Posted by 777
I feel like this is somewhat incestual. Maybe cuz I have a lot of sag placement & alot of 1st house. Not sure what it is, but the way they carry themselves, think. & speak turns me up. Their eyes dont look sexually seductive like water sign. The eyes always look seductively innocent. They remind me of real life princesses. Not imaginary ones likes pisces.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
I feel like this is somewhat incestual. Maybe cuz I have a lot of sag placement & alot of 1st house. Not sure what it is, but the way they carry themselves, think. & speak turns me up. Their eyes dont look sexually seductive like water sign. The eyes always look seductively innocent. They remind me of real life princesses. Not imaginary ones likes pisces.
Isnāt that a good thing? What wrong with reminding you of a princess?
Why in incestual? Just because you are the same sign? You guys should be able to have a better understanding, right? Not all Virgos are super critical, are they?click to expand
Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by 777
I feel like this is somewhat incestual. Maybe cuz I have a lot of sag placement & alot of 1st house. Not sure what it is, but the way they carry themselves, think. & speak turns me up. Their eyes dont look sexually seductive like water sign. The eyes always look seductively innocent. They remind me of real life princesses. Not imaginary ones likes pisces.
Isnāt that a good thing? What wrong with reminding you of a princess?
Why in incestual? Just because you are the same sign? You guys should be able to have a better understanding, right? Not all Virgos are super critical, are they?
We arenāt all critical š„ŗclick to expand
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?click to expand
Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limitsclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.
i prefer texts over phone calls coz i'm lazy but also i need to look perfect in front of cameras lol and that's too much work. guys i've noticed are so much more vain and visual. that's true though with pisces energy like they always sound like they are so full of shit/trying to con you/trying to sell you something. but then again pisces is my 2nd dominant though i'm really only a bullshitter in the hungarian folk tales type of way. this guy told me he loves me like the 2nd week of knowing me and i'm like: "hope we get to spend more time together and that we get along" hahahaha which made him point out how i'm not that affectionate. virgos i've noticed (most of them at least) are too honest and specific about the whens like they can literally tell when exactly they started feeling shit and bluntly tell you how they didn't feel a certain way at first. it's just, i'd rather be sincere than.... 'sweet.'
that's what i don't like about pisces. i never know if they're being sincere but now i just default think people are just half bullshitting all the time which ironically made me more open to people. like this guy literally talked about children on day 1.click to expand
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@saggurl88 tbh i always though sags are more open to bullshit than virgos. they seem the type.
we both double text and call for attention (calls mostly him though) but i will quadruple text too hahahaha
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 tbh i always though sags are more open to bullshit than virgos. they seem the type.
we both double text and call for attention (calls mostly him though) but i will quadruple text too hahahaha
Hmmm. I wish the Virgo I was dating was like this. Seems like the thing we do most often is ignore each other š¢ What's funny is I still haven't lost interest though.
But you have a Pisces moon so you guys probably get each other well.
I wouldn't mind giving him attention, if he gave me attention. But Nope.click to expand
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@saggurl88 tbh i always though sags are more open to bullshit than virgos. they seem the type.
we both double text and call for attention (calls mostly him though) but i will quadruple text too hahahaha
Hmmm. I wish the Virgo I was dating was like this. Seems like the thing we do most often is ignore each other š¢ What's funny is I still haven't lost interest though.
But you have a Pisces moon so you guys probably get each other well.
I wouldn't mind giving him attention, if he gave me attention. But Nope.
I mirrored the bullshitting coz I figured he's only exerting this effort on me which made me realize I was wrong about my assumption that they'd just bullshit anybody. in fact, that's the main reason I'm giving this whole thing a twirl. I get this feeling that the main reason he likes me is coz I like him hahaha which I think is such a pisces sun/libra moon thing.click to expand
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@saggurl88 tbh i always though sags are more open to bullshit than virgos. they seem the type.
we both double text and call for attention (calls mostly him though) but i will quadruple text too hahahaha
Hmmm. I wish the Virgo I was dating was like this. Seems like the thing we do most often is ignore each other š¢ What's funny is I still haven't lost interest though.
But you have a Pisces moon so you guys probably get each other well.
I wouldn't mind giving him attention, if he gave me attention. But Nope.
I mirrored the bullshitting coz I figured he's only exerting this effort on me which made me realize I was wrong about my assumption that they'd just bullshit anybody. in fact, that's the main reason I'm giving this whole thing a twirl. I get this feeling that the main reason he likes me is coz I like him hahaha which I think is such a pisces sun/libra moon thing.
lol I should start bombarding him with texts, but I just don't have it in me. I'm gonna send him a naked pic later and see what happens šclick to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 tbh i always though sags are more open to bullshit than virgos. they seem the type.
we both double text and call for attention (calls mostly him though) but i will quadruple text too hahahaha
Hmmm. I wish the Virgo I was dating was like this. Seems like the thing we do most often is ignore each other š¢ What's funny is I still haven't lost interest though.
