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Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by giaPosted by dilettantePosted by giaPosted by SilvuhPosted by saggurl88Posted by SilvuhPosted by giaPosted by Silvuh
You need to re-obtain some control in this situation. He should've been sure to at least give you the confirmation that girl knows she isn't entitled to his time, and i see nothing wrong about mentioning he's out with you unless he was unsure if her response would be suspicious.
But on the other hand, maybe he didn't because he felt cornered, and mistrusted.
It went like this.
He: " She knows I have a gf. I post so many pics of us and stories and all those lovey dovey captions on each of them"
Me: "So why are you behaving like you don't want her to know that you're out with your girlfriend?"
*He: "Because such girls are the hookup kind. They don't give a f**k about whether I have a girlfriend or a wife. "
Me: "Then in that case you absolutely need to let me reply that" *almost trying to snatch his phone*
He: " I told you I swear on my mom I won't let you do that. You want to breakup over this then go ahead but I won't let you".
Sis, they fucking.
I think so too. He has too many good excuses or stories about what her direct texts mean.
friend:-"Let's fucc tomorrow, I miss your dicc in my mouth"
Boyfriend:- " Oh she accidentally sent that to me, it was supposed to go to someone else and she wants me to forward it to him"
I'm wondering if this friend is a water sign, has water sign written all over it lol I won't be specific and shade the actual sign though.
I definitely feel like she's got some heavy emotional baggage which does hint to her being a water sign. Super shady and manipulative, a lil psycho with the double texts. And possessiveness through the ROOF, trying her hardest to claim someone already taken!!
Lmaoo I feel like you wanna say Scorpio and I too want to make this claim so let's break even and call her "unevolved" 💀💀
Her Virgo is trash tho
She's Jan 9th,2004 born so feel free to check out her natal chart haha. He and I are 22 now. He told me she brokeup last year. It's highly likely she's using him as a rebound,maybe.
we have to know what city/state/country
i am v curious about her placements... for my own field research 😛
Fineeeee just give me 10 hours I'll fetch her placements for you xD. I am curious you never asked about my virguy's placement lol. He has a venus in Scorpio. For some reason I always found that very sexy. I am always drawn to Scorpios. Just love them for their intensity. When I saw his Venus is in Scorpio I went all gagaga. But ouch.
I'm hanging out with a Venus is Scorpio too, currently. What's your venus/mars?
ya i wanna know OP & virgo’s chart
v curious what his moon isclick to expand
Me:
Ascendant - Leo
Moon / Mars/ Venus - Aquarius
He:
Ascendant - Leo
Moon - Aquarius
Mars/Venus - Scorpio
Lol, I just realized we may have some common traits ..wooot woot ouch X_X
Tbh He probably likes things about you, but probably not feeling the total package.
Posted by BadassGoddess
To me it seems like you are the one with drama. You need to stop being so clingy and acting so insecure. Stop trying to control the guy and trust that he will do right by you until he proves you otherwise... You're honestly acting like a 13 year old
This made me smile for 2 reasons:
1) a highly different opinion. I respect it.
2) Sounds so much like it's him replying lol
I am insecure. Yes. There's nothing for me to deny. Being insecure for no reason is not right. Here, I am insecure for a reason - some girl's constant DAILY texts to him, him hiding her msgs, deleting their chats, getting nervous whenever she texts when I am around, not acknowledging and respecting the fact that he's in a relationship. I have too many male friends so I am all cool with your partner being friends with the opposite gender. I have absolutely no problem with any of his female friends. They all respect our relationship and stay within their boundaries. Never had any problem with any of them. Infact, this one time he told one of his good friends that she looks hot in her backless birthday pic. He said it in front of me. I was cool with it because she respects our relationship. He's also friends with his first ex from school and they occasionally talk. I still never had any problem with that because she respects our relationship.
However, this girl is different. It's not about the fact that they chat. It's about the frequency and the content of the talks which is highly alarming and disturbing. She sticks to him like a leech - whether he's out on a trip with me, in his room, in a lecture,hanging out with me.. you name it. She calls him hot and babe. She makes him call her hot and babe.
