Virgo & libra relationship

I had baby with a Virgo guy and he hasn't seen his child in months she's one now he's mad we broke up and I wouldn't play the on and off games with him anymore So we broke up And I was over the fighting with him about the same things over and over So I put him out ,long story short we saw each other one last time and we slept together he told me he was still in loved me and he couldn't wait til I got back on my stuff so people would be like "oh that's your baby mama" smh dumb shit. We talked and I told him that I didn't wanna get back together I just wanted us to take care of his child . And I wanted him to leave . He was lost on why I switched up because we just had sex. We had been fighting a lot while I was pregnant and even after the baby and I just couldn't face how things went so I wanted him to do him but take care of his child . I was hurt he had hurt me so I wanted revenge I posted a ring on my finger and said " should I say yes" mind you we were friends on Facebook but he had been out the house for a few weeks now . He ignored the picture but texted could he come over . I said no I had company he came over acting crazy and saying I had a man around his kid why did I do that ugh he went nuts but I had no men company only my mom smh she was already tired of us fighting and she hated him so that made it worse . Long story short if I called him to get her something or if she needed something he came once and then he would get mad if i called it's like he was pissed but he swore he didn't care about the ring situation he told me one day when I called him that he had someone he was talking to and to stop calling him she Deserves nothing but the best and stop calling him after a certain time . Then he calls his self saying all this stuff about how he isn't in love with me and he loves her oh and he calls his self disowning his child and told me he wasn't going to be in her life until I got over him But I was over him when I put him out and said it was over. I changed my number after he didn't pay the bill to the phone I was calling he wouldn't give me the new number. So I changed mine . We don't talk he deleted his Facebook page due to getting in trouble with the law but he hasn't seen his child and he is saying he isn't sure if she is his but won't take a test to prove it. Y'all what games is he playing and is this like a Virgo to do this to his Kid . He has a son and he takes care of him. I'm so lost

Definitely not like a Virgo, we are usually just as passionate of lovers as you Libras are. That guy just sounds like an asshole that wants you back and is doing anything to manipulate you to take him back.

My ex is a Libra and I finally gave up chasing her after she gave me breadcrumbs of hope for months.

You should not play any games like post pics to make him jealous, you should just be straight forward and not entertain his BS. Just tell him it's not about you two, it's about his daughter and he needs to be there.

That is really surprising to me because I don't know any of my Virgo friends with kids that acted that way, usually we are the ones acting kind and civil

U self playing games with him. No one like playing games.

Well it's been a lot of drama and just bs between us , so when I finally was at my breaking point I started doing things to show him how it felt to be done to me . To Virgo's y'all may see it as games I just see it as don't do to others what you don't want done to you . At the time I thought is was a good idea to fight back . But now I feel like it was a horrible idea. And I'm paying for it now. But our relationship he has always been the one playing games so it was never me I really actually loved him but he just couldn't stop lying ,playing manipulating games .Telling his mother lies and just plain messing up in life. He would flirt with girls stay out all night blow his money. But then he would expect me to just be okay with his selfish ways and I wasn't . So it was a guy that he knew was better then him and wanted more for me and treated me right , I would bring him up when I was mad at the Virgo . So when we broke up I posted the ring he thought it was him . But he had a women pick him up from our house he wouldn't stop cheating so how was I playing a game ?he was with her when our daughter was born but he claims he was working , I'm sure he thought I was going to just take him back and forgive all the things he did but I didn't I changed my number since he wouldn't give me his new number I felt like that was the best option now I'm lost on why he hasn't came around to see his daughter ?