But you have a Pisces moon so you guys probably get each other well.
I wouldn't mind giving him attention, if he gave me attention. But Nope.
I mirrored the bullshitting coz I figured he's only exerting this effort on me which made me realize I was wrong about my assumption that they'd just bullshit anybody. in fact, that's the main reason I'm giving this whole thing a twirl. I get this feeling that the main reason he likes me is coz I like him hahaha which I think is such a pisces sun/libra moon thing.
lol I should start bombarding him with texts, but I just don't have it in me. I'm gonna send him a naked pic later and see what happens š
I wasn't trolling when I said I keep attracting extremely religious men coz this guy sends me gospel music to help me relax. he was actually listening to his gospel music playlist last time we met, playing checkers.
not the first time I've dated someone this religious but we never even talk about sex lol. part of the reason why I like him so much coz that shit gets me bored if he did.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 tbh i always though sags are more open to bullshit than virgos. they seem the type.
we both double text and call for attention (calls mostly him though) but i will quadruple text too hahahaha
Hmmm. I wish the Virgo I was dating was like this. Seems like the thing we do most often is ignore each other š¢ What's funny is I still haven't lost interest though.
But you have a Pisces moon so you guys probably get each other well.
I wouldn't mind giving him attention, if he gave me attention. But Nope.
I mirrored the bullshitting coz I figured he's only exerting this effort on me which made me realize I was wrong about my assumption that they'd just bullshit anybody. in fact, that's the main reason I'm giving this whole thing a twirl. I get this feeling that the main reason he likes me is coz I like him hahaha which I think is such a pisces sun/libra moon thing.
lol I should start bombarding him with texts, but I just don't have it in me. I'm gonna send him a naked pic later and see what happens š
I wasn't trolling when I said I keep attracting extremely religious men coz this guy sends me gospel music to help me relax. he was actually listening to his gospel music playlist last time we met, playing checkers.
not the first time I've dated someone this religious but we never even talk about sex lol. part of the reason why I like him so much coz that shit gets me bored if he did.
Oh! how do you attract these types all the time?
and does talking about sex turn you off?
This Virgo doesn't talk much about it either and Aries moons (him) don't seem too sexual.
I hate having to dumb myself down sexually for men.click to expand
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@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lolclick to expand
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@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lol
he tells me whenever he needs to be picked up but here's another weird thing, he only ever asks to be picked up at the town hall. i do know that he's got a roommate so he must live somewhere like an apartment or something like that. i don't know if he's ashamed of where it is or what it looks like or he doesn't trust me and think i'm a serial killer or a stalker or whatever.
no he never asked for money except that one time he claimed his wallet got stolen after his football game (right after our first date). then i even sent him food coz.... thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him. but anyway, i've gotten over that shit and accepted that he's just really poor.
the fact that i'm not exactly sure what to think of him ultimately may one day serve as a great excuse for me to ghost him lol and a great way for me not to have too much feelings for him, you get what i mean? the fact that i don't really trust him completely is 'emotionally safe' for me. i can easily let him go.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lol
he tells me whenever he needs to be picked up but here's another weird thing, he only ever asks to be picked up at the town hall. i do know that he's got a roommate so he must live somewhere like an apartment or something like that. i don't know if he's ashamed of where it is or what it looks like or he doesn't trust me and think i'm a serial killer or a stalker or whatever.
no he never asked for money except that one time he claimed his wallet got stolen after his football game (right after our first date). then i even sent him food coz.... thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him. but anyway, i've gotten over that shit and accepted that he's just really poor.
the fact that i'm not exactly sure what to think of him ultimately may one day serve as a great excuse for me to ghost him lol and a great way for me not to have too much feelings for him, you get what i mean? the fact that i don't really trust him completely is 'emotionally safe' for me. i can easily let him go.
"thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him."
This is exactly how Pisces are. I ignore it. It comes off so materialistic to me. and a man doing this is disgusting, especially if it happens a lot. I don't like being asked for anything. It's one thing if I found out about something and offered but to tell me a sob story? NOPE
Gemini's and Pisces can be very materialistic like this.
If he's poor and you're not being taken advantage of, then that's great. I'm very giving so I am always cautious of this. A few times is cool but if a man expects me to pay for stuff all the time, I will be done with him. We have to be balanced. I don't care if I've spent $ 100 and he's spent $ 20. There still needs to be some sort of effort made.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lol
he tells me whenever he needs to be picked up but here's another weird thing, he only ever asks to be picked up at the town hall. i do know that he's got a roommate so he must live somewhere like an apartment or something like that. i don't know if he's ashamed of where it is or what it looks like or he doesn't trust me and think i'm a serial killer or a stalker or whatever.
no he never asked for money except that one time he claimed his wallet got stolen after his football game (right after our first date). then i even sent him food coz.... thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him. but anyway, i've gotten over that shit and accepted that he's just really poor.
the fact that i'm not exactly sure what to think of him ultimately may one day serve as a great excuse for me to ghost him lol and a great way for me not to have too much feelings for him, you get what i mean? the fact that i don't really trust him completely is 'emotionally safe' for me. i can easily let him go.
"thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him."
This is exactly how Pisces are. I ignore it. It comes off so materialistic to me. and a man doing this is disgusting, especially if it happens a lot. I don't like being asked for anything. It's one thing if I found out about something and offered but to tell me a sob story? NOPE
Gemini's and Pisces can be very materialistic like this.
If he's poor and you're not being taken advantage of, then that's great. I'm very giving so I am always cautious of this. A few times is cool but if a man expects me to pay for stuff all the time, I will be done with him. We have to be balanced. I don't care if I've spent $ 100 and he's spent $ 20. There still needs to be some sort of effort made.
tbh with you, most pisces i've encountered (both genders) are very weird about money. and this really comes as a surprise to me. a very disappointing one. but i've got plenty in my 5th house so i'm very generous. it's just the sense of things being 'fair' bothers my mars.
i guess time will tell but he's honestly probably the last pisces i'll interact with if shit goes down the drain coz i'm starting to think i should avoid them.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lol
he tells me whenever he needs to be picked up but here's another weird thing, he only ever asks to be picked up at the town hall. i do know that he's got a roommate so he must live somewhere like an apartment or something like that. i don't know if he's ashamed of where it is or what it looks like or he doesn't trust me and think i'm a serial killer or a stalker or whatever.
no he never asked for money except that one time he claimed his wallet got stolen after his football game (right after our first date). then i even sent him food coz.... thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him. but anyway, i've gotten over that shit and accepted that he's just really poor.
the fact that i'm not exactly sure what to think of him ultimately may one day serve as a great excuse for me to ghost him lol and a great way for me not to have too much feelings for him, you get what i mean? the fact that i don't really trust him completely is 'emotionally safe' for me. i can easily let him go.
"thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him."
This is exactly how Pisces are. I ignore it. It comes off so materialistic to me. and a man doing this is disgusting, especially if it happens a lot. I don't like being asked for anything. It's one thing if I found out about something and offered but to tell me a sob story? NOPE
Gemini's and Pisces can be very materialistic like this.
If he's poor and you're not being taken advantage of, then that's great. I'm very giving so I am always cautious of this. A few times is cool but if a man expects me to pay for stuff all the time, I will be done with him. We have to be balanced. I don't care if I've spent $ 100 and he's spent $ 20. There still needs to be some sort of effort made.
tbh with you, most pisces i've encountered (both genders) are very weird about money. and this really comes as a surprise to me. a very disappointing one. but i've got plenty in my 5th house so i'm very generous. it's just the sense of things being 'fair' bothers my mars.
i guess time will tell but he's honestly probably the last pisces i'll interact with if shit goes down the drain coz i'm starting to think i should avoid them.
You just have to tell them no, if it gets too bad. They have to be given boundaries or else they can take advantage. They have gold digger tendencies but still can be told no and will stay if they care about you.click to expand
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@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lol
he tells me whenever he needs to be picked up but here's another weird thing, he only ever asks to be picked up at the town hall. i do know that he's got a roommate so he must live somewhere like an apartment or something like that. i don't know if he's ashamed of where it is or what it looks like or he doesn't trust me and think i'm a serial killer or a stalker or whatever.
no he never asked for money except that one time he claimed his wallet got stolen after his football game (right after our first date). then i even sent him food coz.... thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him. but anyway, i've gotten over that shit and accepted that he's just really poor.
the fact that i'm not exactly sure what to think of him ultimately may one day serve as a great excuse for me to ghost him lol and a great way for me not to have too much feelings for him, you get what i mean? the fact that i don't really trust him completely is 'emotionally safe' for me. i can easily let him go.
"thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him."
This is exactly how Pisces are. I ignore it. It comes off so materialistic to me. and a man doing this is disgusting, especially if it happens a lot. I don't like being asked for anything. It's one thing if I found out about something and offered but to tell me a sob story? NOPE
Gemini's and Pisces can be very materialistic like this.
If he's poor and you're not being taken advantage of, then that's great. I'm very giving so I am always cautious of this. A few times is cool but if a man expects me to pay for stuff all the time, I will be done with him. We have to be balanced. I don't care if I've spent $ 100 and he's spent $ 20. There still needs to be some sort of effort made.
tbh with you, most pisces i've encountered (both genders) are very weird about money. and this really comes as a surprise to me. a very disappointing one. but i've got plenty in my 5th house so i'm very generous. it's just the sense of things being 'fair' bothers my mars.
i guess time will tell but he's honestly probably the last pisces i'll interact with if shit goes down the drain coz i'm starting to think i should avoid them.
