True Intimacy

Just for fun, what does true intimacy mean to you?

I always thought it was when you were so comfortable with each other, you could fart in front of each other and neither one of you cared. lol!

Your idea of intimacy is lovely 😉 haha .

My idea of imtimacy is someone willing to hold your hair and clean your vomit from a heavy night drinking .... I had a fellow virgo male that would do that once , never once moaned either bless his heart .

I was just trying to keep it light hearted! lol!

To me, it's letting the other person know the real you, warts and all, and comfortable that they accept you for all of it.

I love the feeling of contentment , there's nothing better when you can't wait for the day to end to be at home with them .

I am " alllllll byyyyyy myyyyyseeeelllf " again now but my future is exciting , clicking with someone and building a relationship . I have to stop being so nit-picky mind you or i will spend the rest of my days with celine dion and a glass of red wine haha .

Yea the vomiting and pisting things. Also, when you enjoy each day freely together. But mostly when you can begin to see your traits in him

Haha someone see's you sick with mascara all down your face and still carries you downstairs and makes you drink water its admirable that they continue to stick around as that's never a pretty sight .

" Really. the Virgo used to tell me he loved me all the time. Never could stop him. I don't think he meant it though, who says it that easy. I think he was full of LUST and he thought it was LOVE...stupid boy "

As i mentioned i dated a fellow virgo once and it just didn't click for me , he was lovely but sheesh we don't communicate well with one another at all . He told me he loved me and took it hard when we separated but he moved on pretty quick . Unable to tell the difference between ' love ' and ' love drunk ' maybe ?

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Haha someone see's you sick with mascara all down your face and still carries you downstairs and makes you drink water its admirable that they continue to stick around as that's never a pretty sight .

" Really. the Virgo used to tell me he loved me all the time. Never could stop him. I don't think he meant it though, who says it that easy. I think he was full of LUST and he thought it was LOVE...stupid boy "

As i mentioned i dated a fellow virgo once and it just didn't click for me , he was lovely but sheesh we don't communicate well with one another at all . He told me he loved me and took it hard when we separated but he moved on pretty quick . Unable to tell the difference between ' love ' and ' love drunk ' maybe ?

Some people can fall in love and out of love very quickly. They are unevolved in my eyes. Don't ever trust anybody who says they love you that quickly.

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Oh i wouldn't ! as soon as that happened it was the beginning of the end . I think some get too wrapped up in the whole ' honeymoon period ' phase and think they have met the partner of their dreams . I am a romantic though and i am a typical daydreamer virgo ... you know the whole , love at first sight , hot passionate sex everynight and happy ever after . I do believe that there is one person so perfect for everyone of us . It would still be a good while before they got a " i love you " out of me however :-)

" Like Uker said for me intimacy is very closely related to sexuality...I just don't get that intimate with just anybody "

This is true but don't you have to be close to someone and have a certain degree of intimacy on all different levels to be that close to someone to feel it in the bedroom department ? very few people when they start a sexual relationship actually make love intimately .

Are you still with your virgo male cluelessCancer ?

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" Like Uker said for me intimacy is very closely related to sexuality...I just don't get that intimate with just anybody "

This is true but don't you have to be close to someone and have a certain degree of intimacy on all different levels to be that close to someone to feel it in the bedroom department ? very few people when they start a sexual relationship actually make love intimately .

Are you still with your virgo male cluelessCancer ?

No! He's been avoiding me for a month yet still calls me. I am confused. I don't want him to completely leave my life, but I know that I am not in a good place and probably need to move on. Just wish there was closure on how our relationship unraveled so quickly.

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😢 sorry ! Look on the upper that he clearly doesn't want to completely leave your life either or he would stop contact full stop . There's never closure on something that you don't have the answers for , i am going through the same myself at the minute but i try not to dwell and just fix the little things in my life that i am unhappy with .

He clearly means a lot to you and i hope that you can work it out :-)