Earlier she used to ask him to comment cheap flirty comments whenever she posted her pic on Instagram. When I found out and confronted him, he told me he never did it of his own but only because she would ask him to. He sent me a screenshot of her texting him to comment "black suits you babe *insert heart*". He just commented "black suits you" and she deleted his commented and begged him saying "please comment "black suits you babe *insert heart and kiss* ". When I asked him what crap is this, he said "neither of us mean any of it. She is just an attention seeking insta wannabe who wants to show her followers that she's capable of getting such comments too. I do it because I know she knows I don't really mean any of it so I do it just to make her a happy kid". Then 4 months ago she posted another pic where she asked him to comment "new Kim Kardashian *insert peach fruit to imply butt*". He commented that and she replied "and what are you? Kanye? ". I saw that and I got mad and he deleted his comment and told her that he'll never comment on her pics anymore and she said "okay,cool" and he hasn't since then. He likes all her pics but didn't comment since then as of now.
But they talk everyday. When it got too bad and I asked him to block her, he made pathetic false accusations on me as an excuse not to block her. The content of the talk is questionable. She has written lustful horny sexually explicit stories on wattpad. She makes sexual innuendos. When my guy and I went on a beach trip for 5 days, I saw her constantly texting him despite knowing he's with me. I warned him to stop talking to her. He got scared and he told her he's busy and she replied "okay even I'll go watch porn now bye". 1st you make me suspicious, then you hide things more instead of being transparent and open to remove my doubts, then you defend her and stop talking to me instead while continuing to talk to her. I have every reason to feel insecure.
You'd feel the same if you were me or who knows, maybe you'd have felt much worse and would have broken up already.
Posted by 777
Tbh He probably likes things about you, but probably not feeling the total package.
yeah he'd have liked the total package had i remained cool about his inappropriate attention towards her.
Posted by giaPosted by saggurl88Posted by giaPosted by dilettantePosted by giaPosted by SilvuhPosted by saggurl88Posted by SilvuhPosted by giaPosted by Silvuh
You need to re-obtain some control in this situation. He should've been sure to at least give you the confirmation that girl knows she isn't entitled to his time, and i see nothing wrong about mentioning he's out with you unless he was unsure if her response would be suspicious.
But on the other hand, maybe he didn't because he felt cornered, and mistrusted.
It went like this.
He: " She knows I have a gf. I post so many pics of us and stories and all those lovey dovey captions on each of them"
Me: "So why are you behaving like you don't want her to know that you're out with your girlfriend?"
*He: "Because such girls are the hookup kind. They don't give a f**k about whether I have a girlfriend or a wife. "
Me: "Then in that case you absolutely need to let me reply that" *almost trying to snatch his phone*
He: " I told you I swear on my mom I won't let you do that. You want to breakup over this then go ahead but I won't let you".
Sis, they fucking.
I think so too. He has too many good excuses or stories about what her direct texts mean.
friend:-"Let's fucc tomorrow, I miss your dicc in my mouth"
Boyfriend:- " Oh she accidentally sent that to me, it was supposed to go to someone else and she wants me to forward it to him"
I'm wondering if this friend is a water sign, has water sign written all over it lol I won't be specific and shade the actual sign though.
I definitely feel like she's got some heavy emotional baggage which does hint to her being a water sign. Super shady and manipulative, a lil psycho with the double texts. And possessiveness through the ROOF, trying her hardest to claim someone already taken!!
Lmaoo I feel like you wanna say Scorpio and I too want to make this claim so let's break even and call her "unevolved" 💀💀
Her Virgo is trash tho
She's Jan 9th,2004 born so feel free to check out her natal chart haha. He and I are 22 now. He told me she brokeup last year. It's highly likely she's using him as a rebound,maybe.
we have to know what city/state/country
i am v curious about her placements... for my own field research 😛
Fineeeee just give me 10 hours I'll fetch her placements for you xD. I am curious you never asked about my virguy's placement lol. He has a venus in Scorpio. For some reason I always found that very sexy. I am always drawn to Scorpios. Just love them for their intensity. When I saw his Venus is in Scorpio I went all gagaga. But ouch.
