Virgo guy gave me a cute nickname...

Posted by CapricornWomen
Now I'd like to know why...? I love it (my favourite actually) but why...? The nickname he gave me is Tiger... I can only figure out why due to it fitting my personality quite well ALTHOUGH I would like more info behind it...? Has anyone else been given a nickname...? Has anyone asked why they were given one...?

maybe your real name is more difficult to say? haha

he likes tigers?

are you very stripy?

it might or might not be worth finding out his history of giving nick names to people

partners always give nicknames, my ex used to call me baobao which means baby because we used to pretend we are newborns to each other making sounds like we're seeing something for the first time and drooling haha

Posted by CapricornWomen
Lol! Stripy... Noooooooo 😆 I don't know what he'd call his ex/s I haven't asked bout them and I don't think I am going to either. My last two virgos gave me NN too. First one was babe and the second one was angel... Now this third calls me tiger!? And my name is very simple to pronounce and spell. I haven't given him one yet but I do tend to call him handsome quite alot... But he called me tiger from day dot!

are you born in the year of the tiger?

maybe you can ask him to change it to something cuter like tigger

Posted by CapricornWomen
No I like it :o) yeah I am born yr of the tiger but I also loooooooove tigers just he didn't know any of that so to call me tiger was pretty clever... or calculated lol! Tigger is too kiddy for me tehe!

there's your answer

Posted by CapricornWomen
So maybe it's just an affectionate thing? But he has also gone MIA for the last week and we talked nearly every night. He has had the flu so I msgd him last night seeing if he was over it yet and he said "hello my tiger, why yes I am thank you for asking x" and that was it will probably be another week till I hear from him again.

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a week? he must be very busy. surely he has to eat - that could be time you can spend together

Posted by CapricornWomen
Hmmm still need more info lol!

Lol! Yes I know I dislike when HE does that, although he does have a life outside of me too just would be nice if he'd say hello atleast like I did.

i agree, go to beat him, tiger

he should be trying to integrate you into his life. it saves a lot of time if can do more than one thing at a time

what info would you like?

This is what he does, he is always calling me tiger :o) I love it! My favourite nickname yet!

Posted by CapricornWomen
Lol thanks :o)

Well there's more to the story but simply put we are at the stage of him being distant once again. I'm not a desperado just when he is back next I am going to latch onto him and not let go! Taking the leap of faith and going head first! I want him to know that he doesn't control me so this distancing thing has to stop! We have gone through alot already and I will not tolerate anymore childish behavior either he wants me or doesn't. We can still be friends but I am not up for second place. I want first!

the circumstances are really vital when socially engineering someone for information

it might be best if you clarify the situation to make the information more accurate as possible

with so much history together i think it should be good.

why does he go walkabout like that? whats his profession?

have you studied engineering? try it and tell me if you sometimes forget things or not haha

Are you asking why that particular name .. or why a name at all?

In the OP, it seemed that you were really concerned about it ... and I find it concerning that you would question affection from a person you really like.

Posted by CapricornWomen

... he managed to find the time to call/text me before so why all of a sudden stop?

Virgos are funny creatures, in that they compartmentalize feelings, rather than feeling them ... and of course they are human, so naturally feelings will play a part in their lives.

When this happens ... when they meet someone and feelings take over them, and their natural selves of living as an emotional being are present ... you find yourself as a person on the opposing side, a Virgo of much charm, fondness and genuine kindness.

Then suddenly it hits them like a frieght train ... they realize that they've been showing their vulnerabilities ~ emotions ~ and they put up an immediate wall.

Now they have to go inside of themselves to do a soul search, to see how you handled how they felt. It's different with them. It's not like they are feeling you in real time. He was rolling along with you, unawares that he was expressing emotionally .... and that's a good thing.

Only when the Virgo finds himself off-guard emotionally .... it means YOU are something valuable enough to them that they felt emotional freedom around you.

don't fret ... this is a good thing ... it's a good thing in that he's feeling you, however, when happens after he emerges from his cave is going to depend on how you handled his feelings.

And then expect a lot of questions. When you do hear from him again, you are likely going to get bombarded with questions ..... and this is because he is trying to see if you can emotionally lead him, because being a Virgo, he will look to you to lead life for him ~ emotionally speaking.

Posted by CapricornWomen
So maybe it's just an affectionate thing? But he has also gone MIA for the last week and we talked nearly every night. He has had the flu so I msgd him last night seeing if he was over it yet and he said "hello my tiger, why yes I am thank you for asking x" and that was it will probably be another week till I hear from him again.

How long have the two of you been seeing each other?

You'll hear from him again, don't worry ....

i get called tiger all the time....its quite common....my understanding is that your a tiger in bed....or u let your inner tiger out of the cage when ur shagging

or it could be that ur cute and tiger is fitting cos its the opposite in contrast so it makes you seem more cuter

who is rat?

i think i know why i cannot see this person