Rocks have feelings more than you do virgo guys
virgo men are not humans
actually they are sensitive but only about themselves they are robots when other people feelings get hurt
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by PEITHO
Yeah so they don't really care about how other people feel then?
virgo's are just like everyone else. some don't care but most care a lot about what other people are feeling. though unlike most water signs virgos won't cater to irrationality or overemotionalism. they expect for you to take responsibility for your own feelings. and they expect you to be emotionally self sufficient.
none of those are bad qualities though. but if you're expecting a virgo to be a cancer you're in for a real shock.click to expand
I think what you posted is fairly accurate. here's the difference, however, and why it grates NON Virgo's.
Your quote: "they expect for you to take responsibility for your own feelings. and they expect you to be emotionally self sufficient."
Virgo's often don't practice what they preach. I've had several male virgo's and two female virgo's NOT take responsibility for their feelings or actions. Instead of being a mature adult, they say one thing, do another, then run. At times, they act more like emotional infants than adults.
Virgo's are at times enigmas and hypocrites. Its' the basic, "Do as I say, not as I do."
^^^^^^^ basically. They are adult children literally. You can talk to them and not be talking about them and thy feelings get hurt they cry at a drop of a hat! But if your feelings get hurt they claim you're acting immature.
Hypocrites.
Hypocrites.
Maybe...just maybe there is something wrong with you. Just because you cannot understand someone or a group of individuals doesn't make them the minority..in reality you are.
Posted by SpinCycle
Maybe...just maybe there is something wrong with you. Just because you cannot understand someone or a group of individuals doesn't make them the minority..in reality you are.
If you spot it, then you got it! Spincycle I don't get it, how would they spot a flaw so easily if they didn't have themselves?
^^^^^^^
The same way virgos spot flaws and expect you to be their perception of perfect while they are nothing like what they are seeking
The same way virgos spot flaws and expect you to be their perception of perfect while they are nothing like what they are seeking
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by lololala
Rocks have feelings more than you do virgo guys
just because someone doesn't talk about feelings doesn't mean they don't have them. 😐click to expand
True..I guess with Virgos it's about showing feelings - or not in their case!
The Virgo I was involved with was amazing in bed but when it came to actually talking to him? One word answers, dead pan facial expressions and I would call a national holiday if I could get him to laugh lol
R-O-B-O-T 😄
LMAO @ this thread. 🙂
Reading the comments..yup they are rocks
Posted by VirgoChyldPosted by SpinCycle
Maybe...just maybe there is something wrong with you. Just because you cannot understand someone or a group of individuals doesn't make them the minority..in reality you are.
click to expand
If you spot it, then you got it! Spincycle I don't get it, how would they spot a flaw so easily if they didn't have themselves?
^^^^^Everyone needs a rock^^^^^^^^^^
I'm curious....
Seeking a man/boy who's PMS-ing? Highly verbal, and crying uncontrollably?
Yes. They're sure to be definite winners in time of a crisis.
Be sure to coddle him when you're the one that's going through trials and tribulations.
When this does happen....
Tell me how that 'sensitive soul brother' display worked out for ya.'
You can't always have it both ways.
I'm curious....
Seeking a man/boy who's PMS-ing? Highly verbal, and crying uncontrollably?
Yes. They're sure to be definite winners in time of a crisis.
Be sure to coddle him when you're the one that's going through trials and tribulations.
When this does happen....
Tell me how that 'sensitive soul brother' display worked out for ya.'
You can't always have it both ways.
Well I pretty much win in this topic.
Profile for people born Aug 30th: The Rock
Lol.
Profile for people born Aug 30th: The Rock
Lol.
I'm not talking bad about them k was responding to a question.
I'm aware of the good and bad sides of a virgo. I can express my opinions of their bad sides. I want to marry a GOOD virgo not a shadow one.
I'm aware of the good and bad sides of a virgo. I can express my opinions of their bad sides. I want to marry a GOOD virgo not a shadow one.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
^^^^^Everyone needs a rock^^^^^^^^^^
I'm curious....
Seeking a man/boy who's PMS-ing? Highly verbal, and crying uncontrollably?
Yes. They're sure to be definite winners in time of a crisis.
Be sure to coddle him when you're the one that's going through trials and tribulations.
When this does happen....
Tell me how that 'sensitive soul brother' display worked out for ya.'
You can't always have it both ways.
Had a Pet Rock when I was growing up in the '70s. It was boring. So no, not everyone needs another rock. 😉
Gemini64 yes you are correct.
