Love or career??

If you had to choose one or the other? Assuming you have found love, but lets say a great opportunity has arisen abroad...

If I was sure that this relationship is mature and it I've been in this for 3+ years, I'd stay or go abroad with my partner. If it was fresh relationship I'd choose career though.

Career + travel + new culture ftw

Love ! for sure

Successful Career can be lonely

Posted by LibraLovesHim
If you had to choose one or the other? Assuming you have found love, but lets say a great opportunity has arisen abroad...

for your 2nd sentence yup already got it.

so i'm doing the behind the scenes career, while my hubbykins is the out there material world career.

what about yourself OP?

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
If you had to choose one or the other? Assuming you have found love, but lets say a great opportunity has arisen abroad...

for your 2nd sentence yup already got it.

so i'm doing the behind the scenes career, while my hubbykins is the out there material world career.

what about yourself OP?

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I was career (lonely life) turned to love and relationship but missing the career part. That balance is essential. I have to be working for myself (this would take me abroad and away from love) or my family/children/home (which I don't have yet) Unbalanced Libra-Yelp!

Posted by PVJamz
Career. Men come and go, but financial security can keep me warm forever.

It gets lonely...

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Posted by PVJamz
Career. Men come and go, but financial security can keep me warm forever.

It gets lonely...

I was born alone. Probably dying alone. I'm a woman, if I ever get too lonely male company is not difficult to come by.

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But...just ANY male will suffice?!?

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
If you had to choose one or the other? Assuming you have found love, but lets say a great opportunity has arisen abroad...

for your 2nd sentence yup already got it.

so i'm doing the behind the scenes career, while my hubbykins is the out there material world career.

what about yourself OP?

I was career (lonely life) turned to love and relationship but missing the career part. That balance is essential. I have to be working for myself (this would take me abroad and away from love) or my family/children/home (which I don't have yet) Unbalanced Libra-Yelp!

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being a 1st houser, i can feel the 7th (my opposition) of needing balance, and yes i agree.

we all need a balance. but i wouldnt want to travel away from my family though. So if the opportunity strikes, i'd take them with me. my husband always turns down alot of out of country trips and vacations and gives them away if they aren't going to take the family.

I'm not someone who chases love.But I know true love is very hard to come by. You can do anything with your career if you have the worth. One thing I've seen n believe is, two people who are in love can survive doing anything.They will be eachother's strength n that should be enough to chase your dreams.

I think the people who end up resenting are the ones who didn't believe in themselves or in the relationship.

Posted by LibraLovesHim
If you had to choose one or the other? Assuming you have found love, but lets say a great opportunity has arisen abroad...

I'd move abroad and ask if he wanted to come along.

love.

career sounds boring.

Posted by PVJamz
Career. Men come and go, but financial security can keep me warm forever.

Yes indeed

I find this very interesting that the

air signs are :love

And water signs are : money

Astrology lied to meh 😆

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Career + travel + new culture ftw

Analyst for JP Morgan Chase FTW

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Ew sounds boring

Posted by LibraMudra
Work less hours, have family and love my heart out.

wow. great line.

loving your heart out.

I've met my soul mate so love all the way! Although he's a cappy, so he'd probably choose career....jk!

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I'm not someone who chases love.But I know true love is very hard to come by. You can do anything with your career if you have the worth. One thing I've seen n believe is, two people who are in love can survive doing anything.They will be eachother's strength n that should be enough to chase your dreams.

I think the people who end up resenting are the ones who didn't believe in themselves or in the relationship.

Will you be applying to JP Morgan Chase

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Lol! They'd probably take me in actually. But it maybe boring. Are you gonna apply or what?

To choose between love and career, is a much easier choice than to choose between love and duty.

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I find this very interesting that the

air signs are :love

And water signs are : money

Astrology lied to meh 😆

I actually know a lot of cancers who are married to money.. ?

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I don't know any that have married for money but I do know a couple who have been mistreated And poured themselves into their careers as a result... That love and devotion has to go somewhere whether it's pets and career or kids and a husband (or wife)

I think if you're asking then, pick the career because when you are in love, its not a question, the choice is easy.

pfft please, I choose naps over career

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Posted by Cancan26
I find this very interesting that the

air signs are :love

And water signs are : money

Astrology lied to meh 😆

I actually know a lot of cancers who are married to money.. ?

I don't know any that have married for money but I do know a couple who have been mistreated And poured themselves into their careers as a result... That love and devotion has to go somewhere whether it's pets and career or kids and a husband (or wife)

No.. not married for money..

Literally married to money... may it be thru career, bussiness, investment, selling anything.. sleep less than 4 hrs a day.. money means everything to them..

"money is my way to freedom" (im quoting this from my friend ?)

But they dont hv a lavish life style or anything.. very very humble and like to help others..

