone's decision making process?
I don’t see how any of those variables make a difference in what boils down to basic human decency.
Whether the relationship is sunshine and rainbows or rocky...
Whether he was sick or not...
Whether he had an important meeting or not...
None of that changes the fact that she was in potential danger and reached out to him for help. And yes I say danger not ‘momentary discomfort’.
It’s dangerous for a female to be vulnerable like that on the side of the road. You don’t know if the person who stops is going to help you or hurt you.
On top of that being exposed to cold weather for prolonged periods of time puts you at some serious health risks.
I walk in 40 degree weather to get comfortable with coldclick to expand
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Lets see...OP writes post, actual virgos are like hrm...lets get some info to break down what happened and troubleshoot.
People who are not virgos, who feel things should be done one way or another, who have been hurt by virgos, pass judgment without additional information.
Virgos say: I mean that could be the case, it could not, lets get more info so we can answer with greater certainty.
Others: No! We KNOW this as nearly irrefutable fact.
Virgos: How?
Others: Because that isn't what I would do, or how those who know how to love me (or how I imagine that someone who loves me) would do.
Virgos: But.......uhmm...neither you or I are them....and they are not us.....and I mean...your experiences are valuable but without more info its basi-
Others: NO! We KNOW! We feel it! And because we feel it it must be true.
Virgos:....uh huh
Imagine how it would be to get judged by a jury of water signs.
"I feel he killed her"
*shows evidence to the contrary*
"No, I am 100% sure"
Posted by FknNerdMan, was that a hard lesson to learn.Posted by RedemptionSongWont last. He sounds like a chump. How old is he? He needs to start off shitty and get better with time. The moment he slips and isnt all over her because he had a hard day or whatever that's when the resentment starts and she starts cucking him.Posted by FknNerdPosted by RedemptionSongYour brother will learn the hard way. All virgos do.Posted by FknNerdPosted by RedemptionSong*helps girlfriend with her car*Posted by Ginger20
My car broke down this morning(30 degrees outside), so I call my boyfriend (Virgo) who is very knowledgeable about cars, and I tell him I’m stranded and I ask if he can come give me a jump so I can get to a mechanic (bf was 4 miles away). He tells me there is nothing he can do, and that I need to wave someone down. I said “okay well no one is around and I’m getting really cold. U really won’t help me?”
Long story short- he doesn’t help me, I call an Uber to get jumped, sit in car for an hour, boyfriend ignores all of my requests for help, he drives to work, and he acts put out that I even asked him for help in the first place.
I am convinced he doesn’t care about me and that he is the most selfish person in the entire world now.
I thought virgos liked to help, and be of service to people they care about. I feel like he disappears every time I legit need him. Isn’t one of the perks of being in a relationship to be able to help each other out in times of need— I mean wtf.
Any insights from board members??
He's not that into you. My Virgo brother and his girlfriend came to visit. She wanted to go to the gym in my apartment so I pointed her in the right direction. My brother got up and started puttimg his shoes on. We both look at him and are like where are you going? He's like I'm not going to let her walk alone when she doesn't know the area. I just laugh because I live in a boring as suburb where nothing happens, but he is so overprotective of her it's cute. And he is that wsy about everything. There's no wsy in hell he would have made her call an uber, he would have just been late to work. Save yourself the headache, this man does not love you. And if a Virgo doesn't love you, they are not that altruistic.
*girlfriend dumps him because he lost his job*
I'm sorry but that's just low expectation. Do better.
No he's probably going to marry this girl. She's a scorpio and he'll have to move to another country if he wants to end things. Her family is already making wedding plans.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by LadyNeptuneDon't you have to be in the cold for long timesPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeHypothermia which can lead to death.Posted by LadyNeptuneSerious health risks like what?Posted by IxionYeah sorry that doesn’t fly with me. Agree to disagree on this one.Posted by LadyNeptuneCause and Effect and while not everyone has an excuse everyone has a reason for why they do something.Posted by IxionWhat details are we missing?
Exercising some patience here would be prudent.
They put a story out that is missing several important details that will outline the context that this interaction happened in. Until the OP provides those details (which we can only get from the OP at this early juncture) essentially Y'all are all speculating from A-Z.
No interaction happens in a vacuum and to make a call on an interaction between two or more people without knowing the basic history of the relationship and the circumstances framing the OP's ask for help (did he have work?, was he sick?, was he involved in something that may have been even more important than her momentary discomfort?, Is there relationship healthy? By whose standards? His or hers? The list can go on indefinitely...but it doesn't have to, but there are important salient questions that are missing answers here.
Its comforting to assume that he is the bad guy immediately (and he very well might be) it is also equally comforting for some to paint the OP as the bad woman or the aggrieved party (she very well might be either).
But without knowing the context that surrounds this interaction people are not really basing their opinion off of the merits of the relationship and the people involved in the interaction...but more so off of their own preconceived notions of right and wrong and patterns from their own experiences instead of judging the interaction primarily off of the story as presented plus the supporting information that will really give any potential judgment call here actual validity and weight.
What good would a conclusion on a situation be if it fails to take into account all of the likely major things that would filter into someone's decision making process?
I don’t see how any of those variables make a difference in what boils down to basic human decency.
Whether the relationship is sunshine and rainbows or rocky...
Whether he was sick or not...
Whether he had an important meeting or not...
None of that changes the fact that she was in potential danger and reached out to him for help. And yes I say danger not ‘momentary discomfort’.
It’s dangerous for a female to be vulnerable like that on the side of the road. You don’t know if the person who stops is going to help you or hurt you.
