Virgo man and oral sex situation ... (Page 2)

Posted by P-Angel

This isn't about words say, lmao at people commenting on words he said to her, as if that is the problem

Him making relationship status comments being connected to sex is irrelevant and means nothing in comparison to these two people who have just spent the last 8 months together having no clue that they aren't connected.

the relationship isn't what it is BECAUSE he said words

but, the words ARE a representation of how little he is even present

and she says herself that she knows the relationship is stale

So, for people to have such a rage over him saying this to her, seems so shallow to me ... like that is as far as it is being thought through. Those words he said were just a reaction. Just as she is just reacting.

What is paramount here, and the only thing that really needs to be acknowledged is that these two people are NOT connected.

So what should I do

Posted by Virgosmalls

So what should I do

I'm not going to give you a sign.

I firmly believe that people are the only directors of their life.

If you are under 16, then you should go to your parents to get direction .. if you are over 16 then you should be telling us what you are going to do to help yourself to a better life, not asking us what to do.

If you have to be told that people are responsible for themselves, which requires proper decision making .. then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship at all. that's the best I can give you ... because really to me, this is so elementary that I learned it at around age 8, so I'm unclear what you are even questioning here.

Are you wanting to know if you are smart enough to make the right choice? ... because really, you describe a crappy situation, and then act like you want it ...

Actually... How the hell is this topic still surviving—!!

I don't know ... but, I quite enjoyed the entry after my last one in where the Libra was objectifying the woman by referencing wifey duties .... while the other side of her mouth was claiming that the other people have outdated mindsets.

Spice things up girl. If you feel like you gotta give him head to keep him then Id suggest just moving on from him. No one likes to give obligatory head. Though I do agree with him, giving awesome head and not getting any back is some bullshit.

Relationships & the sex that comes along with it is all about GIVE and take.

It just seems so double-standard to me, not just the sex part, but ....

She's holding hostage giving him something he wants, while bitching because he is also using the same thing as leverage.

But, somehow, it's ok for her to do it, but, not him.

People have assumed that she isn't doing it because it's her desire not to do it.

read again

she's not doing it because she doesn't like the fact that he might be trying to use it as leverage when determining relationship status.

Regardless of the whys either is doing it .. the fact remains. She is using the sex act to get what she wants from him. And him? He probably has no ill intent at all .. he just wants a blow job.

Women are constantly playing games and manipulating men using sex as a tool/weapon ... and it's very disturbing to me.