I'm hanging out with a Venus is Scorpio too, currently. What's your venus/mars?
Wow. How's it going with him? Is he possessive, jealous and kinda manipulative? Also tooo sexual?
For me, my Mars,Venus, Moon are Aquarius. I don't know what it's like to have so much Aquarius on one's chart lol.
As for him, his Moon is in Aquarius but Venus and Mars are both Scorpio.click to expand
He’s dating other people so he might be too sexual but I don’t see it. Lol.
So far he’s just hiding a bunch of his traits, I think. The only thing I see is someone who is sweet and attentive when he is in front of me but basically has no contact with me when he’s not around.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by giaPosted by saggurl88Posted by giaPosted by dilettantePosted by giaPosted by SilvuhPosted by saggurl88Posted by SilvuhPosted by giaPosted by Silvuh
You need to re-obtain some control in this situation. He should've been sure to at least give you the confirmation that girl knows she isn't entitled to his time, and i see nothing wrong about mentioning he's out with you unless he was unsure if her response would be suspicious.
But on the other hand, maybe he didn't because he felt cornered, and mistrusted.
It went like this.
He: " She knows I have a gf. I post so many pics of us and stories and all those lovey dovey captions on each of them"
Me: "So why are you behaving like you don't want her to know that you're out with your girlfriend?"
*He: "Because such girls are the hookup kind. They don't give a f**k about whether I have a girlfriend or a wife. "
Me: "Then in that case you absolutely need to let me reply that" *almost trying to snatch his phone*
He: " I told you I swear on my mom I won't let you do that. You want to breakup over this then go ahead but I won't let you".
Sis, they fucking.
I think so too. He has too many good excuses or stories about what her direct texts mean.
friend:-"Let's fucc tomorrow, I miss your dicc in my mouth"
Boyfriend:- " Oh she accidentally sent that to me, it was supposed to go to someone else and she wants me to forward it to him"
I'm wondering if this friend is a water sign, has water sign written all over it lol I won't be specific and shade the actual sign though.
I definitely feel like she's got some heavy emotional baggage which does hint to her being a water sign. Super shady and manipulative, a lil psycho with the double texts. And possessiveness through the ROOF, trying her hardest to claim someone already taken!!
Lmaoo I feel like you wanna say Scorpio and I too want to make this claim so let's break even and call her "unevolved" 💀💀
Her Virgo is trash tho
She's Jan 9th,2004 born so feel free to check out her natal chart haha. He and I are 22 now. He told me she brokeup last year. It's highly likely she's using him as a rebound,maybe.
we have to know what city/state/country
i am v curious about her placements... for my own field research 😛
Fineeeee just give me 10 hours I'll fetch her placements for you xD. I am curious you never asked about my virguy's placement lol. He has a venus in Scorpio. For some reason I always found that very sexy. I am always drawn to Scorpios. Just love them for their intensity. When I saw his Venus is in Scorpio I went all gagaga. But ouch.
I'm hanging out with a Venus is Scorpio too, currently. What's your venus/mars?
Wow. How's it going with him? Is he possessive, jealous and kinda manipulative? Also tooo sexual?
For me, my Mars,Venus, Moon are Aquarius. I don't know what it's like to have so much Aquarius on one's chart lol.
As for him, his Moon is in Aquarius but Venus and Mars are both Scorpio.
He’s dating other people so he might be too sexual but I don’t see it. Lol.
So far he’s just hiding a bunch of his traits, I think. The only thing I see is someone who is sweet and attentive when he is in front of me but basically has no contact with me when he’s not around.click to expand
okay so its the "testing the water" phase. Got it xD And yes, scorpios are known for being mysterious. Even with my virguy,he can conceal his deepest feelings within. They start revealing only when they know they 100% trust you and have you for life.