On top of that being exposed to cold weather for prolonged periods of time puts you at some serious health risks.
I walk in 40 degree weather to get comfortable with cold
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Yeah. And that’s what I was saying before... luckily she was able to call an Uber, what if the service was spotty and she didn’t see another car for a minute.
Being stranded in cold weather puts you at risk. That’s not being dramatic, that’s fact.
Posted by topesDead battery. She asked him to come give her a jump so she could make it to the mechanic.
What exactly happened to the car?
Mechanical breakdown?
Posted by IxionNot an accurate depiction of what’s happening in this thread. At all.
Lets see...OP writes post, actual virgos are like hrm...lets get some info to break down what happened and troubleshoot.
People who are not virgos, who feel things should be done one way or another, who have been hurt by virgos, pass judgment without additional information.
Virgos say: I mean that could be the case, it could not, lets get more info so we can answer with greater certainty.
Others: No! We KNOW this as nearly irrefutable fact.
Virgos: How?
Others: Because that isn't what I would do, or how those who know how to love me (or how I imagine that someone who loves me) would do.
Virgos: But.......uhmm...neither you or I are them....and they are not us.....and I mean...your experiences are valuable but without more info its basi-
Others: NO! We KNOW! We feel it! And because we feel it it must be true.
Virgos:....uh huh
Hi 👋 haven’t been hurt by a Virgo here. Can’t speak for others but I have no beef with Virgos. I do think this callous behavior is a no go.
Yes CC is always lit over virgos. Why are you guys still sensitive over her is the real mystery.
Posted by LadyNeptuneWe are sensitive over wanting to know the reality here. You know, what rational people do...look for the facts. I throw Virgos under the bus all the time if it's warranted so y'all can fuck off with the implications over favorite signs. Leave that bs solidarity to water sign boards.Posted by IxionNot an accurate depiction of what’s happening in this thread. At all.
Lets see...OP writes post, actual virgos are like hrm...lets get some info to break down what happened and troubleshoot.
People who are not virgos, who feel things should be done one way or another, who have been hurt by virgos, pass judgment without additional information.
Virgos say: I mean that could be the case, it could not, lets get more info so we can answer with greater certainty.
Others: No! We KNOW this as nearly irrefutable fact.
Virgos: How?
Others: Because that isn't what I would do, or how those who know how to love me (or how I imagine that someone who loves me) would do.
Virgos: But.......uhmm...neither you or I are them....and they are not us.....and I mean...your experiences are valuable but without more info its basi-
Others: NO! We KNOW! We feel it! And because we feel it it must be true.
Virgos:....uh huh
Hi 👋 haven’t been hurt by a Virgo here. Can’t speak for others but I have no beef with Virgos. I do think this callous behavior is a no go.
Yes CC is always lit over virgos. Why are you guys still sensitive over her is the real mystery.click to expand
As for the bolded, that's a straight up lie. You mentioned a Virgo ex before on these boards and this is your general attitude with topics on Virgo men. Patterns don't lie.
Posted by Ginger20That would be the end for me...
My car broke down this morning(30 degrees outside), so I call my boyfriend (Virgo) who is very knowledgeable about cars, and I tell him I’m stranded and I ask if he can come give me a jump so I can get to a mechanic (bf was 4 miles away). He tells me there is nothing he can do, and that I need to wave someone down. I said “okay well no one is around and I’m getting really cold. U really won’t help me?”
Long story short- he doesn’t help me, I call an Uber to get jumped, sit in car for an hour, boyfriend ignores all of my requests for help, he drives to work, and he acts put out that I even asked him for help in the first place.
I am convinced he doesn’t care about me and that he is the most selfish person in the entire world now.
I thought virgos liked to help, and be of service to people they care about. I feel like he disappears every time I legit need him. Isn’t one of the perks of being in a relationship to be able to help each other out in times of need— I mean wtf.
Any insights from board members??
No kind of apologies nor anything else...
The end!!!
Posted by IxionCallous behavior = no goPosted by LadyNeptuneMy list was a list separating different items with commas you would fall into the first category and the second category, not necessarily the third.Posted by IxionNot an accurate depiction of what’s happening in this thread. At all.
Lets see...OP writes post, actual virgos are like hrm...lets get some info to break down what happened and troubleshoot.
People who are not virgos, who feel things should be done one way or another, who have been hurt by virgos, pass judgment without additional information.
Virgos say: I mean that could be the case, it could not, lets get more info so we can answer with greater certainty.
Others: No! We KNOW this as nearly irrefutable fact.
Virgos: How?
Others: Because that isn't what I would do, or how those who know how to love me (or how I imagine that someone who loves me) would do.
Virgos: But.......uhmm...neither you or I are them....and they are not us.....and I mean...your experiences are valuable but without more info its basi-
Others: NO! We KNOW! We feel it! And because we feel it it must be true.
Virgos:....uh huh
Hi 👋 haven’t been hurt by a Virgo here. Can’t speak for others but I have no beef with Virgos. I do think this callous behavior is a no go.
Yes CC is always lit over virgos. Why are you guys still sensitive over her is the real mystery.click to expand
Posted by DamnataGo on. Tell me about my attitude towards Virgo men. Including my brother who I’ve talked about far more than that ex.Posted by LadyNeptuneWe are sensitive over wanting to know the reality here. You know, what rational people do...look for the facts. I throw Virgos under the bus all the time if it's warranted so y'all can fuck off with the implications over favorite signs. Leave that bs solidarity to water sign boards.Posted by IxionNot an accurate depiction of what’s happening in this thread. At all.
Lets see...OP writes post, actual virgos are like hrm...lets get some info to break down what happened and troubleshoot.
