savagetai
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Virgo man and Capricorn woman?
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We didn't exchange my numbers but I had his email. So I was slightly confused as to what would happen but I was on a high. I couldn't stop smiling. Apparently at the airport with his friends, a friend of mine who was there too said that mr. virgo was high fiving people and telling people how he was going to start living his life from now on! Lol
The next day I decided to email him.. to say I had a good time dancing and that when he needed a dancing partner, don't hesitate to give me a shout.
He emailed me the next day, asking me if he could pick me up from the airport and I was THRILLED! I was excited.. and I was scared. Wasn't sure if I would still have the same feelings if I saw him!
The next two weeks while we travelled, we emailed each other.. its funny because hes so reserved in his emails.. and just very proper. But when we talk, it's not like that. Anyways, so he came to pick me up.. and the moment we saw each other, he picked me up and kissed me and said that he'd been waiting two weeks to do that. It was awesome!
We spent the next 20 hours together after the airport.. and hes absolutely lovely. We were everywhere hand in hand.. holding hands at the dinner and breakfast table.. and it was just amazing. We talked about relationships and he told me that hes looking for a long term thing. He wants his next relationship to be ?it?. For me.. if it was the right person, I don't mind settling down. So he was honest to tell me that he is not intimate with anyone because right now, I'm the special one. He also told me that because he's looking to settle, if someone doesn't feel right or he thinks won't work, he's not afraid to cut and let them go. But he wants to get to know me better and see how it goes.. and I fully agree. I feel so intensely good about him but I don't know everything about him yet.
Since then, we've had a second date after which also went very well. Took me out for dinner and went walking around the city together. He keeps on kissing me on my forehead, holding me.. telling me how amazing I am. He's a pretty busy man with a busy life and so am i.. but he does keep in touch with me in between. We don't know what it is.. we can sit and look at each other and just be so happy, contented and excited at the same time.
I've never dated a virgo and it feels so good.. but I do see how he's quite reserved and yet, not reserved when he's physically with me! He doesn't text me everyday or call me everyday.. but he does make sure we keep
The next day I decided to email him.. to say I had a good time dancing and that when he needed a dancing partner, don't hesitate to give me a shout.
He emailed me the next day, asking me if he could pick me up from the airport and I was THRILLED! I was excited.. and I was scared. Wasn't sure if I would still have the same feelings if I saw him!
The next two weeks while we travelled, we emailed each other.. its funny because hes so reserved in his emails.. and just very proper. But when we talk, it's not like that. Anyways, so he came to pick me up.. and the moment we saw each other, he picked me up and kissed me and said that he'd been waiting two weeks to do that. It was awesome!
We spent the next 20 hours together after the airport.. and hes absolutely lovely. We were everywhere hand in hand.. holding hands at the dinner and breakfast table.. and it was just amazing. We talked about relationships and he told me that hes looking for a long term thing. He wants his next relationship to be ?it?. For me.. if it was the right person, I don't mind settling down. So he was honest to tell me that he is not intimate with anyone because right now, I'm the special one. He also told me that because he's looking to settle, if someone doesn't feel right or he thinks won't work, he's not afraid to cut and let them go. But he wants to get to know me better and see how it goes.. and I fully agree. I feel so intensely good about him but I don't know everything about him yet.
Since then, we've had a second date after which also went very well. Took me out for dinner and went walking around the city together. He keeps on kissing me on my forehead, holding me.. telling me how amazing I am. He's a pretty busy man with a busy life and so am i.. but he does keep in touch with me in between. We don't know what it is.. we can sit and look at each other and just be so happy, contented and excited at the same time.
I've never dated a virgo and it feels so good.. but I do see how he's quite reserved and yet, not reserved when he's physically with me! He doesn't text me everyday or call me everyday.. but he does make sure we keep
in touch. We're supposed to go out for dinner and dance again but unfortunately, this week, we're both too busy to find a night. I'm so anxious because I want that third date! Of course.. I play my cool.. and wait patiently. I guess I'm so used to fire signs always chasing and always on my tail.. but this guy.. he plays it cool? and calm.
I know we're still only getting know each other and not anything official... but is there potential you thinkβ
My moon is a pisces and his is cancer. Sigh.. I'm so anxious.. I really hope this works out with us because I haven't felt like this.. in ages! Any inputs everyone? ο
I know we're still only getting know each other and not anything official... but is there potential you thinkβ
My moon is a pisces and his is cancer. Sigh.. I'm so anxious.. I really hope this works out with us because I haven't felt like this.. in ages! Any inputs everyone? ο
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Hi P-Angel..
you seem to know alot about the virgos.. any advice i should heed?
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you seem to know alot about the virgos.. any advice i should heed?
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"We talked about relationships and he told me that hes looking for a long term thing. He wants his next relationship to be ?it?."
"I'm the special one. He also told me that because he's looking to settle, if someone doesn't feel right or he thinks won't work, he's not afraid to cut and let them go. But he wants to get to know me better and see how it goes.."