I don't know why do they do it but they do. Seen this with my amazingly amazing Scorpio dad as well.
Posted by Count_Chocula
He likes the attention, that’s all
Would you say that's right or wrong while being committed to someone?
Posted by Count_Chocula
Also if he has venus and mars in scorpio he is 21, not 22
You must be REALLY good with astrology xD You're right. He is 21 at present. I am 22 as I am March born but I said "we" are 22 because he'd turn up 22 the next month anyway so just thought of summing it up.
Posted by Count_ChoculaPosted by giaPosted by Count_Chocula
He likes the attention, that’s all
Would you say that's right or wrong while being committed to someone?
It’s wrong either wayclick to expand
A month ago he had said he has some work in college this upcoming week and had asked me if I'd accompany him and I had said yes. If he does whatsapp me for it in these coming days asking me to accompany him, according to you should I? given that he has ghosted me for 2 weeks for whatever reason.
Sooo, I have an important question where I need your valued opinion. I have received various opinions, all sensible and considered.
I wanted to know your opinion on - how should I be when he contacts me.
I am leaving for the US in 12 days and a month ago he had said he has some work in college this coming week and had asked me to accompany him. In your opinion, what should I do if he contacts me for it?
And if not just that but if he contacts me out of own for no reason but just to talk.
Should I ignore him or should I respond positively or should I confront again?
I wanted to know your opinion on - how should I be when he contacts me.
I am leaving for the US in 12 days and a month ago he had said he has some work in college this coming week and had asked me to accompany him. In your opinion, what should I do if he contacts me for it?
And if not just that but if he contacts me out of own for no reason but just to talk.
Should I ignore him or should I respond positively or should I confront again?
He is 22 and a legal adult she is 15 a minor. This is not cool on any level. this guy is trash,
~Update folks~
2 weeks ago that 15yrs old had posted an attention seeking status update asking her interested friends to dm their name so she would create a romantic/sweet meme on that person with her. To my big surprise, he didn't reply to it.
Now, since my last message here, some things have happened. After 3 weeks of no contact from him, I sucked in my ego and texted him blatantly asking why is he ignoring me. He said he hardly talks to anyone and has 90% stopped using whatsapp(where we talk). He said "I never text anyone of my own. Only if anyone texts me I see if its important and only then I reply in 2-3 lines. Thats why I replied to you". I told him he didn't even ask me when am I leaving the country for my Masters(like WTF??) and he asked when am I leaving and I said 25th. He said we could go to college on Monday(19th Aug) to collect some documents and I had agreed. After 2-3 msgs he told me how one of his male friends got into another Ivy League which has a better rank than the university I am going to be attending. I said nice.
Then he started putting me and my college down. Like seriously bro, it is ranked among top 50 in the world and he doesn't find that as impressive. He mocked me by saying "it ranks top 50.Not even top 25. LOL. Enjoy.All the best for getting into Google LOl".
Had I even attended Harvard this guy would have belittled me by saying "But Stanford/MIT ranks 1st LOL".
I had initially texted him as I had to meet up with 2 of our collegemates -one guy and one girl and he has problem with the guy. But given the fact that he insulted me(which went on for 3 consecutive days) it was obvious I didn't invite him to join us. Those 2 of my friends traveled 2 hrs just to meet me as Id be leaving soon so they wanted to give me a farewell treat.
Now the male friend(my bf is insecure of him and we've had a huge fight related to him) posted stories on instagram from our day together where we 3 looking all happy and having a gala time-which we did. In one of the pics, that guy and I were having an icecream and just ONE knuckle of my fist touched his and my bf took a screenshot of that pic, CIRCLED it and whatsapped it to me the next day followed by a long text with highly highly disrespectful sentences with the worst one being "you just want some guy to touch you. you saw I was busy so you went out with him. You knew we were almost on the verge of breakingup and remember how much you cried and begged and apologized to me and now you're hanging out with the same guy. I am totally done with you. I thought i can do long distance relationship with you when you go to US but you'd call guys to your dorm instead of studying. No wonder why you didnt bleed our 1st time even though you said you were a virgin. You have lived in US alone before so you must have done things there too.I am done with you". That had me. I didn't respond. I read it and left it at "seen". He then blocked me and I blocked him too. Unlike before when I'd sms him begging and justifying and providing him an explanation of my good character, this time I left him at "seen" and blocked him too instead.