People who are not virgos, who feel things should be done one way or another, who have been hurt by virgos, pass judgment without additional information.
Virgos say: I mean that could be the case, it could not, lets get more info so we can answer with greater certainty.
Others: No! We KNOW this as nearly irrefutable fact.
Virgos: How?
Others: Because that isn't what I would do, or how those who know how to love me (or how I imagine that someone who loves me) would do.
Virgos: But.......uhmm...neither you or I are them....and they are not us.....and I mean...your experiences are valuable but without more info its basi-
Others: NO! We KNOW! We feel it! And because we feel it it must be true.
Virgos:....uh huh
Hi 👋 haven’t been hurt by a Virgo here. Can’t speak for others but I have no beef with Virgos. I do think this callous behavior is a no go.
Yes CC is always lit over virgos. Why are you guys still sensitive over her is the real mystery.
As for the bolded, that's a straight up lie. You mentioned a Virgo ex before on these boards and this is your general attitude with topics on Virgo men. Patterns don't lie.click to expand
Funny how for someone who claims to want facts your quick to jump to a ‘patterns don’t lie stance’ over my perspective.
I see more assumptions on possible senerios OUTSIDE of the facts given by the Op. Question is why your reaching so hard to excuse this behavior...
Anyway if OP ever gets back...
If this Virgo had nothing else to do and was sitting in bed or doing anything where the cost of opportunity for ditching that activity would not impact his finances or health in a negative way AND you are not a partner who is constantly demanding AND you're in a committed relationship with him and he claims he loves you....get the fuck out cuz this is selfish behavior and it will get worse.
If however any of those don't apply, grow up and learn to be self-sufficient.
If this Virgo had nothing else to do and was sitting in bed or doing anything where the cost of opportunity for ditching that activity would not impact his finances or health in a negative way AND you are not a partner who is constantly demanding AND you're in a committed relationship with him and he claims he loves you....get the fuck out cuz this is selfish behavior and it will get worse.
If however any of those don't apply, grow up and learn to be self-sufficient.
Posted by ItsMeRomanCause we see it in everyday situations. People in miserable relationships, miserable marriages, miserable friendships,
How is this post getting so much traction?
And then justifying horrible behavior or trying to rationalize it vs calling it what it is.
Posted by RedemptionSongHey, Peeves! 👋🏼Posted by FknNerdP to da VA to da F 😎Posted by RedemptionSongLol who is this?Posted by FknNerdThat comment was so weak it doesn't even deserve a clapback. **scrolls pass sancho**Posted by RedemptionSongHe likes easy chicks? Let me guess, I have to go up to him and be the man that does the initial flirting.Posted by FknNerdPosted by RedemptionSongOkie, keep us updated. I guarantee within a few years, all she'll be thinking about is new dick.Posted by FknNerdPosted by RedemptionSongWont last. He sounds like a chump. How old is he? He needs to start off shitty and get better with time. The moment he slips and isnt all over her because he had a hard day or whatever that's when the resentment starts and she starts cucking him.Posted by FknNerdPosted by RedemptionSongYour brother will learn the hard way. All virgos do.Posted by FknNerdPosted by RedemptionSong*helps girlfriend with her car*Posted by Ginger20
My car broke down this morning(30 degrees outside), so I call my boyfriend (Virgo) who is very knowledgeable about cars, and I tell him I’m stranded and I ask if he can come give me a jump so I can get to a mechanic (bf was 4 miles away). He tells me there is nothing he can do, and that I need to wave someone down. I said “okay well no one is around and I’m getting really cold. U really won’t help me?”
Long story short- he doesn’t help me, I call an Uber to get jumped, sit in car for an hour, boyfriend ignores all of my requests for help, he drives to work, and he acts put out that I even asked him for help in the first place.
I am convinced he doesn’t care about me and that he is the most selfish person in the entire world now.
I thought virgos liked to help, and be of service to people they care about. I feel like he disappears every time I legit need him. Isn’t one of the perks of being in a relationship to be able to help each other out in times of need— I mean wtf.
Any insights from board members??
He's not that into you. My Virgo brother and his girlfriend came to visit. She wanted to go to the gym in my apartment so I pointed her in the right direction. My brother got up and started puttimg his shoes on. We both look at him and are like where are you going? He's like I'm not going to let her walk alone when she doesn't know the area. I just laugh because I live in a boring as suburb where nothing happens, but he is so overprotective of her it's cute. And he is that wsy about everything. There's no wsy in hell he would have made her call an uber, he would have just been late to work. Save yourself the headache, this man does not love you. And if a Virgo doesn't love you, they are not that altruistic.
*girlfriend dumps him because he lost his job*
I'm sorry but that's just low expectation. Do better.
No he's probably going to marry this girl. She's a scorpio and he'll have to move to another country if he wants to end things. Her family is already making wedding plans.
They've been together 3 years. He's not a chump he's a man. Probably something you've never seen before. They take care of each other. She nurtures, he provides and protects. When you stop dating boys you will see the difference.
No problem. I'm sure you'll be still here and single. I'll let him know you're easy. Thanks breh.
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamWow agreed!!! And they call us Aries selfish...smh
Uh, I'm a little baffled as to why people are excusing this shit. I don't care what his sign is, why couldn't he come help?
Also, invest in AAA. Then you don't have to worry about this shit.