You are very fortunate, to begin with ... for pulling this kind of expression out of a Virgo is like winning a battle with a fire-breathing dragon .. that is to say, in the beginning phases of courtship. These men are extremely Cautious (capital C) with what their words might convey, and impressions left on a woman, because though they may appear as emotional robots, make no mistake, they have full comprehension of how fragile a woman's feelings are.
So, by him telling you this, this early ... he's completely smitten.
Good job, sava .... you've conquered the mysterious Virgo man's heart that many attempt, but very few succeed. π I'm nearly in tears here, for it's evident to me that your sincerity is true, and this is a rare find in ladies, who are pretty good at game-playing and don't mind playing if it suits them with little regard to the Virgo man's naivity.
However, I must add a warning ... once a Virgo man has been captured, he pulls away for evaluation, and when he does this, he usually goes completely missing in action for quite a while. This is his nature, since he's extremely Cautious about emotional investment on both his part and yours.
The good news is .... a Virgo man ONLY goes missing in action when his heart it taken. If a Virgo man does NOT feel love on some level, then he won't go missing. So, when he does this (and I won't even say if he does this because he will) .. so when he does this, you can carry to the bank that he's feeling you, for real.
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"I'm the special one. He also told me that because he's looking to settle, if someone doesn't feel right or he thinks won't work, he's not afraid to cut and let them go. But he wants to get to know me better and see how it goes.."
You are very fortunate, to begin with ... for pulling this kind of expression out of a Virgo is like winning a battle with a fire-breathing dragon .. that is to say, in the beginning phases of courtship. These men are extremely Cautious (capital C) with what their words might convey, and impressions left on a woman, because though they may appear as emotional robots, make no mistake, they have full comprehension of how fragile a woman's feelings are.
So, by him telling you this, this early ... he's completely smitten.
Good job, sava .... you've conquered the mysterious Virgo man's heart that many attempt, but very few succeed. π I'm nearly in tears here, for it's evident to me that your sincerity is true, and this is a rare find in ladies, who are pretty good at game-playing and don't mind playing if it suits them with little regard to the Virgo man's naivity.
However, I must add a warning ... once a Virgo man has been captured, he pulls away for evaluation, and when he does this, he usually goes completely missing in action for quite a while. This is his nature, since he's extremely Cautious about emotional investment on both his part and yours.
The good news is .... a Virgo man ONLY goes missing in action when his heart it taken. If a Virgo man does NOT feel love on some level, then he won't go missing. So, when he does this (and I won't even say if he does this because he will) .. so when he does this, you can carry to the bank that he's feeling you, for real.
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Thanks everyone for your response!!! π
P-Angel... oh thank you for your insight! Oh you have no idea.. i adore this man. I can fully say, I adore him. When I am with him, I can't stop holding him and just looking at him and kissing him. and he LOVES it. he tells me how much he loves being ravished like that and he does the same to me. we're almost ridiculous. π
You said:
"However, I must add a warning ... once a Virgo man has been captured, he pulls away for evaluation, and when he does this, he usually goes completely missing in action for quite a while. This is his nature, since he's extremely Cautious about emotional investment on both his part and yours.
The good news is .... a Virgo man ONLY goes missing in action when his heart it taken. If a Virgo man does NOT feel love on some level, then he won't go missing. So, when he does this (and I won't even say if he does this because he will) .. so when he does this, you can carry to the bank that he's feeling you, for real."
I find that he IS a little distant from me. He takes a while to get back to me sometimes (but he does make sure he gets back to me) and well, between the first and the second date, we had a week in between and now, he's been busy so it he has said that we will find a good night to get together but no dates been set. I was actually afraid of him being distant and flaking me and not interested. I didn't want to appear to clingy so I do give him space but I do give the occasional hello texts which he replies to... EVENTUALLY! I'm just hoping to see him again.. at least.. a third time.. I tend to be a little cynical (cappy in me).
before me, he was talking to other women and i'm sure he probably still does.. but since hes not intimate with anyone but me, i know i kinda have the "upperhand". I don't like competition!
will virgos string people along? i don't want to be in one .. i got stringed along by too many sagi's!
P-Angel... oh thank you for your insight! Oh you have no idea.. i adore this man. I can fully say, I adore him. When I am with him, I can't stop holding him and just looking at him and kissing him. and he LOVES it. he tells me how much he loves being ravished like that and he does the same to me. we're almost ridiculous. π
You said:
"However, I must add a warning ... once a Virgo man has been captured, he pulls away for evaluation, and when he does this, he usually goes completely missing in action for quite a while. This is his nature, since he's extremely Cautious about emotional investment on both his part and yours.
The good news is .... a Virgo man ONLY goes missing in action when his heart it taken. If a Virgo man does NOT feel love on some level, then he won't go missing. So, when he does this (and I won't even say if he does this because he will) .. so when he does this, you can carry to the bank that he's feeling you, for real."
