update :)

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So, me and virgo broke up begining of november

and...


I am SOOOOO much happier! I havent felt this happy for such a long time, and i've finally accepted that we just weren't good together and am looking at it as a big lesson learnt.

I've also found myself again and i LOVE MY LIFE 🙂

yippeeee!

As for him, we are on good terms seeing as though we have the same group of friends. He also met a new girl who he's now seeing, and i'm not fussed at all 🙂


weird how things change!
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Posted by P-Angel

Thinking about other men, is disloyal .... the fact that you don't know that, is why you've never been able to actually get the Virgo man, eventhough you continue to try and manipulate him.

I'm not surprised you don't get that .... real women do, and that is all that matters.



You sound insane. Disloyal to whom? They are no longer an item & he has already moved on to someone else, so what are you talking about?

Your post reminds me of something I saw on Nat Geo Wild, a show called "Wild Sex". Today they were talking about this bug, I didn't catch its name...the males of this species of bugs only have sex with virgins. Once the male "deflowers" the female, he then makes this strange noise into her ear, they refer to it as "singing". This singing immediately keeps her loyal to him, which means, the female will only have sex once in her life while the male continues to have sex & serenades other females.
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by P-Angel

I'm not talking about loyalty to the Virgo

what I know is that you're a dumb fuck



Lool +1

The OP is immature. She's using the Pisces as a rebound to forget about the Virgo. If she didn't care she wouldn't be posting here.

So much for being confident enough to stay single.
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Oh she meant him. It still doesnt mean she is being disloyal though, the Virgo was part of her life for a while & it would be crazy to expect her not to even talk about him just because there's a new man in her life. Loyalty is not something that develops overnight, memories dont vanish overnight either. Let the poor girl talk.
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I'm not talking about loyalty to the Virgo

what I know is that you're a dumb fuck



To whom, Jesus?

LOL IKR. I'm over this Tom-foolary. "Grown" I use that term very loosely people calling others names like we're in the third grade.

THANK GOSH I know that people perception of me is a reflection of them and my reaction is an awareness of me.

Wrap your head around that one!
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She has a very warped way of thinking sometimes. Imagine being loyal to someone you just met 5 minutes ago. How stupid.
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
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Posted by P-Angel

I'm not talking about loyalty to the Virgo

what I know is that you're a dumb fuck



Lool +1

The OP is immature. She's using the Pisces as a rebound to forget about the Virgo. If she didn't care she wouldn't be posting here.

So much for being confident enough to stay single.



Oh she meant him. It still doesnt mean she is being disloyal though, the Virgo was part of her life for a while & it would be crazy to expect her not to even talk about him just because there's a new man in her life. Loyalty is not something that develops overnight, memories dont vanish overnight either. Let the poor girl talk.



I guess that's true but I get what P is saying. The other day she was on the Pisces board talking about this Pisces guy she fancies. Saying she just wants a fwb but dick teasing him. And then wondering why he won't see her. She uses and manipulates guys because she's afraid to be single. She's only loyal to herself. If you ask me both the Virgo and the Pisces dodged a bullet there.
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She is single though, meaning, she can do whatever the hell she wants. Since when is teasing people a crime? I say good-riddance because it means his only interest was sex, not friendship or any other thing.
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Loyalty to others comes from loyalty to yourself. And there cannot be self loyalty without first having self awareness.

How can a person possibly be loyal if they do not know who they are, or what they want?

Doing or saying certain things in the hope or desire of eliciting a certain response is just as immature as holding someone else responsible for your actions/reactions. Because in both of those scenarios, you are basing *your* behavior/ego/sense of self off of others - not from a place of self knowledge.

And I think that's what the OP is doing. She doesn't know herself; she knows how to elicit responses. Which usually amounts to game playing and manipulation - not loyalty.
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by WaterCup
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by P-Angel

I'm not talking about loyalty to the Virgo

what I know is that you're a dumb fuck



Lool +1

The OP is immature. She's using the Pisces as a rebound to forget about the Virgo. If she didn't care she wouldn't be posting here.

So much for being confident enough to stay single.



Oh she meant him. It still doesnt mean she is being disloyal though, the Virgo was part of her life for a while & it would be crazy to expect her not to even talk about him just because there's a new man in her life. Loyalty is not something that develops overnight, memories dont vanish overnight either. Let the poor girl talk.



I guess that's true but I get what P is saying. The other day she was on the Pisces board talking about this Pisces guy she fancies. Saying she just wants a fwb but dick teasing him. And then wondering why he won't see her. She uses and manipulates guys because she's afraid to be single. She's only loyal to herself. If you ask me both the Virgo and the Pisces dodged a bullet there.

Very good point. I commented and said she doesn't need to run off with someone new. When you're REALLY breaking free to better yourself, you don't jump into bed with the next guy. That's the immature way of handling it. You SHOULD be by yourself for a while to re-gain who YOU are as an ididvidual.
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LOL, do you guys know all her dating history? She only spoke about TWO guys! Plus maybe she is horny. Surely you dont expect her to ride a carrot while there are plenty of fish in the sea who are willing to scratch her itch. She is afraid to be single? The Virgo is the one already IN a relationship, she is not yet she is the one with fears in this situation. Nuh-uh!
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Posted by WaterCup
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by P-Angel

I'm not talking about loyalty to the Virgo

what I know is that you're a dumb fuck



Lool +1

The OP is immature. She's using the Pisces as a rebound to forget about the Virgo. If she didn't care she wouldn't be posting here.

So much for being confident enough to stay single.



Oh she meant him. It still doesnt mean she is being disloyal though, the Virgo was part of her life for a while & it would be crazy to expect her not to even talk about him just because there's a new man in her life. Loyalty is not something that develops overnight, memories dont vanish overnight either. Let the poor girl talk.



