Virgo man in love with virgo woman.Need advice about what to do.?

I am a 22 year old virgo guy in love with a 22 year old virgo girl.We have been friends since our school days,I have known her for 10 years and we have been great friends.She says I am a bestfriend to her.We also had a great time at tutions where we used to talk on and on until time passed and we didnt complete the work given to us to complete.We also share everything with each other,our past relationships,crushes and everything.But all these made me feel like she cares about me and have feelings for me.Last year I told her that I loved her but she might have thought I was joking about it and I was afraid of losing her so I didnt try to talk about it.Now after an year I cant really stay without telling her so I started meeting up with her and calling her over the phone more often.But still I am afraid to let her know about it.Things that add to my fear are that I dont look that good,everytime I fell for somebody I have been rejected and even if I am comfortable talking to her as friends,I get nervous nowadays while going out with her and nothing comes up in my mind to talk about at that moment.I am afraid of getting rejected and also afraid of staying just her bestfriend all my life.Everything seems right except the fact that she texts me really late everytime which makes me wonder if its the right time to tell her how I feel.Please help and advice about what to do.

About her : Virgo Sun,Capricorn moon,Scorpio rising.

About me : Virgo Sun,Aries moon,Scorpio rising.

To say you love her...is coming on too strong and indulging in delusion. It puts pressure on the other person because even if they are feeling you...it seems you're miles away ahead of them. Like she could be lukewarm to the idea of you both and you're already 1000 kms in your head planning a wedding. It's not fair either because she should be at liberty to reject you and if you come out and say you love her point blank..she'll struggle with that and you won't get a genuine response. She'll just dodge you.

Tell her you've started to see her more than just a friend and ask her if she'd go on a date with you.

People are seldom on our pace with our Sun/Moon combo so this needs to be accounted for and done in a more lighthearted manner.

About rejection...when you think about it...there's all types of rejections in this life. From parents, family, people we're into, friends...down to jobs, banks if you're applying for a loan, going at a party if you're not in proper attire and so on and so forth. They just don't strike a dent into our ego like rejections from people we're fond of. If you keep that into perspective..it becomes trivial. It also saves up time and it makes you not live with regrets. And in a positive light...you can be rejected by 100 people prior as long as you're not rejected by the one that will matter in the end. I truly believe what's meant for us won't pass us by. Only passes us by if we give up and stop taking action.

Don't be like the dude in this song:



Good luck!