2 days later(Saturday), he sms'ed me if I want to meet him before leaving. I didnt respond. An hour later he sms'ed me for an overnight stay at a hotel we frequent to the next day(Sunday) saying if I'd like us to go there one last time before I leave and we could go to college the on Monday to collect our documents after checking out from the hotel. I didn't respond. He thought I'd get emotional and give in and say yes like i always did but this time i held myself strong and I just didn't reply. The next day (Sunday) I texted him that lets go to college tomorrow to collect our documents. He didn't reply. I texted him again 5 minutes later saying that this is the only day left for me to go collect them. He didn't reply. Then an hour later I again texted him "Asking for the last time.Do you want to?" he didn't respond but instead uploaded his selfie on insta which i got to know from one of our female classmates.
We haven't talked since. He didn't message. Today that same female friend sent me a screenshot of his insta status where he posted some creepy supposedly funny ad of a condom brand. I asked my friend to check if that 15yrs old liked his pic. She said she checked it earlier and she hadn't but when she checked it now after he posted this ad, she liked his pic. So 100% the're still chatting.
The fact that he ignored me when I asked him to come to college for our documents means he was just calling me to spend time at the hotel for sex - nothing to do with love. It's so disturbing that not once did he apologize to me for speaking such disgusting things. When I wasn't ready to lose my virginity and he was desperate, he would complain of being frustrated for not getting any sex after 4 months into the relationship. He treated me so much better. He never had trust issues with anyone then. He knew I'd never get physical with anyone. He knew losing my virginity was a very very big deal for me(I had told him that I only want to lose it to the guy who I feel would marry me and I want to marry) and I eventually lost it after 8 months into the relationship. But now its the same guy who questioned my virginity and character assassinated me. I am actually leaving on 28th as my plans got bit delayed but I had told him 25th. I highly highly doubt this guy (rather kid) would do anything about it. In a way i wish he doesn't but I am curious to see.
2 weeks ago that 15yrs old had posted an attention seeking status update asking her interested friends to dm their name so she would create a romantic/sweet meme on that person with her. To my big surprise, he didn't reply to it.
Now, since my last message here, some things have happened. After 3 weeks of no contact from him, I sucked in my ego and texted him blatantly asking why is he ignoring me. He said he hardly talks to anyone and has 90% stopped using whatsapp(where we talk). He said "I never text anyone of my own. Only if anyone texts me I see if its important and only then I reply in 2-3 lines. Thats why I replied to you". I told him he didn't even ask me when am I leaving the country for my Masters(like WTF??) and he asked when am I leaving and I said 25th. He said we could go to college on Monday(19th Aug) to collect some documents and I had agreed. After 2-3 msgs he told me how one of his male friends got into another Ivy League which has a better rank than the university I am going to be attending. I said nice.
Then he started putting me and my college down. Like seriously bro, it is ranked among top 50 in the world and he doesn't find that as impressive. He mocked me by saying "it ranks top 50.Not even top 25. LOL. Enjoy.All the best for getting into Google LOl".
Had I even attended Harvard this guy would have belittled me by saying "But Stanford/MIT ranks 1st LOL".
I had initially texted him as I had to meet up with 2 of our collegemates -one guy and one girl and he has problem with the guy. But given the fact that he insulted me(which went on for 3 consecutive days) it was obvious I didn't invite him to join us. Those 2 of my friends traveled 2 hrs just to meet me as Id be leaving soon so they wanted to give me a farewell treat.
