I've been seeing this Virgo man since November things have been going as expected, slow. He didn't kiss me until our fourth date for example. We saw each other like once a week. He use to make statements like we need to get together soon, let's do this and that. And I would do the same. He is in his last semester of his masters program and mid Feb dropped a hint like " I may have to add one more class...I'm going to be really busy" and so on during regular conversations. He at no point ever make direct statements like, I'm not going to be able to see you for I'm about to get focused and etc. Anyway, its been about 4wks since I've seen him. Two weeks ago, I pointed out to him the communication has decreased and that fact he's hard to read I don't know what's going on with us. He replies, " let me offer you clarity..." and go on to say he going to do better w/ the commo and that its a fear that when he likes someone and enjoy their company, it can go from one date a week to four and he doesn't want his school to get put on the backburner." Commo was good the rest of that week. Now I just started my masters this semester so I understand that but he lives 10mi from me and I feel like we should be able to meet up briefly talk, chat and etc. This past wknd we made plans for brunch at the last min he cancels because he was reminded he offered to help a coworker w/ flooring. I texted him telling him ill be at his house sun at noon. Sun comes he doesn't answer his phone or reply to my text. I finf out last night. He forgot he made other plans and that he was sorry. Now I don't want to start nagging him but I just feel like I'm losing him or maybe he doesn't want to see me anymore cb/c of this distancing crap he's doing. What should I do? Is this like them? Is it over? Fyi, we never slept together although occassional speak on it...he says with sex and the emotion that come along he knows it can distract him and he's trying to focus n finish school.