You just have to tell them no, if it gets too bad. They have to be given boundaries or else they can take advantage. They have gold digger tendencies but still can be told no and will stay if they care about you.
i've just come to terms with the fact that he's just really poor.
he prays at the park every morning (or so he tells me), teaches football to kids in the afternoon (fact) and still plays football at night (fact). and if he's really abusive, he'd just have my driver take him to and from home every single time but he asks this from me every now and then for a game. traffic is hell here so i get it. but every time i talk about him to my friends, they seem to have opinions of their own about him.click to expand
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@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lol
he tells me whenever he needs to be picked up but here's another weird thing, he only ever asks to be picked up at the town hall. i do know that he's got a roommate so he must live somewhere like an apartment or something like that. i don't know if he's ashamed of where it is or what it looks like or he doesn't trust me and think i'm a serial killer or a stalker or whatever.
no he never asked for money except that one time he claimed his wallet got stolen after his football game (right after our first date). then i even sent him food coz.... thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him. but anyway, i've gotten over that shit and accepted that he's just really poor.
the fact that i'm not exactly sure what to think of him ultimately may one day serve as a great excuse for me to ghost him lol and a great way for me not to have too much feelings for him, you get what i mean? the fact that i don't really trust him completely is 'emotionally safe' for me. i can easily let him go.
"thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him."
This is exactly how Pisces are. I ignore it. It comes off so materialistic to me. and a man doing this is disgusting, especially if it happens a lot. I don't like being asked for anything. It's one thing if I found out about something and offered but to tell me a sob story? NOPE
Gemini's and Pisces can be very materialistic like this.
If he's poor and you're not being taken advantage of, then that's great. I'm very giving so I am always cautious of this. A few times is cool but if a man expects me to pay for stuff all the time, I will be done with him. We have to be balanced. I don't care if I've spent $ 100 and he's spent $ 20. There still needs to be some sort of effort made.
tbh with you, most pisces i've encountered (both genders) are very weird about money. and this really comes as a surprise to me. a very disappointing one. but i've got plenty in my 5th house so i'm very generous. it's just the sense of things being 'fair' bothers my mars.
i guess time will tell but he's honestly probably the last pisces i'll interact with if shit goes down the drain coz i'm starting to think i should avoid them.
You just have to tell them no, if it gets too bad. They have to be given boundaries or else they can take advantage. They have gold digger tendencies but still can be told no and will stay if they care about you.
i've just come to terms with the fact that he's just really poor.
he prays at the park every morning (or so he tells me), teaches football to kids in the afternoon (fact) and still plays football at night (fact). and if he's really abusive, he'd just have my driver take him to and from home every single time but he asks this from me every now and then for a game. traffic is hell here so i get it. but every time i talk about him to my friends, they seem to have opinions of their own about him.
Well it's good you're making up your own mind about him. Sometimes friends can be a little meddling. You seem to have an idea of what the situation entails and as long as your comfortable, don't let your friends be nosy. People always have some say when someone is very helping. You will know when or if you've felt used and can quietly cut everything without people knowing all of your business.click to expand
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@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lol
he tells me whenever he needs to be picked up but here's another weird thing, he only ever asks to be picked up at the town hall. i do know that he's got a roommate so he must live somewhere like an apartment or something like that. i don't know if he's ashamed of where it is or what it looks like or he doesn't trust me and think i'm a serial killer or a stalker or whatever.
no he never asked for money except that one time he claimed his wallet got stolen after his football game (right after our first date). then i even sent him food coz.... thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him. but anyway, i've gotten over that shit and accepted that he's just really poor.
the fact that i'm not exactly sure what to think of him ultimately may one day serve as a great excuse for me to ghost him lol and a great way for me not to have too much feelings for him, you get what i mean? the fact that i don't really trust him completely is 'emotionally safe' for me. i can easily let him go.
"thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him."
This is exactly how Pisces are. I ignore it. It comes off so materialistic to me. and a man doing this is disgusting, especially if it happens a lot. I don't like being asked for anything. It's one thing if I found out about something and offered but to tell me a sob story? NOPE
Gemini's and Pisces can be very materialistic like this.
If he's poor and you're not being taken advantage of, then that's great. I'm very giving so I am always cautious of this. A few times is cool but if a man expects me to pay for stuff all the time, I will be done with him. We have to be balanced. I don't care if I've spent $ 100 and he's spent $ 20. There still needs to be some sort of effort made.
tbh with you, most pisces i've encountered (both genders) are very weird about money. and this really comes as a surprise to me. a very disappointing one. but i've got plenty in my 5th house so i'm very generous. it's just the sense of things being 'fair' bothers my mars.
i guess time will tell but he's honestly probably the last pisces i'll interact with if shit goes down the drain coz i'm starting to think i should avoid them.