Posted by IxionRefuses to help. Ignores all calls. Doesn’t follow up to see if she made it out okay. That’s not okay in any context.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt can be considered callous in certain contexts. It might not be though. I would love to find out given the chance. I won't take your word for it alone though.Posted by IxionCallous behavior = no goPosted by LadyNeptuneMy list was a list separating different items with commas you would fall into the first category and the second category, not necessarily the third.Posted by IxionNot an accurate depiction of what’s happening in this thread. At all.
Lets see...OP writes post, actual virgos are like hrm...lets get some info to break down what happened and troubleshoot.
People who are not virgos, who feel things should be done one way or another, who have been hurt by virgos, pass judgment without additional information.
Virgos say: I mean that could be the case, it could not, lets get more info so we can answer with greater certainty.
Others: No! We KNOW this as nearly irrefutable fact.
Virgos: How?
Others: Because that isn't what I would do, or how those who know how to love me (or how I imagine that someone who loves me) would do.
Virgos: But.......uhmm...neither you or I are them....and they are not us.....and I mean...your experiences are valuable but without more info its basi-
Others: NO! We KNOW! We feel it! And because we feel it it must be true.
Virgos:....uh huh
Hi 👋 haven’t been hurt by a Virgo here. Can’t speak for others but I have no beef with Virgos. I do think this callous behavior is a no go.
Yes CC is always lit over virgos. Why are you guys still sensitive over her is the real mystery.
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I expect better from an SO.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by wagtailWhat? Point completely missed.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI don't understand what women do while they are single... is no one capable of handling car breakdowns as an adult - are we Doomed to await the arrival of Mr Right every time we have a flat tyrePosted by wagtailRidiculous comment. De fuk
It doesn't actually sound like you needed help...
you sorted the whole situation out just fine. Nice work! 🙌🏼
If only ask Mr Virgo to help me with things I simply CANNOT do without him ie unscrew a jar lid or things out of reach (short lyfe)
Also I don't know what kind of woman doesn't own a step stool to get items that are out of reach or get a proper can opener that can easily open a jar. You know there's tools for that.
I mean ridiculous and hypocritical.
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Lol
Posted by LadyNeptuneThere was no mention of whether he did or didn’t follow up.Posted by IxionRefuses to help. Ignores all calls. Doesn’t follow up to see if she made it out okay. That’s not okay in any context.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt can be considered callous in certain contexts. It might not be though. I would love to find out given the chance. I won't take your word for it alone though.Posted by IxionCallous behavior = no goPosted by LadyNeptuneMy list was a list separating different items with commas you would fall into the first category and the second category, not necessarily the third.Posted by IxionNot an accurate depiction of what’s happening in this thread. At all.
Lets see...OP writes post, actual virgos are like hrm...lets get some info to break down what happened and troubleshoot.
People who are not virgos, who feel things should be done one way or another, who have been hurt by virgos, pass judgment without additional information.
Virgos say: I mean that could be the case, it could not, lets get more info so we can answer with greater certainty.
Others: No! We KNOW this as nearly irrefutable fact.
Virgos: How?
Others: Because that isn't what I would do, or how those who know how to love me (or how I imagine that someone who loves me) would do.
Virgos: But.......uhmm...neither you or I are them....and they are not us.....and I mean...your experiences are valuable but without more info its basi-
Others: NO! We KNOW! We feel it! And because we feel it it must be true.
Virgos:....uh huh
Hi 👋 haven’t been hurt by a Virgo here. Can’t speak for others but I have no beef with Virgos. I do think this callous behavior is a no go.
Yes CC is always lit over virgos. Why are you guys still sensitive over her is the real mystery.
I expect better from an SO.click to expand
Posted by edgelordSee. And I’m sittin here thinking, “Surely she can describe better directions to the tow truck driver than he can, when he’s not the one there.”Posted by RedemptionSongmy opinions and the virgos opinions don't match on this one. lmao.Posted by edgelordTroll thread. But look at how much fun we're having with this ethical dilemma puzzle.
did the OP ever come back or is this just another troll thread people latched onto?
at least call a bish a tow truck. smh.click to expand
(and stop calling me Shirley)
Posted by edgelordWe agree it’s fucked up if it went down as black and white as insinuated, I just think there’s a lot of missing info.Posted by hippiecritei get where you're coming from too. we just don't agree on things.Posted by edgelordSee. And I’m sittin here thinking, “Surely she can describe better directions to the tow truck driver than he can, when he’s not the one there.”Posted by RedemptionSongmy opinions and the virgos opinions don't match on this one. lmao.Posted by edgelordTroll thread. But look at how much fun we're having with this ethical dilemma puzzle.
did the OP ever come back or is this just another troll thread people latched onto?
at least call a bish a tow truck. smh.
(and stop calling me Shirley)
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Posted by edgelordGot em to more pages than all my threads put together. 😆Posted by hippiecriteyeah when people drop bombs like this and then ghost there's no figuring out anything with any certainty.Posted by edgelordWe agree it’s fucked up if it went down as black and white as insinuated, I just think there’s a lot of missing info.Posted by hippiecritei get where you're coming from too. we just don't agree on things.Posted by edgelordSee. And I’m sittin here thinking, “Surely she can describe better directions to the tow truck driver than he can, when he’s not the one there.”Posted by RedemptionSongmy opinions and the virgos opinions don't match on this one. lmao.Posted by edgelordTroll thread. But look at how much fun we're having with this ethical dilemma puzzle.
did the OP ever come back or is this just another troll thread people latched onto?
at least call a bish a tow truck. smh.
(and stop calling me Shirley)
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Posted by ellesbellesI remember this one topic a few months back about texting that was a pretty clear case. All other elements got in, stated their opinions, got out. Water posters came in...went to 40 pages or so with people getting really personal. Can't knock water suns for entertainment value but...like....yeah.....wat.....nothatsnotwhathappened.....ohitsthestoryofyourlife...ok...yeah....
