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Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
"Virgo Girls are the Hardest to get out of all Zodiac Signs"

Read this line many times and many people say this too.

Do you agree ?

If yes, then what do you think are the reasons behind?



Virgo is possibly the hardest to get period, gender aside. Dating and relationships don't appear to be the ultimate top priority, whether it be Virgo men or women. I admire this quality about the sign.
In contrast with Capricorn and Taurus, Virgos are not typically as prone to jump into relationships as the former, nor do they seem as likely to obsess over a significant other when seeing somebody.
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I have a Virgo sister and relationships are definitely a top priority for her and yes, she does obsess. She was with a Scorpio, who she obsessed over, for about 4-5 years, and not long after their break-up she started talking to a Taurus, who she's really been obsessing over, but she's only obsessing because she can't pin him down how she'd like.

I'm the Cappy big sister, and although I've never actually had a real relationship, I know for a fact I'd move on and jump into another one a lot quicker than she would. I'd give her that! A ton of guys like my sister and she's VERY selective with who she gives even an ounce of her time to, and her relationships are long-term, but they are a priority to her and she does like being in them.

So I'd agree, that she is hard to get. I've noticed that Cap males seem to chase after her the longest too. We just talked about that yesterday lol.
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I agree with alot of the comments on here. It's not intentional, rather second nature and common sense. That if a person doesn't tick all the boxes, you are not
going to select them. I got called all sorts of names at school for this 'selectiveness'. Lesbian, frigid etc. Lol

I have learned to loosen up as I get older, and appreciate the fun you can have with a person who you might consider less compatible, and as long as your open and honest with each other, there is alot to learn from these relationships too.

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Also my 'selectiveness' has taught me one thing....

People from other signs tend who 'get' this part of us. I find they are more secure in themselves, and do not take it personally. Therefore you never hear the words 'Virgo girls are hard' or 'frigid' from their mouths. I always have good relationships with them.

Anyone that has ever called me difficult and hard to get is usually a game player. I usually find this out so if I am
Stupid enough to give it a go.
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Posted by virgrrrrrrrr
I agree with alot of the comments on here. It's not intentional, rather second nature and common sense. That if a person doesn't tick all the boxes, you are not
going to select them. I got called all sorts of names at school for this 'selectiveness'. Lesbian, frigid etc. Lol

I have learned to loosen up as I get older, and appreciate the fun you can have with a person who you might consider less compatible, and as long as your open and honest with each other, there is alot to learn from these relationships too.



...I agree with 99.9% of everything you said, Virgorrrr except the frigid part lol (never been cold that nor hope to). however, i've been called 'snob' repeteadly by not only guys, jokingly, but girls...this is before they met me though, once they though, they think i'm a sweetheart (because maybe i am, hello!) oh yeah and also a hot robot. ironically, guys in this room and even other rooms here keep on mentioning how we do have processors...haha...so i guess they can see that even miles away? *Hello, World* 😉

But yes, it's okay to have some light fun with non-perfect matches, as long as you don't lose yourself in the process, waste your precious time, or fail in honesty...because who likes drama? I don't have much time for that, I don't like soap operas. However, I met some other Virgo woman who can be a bit unsure about how to direct their emotions...it might have to do with their planets and the way they grew up though. Also, I think you just get better at evaluating things over time...unless you are outside of your normal context, which for me happens once in a blue moon and even then, I know how far is far enough.

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Posted by highlander
I am interested in you guessed a virgo chick, it's the very beginning stages of meeting her, what can I do to impress her, and I guess "build the virgo trust".



Hi there. 🙂

Well, first of all, some few questions:

1. Is she the outgoing or shy Virgo type?
2. Is she in her 20s or 30s?
3. How long have you known her?

I ask this because those answers would give me a better idea about her personanlity. Virgo girls, as any other woman, come in all sized and types for what I notice. And something I found to be a big difference is the extroverted ones versus the more introverted type...I've seen similar differences in Aquas. I personally get along better with Aquas who are the outgoin type for example and same for Virgo, but I can defenitely respect and connect in some level with the more introverted types too. It just depends on many factors.

However, as far as some basic common things I have observed in Virgo woman, including myself... If the Virgo lady you are after seems accomplished or has things going on...and you are a guy with no vision, passions, interest in knowledge, things to do, or care for others....or if you are superficial, vulgar, very simplistic in your mind (you eat, sleep, and play games with friends and that is what life consists of), and have no content within because you don't find it as necessary or don't care for as much since outside stuff has taken you far this long and/or don't see the need for substance within as much...then forget about it. Even if you look like Brad Pitt, it ain't happening. The crush might last for a bit, if you are extremely charming or good looking (I'm just being very honest here), but when reality sinks in...we will need a deeper connection. Some Virgo women in the past didn't have the freedom woman in general have now to show their true nature, but now that they do (given women equal rights and such) it is becoming more real to be aware of such needs for a sustainable connection.