You just have to tell them no, if it gets too bad. They have to be given boundaries or else they can take advantage. They have gold digger tendencies but still can be told no and will stay if they care about you.
i've just come to terms with the fact that he's just really poor.
he prays at the park every morning (or so he tells me), teaches football to kids in the afternoon (fact) and still plays football at night (fact). and if he's really abusive, he'd just have my driver take him to and from home every single time but he asks this from me every now and then for a game. traffic is hell here so i get it. but every time i talk about him to my friends, they seem to have opinions of their own about him.
Well it's good you're making up your own mind about him. Sometimes friends can be a little meddling. You seem to have an idea of what the situation entails and as long as your comfortable, don't let your friends be nosy. People always have some say when someone is very helping. You will know when or if you've felt used and can quietly cut everything without people knowing all of your business.
i like him but i also don't trust him which makes me both open but also feel 'safe' from getting too emotionally attached coz i feel like i can let him go easily due to not trusting him completely. isn't that weird? maybe it's a mutable thing. i'm open to commit but i'm also open to the possibility of ghosting on this should i feel the need to (and do it easily too). me not trusting him keeps me from getting more intimate, genuine feelings. my scorpio sun/cap moon co-worker told me that it must in some odd way make me feel as if i'm 'in control. 'click to expand
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@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lol
he tells me whenever he needs to be picked up but here's another weird thing, he only ever asks to be picked up at the town hall. i do know that he's got a roommate so he must live somewhere like an apartment or something like that. i don't know if he's ashamed of where it is or what it looks like or he doesn't trust me and think i'm a serial killer or a stalker or whatever.
no he never asked for money except that one time he claimed his wallet got stolen after his football game (right after our first date). then i even sent him food coz.... thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him. but anyway, i've gotten over that shit and accepted that he's just really poor.
the fact that i'm not exactly sure what to think of him ultimately may one day serve as a great excuse for me to ghost him lol and a great way for me not to have too much feelings for him, you get what i mean? the fact that i don't really trust him completely is 'emotionally safe' for me. i can easily let him go.
"thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him."
This is exactly how Pisces are. I ignore it. It comes off so materialistic to me. and a man doing this is disgusting, especially if it happens a lot. I don't like being asked for anything. It's one thing if I found out about something and offered but to tell me a sob story? NOPE
Gemini's and Pisces can be very materialistic like this.
If he's poor and you're not being taken advantage of, then that's great. I'm very giving so I am always cautious of this. A few times is cool but if a man expects me to pay for stuff all the time, I will be done with him. We have to be balanced. I don't care if I've spent $ 100 and he's spent $ 20. There still needs to be some sort of effort made.
tbh with you, most pisces i've encountered (both genders) are very weird about money. and this really comes as a surprise to me. a very disappointing one. but i've got plenty in my 5th house so i'm very generous. it's just the sense of things being 'fair' bothers my mars.
i guess time will tell but he's honestly probably the last pisces i'll interact with if shit goes down the drain coz i'm starting to think i should avoid them.
You just have to tell them no, if it gets too bad. They have to be given boundaries or else they can take advantage. They have gold digger tendencies but still can be told no and will stay if they care about you.
i've just come to terms with the fact that he's just really poor.
he prays at the park every morning (or so he tells me), teaches football to kids in the afternoon (fact) and still plays football at night (fact). and if he's really abusive, he'd just have my driver take him to and from home every single time but he asks this from me every now and then for a game. traffic is hell here so i get it. but every time i talk about him to my friends, they seem to have opinions of their own about him.
Well it's good you're making up your own mind about him. Sometimes friends can be a little meddling. You seem to have an idea of what the situation entails and as long as your comfortable, don't let your friends be nosy. People always have some say when someone is very helping. You will know when or if you've felt used and can quietly cut everything without people knowing all of your business.
i like him but i also don't trust him which makes me both open but also feel 'safe' from getting too emotionally attached coz i feel like i can let him go easily due to not trusting him completely. isn't that weird? maybe it's a mutable thing. i'm open to commit but i'm also open to the possibility of ghosting on this should i feel the need to (and do it easily too). me not trusting him keeps me from getting more intimate, genuine feelings. my scorpio sun/cap moon co-worker told me that it must in some odd way make me feel as if i'm 'in control. '
Damn! I feel the same way at all times until someone proves their wroth lol
It must be a mutable thing. I always have my heart half closed off and one foot out the door, just in case.
