Sexy messages

This was brought up in our Gentle Suggestions thread and was somewhat buried, so I thought I'd make a new thread.

Anyone leave sexy, suggestive messages on the voice mail of their guys, and if so, what did you say? Also, if it was a Libra, how did he react.

I'm looking for some other ideas to try out!

You can quote song lyrics:

'you took the words right out of my mouth'
'must have been while you were kissing me'

Okay, as a Libra, would you think that sweet and endearing, or would you think "that's not very creative; she's just quoting song lyrics." ??

It's perfect because it is fairly indirect...

You just blame the song...

Cuz as a Gemini, I would much rather have something that seemed like he thought it up himself, that he put some creativity into it. But, maybe Libras are okay with this. Thoughts anyone?

I did hear back from Mr. Libra this morning. Just a text a message. It read "I have some nice thoughts of that night too😉"

I think I'll leave another one tonight - Still working on the wording, but will go something like this:

"I went shopping tonight. Didn't buy much, just a big bow and some ribbon"

What about these? I think Libras like the vagueness of messages - lets them analyze, which they are very good at doing:

"Hi. Here are my answers. Yes, tomorrow at 6 pm. Duct tape and leather chaps. Tonight's word will be banana"

and/or

"Jesus paid for our sins - how about we get our money's worth?"

"If your right leg was Thanksgiving and your left leg was Christmas, could I meet you between the holidays?"

HP

You need to back off now.

Plant a seed, then back off. Plant a seed, then back off. Plant a seed, then back off.

Constant contact at this point is not good for the libra. He needs to think about you.

Give him at least a week.

Uggh! No. Those are way too crass.

Subtle. Subtle. Subtle.

If you do the Jesus sin one, I will seriously fly down there and kick you. lol!

You see there is a time to be crass and a time to sass. Right now, you are stroking his mind. Once you get his mind burning, then you can be as crass as you want. BUT until then, you need to tease without saying anything. Delivery is important.

Nothing says unsexy like "Jesus" and "sin".

🙂

Jeez, they are just thoughts. This is a blog - I'm too chicken shit to leave these on his VM. It took me a long time to even call and leave the one from yesterday.

Chill people...he's actually been the one to contact me in recent weeks. First time I initiated any contact with him was yesterday.

Seed planted...point taken.

lol!

ummmm

lol!

okay sense of humour is working again. slight malfunction. lol!

Yes, back off for a while now and he will go CRAZY wondering where you've disappeared to. The best way to get a Libra is to make them curious....their minds will spin for days, and you will be the one they're thinking of. If you follow it up too quickly, he may think you are needy, clingy, etc. even though I know that you are not.

trust me, i've backed way off within the last 2 weeks. i haven't posted any updates to any new events with him, right? it's been him to initiate contact with me, but I've actually been delayed in responding to him.

Good girl....Now you get to sit back and have fun watching him go nuts!

he's not like that. he's a player...I've figured that out about 3 weeks ago. If I'm not on his mind, someone is.

If you want to leave him another message in a week or two that would be perfect. Probably a week and a half.

Use metaphor but clever metaphor. write it down and perfect exactly what you are going to say. Make every word count. Then deliver it as if no effort or thought was put into it.

Ahhhh seduction. It is a yummy thing.

AGREE!

Back off now HP and let him think about it a while. You want to tease. He obviously liked the message and thought about the night as well, now let it simmer with him.

Libras love beautiful well crafted words.

There is a certain sound that words make when they click. Learn this and you master him.

if words dont rhyme and tickle our brains, we may not reply immediately.

it was a one-time thing....it was fun, but i'm not into him like that anymore. somehow finding out someone is a player is a real turn off to me.

Yeh, you say that now, but just you wait! hee hee. These libras have a way of sucking us back in (at least they do me!)

Really?

It doesn't really phase me. I figure people are people. I like you for my own reasons. Ya know?

I don't really care if they are or have screwed other girls because I don't really care about competition from other girls because I don't compete.

Eventually, I expect exclusivity but in the beginning .... whatever.

Per the gentle suggestions? thread... Text is better and again, not too pushy. Give it a few days - week with no contact and then a great naughty text. Try to get him when he least expects it. During the day - at work so he will have it on his mind that evening...

Keep it light, seductive and mysterious. No meeting in the middle of holidays... Sorry girl... those were a little much.

HP74..
"Hi. Here are my answers. Yes, tomorrow at 6 pm. Duct tape and leather chaps. Tonight's word will be banana"

and/or

"Jesus paid for our sins - how about we get our money's worth?"

HP.. I don't care what anyone here says you are freakin' hilarious!!!!!!!!! I am crackin up over here... Love the last one too!!! My libra would love these.. I may have to bite.. cuz, I have been doing the very same thing you are.. sending subtle emails occasionally with NO call.. he called last night and tonight.. tonight we had a REAL JUICY talk 🙂 😉 🙂 He was telling me stuff he NEVER said before and he said he wants us to hook up soon.. aaahhhh! ...and the fact that HE asked.. ah! I am glad this thread is here.. He said he was going to call me back in a bit, he is at work, but he said I got him so hot he is walking around with his hand in his pocket. LOL!! Guess I am not doing too bad.. I will keep you all posted 🙂

...Not "hook up" as in sex.. he asked to see me, maybe travel together somewhere.. I have not had a chance to tell him about the biz trip yet.. that will be our next convo when he calls back..

I'm glad you think I'm funny....they were meant to be all in fun and humor.

Although I sent the "other" Libra a text message today. It said "I bought a big bow and some ribbon today. Any ideas on what I can wrap and give as a present?"

his response:

"I'm sure whatever you wrap, it won't stay wrapped for long! 😉"

little sparrow is right on about planting a seed then backing off. Libras are QUEENS (and kings)of subtlety---and they'll pick up on the fact that you're starting to understand that. PLAY ON WORDS is fun for them. HUMOR---very good, yeah, yeah, yeah, again SUBTLE humor / humour. My experience is (guy Aries w/ Libra girl) Libras are ALWAYS thinking, kinda like knitting their thoughts over and over again, all the time. ALL the time. I think the most difficult thing for a Libra is turning off his / her mind. WELL, they are so busy thinking about SO much all the time that, guess what?, they're NOT thinking about you as often as you'd like. Sorry, but seems to be true and you can check this Board and see others' comments. SO you HAVE to let time go by so YOU are cycled back into their thoughts. All of a sudden they'll realize they haven't been thinking about you. They'll realize you haven't been around or written or called lately and they'll PANIC. THEN he (in your case) will probably go out of his way to contact you---AFTER, of course, THINKING more and more and more about EXACTLY how to contact you. It takes TIME, probably more time than any other sign I've ever had a relationship with!

"planting a seed then backing off"

This is my principal strategy. And is why the whole thing takes so much time.

Is it any wonder LIbrans need SOOOOO much sleep— my Lord it must take so much energy!!!!

My Libran this morning said he could sleep all day everyday - sheesh!!!!!!

How about...

'IM RICH, BITCH!!! ' OR 'IM RICK JAMES, BITCH!!!'

Many kids were made to those sayings...many.