I find that he IS a little distant from me. He takes a while to get back to me sometimes (but he does make sure he gets back to me) and well, between the first and the second date, we had a week in between and now, he's been busy so it he has said that we will find a good night to get together but no dates been set. I was actually afraid of him being distant and flaking me and not interested. I didn't want to appear to clingy so I do give him space but I do give the occasional hello texts which he replies to... EVENTUALLY! I'm just hoping to see him again.. at least.. a third time.. I tend to be a little cynical (cappy in me).
before me, he was talking to other women and i'm sure he probably still does.. but since hes not intimate with anyone but me, i know i kinda have the "upperhand". I don't like competition!
will virgos string people along? i don't want to be in one .. i got stringed along by too many sagi's!
also.. do virgos have the tendency to not keep in touch so that you "get the hint"?
savagetai,
Here's a VirGuy analysis of your VirGuy:
1. His Age is a very positive factor. We can lag behind other men in emotional maturity, even though we have all other areas of our lives under control. IMO, 35+ is the best time for us, and with your VG at 38, that's great!
2. He knows what he wants. He wants his next relationship to be ?it?.
3. Y'all have great rapport, and can talk about silly stuff & serious stuff.
will virgos string people along?
Of the 6 VirGuys I know, only 1 is a Player.
do virgos have the tendency to not keep in touch so that you "get the hint"?
Not the ones I know. We're generally considerate. BUT... The Job is usually the #1 priority, so if he's distracted by work, he may not check in with you as often.
If you want Him, sweet Cappy, you gotta get him to see you as Job #1. Once you do that, VirGuy is probably the best dude for you outta the whole Zodiac.
Truth: I've been harsh on Cappies on DXP, but that's because I haven't known that many in the Real World, and one in particular competed with me, and was an absolute hellion to work with. BUT... I've met some really nice ones on this Forum, and my opinion is changing.
Good Luck!!
Truth: I've been harsh on Cappies on DXP, but that's because I haven't known that many in the Real World, and one in particular competed with me, and was an absolute hellion to work with. BUT... I've met some really nice ones on this Forum, and my opinion is changing.
That's right DY π π π See, on the job, cap girls feel the need to one-up and that can give people the wrong impression of us. I'm glad you came to DXP, I would hate for you to have a negative outlook on cappy girls, we are cooooollll π
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Hi savagetai, welcome to DXP π
Its too bad you weren't around (oh goodness, its September already)to monthes ago, we would've had loads in common π
I agree with what P-Angel has stated, they tend to pull-away from those they feel strongly for. Like more then the average 'comfortable-physically attracted' kind of feelings. Recently, I was hit like a ton of bricks when a virgo they admitted to have strong feelings for me disappeared, reappeared, and so on. I think I scare him a bit because I'm so darn restless and he's laid-back.
Yes, he may disappear. They usually stick around when they don't plan on settling down right away. I have a virgo brother who been in an on-again-off-again relationship with a woman for about 15 years (I think she's an aries). She wants him to settle but he always gives an excuse as to why he's not ready. My brother is such an ass, but its her fault too because she will not put down firm paramters.
It sounds like this virgo man is honest and sincere. Make sure to keep things light but be earnest in what you want from him. The you two can get even deeper into each other π
That's right DY π π π See, on the job, cap girls feel the need to one-up and that can give people the wrong impression of us. I'm glad you came to DXP, I would hate for you to have a negative outlook on cappy girls, we are cooooollll π
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Hi savagetai, welcome to DXP π
Its too bad you weren't around (oh goodness, its September already)to monthes ago, we would've had loads in common π
I agree with what P-Angel has stated, they tend to pull-away from those they feel strongly for. Like more then the average 'comfortable-physically attracted' kind of feelings. Recently, I was hit like a ton of bricks when a virgo they admitted to have strong feelings for me disappeared, reappeared, and so on. I think I scare him a bit because I'm so darn restless and he's laid-back.
Yes, he may disappear. They usually stick around when they don't plan on settling down right away. I have a virgo brother who been in an on-again-off-again relationship with a woman for about 15 years (I think she's an aries). She wants him to settle but he always gives an excuse as to why he's not ready. My brother is such an ass, but its her fault too because she will not put down firm paramters.
It sounds like this virgo man is honest and sincere. Make sure to keep things light but be earnest in what you want from him. The you two can get even deeper into each other π
Thanks dyar and cappy sweetie!
It's not to hear some positive feedback about it.. being the odd cappy that we are.. I am having my little depressive bouts. I think it's just because.. I really feel for this one and it's driving me to a stage of anxiousness that I am not used to.
He's setting a pace thats slow.. and not what I'm usually used to. I thought that having such good rapport.. we'd be progressing and wanting to know each other more or spend more time together. But the illusiveness of "yes, we will find a good night to go out together again" is becoming a mere dream in my eyes. π’
We haven't had contact in about 3 days.. and I guess perhaps I want to rush things to see what will happen... because I am pretty impatient. I know you all say that they disappear because they need to think things through and what not.. and i really hope so. Because I sit here wondering if really IS interested.. or am i just living a false hope. wondering if that spark is dying even though.. i still feel it so strongly (actually, even more sustained that things are so slow) but for him that is. in the meantime, I so want to pick up the phone and call.. or text.. but yet.. I don't want to put any sort of pressure or what not.
I just don't want to screw things up basically.. argh.