I never show my hand unless the guy does first.click to expand
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@saggurl88 my only main insecurity about the whole thing initially is that he never pays for anything and he treats my driver like his own. he admittedly is very poor and I usually don't care about that but one of my guy friends pointed out that he seems like a moocher. but the guy's financially challenged, so what? it's not like he's stealing from me. but I don't know, my friends tell me I treat him like a princess lol.
though I'm really not used to this reversal of roles but whatever it's not like we're getting married lol.
Hmmmm. He should only be using your driver when you are around. I would watch for that, but as long as you are happy with how he treats you. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He's not asking you for money or anything, right? Just don't let him take advantage. When his "driver" plans start interfering with yours, you will know he's gone too far lol
he tells me whenever he needs to be picked up but here's another weird thing, he only ever asks to be picked up at the town hall. i do know that he's got a roommate so he must live somewhere like an apartment or something like that. i don't know if he's ashamed of where it is or what it looks like or he doesn't trust me and think i'm a serial killer or a stalker or whatever.
no he never asked for money except that one time he claimed his wallet got stolen after his football game (right after our first date). then i even sent him food coz.... thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him. but anyway, i've gotten over that shit and accepted that he's just really poor.
the fact that i'm not exactly sure what to think of him ultimately may one day serve as a great excuse for me to ghost him lol and a great way for me not to have too much feelings for him, you get what i mean? the fact that i don't really trust him completely is 'emotionally safe' for me. i can easily let him go.
"thing is he doesn't ask for anything at first but he tells me about a situation wherein the only logical thing for me to do or to react is to help him."
This is exactly how Pisces are. I ignore it. It comes off so materialistic to me. and a man doing this is disgusting, especially if it happens a lot. I don't like being asked for anything. It's one thing if I found out about something and offered but to tell me a sob story? NOPE
Gemini's and Pisces can be very materialistic like this.
If he's poor and you're not being taken advantage of, then that's great. I'm very giving so I am always cautious of this. A few times is cool but if a man expects me to pay for stuff all the time, I will be done with him. We have to be balanced. I don't care if I've spent $ 100 and he's spent $ 20. There still needs to be some sort of effort made.
tbh with you, most pisces i've encountered (both genders) are very weird about money. and this really comes as a surprise to me. a very disappointing one. but i've got plenty in my 5th house so i'm very generous. it's just the sense of things being 'fair' bothers my mars.
i guess time will tell but he's honestly probably the last pisces i'll interact with if shit goes down the drain coz i'm starting to think i should avoid them.
You just have to tell them no, if it gets too bad. They have to be given boundaries or else they can take advantage. They have gold digger tendencies but still can be told no and will stay if they care about you.
i've just come to terms with the fact that he's just really poor.
he prays at the park every morning (or so he tells me), teaches football to kids in the afternoon (fact) and still plays football at night (fact). and if he's really abusive, he'd just have my driver take him to and from home every single time but he asks this from me every now and then for a game. traffic is hell here so i get it. but every time i talk about him to my friends, they seem to have opinions of their own about him.
Well it's good you're making up your own mind about him. Sometimes friends can be a little meddling. You seem to have an idea of what the situation entails and as long as your comfortable, don't let your friends be nosy. People always have some say when someone is very helping. You will know when or if you've felt used and can quietly cut everything without people knowing all of your business.
i like him but i also don't trust him which makes me both open but also feel 'safe' from getting too emotionally attached coz i feel like i can let him go easily due to not trusting him completely. isn't that weird? maybe it's a mutable thing. i'm open to commit but i'm also open to the possibility of ghosting on this should i feel the need to (and do it easily too). me not trusting him keeps me from getting more intimate, genuine feelings. my scorpio sun/cap moon co-worker told me that it must in some odd way make me feel as if i'm 'in control. '
Damn! I feel the same way at all times until someone proves their wroth lol
It must be a mutable thing. I always have my heart half closed off and one foot out the door, just in case.
I never show my hand unless the guy does first.
another thing that makes me think he's being sincere, is coz he had an actual list of things he doesn't like. he told me that he dated this one aquarius girl for only a month coz she drinks, smokes and parties. he specifically says those are things that turns him off, that he doesn't like. if he's just out there for a con, he won't be so specific about his red flags and would just go with anything coz i can easily be all those things he doesn't like yet he's looking for a specific 'type,' know what i mean?click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.click to expand
Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.
You do too much. Too difficultclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.
You do too much. Too difficult
I actually am not doing anything. What am I doing? You like fake shit too, huh? I'm not telling someone I love them if I don't.click to expand
Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.
You do too much. Too difficult
I actually am not doing anything. What am I doing? You like fake shit too, huh? I'm not telling someone I love them if I don't.
Ur overbearing. Just chillclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.
You do too much. Too difficult
I actually am not doing anything. What am I doing? You like fake shit too, huh? I'm not telling someone I love them if I don't.