I have been friends with a virgo man for almost 2 years. He tried to charm and act like mr.perfect I slowed him down and made him show me his shadow. I'm a scorp and I don't play that act bullcrap. I test you to see the real you then make a decision if I want you or not. Now that I know the real him he is careful on his actions! I told him actions speak louder than words baby I don't fall for that perfect shit. We are still friends and after our highs and lows I know he is aware that he must show me the real him everytime he is in my presence. And I do call him out on his "mind games" no choice but to respect he met his match 🙂
I have been friends with a virgo man for almost 2 years. He tried to charm and act like mr.perfect I slowed him down and made him show me his shadow. I'm a scorp and I don't play that act bullcrap. I test you to see the real you then make a decision if I want you or not. Now that I know the real him he is careful on his actions! I told him actions speak louder than words baby I don't fall for that perfect shit. We are still friends and after our highs and lows I know he is aware that he must show me the real him everytime he is in my presence. And I do call him out on his "mind games" no choice but to respect he met his match 🙂
Wrong thread am excuse that post lol
Posted by Octoberbaby91
Wrong thread am excuse that post lol
No prob. 😉 nice to know others have experienced the same as I have. and like you, i called them out. when you do, they act indignant. LOL
They act like they don't know what you talking about lol a sudden amnesia
Posted by gemini64
Had a Pet Rock when I was growing up in the '70s. It was boring. So no, not everyone needs another rock. 😉click to expand
^^^^ LOL
Back when I was still a christian, there was a song titled along the lines of "he is my rock".
Not preaching but if a religion base having a rock as a foundation for a soulful relationship, you just given us the greatest praise ever 😄
Not preaching but if a religion base having a rock as a foundation for a soulful relationship, you just given us the greatest praise ever 😄
Hahahaha@TMV
Posted by Ixion120
(immature) 2.) they don't care to because they are just not that motherflipping into you....ask yourself if the person is either of the above will that make for a relationship that is worth you investing your time and energy into?
In those instances where a conflict comes up that is an existential threat to the relationship... you should find another partner...its harsh its not easy to do, but it puts you in a better situation and stops you from sitting in the role of a victim like a worthless lump.
thumbs up but you shouldn't have said what you said the last line cause you dont know me
Posted by Mermaid315Posted by virgowithasoul
Back when I was still a christian, there was a song titled along the lines of "he is my rock".
Not preaching but if a religion base having a rock as a foundation for a soulful relationship, you just given us the greatest praise ever 😄
😄
I know a MAN (Virgo).....Not a Male. A Wonderful MAN. He never left his wife who was diagnosed with breast cancer. "Always by her side"
I watched him love her, encourage her, take care of her, comfort and pray with her. He never gave up. He fought every battle with her. He did not EVER show "weariness".
MY GOSH THIS MAN'S A ROCK!!!!! (Her ROCK).....he happens to be a Virgo. 🙂click to expand
aw that is a good man. any man who stands by his woman through the thick and the thin is awesome.
Posted by Damnata
lol
but what would you all do without virgo?? they have everything covered for you!!
My virgo rising/virgo saturn husband says to me, "sometimes i can be an ass." (which he isn't, he's very lovable, but he always feels like he's being one when he gets critical)
and he says, "why do you love me when i can be such an ass?"
I snuggle him tight and kiss him and say, "because it's LOOOOVEE you dum dum!!"
And love....dear sirs and gentlemen, is NOT logical.
Posted by lololala
Rocks have feelings more than you do virgo guys
Incorrect. All a matter of perspective and how well you perceive variant style s of emoting and communication methods.
I think Virgo men do have times taking ownership of their feelings. Ive noticed it too with my birthday twin & even with myself. At times if I want more, its hard to explain because I am not sure what I may really want lol. I can be vulnerable, but if the virgo man has trust issues. SMH first thing you need to build is trust!
Posted by Octoberbaby91
^^^^^^^
The same way virgos spot flaws and expect you to be their perception of perfect while they are nothing like what they are seeking
true us virgos see people as the way we want to, not as they actually are. we are nothing Like what we are seeking, we are ameliorators. To Be honest
Posted by Octoberbaby91
Gemini64 yes you are correct.
I have been friends with a virgo man for almost 2 years. He tried to charm and act like mr.perfect I slowed him down and made him show me his shadow. I'm a scorp and I don't play that act bullcrap. I test you to see the real you then make a decision if I want you or not. Now that I know the real him he is careful on his actions! I told him actions speak louder than words baby I don't fall for that perfect shit. We are still friends and after our highs and lows I know he is aware that he must show me the real him everytime he is in my presence. And I do call him out on his "mind games" no choice but to respect he met his match 🙂
Why do Virgo men play mind games instead of being upfront?