Now the male friend(my bf is insecure of him and we've had a huge fight related to him) posted stories on instagram from our day together where we 3 looking all happy and having a gala time-which we did. In one of the pics, that guy and I were having an icecream and just ONE knuckle of my fist touched his and my bf took a screenshot of that pic, CIRCLED it and whatsapped it to me the next day followed by a long text with highly highly disrespectful sentences with the worst one being "you just want some guy to touch you. you saw I was busy so you went out with him. You knew we were almost on the verge of breakingup and remember how much you cried and begged and apologized to me and now you're hanging out with the same guy. I am totally done with you. I thought i can do long distance relationship with you when you go to US but you'd call guys to your dorm instead of studying. No wonder why you didnt bleed our 1st time even though you said you were a virgin. You have lived in US alone before so you must have done things there too.I am done with you". That had me. I didn't respond. I read it and left it at "seen". He then blocked me and I blocked him too. Unlike before when I'd sms him begging and justifying and providing him an explanation of my good character, this time I left him at "seen" and blocked him too instead.
2 days later(Saturday), he sms'ed me if I want to meet him before leaving. I didnt respond. An hour later he sms'ed me for an overnight stay at a hotel we frequent to the next day(Sunday) saying if I'd like us to go there one last time before I leave and we could go to college the on Monday to collect our documents after checking out from the hotel. I didn't respond. He thought I'd get emotional and give in and say yes like i always did but this time i held myself strong and I just didn't reply. The next day (Sunday) I texted him that lets go to college tomorrow to collect our documents. He didn't reply. I texted him again 5 minutes later saying that this is the only day left for me to go collect them. He didn't reply. Then an hour later I again texted him "Asking for the last time.Do you want to?" he didn't respond but instead uploaded his selfie on insta which i got to know from one of our female classmates.
We haven't talked since. He didn't message. Today that same female friend sent me a screenshot of his insta status where he posted some creepy supposedly funny ad of a condom brand. I asked my friend to check if that 15yrs old liked his pic. She said she checked it earlier and she hadn't but when she checked it now after he posted this ad, she liked his pic. So 100% the're still chatting.
The fact that he ignored me when I asked him to come to college for our documents means he was just calling me to spend time at the hotel for sex - nothing to do with love. It's so disturbing that not once did he apologize to me for speaking such disgusting things. When I wasn't ready to lose my virginity and he was desperate, he would complain of being frustrated for not getting any sex after 4 months into the relationship. He treated me so much better. He never had trust issues with anyone then. He knew I'd never get physical with anyone. He knew losing my virginity was a very very big deal for me(I had told him that I only want to lose it to the guy who I feel would marry me and I want to marry) and I eventually lost it after 8 months into the relationship. But now its the same guy who questioned my virginity and character assassinated me. I am actually leaving on 28th as my plans got bit delayed but I had told him 25th. I highly highly doubt this guy (rather kid) would do anything about it. In a way i wish he doesn't but I am curious to see.
Yeah you both are right. I am happy seeing that I am not sad anymore about us falling apart. I was mad upset before when he stopped contacting but given what happened last week, I don't feel sad anymore.
In that 1 month, not once did he ask me if I got my visa. Not once did he ask me when am I leaving/when is my flight.
All he did was - mock my college, belittle me, continued inappropriate attention to that 15yrs old, fighting/ignoring me whenever i confronted it. And when he saw I was out having a gala time with our mutual friends, his inflated ego got highly offended and he lashed out at me saying the most pathetic things a guy could say to any girl.
He was mad that I didn't let him know that I am going out with them (because as I said he's insecure of that guy and we've had a massive fight related to him before where I had pleaded and begged him). He wanted me to invite him. 99.9% he wouldn't have let me go. He would have character assassinated me even then. He had a 100% control over me for a year. Now that I did something without consulting him and had fun, he's mad at me.
Also, because he realized he won't get easy sex in these 4 months as I'd be in US (4 months because I'd return back home during the december break) he planned out the overnight hotel stay. Whehever we went there before it used to be for spending quality time together - movies, naps, food,drinks, lots of talking and some no-talking in between. But I know this time it was different. We would have done the same things but I know he wouldn't be doing them with feelings of love.