*huddle in corner*
It's not to hear some positive feedback about it.. being the odd cappy that we are.. I am having my little depressive bouts. I think it's just because.. I really feel for this one and it's driving me to a stage of anxiousness that I am not used to.
He's setting a pace thats slow.. and not what I'm usually used to. I thought that having such good rapport.. we'd be progressing and wanting to know each other more or spend more time together. But the illusiveness of "yes, we will find a good night to go out together again" is becoming a mere dream in my eyes. π’
We haven't had contact in about 3 days.. and I guess perhaps I want to rush things to see what will happen... because I am pretty impatient. I know you all say that they disappear because they need to think things through and what not.. and i really hope so. Because I sit here wondering if really IS interested.. or am i just living a false hope. wondering if that spark is dying even though.. i still feel it so strongly (actually, even more sustained that things are so slow) but for him that is. in the meantime, I so want to pick up the phone and call.. or text.. but yet.. I don't want to put any sort of pressure or what not.
I just don't want to screw things up basically.. argh.
*huddle in corner*
another thing..
i wonder if he is meeting other people or who they are.. and hoping that if he does, he'll still remember what WE have..
Dating tends to be stressful...
i wonder if he is meeting other people or who they are.. and hoping that if he does, he'll still remember what WE have..
Dating tends to be stressful...
so.... today i talked to some peeps who kinda know him.. and they say hes always been known as a loner. He likes his space and is always off doing his own thing... also.. he's not a person to be pushed into doing anything. He likes to do it on his own time.
maybe I am heeding too much from others.. but they were like.. "oh.. you didn't see him this weekend?"
I'm a little down about that.. should i text him to say hi in the next one or two days? or should i wait till he makes contact?
*shrugs*
maybe I am heeding too much from others.. but they were like.. "oh.. you didn't see him this weekend?"
I'm a little down about that.. should i text him to say hi in the next one or two days? or should i wait till he makes contact?
*shrugs*
yeah, i should be able to... i just thought that when virgos need space, to give them space and to pull back. I just didn't want to be.. overbearing i guess.
are virgo men intimate creatures? do they take it seriously ?
being a cappy, i know I do!
are virgo men intimate creatures? do they take it seriously ?
being a cappy, i know I do!
I hear you and I'm trying.. I really am.
Sigh... he's just kinda disappeared on me. It's been.. about 4 days. I'm getting frustrated. I would call or text.. but if I get no reply, i'll be even more frustrated.
I'll see him this weekend anyways because we are racing in the same competition. I might not initiate contact till then..
i just hope he doesn't... flake/forget me. π’
Sigh... he's just kinda disappeared on me. It's been.. about 4 days. I'm getting frustrated. I would call or text.. but if I get no reply, i'll be even more frustrated.
I'll see him this weekend anyways because we are racing in the same competition. I might not initiate contact till then..
i just hope he doesn't... flake/forget me. π’
*stares at phone*
it's been 5 days now.. no phone call or text.
Is it game over already? π’ π’
it's been 5 days now.. no phone call or text.
Is it game over already? π’ π’
Don't freak out π I know, trust me, I know. Do not freak out -- keep yourself busy until you hear from him again. Being a virgo, when you do hear from him again, I would inform him (in the most neutral way possible) that you need communication -- most cappy women really, really, really need communication. Keep it light-hearted but be firm too, so he understands this. If he walks away after that simple request then he was an ass from the start.
Plan and simple π
Plan and simple π
savage: are virgo men intimate creatures? do they take it seriously ?
We take EVERYTHING seriously; and, the more we care, the more serious we get.
it's been 5 days now.. no phone call or text.
TEXT HIM!!
He could be really busy with work stuff, personal stuff, etc. Y'all aren't engaged, or married, so you're lower on his priority list than you want to be. If you want that to change, you should listen to us DXPers -- I did about 2 years ago, and I got myself hitched to a Scorp...
TEXT HIM!!
He will reply, and will probably thank you for it.
Just keep it casual, but put the ball in his court...
dyar : the question why i asked about the intimacy part is because we have been intimate.. and it was BLOODY awesome. and out of both of our characters. perhaps getting intimate so soon has scared him.. or something..
seeing virguy tomorrow at my racing competition after a week of non contact.
i'm so nervous.
So many things are playing in my head.. does he not like me anymore.. is he ignoring me.. is he flaking me..
Or it might turn out.. that's he just been busy and things are actually fine. :S
i have knots in my tummy.
I just gotta try and hold my head up high..
i'm so nervous.
So many things are playing in my head.. does he not like me anymore.. is he ignoring me.. is he flaking me..
Or it might turn out.. that's he just been busy and things are actually fine. :S
i have knots in my tummy.
I just gotta try and hold my head up high..
savagetai,
You really should have called him or texted him before now.
You really should have called him or texted him before now.