I have feelings... 😢
I'm just misunderstood.
I'm just misunderstood.
two greatest loves of my life were/are Virgo men. The first was waaaaaay too emotional and a drunk to boot. Brilliant artist and musician, but such a superficial scardy cat when it came down to it. Everything had to be a poem, it couldn't just be crappy regular ol' life sometimes.
My Virgo now, husband and father to my children, is such a machine at times. Very anxious deep down but hardly ever shows unless pushed. Not really able to handle scary thoughts or bad possibilities but it has it's advantages. On one hand I think I have suffered a bit being a Pisces having to keep myself in check so often but on the other I do feel more in control of myself and less expecting of him to experience life through his emotions and then dissect every living moment of them with me every day, haha. It's the hardest relationship I have ever been in but we still have that something something going on after 5 years which is a first in my life. Can be very lonely at times for sure though. They feel, they just don't generally make a show of it unless it's anger in my experience.
My Virgo now, husband and father to my children, is such a machine at times. Very anxious deep down but hardly ever shows unless pushed. Not really able to handle scary thoughts or bad possibilities but it has it's advantages. On one hand I think I have suffered a bit being a Pisces having to keep myself in check so often but on the other I do feel more in control of myself and less expecting of him to experience life through his emotions and then dissect every living moment of them with me every day, haha. It's the hardest relationship I have ever been in but we still have that something something going on after 5 years which is a first in my life. Can be very lonely at times for sure though. They feel, they just don't generally make a show of it unless it's anger in my experience.
My Virgo male friend said this today "caring is for suckers".
Known him for 16 years, he's always been nonchalant. However, I think it's a cover because he's afraid of getting hurt. He's actually very helpful and thoughtful. Unfortunately for him, unlucky in relationships because he's short and small framed. I know it sounds bad but his ex gfs have mentioned this before.He's in his thirties now and a lot less "nice". I hope he finds someone sweet because I know he can be a great bf/husband.
Virgos get a bad rap for being critical but that's how they show they care haha.
Known him for 16 years, he's always been nonchalant. However, I think it's a cover because he's afraid of getting hurt. He's actually very helpful and thoughtful. Unfortunately for him, unlucky in relationships because he's short and small framed. I know it sounds bad but his ex gfs have mentioned this before.He's in his thirties now and a lot less "nice". I hope he finds someone sweet because I know he can be a great bf/husband.
Virgos get a bad rap for being critical but that's how they show they care haha.
Posted by confusedaries14Posted by Octoberbaby91
Gemini64 yes you are correct.
I have been friends with a virgo man for almost 2 years. He tried to charm and act like mr.perfect I slowed him down and made him show me his shadow. I'm a scorp and I don't play that act bullcrap. I test you to see the real you then make a decision if I want you or not. Now that I know the real him he is careful on his actions! I told him actions speak louder than words baby I don't fall for that perfect shit. We are still friends and after our highs and lows I know he is aware that he must show me the real him everytime he is in my presence. And I do call him out on his "mind games" no choice but to respect he met his match 🙂
Why do Virgo men play mind games instead of being upfront?click to expand
They don't play mind games ... instead, they are upfront
I see you searched through comments until you found one that identifies what you wanted to hear.
typical bitch looking for validation because you can't handle the truth
they can't handle the direct truth. so we beat around the bush to deliver our message. Then they wonder why. The truth always hurts. Period. It's how people handle it.
I don't find it easy to express my feeling and I require logical reasoning for nearly everything hence plenty things don't invoke an emotional response in me; but doesn't mean that I'm not a human. I can be sensitive too.
Yes we have feelings,very deep.I can be cold as ice at times but that is to protect me.I do get offended easy(been working on that one for years) and close up but thats me.When Im done with something or someone Im done and not much can make me return.If Im breaking up with someone I've done it one or two weeks before so during the event I don't feel much cause I have done it already.Not to say I don't miss my ex's I do,think about each of them at times.Don't think I helped the Virgo mens cause though.Lololala and others may think Im worse than a rock but that's how I feel.
@kane48txboy ^ what you said is true i feel the same way that it is for my own good, that it acts like a shield, it has it's cons and it's pro's most virgo's can get hurt verry easily but i have been trying recently not to care, or lets say to handle emotions and especially my thoughts which most of the times keeps me from doing something i want to and that binds me, that's not to say that i won't have a bad day, bad days are the day's that spiritual growth takes place it's when you are down and out, ive been through many breakups and set backs but ive learned that the important thing is not to let events or people in life change/break you, and waste away your positive-nes, if you do that you are comiting to spiritual sin, keep loving and be strong
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