And after we checked out of the hotel and left for our respective homes, he'd have ghosted on me again. So no thanks.
According to him I am the sinner - hungout with a guy we had a huge fight about, ignored his "let's go to that hotel tomorrow one last time" text. So he ignored when I texted him "lets go to college to collect our document tomorrow" text.
And you're right about him being guilt free regret free for now but even I feel he'll realize what he had, what he lost and what he could've had. I hope this happens.
In that 1 month, not once did he ask me if I got my visa. Not once did he ask me when am I leaving/when is my flight.
All he did was - mock my college, belittle me, continued inappropriate attention to that 15yrs old, fighting/ignoring me whenever i confronted it. And when he saw I was out having a gala time with our mutual friends, his inflated ego got highly offended and he lashed out at me saying the most pathetic things a guy could say to any girl.
He was mad that I didn't let him know that I am going out with them (because as I said he's insecure of that guy and we've had a massive fight related to him before where I had pleaded and begged him). He wanted me to invite him. 99.9% he wouldn't have let me go. He would have character assassinated me even then. He had a 100% control over me for a year. Now that I did something without consulting him and had fun, he's mad at me.
Also, because he realized he won't get easy sex in these 4 months as I'd be in US (4 months because I'd return back home during the december break) he planned out the overnight hotel stay. Whehever we went there before it used to be for spending quality time together - movies, naps, food,drinks, lots of talking and some no-talking in between. But I know this time it was different. We would have done the same things but I know he wouldn't be doing them with feelings of love.
And after we checked out of the hotel and left for our respective homes, he'd have ghosted on me again. So no thanks.
According to him I am the sinner - hungout with a guy we had a huge fight about, ignored his "let's go to that hotel tomorrow one last time" text. So he ignored when I texted him "lets go to college to collect our document tomorrow" text.
And you're right about him being guilt free regret free for now but even I feel he'll realize what he had, what he lost and what he could've had. I hope this happens.
Posted by gia
Yeah you both are right. I am happy seeing that I am not sad anymore about us falling apart. I was mad upset before when he stopped contacting but given what happened last week, I don't feel sad anymore.
In that 1 month, not once did he ask me if I got my visa. Not once did he ask me when am I leaving/when is my flight.
All he did was - mock my college, belittle me, continued inappropriate attention to that 15yrs old, fighting/ignoring me whenever i confronted it. And when he saw I was out having a gala time with our mutual friends, his inflated ego got highly offended and he lashed out with me saying the most pathetic things a guy could say to any girl.
He was mad that I didn't let him know that I am going out with them (because as I said he's insecure of that guy and we've had a massive fight related to him before where I had pleaded and begged him). He wanted me to invite him. 99.9% he wouldn't have let me go. He would have character assassinated me even then. He had a 100% control over me for a year. Now that I did something without consulting him and had fun, he's mad at me.
Also, because he realized he won't get easy sex in these 4 months as I'd be in US (4 months because I'd return back home during the december break) he planned out the overnight hotel stay. Whehever we went there before it used to be for spending quality time together - movies, naps, food,drinks, lots of talking and some no-talking in between. But I know this time it was different. We would have done the same things but I know he wouldn't be doing them with feelings of love.
And after we checked out of the hotel and left for our respective homes, he'd have ghosted on me again. So no thanks.
According to him I am the sinner - hungout with a guy we had a huge fight about, ignored his "let's go to that hotel tomorrow one last time" text. So he ignored when I texted him "lets go to college to collect our document tomorrow" text.
And you're right about him being guilt free regret free for now but even I feel he'll realize what he had, what he lost and what he could've had. I hope this happens.
thank god you're finally done with him
always told you to drop this guy but you got so many excuses for him
best of luck and take care
I had excuses for him because I always thought that maybe he'd change. Just maybe.
I thought that maybe he'd learn to be a respectful person.
I thought maybe he'd treat me better.