So, what to do to impress her? Basically, make sure you are the type of person that considers some of the extractable qualities from the previous paragraph I wrote, but make sure those are things that you like and/or that make up who you are as well...since relationships do show true colors eventually and it is important that you are happy as well, since we are all so uniquely made and need different things you
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(Continuation...)

...since we are all so uniquely made and need different things you know? And that's okay. Nothing bad about that.

One extra tip: dressing nice, natural wittyness, good conversations, creativity,genuine smiles, and nice cologne are a +1. 🙂

MissV
p.s.2: Some of the eloquence and creativity you have shown here in the few words you used at the beginning might show some hidden potential. 😉
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Posted by highlander
@missv I appreciate you taking the time to answer my question/destiny 🙂,

she is in her mid 20s, extremely outgoing especially in classy events/ parties with friends. known her one month.
and thanks for the tips I compliment most if not all of it, will update on the cologne though.



Hi!

Yes, I figured her age range by the way you talked about her.

And if you do actually embrace some of the things I listed, that's great.

I asked about her personality because I have met different type of Virgo girls and even though all of them (including me) do analyze and move slowly (except under certain rare circumstances lol) the way our personalities interact with others can be a bit different.

Then, there is also the whole thing about other planets and environment that influence things, so even though we all share common traits, we react to things a bit differently, while perhaps expecting similar things... Also, it's important to know that we realize more about us - what we need and who we are - as we grow in understanding and maturity I think. That is also a factor that influences our perceptions about relationships at different times.

I hope you get the chance to go in some dates with this new lady, if you haven't already, and that you get the chance to show her...little by little...all the unique qualities you probably do posses. 🙂

Take care and be in touch whenever is needed, Highlander!

MissV
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p.s. In my experience and observation, although physical attraction it is important at the beginning, most Virgo women I know end up dating long term or wanting to settle down with men who display certain unique traits. For example, who did the following women choose to date long-term or could have been willing to settle down with (all of them Virgo women)?:

- Beyonce
- Salma Hakey
- Sofia Loren
- Pink
- Cameron Diaz

These are all beautiful and powerful women, however, the man they chose wasn't the perfect looking-model or the beefy buff guy that would follow them around. I'm pretty sure they could have dated those types, but who did they choose instead? And not that I care that much about famous people's liveS, but just to bring up some examples that we could all oberve and know of...

They chose to date long-term or settle down with guys (for whatever time, as there are other side factors that come eventually) that had certain internal qualities that were attractive enought to take a step forward..all these men were all driven, confident, leaders, interesting, smart, and passionate about something...basically had something to bring to the relationship.

No matter how much I might like or not the men they choose, I have to admit that I saw those common qualities in them...that after the 'honeymoon' period seemd to make a more lasting effect in these women vs. what other guys/people could have brought. Those are just my 2 cents in relation to this subject.

MissV
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Cancer man here. In a similar situation as highlander. There's a virgo girl I've sat next to this entire semester. From my perspective I believe we've had a lot of chemistry but we're still getting to know eachother. I don't know what it is about this girl but from the moment I met her she's just been so real and delightful, and everything just seemed to flow so naturally.

We've become friends over the semester. I asked her to a show in the city recently and she was very responsive. She didn't even hesitate & she said she was really excited. Anyways, I had a great day planned out, and she absolutely had a great time because she told me so.

From the moment I picked her up we literally talked non-stop until I dropped her off. I don't remember feeling so at ease with any girl on a first date ever. It was just so natural. She said she liked how reserved I was, how great I was to talk to, and that she thought I was really cool. She kept me til 5 am in the morning just talking and said we absolutely had to hang out again.

But she ended up giving me a high-5 and a hug at the end of the night. I didn't want to be friend zoned so I went in for a kiss and she turned away and said she couldn't. I was so butthurt being rejected by her and she could see it all over my face. As I drove home she texted me and said that she was so sorry and that she didn't know that I liked her because she said she wanted to hang out because she thought I was really cool. I apologized for doing what I did and I told her not to worry about it.

Anyways, as a cancer I sort of crawled back into my shell because I felt rejected. Since then, her and I still talked about that night and she said she really wants to be friends and that maybe she may have feelings for me after some time. I expressed to her I'm not going to shut her out because I really appreciate the person she is so there's no way I can deny a friendship with her. I absolutely adore this girl.

So the semester is coming to an end. We don't have plans to hang out again yet. Did I mess everything up? She's still very friendly at school to me, always waiving hi and trying to catch my attention. I really don't know how to proceed at this point. I really like her. I thought she liked me too otherwise I never would have asked her out.