Earth sign threads are so different than water sign threads.
We have a few thesis, statistics and shaking of the hands after "agreeing to disagree'.....lmao
The waters would have had revenge threads and a couple rage deletes by page 10.
Posted by ellesbellesReactions to getting frustrated:
Earth sign threads are so different than water sign threads.
We have a few thesis, statistics and shaking of the hands after "agreeing to disagree'.....lmao
The waters would have had revenge threads and a couple rage deletes by page 10.
vs
Fun fact. The OP edited her post 3 times.
For a newb who just joined that day, she sure knows how to navigate the weirdly placed edit feature that isn't obvious. Newbs have a hard enough time even figuring out how to create posts, yet this one created AND edited it 3 times?
If the disappearing after one post wasn't much of a give away, that adds to the troll factor.
For a newb who just joined that day, she sure knows how to navigate the weirdly placed edit feature that isn't obvious. Newbs have a hard enough time even figuring out how to create posts, yet this one created AND edited it 3 times?
If the disappearing after one post wasn't much of a give away, that adds to the troll factor.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I can't belive the reactions of the virgos but why I'm surprised
No its a lie virgos are only service oriented when it benefits them. There's a few that are very helpful but that's rare.
I've had this type of virgo you had
I wouldn't stick around if I were you.
He's not going to make you happy
Even if he was on his way to work which he wasn't at that exact moment he could have called in ands explained the situation
That's not a man you're dealing with but a bytch!
Yes relationships are for helping one another if needed
Otherwise why bother
Exactly 👌
Posted by JuliietteNah. They got pneumonia and died. 😄Posted by hippiecritePosted by Juliiette1. This was hardly a life or death situation.Posted by hippiecritePosted by TheRabbitDramatic much?Posted by ellesbellesIt's just as likely a chance that he's just a prick.Posted by TheRabbitUnless she's needed his help everyday for the last month and his employer has told him no more.
"I have to be at work in 20 minutes, so I'm not sure if I can help. Let me see what I can do, though."
It also doesn't take much to call work (if that was an issue) and see if he could come in a bit late.
JFC.
I have a Pisces son with a Leo girlfriend like this.
But it wouldn't be DXP unless we tore down the OP and knighted our favorite signs like we're saving refugees at sea.
*shrug*
I’d like to know how long they’ve been dating and what his response was when OP asked, “so you really won’t help me?”.
What kind of diff does it make how long they've been dating? You people are really weird sometimes. If someone needs help and i can make it, it is so normal to help a person even if i don't know you at all. You put that triangle sign and somene will stop to drive you to the nearest mechanics or to try to fix it right there.
2. If they’ve not been dating long or gotten to a certain milestone in their relationship, but she’s constantly asking him for help, that’s gonna get old quick.
3. If she hasn’t blown this out of proportion and he’s the jerk she’s painted him to be, what is she getting out of this relationship?
Something’s not right, she’s asking for help and I’ve asked for answers to some fairly reasonable questions, in order to give her better advice.
What’s weird about that?
that's all cool, i was reacting at something else. anyway did the op came back? 😄
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I don't want to come off as judgmental but the fact that you said don't Virgo's like to be needed (which is true) makes me think you just might've taken advantage of this trait in him. His response makes me feel like he is tired of you taking advantage of it crying wolf. Sorry if I got the wrong impression though, just out of curiosity are you a Pisces?
I will say this, I know this virgo guy that was a complete jerk to the core. His sons mom was a really nice girl and bent over backwards for him, she would do anything for him. well he held a grudge because she got pregnant and didn't want to abort the child so he gave her the cold shoulder the entire pregnancy. he would go to all the appointments but he was stand far away from her and meet her at the clinic. Again all of this was simply because she refused to abort her baby. He didn't have a car but he did get rentals regularly. She had a car but I guess she was having car issues and asked that he pick her up for the next appointment. He flat out told her, "no, don't start asking me for rides because I have a rental, how have you been getting around..."
So see, a virgo only wants to feel needed when you are broken and he can feel like he is fixing you up. If you aren't broken and he can get his emotional rocks off by feeling like a captain save a hoe, you are on your own.
So see, a virgo only wants to feel needed when you are broken and he can feel like he is fixing you up. If you aren't broken and he can get his emotional rocks off by feeling like a captain save a hoe, you are on your own.
Posted by RedemptionSongInteresting how that works.Posted by rockyroadicecream
Fun fact. The OP edited her post 3 times.
For a newb who just joined that day, she sure knows how to navigate the weirdly placed edit feature that isn't obvious. Newbs have a hard enough time even figuring out how to create posts, yet this one created AND edited it 3 times?
If the disappearing after one post wasn't much of a give away, that adds to the troll factor.
Ethical dilemma presented. OP creates a person with an obvious lack of character to test Virgo loyalty. As predicted Virgos swoop in to defend there own despite the obvious lack of personal character and everyone else wonders wtf they are thinking. 5 points to the troll.
Also shines blaring light on age division. 30 and up are like hell no he left her hanging. 30 and under are like well she could uber it, her boyfriend is not responsible for her well being. Hmm.
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It's also great to see how selfish and callus the millennial group is. I bet if they were in the same boat they'd be crying the same story.
The only exception I could see in a scenario like this is if she's one of the save a hoe types and just can't be bothered to do anything on her own. But other than that, denying someone help in a situation like that is dog shit. I don't care if it's boyfriend, friend, family, whatever.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI agree under normal circumstances his attitude was selfish but I considered your exception when I first read the OPs post and here's why.Posted by RedemptionSongInteresting how that works.Posted by rockyroadicecream
Fun fact. The OP edited her post 3 times.