But no.He's is a toxic hypocritical male chauvinist who thinks that a woman's job is just too look pretty, have big boobs,big butt, shouldn't cheat,shouldn't have male friends, shouldn't give attention to any guy and shouldn't create a scene when he gives inappropriate attention to a girl and follows dozens of naked models and random girls on instagram and shouldnt confront him if his female friend sends him a flirty/sexual joke. A woman should be earning well too because he wants a luxurious life which won't be possible alone by his earning but she shouldn't even look at a male co-worker and she shouldn't get mad if he character assassinates her by accusing her of cheating.
I thought that maybe he'd learn to be a respectful person.
I thought maybe he'd treat me better.
But no.He's is a toxic hypocritical male chauvinist who thinks that a woman's job is just too look pretty, have big boobs,big butt, shouldn't cheat,shouldn't have male friends, shouldn't give attention to any guy and shouldn't create a scene when he gives inappropriate attention to a girl and follows dozens of naked models and random girls on instagram and shouldnt confront him if his female friend sends him a flirty/sexual joke. A woman should be earning well too because he wants a luxurious life which won't be possible alone by his earning but she shouldn't even look at a male co-worker and she shouldn't get mad if he character assassinates her by accusing her of cheating.
He makes time for his female friend, but there's no time left for you. I have been through that time and again with Virgo male. It hurts, and it makes you feel like awhorea side chick for when the guy is bored. Like they don't have the balls to stand up and end it, because it's better to string you along for their benefit.
The best I can give is to dig for the truth by talking directly to the girl he pays more attention to than his girlfriend.
Or, distance yourself. Forget he exists and live your life. He might come crawling back on all fours, or he might not.
The best I can give is to dig for the truth by talking directly to the girl he pays more attention to than his girlfriend.
Or, distance yourself. Forget he exists and live your life. He might come crawling back on all fours, or he might not.
Posted by gia
I had excuses for him because I always thought that maybe he'd change. Just maybe.
I thought that maybe he'd learn to be a respectful person.
I thought maybe he'd treat me better.
But no.He's is a toxic hypocritical male chauvinist who thinks that a woman's job is just too look pretty, have big boobs,big butt, shouldn't cheat,shouldn't have male friends, shouldn't give attention to any guy and shouldn't create a scene when he gives inappropriate attention to a girl and follows dozens of naked models and random girls on instagram and shouldnt confront him if his female friend sends him a flirty/sexual joke. A woman should be earning well too because he wants a luxurious life which won't be possible alone by his earning but she shouldn't even look at a male co-worker and she shouldn't get mad if he character assassinates her by accusing her of cheating.
No I think you misunderstood his signals.
All of that bullshit is virgo code for " you haven't done anything wrong but I'm bored with u now...I wanna break up but I also dont wanna be the bad guy, so plz have self respect and show yourself out😊....still no??...fine I'll give u more reason"
Poor thing😥 you stuck around until he had no respect for you at all....hence him starting in with the degrading remarks.
Sorry girlie
#virgobullshit
Posted by justagirl
He is 22 and a legal adult she is 15 a minor. This is not cool on any level. this guy is trash,
Wait what??....I thought it was 21 and 22
a long term relationship image while doing masters and phd away for YEARS, in their 20s
its so delusional even for a Pisces
or not 🙂
its so delusional even for a Pisces
or not 🙂
Posted by EarthyPosted by justagirl
He is 22 and a legal adult she is 15 a minor. This is not cool on any level. this guy is trash,
Wait what??....I thought it was 21 and 22click to expand
The other girl, not the OP.
I want to break up but he didn’t LET me—
So you didn’t want to break up!
And he knows you are a pushover. He knows that he can tell you shut like ‘after november’ and you just bluffing and sucking up to him which is OK but don’t post crying than...just wait until November. He will come up with new bullshit you’ll be posting about...I am sure!
So you didn’t want to break up!
And he knows you are a pushover. He knows that he can tell you shut like ‘after november’ and you just bluffing and sucking up to him which is OK but don’t post crying than...just wait until November. He will come up with new bullshit you’ll be posting about...I am sure!
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