Saw him... being in a competition arena where he's highly regarded as a coach.. we had to keep things rather.. professional. But I saw him, said hi and gave him a hug. talked a bit about whats been going on in our lives.. and then rather than being some crazy chick.. calmly said.. "oh you know.. it's great to see since we haven't talked in a while.." and he replied that he was meaning to call me but he was caught up preparing a training programme as a coach and then he asked me if I was going to his training camp at the end of the month and i said I would. so.. all in all.. it seemed okay.. i see him tomorrow at the day 2 of our racing competition and by the end of it all, then I'll talk to him about.. maybe us hanging out or whatever.
I was observing him from afar today.. and he's such a quiet guy who keeps to himself.. he walks around by himself.. hangs out with teammates only on occassion but in his own time. He seems aloof.. and just takes things as they come?
I want to be with him because I know a different side of him.. but I just hope through all this.. he will tell me if things are or are not working out. I don't want to led on or flaked on. I play the Honest game.. not the hinting game..
I was observing him from afar today.. and he's such a quiet guy who keeps to himself.. he walks around by himself.. hangs out with teammates only on occassion but in his own time. He seems aloof.. and just takes things as they come?
I want to be with him because I know a different side of him.. but I just hope through all this.. he will tell me if things are or are not working out. I don't want to led on or flaked on. I play the Honest game.. not the hinting game..
What decan is he Sav?
how do i calculate that?
his bday is 28 aug 1970.
time unknown..
his bday is 28 aug 1970.
time unknown..
Okay, he's a first decan! Whats your decan? You don't need to calculate anything π
my birthday is jan 11 1981
i think i am third..
Okay, so you are a third decan cap and he is a first decan virgo. Usually signs are broken down into cusps and weeks and its good to know which one you are because it gives more accurate description of each personality, I didn't know this until two years ago, its very interesting. I'm on the Sag/Cap cusp.
I say today went well too, its good that you didn't seem too needy but you let him know that he needs to work on the communication. That was key, now the ball is in his court and he has to put work towards making your relationship more sincere. When virgos are busy what work, nothing else matters to them but that. I know because of experience this past summer with a virgo. Being independent is best if you don't want to chase him away. However, show that you need him in certain aspects in your life, if he feels he can help you, then he will be more available. virgos can't resist helping π
I say today went well too, its good that you didn't seem too needy but you let him know that he needs to work on the communication. That was key, now the ball is in his court and he has to put work towards making your relationship more sincere. When virgos are busy what work, nothing else matters to them but that. I know because of experience this past summer with a virgo. Being independent is best if you don't want to chase him away. However, show that you need him in certain aspects in your life, if he feels he can help you, then he will be more available. virgos can't resist helping π
thanks cappysweetie. I thought there was a compatibility thing to match. lol
i'll see him tomorrow again.. i guess we'll see where it goes from there...
ai... a little nervous.
i'll see him tomorrow again.. i guess we'll see where it goes from there...
ai... a little nervous.
Savagetai,
The outlook for capricorn III and Virgo I is pretty good π You just have to market yourself as who you are and be honest about yourself. The only reason I said don't be needy while the guy is busy with work is because that tends to scare then away (take that from me π) The fact that you two have sleep together makes you want to make things offical right away but one of the key differences between a virgo and a cap is that virgos can be very convincing people in the heat of the moment, its what happens after that "moment" is over ... that's what counts. If their passion in the bedroom doesn't connect with the way he acts outside the bedroom -- meaning, if you only feel wanted when you're underneath him and no other time, then I'm sure you know what that means, you seem like a smart girl.
I (thankfully) didn't sleep with the virgo that I had problems with this summer or else I'd be pissed because he pulled a disappearing act. Just make sure he's being honest and his intentions are good. Those virguys can be tricky, so be careful π
The outlook for capricorn III and Virgo I is pretty good π You just have to market yourself as who you are and be honest about yourself. The only reason I said don't be needy while the guy is busy with work is because that tends to scare then away (take that from me π) The fact that you two have sleep together makes you want to make things offical right away but one of the key differences between a virgo and a cap is that virgos can be very convincing people in the heat of the moment, its what happens after that "moment" is over ... that's what counts. If their passion in the bedroom doesn't connect with the way he acts outside the bedroom -- meaning, if you only feel wanted when you're underneath him and no other time, then I'm sure you know what that means, you seem like a smart girl.
I (thankfully) didn't sleep with the virgo that I had problems with this summer or else I'd be pissed because he pulled a disappearing act. Just make sure he's being honest and his intentions are good. Those virguys can be tricky, so be careful π
HAHAHAHA!!!! You smart-pants π
That's the only virgo that YOU know about π Before him, there was a Virgo/Libra, then there was a Virgo I so π @ Evan
That's the only virgo that YOU know about π Before him, there was a Virgo/Libra, then there was a Virgo I so π @ Evan
Oh yeah, and another Leo/Virgo cusp but that was sometime last year and he was a bit different then the one this summer.
The fact that I'm not with either one of them still keeps my reputation as a "classy" cappy so I have not been Virgoed, no way, no how.
I really should have stuck with cancer lol!!!
I really should have stuck with cancer lol!!!
