Virgo man!! Help !

Okay me. Pisces sun Taurus moon. Him, Virgo sun Taurus moon.

So let me start off by saying I like him a lot, but he’s so confusing. We met because he’s my Ups driver. One day I went to sign for a package, I thought nothing of him. Whatever. Next day my mom signs for the package and he tells my mom how gorgeous I am and he asked her my age, he’s 10 years older than me, but he doesn’t know I know lol. He lied about his age. Anyway I gave him my number we started texting he asked me a lot of questions I asked him questions. he told me had been freshly out of a relationship for like 6 months and they had been together for 7 years and that he was glad it was over. we talked twice on the phone while he was at work, through text and through social media. So, like 2 weeks later he told me he wasn’t ready to date which I completely understand and I told him that. I told him to do what was best for him and that I understood. I thought you know we just simply could be friends. We flirt all the time, and he’d always ask would I wanna do something and I always told him yes just to let me know, but we never went out. recently he got me something for Valentine’s Day so I got him something. When he opened his gift he texted me “ I love you” I thought nothing of it..I didn’t want to get anything misconstrued, Maybe he was playing. The next day I messaged him like “love of your life” he wrote back and said “you’re the love of my life” again I thought nothing of it. He also got me something for my birthday a week later. he sent me a video of him walking his grandma (too cute, he knows my mom and doesn’t get weird when speaking to her, we talked about tv shows, music, a career he wants to pursue, his job... so at this point we’ve been conversing for about 4 months and a half and he texted me saying that he sucked for making plans and not following through, I told him I felt like he wanted nothing to do with me and he said “no I really really like you, you’re cool as hell I just wanna be single n ish” and that he really does like me and that I’m drop dead gorgeous and that he may be dumb sometimes but not blind.. I then asked him was this a flirtatious friendship and he asked if that’s what I wanted to call it. I told him it was up to him, Ball was in his court. I tend to try and find something wrong with someone I like to avoid getting hurt, but I don’t think I’m wrong. Before he’d never bring up sex, never hinted towards it, nothing. But today he told me he might like big booties and that he knows I have one and that he needs to see it. At this point I’m prettyy sure he just wants sex, but he stop hasn’t said anything.. I don’t agree with the whole booty call thing and I think he knows that lol. He just confuses the shit out of me. He told me he’s not one to play, he doesn’t want a relationship. So why even bring the idea up of us going out and you wanting to kiss me and all the extra stuff ?? Sex right —??



-sorry for this long ass paragraph just needed to include all the deets 😭

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