Ur overbearing. Just chill
What are you talking about? You don't know me or how I handle things. I'm very chill. There's nothing over bearing about me.
I don't know what you read, since the discussion her and I were having was based on Pisces men and poverty along with being materialistic.
What's overbearing about what I was saying?
I didn't mention anything about Virgos.
And you're no help with them anyways, other then offering this type of vague advice. You seem to barely know yourself šclick to expand
Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.
You do too much. Too difficult
I actually am not doing anything. What am I doing? You like fake shit too, huh? I'm not telling someone I love them if I don't.
Ur overbearing. Just chill
What are you talking about? You don't know me or how I handle things. I'm very chill. There's nothing over bearing about me.
I don't know what you read, since the discussion her and I were having was based on Pisces men and poverty along with being materialistic.
What's overbearing about what I was saying?
I didn't mention anything about Virgos.
And you're no help with them anyways, other then offering this type of vague advice. You seem to barely know yourself š
Ur mind is too limited to play mind games. I just dont think ur stance on expected interaction with people is viable.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.
You do too much. Too difficult
I actually am not doing anything. What am I doing? You like fake shit too, huh? I'm not telling someone I love them if I don't.
Ur overbearing. Just chill
What are you talking about? You don't know me or how I handle things. I'm very chill. There's nothing over bearing about me.
I don't know what you read, since the discussion her and I were having was based on Pisces men and poverty along with being materialistic.
What's overbearing about what I was saying?
I didn't mention anything about Virgos.
And you're no help with them anyways, other then offering this type of vague advice. You seem to barely know yourself š
Ur mind is too limited to play mind games. I just dont think ur stance on expected interaction with people is viable.
Well there is the issue right there.
I donāt play mind games. I see through them, so they donāt work on me. Thatās not a limited mind. Thatās an assured mind with very little insecurities to deal with unnecessary bull shit.click to expand
Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sunsetvirgo
This thread is so surprising i-
What happened with your Virgo? Weāre you guys too much together? Overly judgey or too distant?
And does distance bother you? How you guys ghost?
Weellll a bit of a backstory ^-^
He had a crush on me for years but was always in a toxic relationship, I left for college. I came back to town permanently recently and he got suuuuper cute. Basically I asked if he wanted to hang out and he confirmed it as a date... and the rest is history.
So basically there was a huge problem for me at the beginning though. We were too alike. Not enough drama, I wanted differing perspectives and someone who showed me different things. Surprisingly Iāve grown to like it. He sucks at words, whereas I thrive. Heās super affectionate though which makes up for it, and whereas Iām not touchy really.
At the beginning he was a bit critical and I was too but that was before he realized how much of a sensitive Bby I am š„ŗ and ever the mutable, curved the harshness for me.
Truly I think in theory two virgos can most def do LDR. But It wonāt be good for them long term simply bc we secretly crave attention. Esp. both of us being fire dom. Soooo :/
Iāve been a bit off lately, super stressed out and frustrated, so Iāve been sleeping earlier and being less conversational over text. He knows how I am when I take space bc I donāt wanna lash out on him so he just lets me know heās always there whenever Iām ready to come back. So I guess thatās me āghostingā idk lmaooo
This was quite long but basically weāre very comfy around each other and although he doesnāt really believe in astrology itās so crazy bc heāll say things about himself that are so Virgo and Iām like š . In a way itās like dating myself but a better version so he inspires me to be better everyday. Sometimes I wish to be dating someone not like me but that feeling is fleeting so all in all Iām very happy with where he and I are right now.
All of our friends think weāre great together simply bc heās pretty happy go lucky and takes a calm approach to life while I can be a biiiitt erratic but Iām ever the charmerāŗļø and everyone thinks I have him wrapped around my pinky.
Which i think I do but the fun in this is that I know heās a Virgo. And one thing about a Virgo is they are just as quick to give you the power over them as they are to take it away if you play too much. So itās quite exciting testing the limits
Thanks for this. Damn. I never give attention unless someone gives it to me. I'll probably never really get a Virgo then, cause I don't give anyone much attention š¢
I'm glad things are working out with you two and you both are happy.
I'm in limbo a lot with most men because of how distant I am. I just don't care enough to change but it hurts me in the end.
Maybe I'll reach out to this Virgo this week and see whats up with him, but I most likely won't. It's too easy for me to like someone from a distance š¢
maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you. like i wanna give lots of attention to this pisces sun/libra moon but i always think i might be disrupting him or whatever which i guess comes off 'cold.' i don't know what it is but he really likes sending pics and asking me for pics lol like we were just together yesterday like wtf for? and i'm more 'reciprocal' than initiating most times (i only get all first house when the other's calming down) coz.... balance.
"maybe some virgos don't want to seem too clingy or bother you"
This is exactly how I am. I don't like bothering a person and think if they have time, they will contact me. I'm always available to a person who shows me interest. I don't play games and say no to them.