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Oooooooooooo lmao I misunderstood 😆 I know alot of cancers that are married to money too lmao

Posted by TheLadyScorpio
To choose between love and career, is a much easier choice than to choose between love and duty.

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Duty is relative, subjective.

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To choose between love and career, is a much easier choice than to choose between love and duty.

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Duty is relative, subjective.

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As is a career, and love, for that matter.

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To choose between love and career, is a much easier choice than to choose between love and duty.

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Duty is relative, subjective.

As is a career, and love, for that matter.

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You are right.

I see love and career as something specific while duty is more difficult to define and open to interpretations.

I used to work like 50-60 hrs a week, sometimes more. You barely have free time and then you go partying at the weekends because you feel like you miss life and many men make all that money to get laid and impress women anyway (at least from what I have seen). So you do it week by week and it can be great but you will get older and you won't party as much anymore because it gets boring and exhausting. So you reduce partying and do other stuff instead. If you are lucky you will find a good hobby or a woman, if not, you will become an old and lonely playboy at best but some men don't mind.

But I would never like to be a single career woman, that must be worse. As a guy you can get drunk at saturday, hook up with somebody and then meet up with your buddies on sunday. I don't think this would be fulfilling for any woman on a long term

Posted by TheSag
I used to work like 50-60 hrs a week, sometimes more. You barely have free time and then you go partying at the weekends because you feel like you miss life and many men make all that money to get laid and impress women anyway (at least from what I have seen). So you do it week by week and it can be great but you will get older and you won't party as much anymore because it gets boring and exhausting. So you reduce partying and do other stuff instead. If you are lucky you will find a good hobby or a woman, if not, you will become an old and lonely playboy at best but some men don't mind.

But I would never like to be a single career woman, that must be worse. As a guy you can get drunk at saturday, hook up with somebody and then meet up with your buddies on sunday. I don't think this would be fulfilling for any woman on a long term

they do find ways...it's their family, like sister's, brother's families, mother's aunts, uncles, father's lives, and if they have children...spend time with them too, and their families. they have plenty of friendships too. good ones.

and when they are retired, they volunteer work and also help others, family and friends. they are never alone.they give love elsewhere.

the love has to go somewhere.

Posted by Impulsv
lol I go to a bar with freinds

Travel freinds and alone

Hell I do more then when I was married! I rarely travelled cuz he didn't like it.

Yeah I'll pass up that marriage for my current life of doing what I want

Kayaking

Concerts

Lounges

Travel

those never appealed to me.

lol

but i like traveling with my husband.

Posted by Impulsv
I'm sorry it never appealed to me

Grocery shopping

Cooking staying home , cleaning after my partner

Going to chili's n that's it for life!!!!!! The ordinary life bored the fuck out of me

i like domesticity.

it's not for everyone.

Love.

Wtf else is there?

❤

Posted by Impulsv
I'm sorry it never appealed to me

Grocery shopping

Cooking staying home , cleaning after my partner

Going to chili's n that's it for life!!!!!! The ordinary life bored the fuck out of me

I think if you were with the right person, you

could do and have both... meaning the life style

that makes you happy.

Same goes for myself.

Ime, marriage (unfortunately) does not always

= love.

Career

Not that much love between the both of you if you can't balance the two AND you have to choose between one or the other.

If you have decent skills and/or education money is everywhere.

Posted by Impulsv
I'm sorry it never appealed to me

Grocery shopping

Cooking staying home , cleaning after my partner

Going to chili's n that's it for life!!!!!! The ordinary life bored the fuck out of me

You picked the wrong guy and obviously did not contribute to the livelihood of the relationship.

I was thinking more like wining/dining, traveling the world, family/friend get togethers, new experiences teammates.

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Posted by Impulsv
I'm sorry it never appealed to me

Grocery shopping

Cooking staying home , cleaning after my partner

Going to chili's n that's it for life!!!!!! The ordinary life bored the fuck out of me

You picked the wrong guy and obviously did not contribute to the livelihood of the relationship.

I was thinking more like wining/dining, traveling the world, family/friend get togethers, new experiences teammates.

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Agree! Although I think that maybe some people dont be themselves from the very beginning and set standards that arent realistic or will make them unhappy in the long term. There has to be a certain element of selfishness for a relationship to work. 2 people being authentically themselves and it being the perfect recipe! Knowing who you are and whats important to you and relaying it to the other is the way to go.

I can't choose.... I love material comforts so I work my ass off to get this money...and I love, love.... it's a tie for me.

Family and love always

Cancer in the 4th

Nothing else compares

I was with a guy who always put his work first....he is quite isolated now

Men that put their careers first all of the time......not relationship or family material

Posted by LibraLovesHim
If you had to choose one or the other? Assuming you have found love, but lets say a great opportunity has arisen abroad...

Can't a woman have it all?! 😕

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Due to the fact that my 10th house is packed, I would have to say career. Love can’t beat making it in your career life and gaining success on your own. If you get lonely, there’s always sex.