*cancers*
*cappy confused*
Oh how I hate when things go over my head π’
Pay attention Sav, like I said Virgos are tricky ----->>>>> @ Shaka
You will feel dumb without knowing why lol
Oh how I hate when things go over my head π’
Pay attention Sav, like I said Virgos are tricky ----->>>>> @ Shaka
You will feel dumb without knowing why lol
Subtle, is that a concept π
Hey girlie.. thanks for your advice.. from what he's been saying, he's looking for someone to settle with. But you know, wanting to choose the one to be it because he's up there in age. I told him I want to get to know him better.. and apart from the bedroom business, we've been out! To dinner, breakfast.. walking around... holding hands. Like proper dates you know? I have great respect for him as a person and so do others who know him.
I do hope his intentions are good.. otherwise, I'll be VERY surprised and disappointed. He would turn out to be a man I didn't he would be capable off (ie: being an ass and flaking me or something)
I do hope his intentions are good.. otherwise, I'll be VERY surprised and disappointed. He would turn out to be a man I didn't he would be capable off (ie: being an ass and flaking me or something)
Hey, I didn't see your post!
Okay, hopefully he doesn't flake on you but Virgo men have tendency to do that once things start to get serious. I don't know why, I haven't quite figured that out yet. We are capricorns so we are very stable when we know what we want. However, virgos are very flighty when they know what they want.
I hope things go well for you π Come back with updates, don't wait until he disappears, come back here at the first signs of him acting weird. That way, you won't be in over-your-head emotionally.
Okay, hopefully he doesn't flake on you but Virgo men have tendency to do that once things start to get serious. I don't know why, I haven't quite figured that out yet. We are capricorns so we are very stable when we know what we want. However, virgos are very flighty when they know what they want.
I hope things go well for you π Come back with updates, don't wait until he disappears, come back here at the first signs of him acting weird. That way, you won't be in over-your-head emotionally.
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.... i adore the man.
We were aiming for dinner on sunday but he had buddies in town so he couldn't. Then i saw him at practice on sunday morning (he said he wasn't going so i didn't expect to see him) and he explained how he was going to go and meet his buddies but decided to come to practice and meet them later for dinner. but after practice.. he invited me to breakfast with him and his teammates and then we drove back to his place to hang out before he had to go meet his friends.
I find it SO hard to read the man when we are in a professional setting which leaves me wondering sometimes whether hes still interested. But then when we are out of a professional setting, his first kiss to me is enough for me to melt all over again and feel like.. "Yeah.. this is good!"
He has been busy and has all these goals set for himself so I can see why he's so not there sometimes!
We showered at his place and I had to wear his clothes home. We were laughing at how his clothes looked ridiculously big on me and he had to hold my hand when we went to get coffee so that I wasn't embaressed in public. Too cute.
I'm a go getter.. so I am now not afraid to give an occasional call to say.. or to suggest to have dinner and stuff. because really, i'd rather know now than later if he is or isn't interested.
But i think he is. very much so.. π
Funny enough.. I had a tarot reading with a close friend of mine earlier last week. My friend is pretty accurate with his readings. the cards indicated how engrossed he is in his career.. And When asked how I felt, I basically pulled out cards saying I wanted marriage and i pulled out the sun card with two children in front. We then reshuffled the cards and when we asked how he feels, the first card that was pulled out was the hermit (how crazy is that??) and then the sun card was pulled out for him too. So we both want the same things.
It was a good reading..
i'm riding this wave.. it can be so frustrating.. but ahhhhhh... i adore him.
We were aiming for dinner on sunday but he had buddies in town so he couldn't. Then i saw him at practice on sunday morning (he said he wasn't going so i didn't expect to see him) and he explained how he was going to go and meet his buddies but decided to come to practice and meet them later for dinner. but after practice.. he invited me to breakfast with him and his teammates and then we drove back to his place to hang out before he had to go meet his friends.
I find it SO hard to read the man when we are in a professional setting which leaves me wondering sometimes whether hes still interested. But then when we are out of a professional setting, his first kiss to me is enough for me to melt all over again and feel like.. "Yeah.. this is good!"
He has been busy and has all these goals set for himself so I can see why he's so not there sometimes!
We showered at his place and I had to wear his clothes home. We were laughing at how his clothes looked ridiculously big on me and he had to hold my hand when we went to get coffee so that I wasn't embaressed in public. Too cute.
I'm a go getter.. so I am now not afraid to give an occasional call to say.. or to suggest to have dinner and stuff. because really, i'd rather know now than later if he is or isn't interested.
But i think he is. very much so.. π
Funny enough.. I had a tarot reading with a close friend of mine earlier last week. My friend is pretty accurate with his readings. the cards indicated how engrossed he is in his career.. And When asked how I felt, I basically pulled out cards saying I wanted marriage and i pulled out the sun card with two children in front. We then reshuffled the cards and when we asked how he feels, the first card that was pulled out was the hermit (how crazy is that??) and then the sun card was pulled out for him too. So we both want the same things.
It was a good reading..
i'm riding this wave.. it can be so frustrating.. but ahhhhhh... i adore him.
I'm a go getter.. so I am now not afraid to give an occasional call to say.. or to suggest to have dinner and stuff. because really, i'd rather know now than later if he is or isn't interested.