I guess that's true but I get what P is saying. The other day she was on the Pisces board talking about this Pisces guy she fancies. Saying she just wants a fwb but dick teasing him. And then wondering why he won't see her. She uses and manipulates guys because she's afraid to be single. She's only loyal to herself. If you ask me both the Virgo and the Pisces dodged a bullet there.



She is single though, meaning, she can do whatever the hell she wants. Since when is teasing people a crime? I say good-riddance because it means his only interest was sex, not friendship or any other thing.



She can do whatever she wants but toying with people is not cool, regardless. She is the one that wanted to use the Pisces for sex to get over her issues, he called it early and left. Good for him. It's the same thing she used to do to her Virgo ex, trying to manipulate him into committing to her crazy ass. I'm not saying she can't randomly hook up with people but she has issues she needs to deal with.
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People use each other all the time. Its not right but that's how life is. People on this site crack me up, they like to act like they always do the right thing in every given situation. I don't buy it. Nobody is perfect. Plenty of skeletons in all o
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LOL, do you guys know all her dating history? She only spoke about TWO guys! Plus maybe she is horny. Surely you dont expect her to ride a carrot while there are plenty of fish in the sea who are willing to scratch her itch. She is afraid to be single? The Virgo is the one already IN a relationship, she is not yet she is the one with fears in this situation. Nuh-uh!

I DO. That's the one thing that irritates me about the Scorpio "influence" the need to manipulate people. I see this energy in myself sometimes and I try to fight it. Random sex or FWB only medicates the "internal" problem for a while. The issues will still be there.

We have to take in account that she is still very young. It takes a life time for some people to grasp this concept.



"I DO", what? Know her WHOLE dating history? How? Surely you can be basing your "knowing" solely on her POSTING HISTORY. Scorpio "influence" doesnt allow a person to share EVERYTHING. So think again if you believe that you know everything about this girl's dating life.

I have a considerable amount of Scorpio in my chart & I NEVER consciously manipulated a single person in my whole entire life. Your need to manipulate must be all you, your own issues.
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Watercup just because people use each other doesn't mean it's right though. Nobody is saying they don't have things to work on but justifying a bad personality trait is only going to hinder your own personal growth. It's her choice whether she wants to remain manipulative and a user but eventually it's gonna bite her in the ass. You get what you give.



I also said its not right, but we arent floating around with halos on our heads for a reason. People suck. Show me an earthly angel & I'll show you a liar.
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LOL, do you guys know all her dating history? She only spoke about TWO guys! Plus maybe she is horny. Surely you dont expect her to ride a carrot while there are plenty of fish in the sea who are willing to scratch her itch. She is afraid to be single? The Virgo is the one already IN a relationship, she is not yet she is the one with fears in this situation. Nuh-uh!

I DO. That's the one thing that irritates me about the Scorpio "influence" the need to manipulate people. I see this energy in myself sometimes and I try to fight it. Random sex or FWB only medicates the "internal" problem for a while. The issues will still be there.

We have to take in account that she is still very young. It takes a life time for some people to grasp this concept.



"I DO", what? Know her WHOLE dating history? How? Surely you can be basing your "knowing" solely on her POSTING HISTORY. Scorpio "influence" doesnt allow a person to share EVERYTHING. So think again if you believe that you know everything about this girl's dating life.

I have a considerable amount of Scorpio in my chart & I NEVER consciously manipulated a single person in my whole entire life. Your need to manipulate must be all you, your own issues.

And I agree. My unconscious issue are based out of fear. Once I realized that, my choices in life began to be more "painful" to the point where I randomly cry sometimes and I feel pain in my chest. But somehow, I am feeling better about life and I know I am maturing.

The OP doesn't seem to grasp that because she's already playing cat and mouse with the Pisces. My heart goes out to her and her development as a woman
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She'll get it together someday... just like you had your own lightbulb moment at your own time. Things like that take time.
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Oh wow, I come back go this thread and it's overflowing with false assumptuations and negative energy haha.

I don't need anyone, that's why I am not even fussed about the Pisces not talking to me as you can see on the Pisces thread 🙂 I waited 3 months before I could even properly talk to someone, he got in another relationship within one month. Everyone heals at their own pace, although 3 months is a short time, my relationship was toxic and to be honest I was already mentally preparing myself for the break up for months before it actually happened which is why I was able to get over it so quickly. 🙂

So no need to jump into conclusions saying I'm unsure of myself, if I was lonely I would be in a relationship already. I've decided to live my life to the fullest and have fun while I'm still 23 so I've booked a one way ticket to travel around the world later this year.

Watercup said it perfectly, I'm just horny and fancy the Pisces.

Get over it, 🙂 I'm single I can do whatever I want! The world is my oyster

Toodle-oo haters!
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Posted by scorpio24
Oh wow, I come back go this thread and it's overflowing with false assumptuations and negative energy haha.

I don't need anyone, that's why I am not even fussed about the Pisces not talking to me as you can see on the Pisces thread 🙂 I waited 3 months before I could even properly talk to someone, he got in another relationship within one month. Everyone heals at their own pace, although 3 months is a short time, my relationship was toxic and to be honest I was already mentally preparing myself for the break up for months before it actually happened which is why I was able to get over it so quickly. 🙂

So no need to jump into conclusions saying I'm unsure of myself, if I was lonely I would be in a relationship already. I've decided to live my life to the fullest and have fun while I'm still 23 so I've booked a one way ticket to travel around the world later this year.

Watercup said it perfectly, I'm just horny and fancy the Pisces.

Get over it, 🙂 I'm single I can do whatever I want! The world is my oyster

Toodle-oo haters!



Yeah me too...hahahahahaha smh!
But thank baby jesus...that the virgo got away from you and your manipulation!