For a newb who just joined that day, she sure knows how to navigate the weirdly placed edit feature that isn't obvious. Newbs have a hard enough time even figuring out how to create posts, yet this one created AND edited it 3 times?
If the disappearing after one post wasn't much of a give away, that adds to the troll factor.
Ethical dilemma presented. OP creates a person with an obvious lack of character to test Virgo loyalty. As predicted Virgos swoop in to defend there own despite the obvious lack of personal character and everyone else wonders wtf they are thinking. 5 points to the troll.
Also shines blaring light on age division. 30 and up are like hell no he left her hanging. 30 and under are like well she could uber it, her boyfriend is not responsible for her well being. Hmm.
It's also great to see how selfish and callus the millennial group is. I bet if they were in the same boat they'd be crying the same story.
The only exception I could see in a scenario like this is if she's one of the save a hoe types and just can't be bothered to do anything on her own. But other than that, denying someone help in a situation like that is dog shit. I don't care if it's boyfriend, friend, family, whatever.click to expand
She mentioned that he is selfish, so why'd she expect him to be any different today? Never said it was okay but it's what she settled for.
She also mentioned that he didn't answer her many request, I couldn't see myself asking someone one time let alone numerous times for help when I know they are selfish. That's def a needy trait when you'll beg a careless selfish person to do something before you try to figure it out on your own.
I am not excusing his behavior but there's always two sides to a story I know how it feels to be nagged by a needy person who calls you for everything. Then when you react you are looked at like the bad guy for finally putting your foot down because when it's told it's told like from the wolf cry POV. Reminds me of Pisces behavior but that's just IMO.
Posted by PayMeek_NoMindThank you captain state the obvious.Posted by rockyroadicecreamI agree under normal circumstances his attitude was selfish but I considered your exception when I first read the OPs post and here's why.Posted by RedemptionSongInteresting how that works.Posted by rockyroadicecream
Fun fact. The OP edited her post 3 times.
For a newb who just joined that day, she sure knows how to navigate the weirdly placed edit feature that isn't obvious. Newbs have a hard enough time even figuring out how to create posts, yet this one created AND edited it 3 times?
If the disappearing after one post wasn't much of a give away, that adds to the troll factor.
Ethical dilemma presented. OP creates a person with an obvious lack of character to test Virgo loyalty. As predicted Virgos swoop in to defend there own despite the obvious lack of personal character and everyone else wonders wtf they are thinking. 5 points to the troll.
Also shines blaring light on age division. 30 and up are like hell no he left her hanging. 30 and under are like well she could uber it, her boyfriend is not responsible for her well being. Hmm.
It's also great to see how selfish and callus the millennial group is. I bet if they were in the same boat they'd be crying the same story.
The only exception I could see in a scenario like this is if she's one of the save a hoe types and just can't be bothered to do anything on her own. But other than that, denying someone help in a situation like that is dog shit. I don't care if it's boyfriend, friend, family, whatever.
She mentioned that he is selfish, so why'd she expect him to be any different today? Never said it was okay but it's what she settled for.
She also mentioned that he didn't answer her many request, I couldn't see myself asking someone one time let alone numerous times for help when I know they are selfish. That's def a needy trait when you'll beg a careless selfish person to do something before you try to figure it out on your own.
I am not excusing his behavior but there's always two sides to a story I know how it feels to be nagged by a needy person who calls you for everything. Then when you react you are looked at like the bad guy for finally putting your foot down because when it's told it's told like from the wolf cry POV. Reminds me of Pisces behavior but that's just IMO.
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It's been established this is a troll thread. I'm not taking it all that seriously, so detailed and pick apart analyses is pointless.
Nevermind that a good portion of the people have shitty reading skills and have twisted all of this out of proportion.
"Selfishness" was stated after the whole story was told, not something she thought of prior to all of this, so your point is moot.
Go back to first grade and learn some context clues. Half this site could use a refresher, tbh.
To be honest, I'm genuinely shocked at some of the responses here. I don't know if it's a generational thing or the world is losing its sense of decency, but I was taught and agree with the fact that you don't do that to people especially those you are involved with...especially as a man. I've had all types of people from family to friends screw me over and act entitled...but we're talking about a dangerous situation here.
You see on the news all people getting hit by cars and trucks on the side of the road let alone the crazy creeps that are out there. And as for "punishment" for being "entitled" or "demanding he leaves her stuck on the side of the road?? It doesn't matter if she's entitled or she can handle it herself...the fact is you don't do that to people...period. Why? If she would've been hurt or worse killed, I guarantee you this guy would've felt like shit. To know that he could've prevented it and instead he decides to act an ass was out of ego? Yes...ego. He's not her father or her judge and if she's mistreating him(I don't think she is) then he needs to grow a pair and walk away. It's simple revenge and has nothing to do with "justice." Wait till it got out that he could've prevented it if she'd been hurt. Smh.
Most of my Virgo friends would've been there no questions asked. For the others that wouldn't have...it's called having compassion.
OP...walk away. You have your answers.
You see on the news all people getting hit by cars and trucks on the side of the road let alone the crazy creeps that are out there. And as for "punishment" for being "entitled" or "demanding he leaves her stuck on the side of the road?? It doesn't matter if she's entitled or she can handle it herself...the fact is you don't do that to people...period. Why? If she would've been hurt or worse killed, I guarantee you this guy would've felt like shit. To know that he could've prevented it and instead he decides to act an ass was out of ego? Yes...ego. He's not her father or her judge and if she's mistreating him(I don't think she is) then he needs to grow a pair and walk away. It's simple revenge and has nothing to do with "justice." Wait till it got out that he could've prevented it if she'd been hurt. Smh.