But i think he is. very much so..
Hi Sav, how are you? π
Well, since you two have been intimate ... I should hope he is interested. You are a capricorn and we usually don't sleep with guys unless were are sure he is into as far as a relationship goes.
So if all that was decided before intimacy, then things should be fine as far as the relationship goes, right?
But i think he is. very much so..
Hi Sav, how are you? π
Well, since you two have been intimate ... I should hope he is interested. You are a capricorn and we usually don't sleep with guys unless were are sure he is into as far as a relationship goes.
So if all that was decided before intimacy, then things should be fine as far as the relationship goes, right?
Thanks sagigoat.. I'm trying to take it easy. I just have a little bit of nervousness, thats all.
Hi cappysweetie! I'm in La La Land right now. Cloud 9 as some call it? π yeah.. he told me what he's looking for.. and we told each other that we're not the types to get intimate with people right off the bat. But our chemistry is so retardedly good that this magnet just pulls us together. I've been with a couple of asses in my past who were just in for the intimacy and stringed me along.
I've learned from those but you never know when one is around the corner right?
That perhaps... is just an insecurity that I have. I trust but yet i'm afraid to trust. Trust exposes me completely.
I'm learning to take the plunge.
Hi cappysweetie! I'm in La La Land right now. Cloud 9 as some call it? π yeah.. he told me what he's looking for.. and we told each other that we're not the types to get intimate with people right off the bat. But our chemistry is so retardedly good that this magnet just pulls us together. I've been with a couple of asses in my past who were just in for the intimacy and stringed me along.
I've learned from those but you never know when one is around the corner right?
That perhaps... is just an insecurity that I have. I trust but yet i'm afraid to trust. Trust exposes me completely.
I'm learning to take the plunge.
Oooohh... i think I'm pms-ing. or something.
I'm having slight worries. I'm stressing.. I'm wondering if he cares.. i'm wondering if hes stringing me along.. i'm wondering if he has true intentions.. I'm wondering if hes stressing like i am..
i'm wondering why i'm such a girl... π’
I'm having slight worries. I'm stressing.. I'm wondering if he cares.. i'm wondering if hes stringing me along.. i'm wondering if he has true intentions.. I'm wondering if hes stressing like i am..
i'm wondering why i'm such a girl... π’
Actually I was emotionally stressful in the noon.
Think less, get busy with something...
Think less, get busy with something...
I've been with a couple of asses in my past who were just in for the intimacy and stringed me along.
I've learned from those but you never know when one is around the corner right?
Oh yeah, I know what you mean -- I attract assholes of all sorts lol. It doesn't matter, if they are an asshole, then they come running to me AHAHAHA!!!
I'm glad you are happy and that you two seem to be very open with each other -- which is rare in many relationships. Keep the communication open, but give him space as well. We caps like space so I'm sure theres no problem in that area π BIG CONGRADS savagetai π π π
I've learned from those but you never know when one is around the corner right?
Oh yeah, I know what you mean -- I attract assholes of all sorts lol. It doesn't matter, if they are an asshole, then they come running to me AHAHAHA!!!
I'm glad you are happy and that you two seem to be very open with each other -- which is rare in many relationships. Keep the communication open, but give him space as well. We caps like space so I'm sure theres no problem in that area π BIG CONGRADS savagetai π π π
i'm wondering why i'm such a girl...
Whoa
Whoa
Whoa!!!
You just said things were okay, why the doubts sav?
Whoa
Whoa
Whoa!!!
You just said things were okay, why the doubts sav?
This is what I'm struggling with cappysweetie.
My gut instinct from the get go has always been good. I adore him and I trust what he says. I just do.
Then when I'm left alone, I have my fears and my thoughts creep up on me. they overshadow what I really feel and I create a different story all together. I'm trying SO hard to listen to that intuitive voice. To hold on to that good feeling and not let the shadow of doubt overcome me. It's hard though. Now I know why cappys go into bouts of depression sometimes. we think WAY too much.
i keep on asking myself.. how did i feel when i met him? It was always a good feeling. I can't read him.. but it's not a feeling of "I can't read him because he's hiding something mean from me".
However, past bad experiences make me THINK otherwise. That when i can't read them, they are hiding from me. I remember that feeling with my ex when i couldn't read him and instantaneously, I was like, he's hiding something. and I was right... he was hiding another girl.
So I know these are fears... and i'm trying to overcome them. Sigh. I need support. π’
My gut instinct from the get go has always been good. I adore him and I trust what he says. I just do.
Then when I'm left alone, I have my fears and my thoughts creep up on me. they overshadow what I really feel and I create a different story all together. I'm trying SO hard to listen to that intuitive voice. To hold on to that good feeling and not let the shadow of doubt overcome me. It's hard though. Now I know why cappys go into bouts of depression sometimes. we think WAY too much.
i keep on asking myself.. how did i feel when i met him? It was always a good feeling. I can't read him.. but it's not a feeling of "I can't read him because he's hiding something mean from me".
