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Posted by LostinmyMind11
"He isn't all lovey dovey"

"we cuddled me to sleep and didnt try ANYTHING with me. we woke up this morning and he spooned me for 10 minutes before having to get up for work.. i followed him downstairs into the kitchen and just i stood there cause i was still half asleep, he stopped eating his breakfast and came up to me and gave me a random long hug. then this morning i recieved a message saying "love you

"And the fact that he doesn't even TRY to fuck me and ACTUALLY is the one who wants to cuddle me and kiss me and be affectionate is a big deal"

thats being pretty lovey dovey!!
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Posted by scorpio24
by lovey dovey i meant he IN MY FACE 24/7 ringing me 50 times a day or showering me with flowers. Which is fine by me cause he is giving me a good balance of what i want/need (cuddles, spooning, cute text messages) I probably shouldnt have used the words "lovey dovey" and should have explained what i meant better. my bad 🙂



***he ISNT in my face.


typo!
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
"The last 2 months we have only had sex when I have truly wanted to. there has been plenty of times i have politely refused it to him"
"it means what it says. I only fuck him when I truly want to, I don't just give in every single time he wants sex. "


isnt that a bit selfish? if you trust your intuition (which my intuition tells me you dont) then why only do it when you truly want it? How is that not with holding sex to a degree? (which is a form of manipulation)



had to add to it
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Posted by scorpio24
by lovey dovey i meant he IN MY FACE 24/7 ringing me 50 times a day or showering me with flowers. Which is fine by me cause he is giving me a good balance of what i want/need (cuddles, spooning, cute text messages) I probably shouldnt have used the words "lovey dovey" and should have explained what i meant better. my bad 🙂




I dont know about anybody else...but i would say "if" that is what hes doing....thats lovey dovey shit. the first part...in your face 24/7, 50 text msgs is clingy not lovey dovey
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Look chick, it basically boils down to this.

You come on the Virgo boards with your shit, bashing this guy to no avail, getting all EMO, manipulating him, & when you believe you have something going with him, you try to convince people that is great. You may be able to manipulate him, but it won't work here boo. If you like it, I love it, but there is no need for you to convince anyone here, what the fuck are you trying to prove really?

You say you don't care but it's CLEAR that you do. You're fishing out the "Virgos" opinions so you can gather enough info to feel as if you're doing the right thing, but the advice still stands & you fail to see the damn forest for the trees. Like I said before if your "intuition" is on point, why are you even "updating" your status with this Virgo? Oh, I know...it's because you're insecure about the relationship, & you already feel within your gut it's not going to last. Nobody is hoping for your demise, but you're approach is annoying as hell & transparent. As the saying goes, "ain't nobody got time for that". People get sick of the same dumb shit after a while, especially when they know exactly how it will end up. Let that absorb in your little emotional Scorpio brain. 🙂 You're welcome.

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Posted by RealTalk
Look chick, it basically boils down to this.

You come on the Virgo boards with your shit, bashing this guy to no avail, getting all EMO, manipulating him, & when you believe you have something going with him, you try to convince people that is great. You may be able to manipulate him, but it won't work here boo. If you like it, I love it, but there is no need for you to convince anyone here, what the fuck are you trying to prove really?

You say you don't care but it's CLEAR that you do. You're fishing out the "Virgos" opinions so you can gather enough info to feel as if you're doing the right thing, but the advice still stands & you fail to see the damn forest for the trees. Like I said before if your "intuition" is on point, why are you even "updating" your status with this Virgo? Oh, I know...it's because you're insecure about the relationship, & you already feel within your gut it's not going to last. Nobody is hoping for your demise, but you're approach is annoying as hell & transparent. As the saying goes, "ain't nobody got time for that". People get sick of the same dumb shit after a while, especially when they know exactly how it will end up. Let that absorb in your little emotional Scorpio brain. 🙂 You're welcome.



+1 if this guy only knew all the shit she has said about him...thats not love to go around bashing someones name etc smh.