Most of my Virgo friends would've been there no questions asked. For the others that wouldn't have...it's called having compassion.
OP...walk away. You have your answers.
Posted by Ixionlol.
I am genuinely curious as to who is deeply impacted by the criticisms here.
Posted by ShadowcatTruth. I’m getting dangerously close to 40.Posted by rockyroadicecreamHow do you know that most people who defended him were millenials?Posted by RedemptionSongInteresting how that works.Posted by rockyroadicecream
Fun fact. The OP edited her post 3 times.
For a newb who just joined that day, she sure knows how to navigate the weirdly placed edit feature that isn't obvious. Newbs have a hard enough time even figuring out how to create posts, yet this one created AND edited it 3 times?
If the disappearing after one post wasn't much of a give away, that adds to the troll factor.
Ethical dilemma presented. OP creates a person with an obvious lack of character to test Virgo loyalty. As predicted Virgos swoop in to defend there own despite the obvious lack of personal character and everyone else wonders wtf they are thinking. 5 points to the troll.
Also shines blaring light on age division. 30 and up are like hell no he left her hanging. 30 and under are like well she could uber it, her boyfriend is not responsible for her well being. Hmm.
It's also great to see how selfish and callus the millennial group is. I bet if they were in the same boat they'd be crying the same story.
The only exception I could see in a scenario like this is if she's one of the save a hoe types and just can't be bothered to do anything on her own. But other than that, denying someone help in a situation like that is dog shit. I don't care if it's boyfriend, friend, family, whatever.click to expand
Something about the post just rubbed me the wrong way. In retrospect, probably because it’s a troll post. That or the car broke down because the Virgo was trying to kill her and he finally succeeded.
Posted by hippiecriteI saw this horror scene with someone tapping on the window in the fog right when OP finished writing her post.Posted by ShadowcatTruth. I’m getting dangerously close to 40.Posted by rockyroadicecreamHow do you know that most people who defended him were millenials?Posted by RedemptionSongInteresting how that works.Posted by rockyroadicecream
Fun fact. The OP edited her post 3 times.
For a newb who just joined that day, she sure knows how to navigate the weirdly placed edit feature that isn't obvious. Newbs have a hard enough time even figuring out how to create posts, yet this one created AND edited it 3 times?
If the disappearing after one post wasn't much of a give away, that adds to the troll factor.
Ethical dilemma presented. OP creates a person with an obvious lack of character to test Virgo loyalty. As predicted Virgos swoop in to defend there own despite the obvious lack of personal character and everyone else wonders wtf they are thinking. 5 points to the troll.
Also shines blaring light on age division. 30 and up are like hell no he left her hanging. 30 and under are like well she could uber it, her boyfriend is not responsible for her well being. Hmm.
It's also great to see how selfish and callus the millennial group is. I bet if they were in the same boat they'd be crying the same story.
The only exception I could see in a scenario like this is if she's one of the save a hoe types and just can't be bothered to do anything on her own. But other than that, denying someone help in a situation like that is dog shit. I don't care if it's boyfriend, friend, family, whatever.
Something about the post just rubbed me the wrong way. In retrospect, probably because it’s a troll post. That or the car broke down because the Virgo was trying to kill her and he finally succeeded.click to expand
Posted by Ixionhttps://www.entrepreneur.com/article/271466
I'm just amused at the aghastness of the older folks...like y'all didn't raise or contribute to the generation after you.
To be honest, Millenials are likely more compassionate albeit less superficially so than most of y'all dusty folk lol.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
Posted by clownloyalI'm puzzled. I thought relationships were not just about sex but also high materials? like helping each other whenever needed and stuff like that? Of course I expect my bf to help me when I'm in need, always having each other's back,if not why the fuck she would call him bf, just because he's got bigger dick and knows how to suck? you gotta be fucking kidding mePosted by IkyflI said if, but the way she worded it sounded like she expects him to do stuff because he's her bfPosted by clownloyalThis is her very first post...how do you know she constantly need rescuing? Lol
honestly if that's what you think the perk of being in a relationship with him is about let alone a virgo who you constantly need rescuing and help from it's no wonder he let you figure it out
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Posted by ellesbellesI'm dead
When you are stranded and waiting for a jump from uber and you Google "my Virgo boyfriend won't help me" while waiting and you find dxp.
Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
Posted by hippiecriteNot what I saw. The criticism of the OP a.k.a. discounting began long before there was any attempt to discover whether the O.P.’s story was true or if she’s a troll...which in reality is irrelevant.Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
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Posted by beautifulsoul74Then you’re seeing what you want to see. From the very first page, people were asking questions, in order to get a better understanding of the situation.Posted by hippiecriteNot what I saw. The criticism of the OP a.k.a. discounting began long before there was any attempt to discover whether the O.P.’s story was true or if she’s a troll...which in reality is irrelevant.Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
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Posted by Ginger20Dump your boyfriend
My car broke down this morning(30 degrees outside), so I call my boyfriend (Virgo) who is very knowledgeable about cars, and I tell him I’m stranded and I ask if he can come give me a jump so I can get to a mechanic (bf was 4 miles away). He tells me there is nothing he can do, and that I need to wave someone down. I said “okay well no one is around and I’m getting really cold. U really won’t help me?”
Any insights from board members??
and get a AAA membership.
