Virgo and drinking?

I have a virgo friend that over the last year we have become very close and have a very good friendship. As of lately we have been haning out a lot and he shows up at my work sometimes to suprise me. We have discussed being together but it is only when ever we have been drinking that he brings it up, only when we have been drinking does he comepletely let me in his bubble. When we are this close he questions my feelings and will ask me how do I know I am sure of how I feel. I told him that I would not have just spent the last year trying when I could have just walked away and that once I am done with something I am done but that I did not want to be done. He said he did not want to be done either. He has even told me (when drinking) that he does not let people close to him like he has let me. The other night he even said he is in love with me and I told him in return that I felt the same.....while both being intoxicated.

When it comes to getting close to me when he is sober, it is not like that. He is still sweet to me and everything else but he never talks about being together and definitly does not talk to me about being in love with me. This is making me confused. It also seems the closer we get when we drink as of lately the farther apart we get when sober. WTF? After the other night when he said he is in love with me , he wont even look at me.

Does anyone have any insite as to why it is this way?

Also, any advice on what I should do?

Posted by VirgoFlirt
Alcohol does lower the barrier to entry....

So should I be concerned this is the only way he will communicate about certian things with me?

Posted by VirgoFlirt
Alcohol does lower the barrier to entry....

I know 4 Virgo men and they all are alcoholics. Lol I am a virgo woman??_and I love to drink. The more I drink the more my guard comes down. When I'm sober and with them - its not as much fun.

I miss Saturday evening cocktails with my Virgo and dancing in the kitchen.

Great foreplay 😉

Maybe he's afraid to admit when he's sober.

Posted by VirgoFlirt

Posted by SexyLexi

Posted by VirgoFlirt
Alcohol does lower the barrier to entry....

So should I be concerned this is the only way he will communicate about certian things with me?

If you have enough sexy in your lexy, then no. You know...What made him come to you in the start? That will tell the story of, if that's a problem or not here.

You will just have to actually show him how you feel and not tell him (sober).....That'll get ya rolling.

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I came to him to start, we went on a date over a year ago, he was very distant after that. We work together and ended up in a huge fight over something and stopped talking all together. Three months later we started talking again and as time passed we have become very connected. I dont know its like sometimes nothing has to be said and we know what the other person needs.