I've told the Virgo this, but my lack of reaching out could be an issue. Who knows. Things just move at a snails pace with him and I want to see him more often, but me voicing that doesn't make a difference anyways. I will only say things once or twice. If the other person makes no effort, on a continuous basis, it just shows lack of interest, in my opinion. I will just date and move on.
Pisces sun should be very good at communicating. I've friendzoned a Pisces sun for a year now and he always calls me and thinks we have a connection and actively tries to see me. I've even told him that we are just friends and he doesn't care, he reaches out consistently and we have great conversations, but he's just not my type. I can't like him because of how feminine he acts.
i seem really hot and cold coz i am interested but i also don't want you to feel bothered or annoyed. but sometimes maybe i give too much space. though i seem to come off very engaging to this pisces but he'd rather i be more affectionate. dude it's only been maybe 2 weeks lol like chill. pisces are definitely chasers when they're really interested in you but then again he's an aries venus. he even told me how he got mad at me the other day (over something petty i can't even remember, must be coz he needs more of my attention) which surprised me coz i thought being libra moon, he might not be so direct but omg he's super direct.
how do you mean by 'acting feminine?' i'm actually really starting to appreciate qualities like that in a guy tbh or 'perceived traits' like that. guess in my interactions with them, i come off more aloof like some of my friends told me i'm being 'dude-ish' about it lol.
I'm like a guy too with how standoffish I am. I'm over the top aloof. If you don't want to hang out in person, I don't care abut talking on the phone or texting unless it has to do with hanging out in person, otherwise I'm busy and it's a waste of my time. lol I hate texts and phone calls.
The Pisces acting feminine- He is over the top and super emotional and says all this dreamy shit that is like lies.
I am just finding out that you Virgos love this fake shit- š Probably cause it's your opposite sign. I think if I was over the top like this I would do better with my Virgo, but I am not fake like this.
Like the Pisces called me yesterday and was talking about me having his babies, how he should move in with me and how we are meant to be- Pisces are forever pretending like someone is the one they want to marry and they tell that to EVERYONE they think they have a connection with.
I just don't see it. I have no Pisces in my chart and don't get too into fantasay/happily ever after life. I don't blow smoke up someones ass and pretend I want to marry them. It's complete nonsense to me.
You do too much. Too difficult
I actually am not doing anything. What am I doing? You like fake shit too, huh? I'm not telling someone I love them if I don't.
Ur overbearing. Just chill
What are you talking about? You don't know me or how I handle things. I'm very chill. There's nothing over bearing about me.
I don't know what you read, since the discussion her and I were having was based on Pisces men and poverty along with being materialistic.
What's overbearing about what I was saying?
I didn't mention anything about Virgos.
And you're no help with them anyways, other then offering this type of vague advice. You seem to barely know yourself š
Ur mind is too limited to play mind games. I just dont think ur stance on expected interaction with people is viable.
Well there is the issue right there.
I donāt play mind games. I see through them, so they donāt work on me. Thatās not a limited mind. Thatās an assured mind with very little insecurities to deal with unnecessary bull shit.
Ur conversational skills are roboticclick to expand
Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 what do you think about clingy always demanding attention? And when they don't get if from you, they move on immediately to someone else?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 what do you think about clingy always demanding attention? And when they don't get if from you, they move on immediately to someone else?
I donāt know. Iām not clingy or demanding. I usually have guys coming in and out of my life, basically whenever they want cause I donāt block guys.
I donāt mind clingy guys at all. I need them to be if they want to hang with me. It benefits me cause I get to spend more time with them in person.
If they move on, I donāt know cause I let guys come and go. So basically when they come back, Iām accepting and have no clue what theyāve been through because Iām not really communicating with the guy anyways.
It takes a long time for me to get to know someone. And I donāt bother with their social media cause I donāt want to know.click to expand
Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88 what do you think about clingy always demanding attention? And when they don't get if from you, they move on immediately to someone else?
I donāt know. Iām not clingy or demanding. I usually have guys coming in and out of my life, basically whenever they want cause I donāt block guys.
I donāt mind clingy guys at all. I need them to be if they want to hang with me. It benefits me cause I get to spend more time with them in person.
If they move on, I donāt know cause I let guys come and go. So basically when they come back, Iām accepting and have no clue what theyāve been through because Iām not really communicating with the guy anyways.
It takes a long time for me to get to know someone. And I donāt bother with their social media cause I donāt want to know.
As a fire sign, your view are so plainš. I think the way you handle situations is based on your own disappointments. It's kind of like sucking the fun out of dating so u dont have to worry about getting attached & feeling heartbreak. The disguise is very obvious everytime u state ur expectations.
I think the ability to be open is one of the most important things in any kind of personal entertainging relationshipclick to expand
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