Posted by hippiecriteRocky’s first post is 14th on the first page and her comment was basically trying to understand why the behavior of the OP’s was being excused. Six of those 14 were critical/discounting of the OP with three of them being in the first five. Maybe two to three actually asked questions and the rest defended the OP. But really that’s semantics and the overall theme of questioning and discounting the OP’s story is what dragged this thread out. That’s obvious and beyond any personal perception.Posted by beautifulsoul74Then you’re seeing what you want to see. From the very first page, people were asking questions, in order to get a better understanding of the situation.Posted by hippiecriteNot what I saw. The criticism of the OP a.k.a. discounting began long before there was any attempt to discover whether the O.P.’s story was true or if she’s a troll...which in reality is irrelevant.Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
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Posted by IxionHate to break it to you, but nope. I see this age group all the time and they are quite selfish and narcissistic. It's all about appearances and looking the part. Actually being the part is lol. Their parents were too busy trying to pretend they didn't have kids to parent their actual kids right.Posted by IxionAt least about shit that really matters.
I'm just amused at the aghastness of the older folks...like y'all didn't raise or contribute to the generation after you.
To be honest, Millenials are likely more compassionate albeit less superficially than most of y'all dusty folk lol.click to expand
Posted by beautifulsoul74Then, despite highlighting your POV first, you’re agreeing with me. Got it. 😛Posted by hippiecriteRocky’s first post is 14th on the first page and her comment was basically trying to understand why the behavior of the OP’s was being excused. Six of those 14 were critical/discounting of the OP with three of them being in the first five. Maybe two to three actually asked questions and the rest defended the OP. But really that’s semantics and the overall theme of questioning and discounting the OP’s story is what dragged this thread out. That’s obvious and beyond any personal perception.Posted by beautifulsoul74Then you’re seeing what you want to see. From the very first page, people were asking questions, in order to get a better understanding of the situation.Posted by hippiecriteNot what I saw. The criticism of the OP a.k.a. discounting began long before there was any attempt to discover whether the O.P.’s story was true or if she’s a troll...which in reality is irrelevant.Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
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Posted by hippiecriteWhatever Cheeky...I still disagree😛Posted by beautifulsoul74Then, despite highlighting your POV first, you’re agreeing with me. Got it. 😛Posted by hippiecriteRocky’s first post is 14th on the first page and her comment was basically trying to understand why the behavior of the OP’s was being excused. Six of those 14 were critical/discounting of the OP with three of them being in the first five. Maybe two to three actually asked questions and the rest defended the OP. But really that’s semantics and the overall theme of questioning and discounting the OP’s story is what dragged this thread out. That’s obvious and beyond any personal perception.Posted by beautifulsoul74Then you’re seeing what you want to see. From the very first page, people were asking questions, in order to get a better understanding of the situation.Posted by hippiecriteNot what I saw. The criticism of the OP a.k.a. discounting began long before there was any attempt to discover whether the O.P.’s story was true or if she’s a troll...which in reality is irrelevant.Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
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Posted by beautifulsoul74Ha. I just wanted to say hi. First time I’ve run into ya since I got back.Posted by hippiecriteWhatever Cheeky...I still disagree😛Posted by beautifulsoul74Then, despite highlighting your POV first, you’re agreeing with me. Got it. 😛Posted by hippiecriteRocky’s first post is 14th on the first page and her comment was basically trying to understand why the behavior of the OP’s was being excused. Six of those 14 were critical/discounting of the OP with three of them being in the first five. Maybe two to three actually asked questions and the rest defended the OP. But really that’s semantics and the overall theme of questioning and discounting the OP’s story is what dragged this thread out. That’s obvious and beyond any personal perception.Posted by beautifulsoul74Then you’re seeing what you want to see. From the very first page, people were asking questions, in order to get a better understanding of the situation.Posted by hippiecriteNot what I saw. The criticism of the OP a.k.a. discounting began long before there was any attempt to discover whether the O.P.’s story was true or if she’s a troll...which in reality is irrelevant.Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
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Posted by hippiecriteGood to see you again Cheeky. It's been a while *hugs*Posted by beautifulsoul74Ha. I just wanted to say hi. First time I’ve run into ya since I got back.Posted by hippiecriteWhatever Cheeky...I still disagree😛Posted by beautifulsoul74Then, despite highlighting your POV first, you’re agreeing with me. Got it. 😛Posted by hippiecriteRocky’s first post is 14th on the first page and her comment was basically trying to understand why the behavior of the OP’s was being excused. Six of those 14 were critical/discounting of the OP with three of them being in the first five. Maybe two to three actually asked questions and the rest defended the OP. But really that’s semantics and the overall theme of questioning and discounting the OP’s story is what dragged this thread out. That’s obvious and beyond any personal perception.Posted by beautifulsoul74Then you’re seeing what you want to see. From the very first page, people were asking questions, in order to get a better understanding of the situation.Posted by hippiecriteNot what I saw. The criticism of the OP a.k.a. discounting began long before there was any attempt to discover whether the O.P.’s story was true or if she’s a troll...which in reality is irrelevant.Posted by beautifulsoul74How do you figure? Every post I saw that was critical was one asking for more info to clear things up.
Lol at people trying to discount their genuine responses to an alleged cooked up story after the fact. Seem real at the time when they were criticizing the OP lol
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My initial thought with these kinds of threads is that there is always something more going on.
I feel like he might've been really annoyed with the OP for quite some time and purposely left her hanging. He's probably looking forward to the break up if it hasn't happened already.
I feel like he might've been really annoyed with the OP for quite some time and purposely left her hanging. He's probably looking forward to the break up if it hasn't happened already.
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