Starting to get a little exhausted from this roll my ex and I have been playing. He broke up with me six months ago, since then we have remained friends and we hang out regularly. I know he still loves me and puts in the effort to talk to me/call me daily, but I want to tip the scales. I want him to MISS me instead. As much as I enjoy our relationship for what it is now (we broke up due to stress in his creative life/work life/insecurities he has) and I feel I am constantly this voice of reason for him. Any time there is an issue or a stress he reaches out to me to talk him out of it. But I miss and love him and our romantic relationship. Having conversations about our romantic life scares him off. So that route doesn't help too much. But I don't know if placing a great deal of distance between us is what I need to be doing or just focusing on myself and really slowing the communication? HELP