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It depends. I have a close friend (female),Sag Rising, VIrgo Sun,Sag Mars, Libra Moon, VIrgo Venus. She is not necessarily the hardest to get but maybe not so easy to keep lol. She constantly meets new people and guys usually go gaga over her (she's attractive), maybe it's the jolly Sag Rising. I've always perceived her as a very strong individual who has more balls than most men, very outspoken, yet caring (even though a bit shallow or lets say impatient due to Sag and Libra, she would deny it though because she prides herself in being a solid rock and helper) but she has had so many relationships and even more affairs since I've met her in 2004. I don't see her a few months, we meet to update each other and I can't follow her stories because half of the ppl she talks about I don't know their names because she has just met them. I don't know where she gets the energy and even interest to interact with new ppl all the friggen time. I'm starting to suspect that it's all the SAg and Libra. Her connections don't go too deep that's why it's always "on to the next". If I were in her shoes all the stuff would affect me much deeper getting with someone new would be the last thing on my mind. THe "independent woman" thing is not necessarily an act with her but it's like she cant be alone and she needs male attention. SOme of the relationsships havent been too healthy IMO but she always comes across like " i got everything under control" even with ppl close to her. To me her actions speak louder than words, and they say that she doesn't like herself as much as one would think. I thought about talking to her about it some day and I will, have to find the right time and some wine wouldn't hurt too lol. She doesn't like for ppl to get into her head and too mushy, it's always other ppl with the issues, never her.
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You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.



This is simply not true, Virgos are just smart enough to know how not to get played which to some may LOOK like "they are not surrendering themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do" because much like their mercurial sisters (Gemini) they can smell bs and game a mile away and don't allow their emotions to sway their actions like most water and earth signs. They TIPTOE away...
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.



This is simply not true, Virgos are just smart enough to know how not to get played which to some may LOOK like "they are not surrendering themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do" because much like their mercurial sisters (Gemini) they can smell bs and game a mile away and don't allow their emotions to sway their actions like most water and earth signs. They TIPTOE away...
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I agree with CocoKat here and disagree with Shaka! Virgos are super-devoted once they do commit to you but yeah guess you can't make them. I'm a Cap but I have Virgo in Mars and Moon so I can relate.
Virgo shys away from unhealthy relships cause they know what it will "cost" them, their peace of mind and emotional stability which is easily affected anyways. They do get into messy situations though, cause on the other hand they crave intense feeling. BUT they are the ones to learn from their mistakes and are not the ones to do the same shit over and over again and expect a different outcome lol.
That's when they start using their head and are critical with themselves to.

All the while they are actually "waiting" for someone who can "unleash" that intense side in them but also makes them feel safe enough to actually take that "risk".

With a Virgo woman I think a man needs to have 3 things: 1. Deep emotions/empathy

2.intelligence 3. and most of all BALLS lol, secure in himself, without being a braggart (never cross that line between the two)

And once the Virgo woman does "surrender" to a man, he will feel like a million bucks since it takes a special man to acutally get her there. *Ding ding ding* JACKPOT lol.
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Posted by CocoKat
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.



This is simply not true, Virgos are just smart enough to know how not to get played which to some may LOOK like "they are not surrendering themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do" because much like their mercurial sisters (Gemini) they can smell bs and game a mile away and don't allow their emotions to sway their actions like most water and earth signs. They TIPTOE away...



I agree with CocoKat here and disagree with Shaka! Virgos are super-devoted once they do commit to you but yeah guess you can't make them. I'm a Cap but I have Virgo in Mars and Moon so I can relate.
Virgo shys away from unhealthy relships cause they know what it will "cost" them, their peace of mind and emotional stability which is easily affected anyways. They do get into messy situations though, cause on the other hand they crave intense feeling. BUT they are the ones to learn from their mistakes and are not the ones to do the same shit over and over again and expect a different outcome lol.
That's when they start using their head and are critical with themselves to.

All the while they are actually "waiting" for someone who can "unleash" that intense side in them but also makes them feel safe enough to actually take that "risk".

With a Virgo woman I think a man needs to have 3 things: 1. Deep emotions/empathy

2.intelligence 3. and most of all BALLS lol, secure in himself, without being a braggart (never cross that line between the two)

And once the Virgo woman does "surrender" to a man, he will feel like a million bucks since it takes a special man to acutally get her there. *Ding ding ding* JACKPOT lol.
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^^^^ soooo true. which is why i've mostly dated water men (scorpios). they are so intense with their emotions mainly because they have the balls to do so. their brashness is at once crude and intriguing to me.. actually i quite look and act quite uptight if i don't know you but with the right partner, i am entirely and utterly passionate,