However, past bad experiences make me THINK otherwise. That when i can't read them, they are hiding from me. I remember that feeling with my ex when i couldn't read him and instantaneously, I was like, he's hiding something. and I was right... he was hiding another girl.
So I know these are fears... and i'm trying to overcome them. Sigh. I need support. π’
However, past bad experiences make me THINK otherwise. That when i can't read them, they are hiding from me. I remember that feeling with my ex when i couldn't read him and instantaneously, I was like, he's hiding something. and I was right... he was hiding another girl.
OOOHHH!!! Sav,
Please don't make this mistakes. You are thinking about your past experiences and this sort of thing will ruin your relationship. Don't do it, this virgo is another man, not your ex so don't do it.
I understand where you are coming from, trust me. I will add more later
OOOHHH!!! Sav,
Please don't make this mistakes. You are thinking about your past experiences and this sort of thing will ruin your relationship. Don't do it, this virgo is another man, not your ex so don't do it.
I understand where you are coming from, trust me. I will add more later
Looking forward to what you have to say cappysweetie!
but yeah, I know. When I think about what I am doing.. I am comparing him to my past ex's. Except that with past ex's.. when I didn't hear from them or didn't get attention from them, I'd get this overwhelming SAD feeling.. like something was wrong. And all those times I did, was because he was out.. with another woman.
With Mr. Virgo.. I don't get that feeling. But because I've had experiences of that in my past, I just feel uneasy. And I know I'm uneasy because of the past too. But its hard to shake it off. And the last thing I need to do, is to be all up Mr. Virgo's case for things he did not do.
its hard....
but yeah, I know. When I think about what I am doing.. I am comparing him to my past ex's. Except that with past ex's.. when I didn't hear from them or didn't get attention from them, I'd get this overwhelming SAD feeling.. like something was wrong. And all those times I did, was because he was out.. with another woman.
With Mr. Virgo.. I don't get that feeling. But because I've had experiences of that in my past, I just feel uneasy. And I know I'm uneasy because of the past too. But its hard to shake it off. And the last thing I need to do, is to be all up Mr. Virgo's case for things he did not do.
its hard....
HEY BIJOU
thanks for your advice.. I hear you about patience. I'm trying to enjoy the moments and all, its just the stupid fears. The voice of poison is hard to get rid of sometimes.
cappysweetie... you had something to say?
thanks for your advice.. I hear you about patience. I'm trying to enjoy the moments and all, its just the stupid fears. The voice of poison is hard to get rid of sometimes.
cappysweetie... you had something to say?
With Mr. Virgo.. I don't get that feeling. But because I've had experiences of that in my past, I just feel uneasy. And I know I'm uneasy because of the past too. But its hard to shake it off. And the last thing I need to do, is to be all up Mr. Virgo's case for things he did not do.
its hard....
What I was going to say is that its easy to be haunted by past experiences with other mates -- as a result, you risk screwing up other relationships in the process. I'm a fan of taking time to oneself in order to reflect when things don't go well in a relationship. At them moment, thats what I'm doing. Honestly, I have no idea what I want, so its hard to find someone when you don't know what you need from him.
My last attempt with with my seccond Leo/Virgo guy but things didn't seem right with him from the start, but I didn't listen to my inner voice -- I just wanted a boyfriend to love and cuddle so I failed to see him for what he really was. Granted, he wasn't a bad guy, he just had other priorities that didn't involve me and I need more emotional support then he could supply or I should say was ready to supply. And thats fine, but I refuse to push anything -- he was a bit older then me, so he should've had an idea of what he wanted. I should've had to push anything -- therefore, I didn't.
I think you are being too nervous and you need to relax a little. I know what you are thinking ... this is the one good guy thats come into my life and I don't want to lose him. I understand that, but you don't want to lose him because you are thinking too much of the past, right?
I'm not telling you to be something you are not, because if you are emotional then thats the way you are and you should try to be a hardcore ice queen for anyone π Just put all those emotions to good use, don't drive yourself crazy with them.
its hard....
What I was going to say is that its easy to be haunted by past experiences with other mates -- as a result, you risk screwing up other relationships in the process. I'm a fan of taking time to oneself in order to reflect when things don't go well in a relationship. At them moment, thats what I'm doing. Honestly, I have no idea what I want, so its hard to find someone when you don't know what you need from him.
My last attempt with with my seccond Leo/Virgo guy but things didn't seem right with him from the start, but I didn't listen to my inner voice -- I just wanted a boyfriend to love and cuddle so I failed to see him for what he really was. Granted, he wasn't a bad guy, he just had other priorities that didn't involve me and I need more emotional support then he could supply or I should say was ready to supply. And thats fine, but I refuse to push anything -- he was a bit older then me, so he should've had an idea of what he wanted. I should've had to push anything -- therefore, I didn't.
I think you are being too nervous and you need to relax a little. I know what you are thinking ... this is the one good guy thats come into my life and I don't want to lose him. I understand that, but you don't want to lose him because you are thinking too much of the past, right?
I'm not telling you to be something you are not, because if you are emotional then thats the way you are and you should try to be a hardcore ice queen for anyone π Just put all those emotions to good use, don't drive yourself crazy with them.
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