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@WaterCup
I want the best in the relationship. I'm not used to I guess a Virgo man. My ex Taurus is was emotional in tune with everything. He knew I was upset before I even mentioned anything. The solid foundation I had with my ex I am not trying to creat that same solidness with my Virgo man. But this Virgo it seems like he doesn't want to budge. I'm just trying to show him this is how I love. When someone gives me emotions stability I'm floating I feel complete. I need my partner to just talk more, tell me the fears, tell me what you hate about me, love about me, tell me what you think the relationship needs, just be more engaged! That's when my colors start coming out and the insecurities vanish. I'm insecure because I don't know wtf is going on. He's unreadable. And I don't hide my insecurities at all. I will tell him straight up, "this makes me not feel secure within the relationship can we work on it?" I have no problem owning up to the bs I do. I know what I do. I know I'm extreme at times. I just want him to be able to handle it. I test my men, I do. Like Monroe said, "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best!" So far he can handle me but he tests me to with petty things. Majority of our fights are strictly on communication and I think that's ridiculous.
He bought the book I didn't beg him to read it. He was interested but when we discussed it to our relationship he got all defensive blaming me and only me. Because clearly he does no wrong and I have no problem owning up to faults but if your just going to keep it focused on me I get annoyed and now I wanna talk about your faults not just mine.
I feel like in a lot of ways he brings out his inner child and it's annoying at times like just act your age. I think all the silent treatment, the running away is completely childish and a waste of time. If you have a problem with something I said or did sit me down and talk it out with me. I could die tomorrow and because he wants to act like a little boy giving me silent treatment he wouldn't know. That's ridiculous to me, seriously. Life is short get over yourself. That's where I think the "mother and son" thing comes from because wtf is wrong with you, you should know better. Act mature, talk to me. That's all I'm asking for I need good communication.
You can teach a man how to love you. Not calling him a puppy but he's not gonna love me how he loved his ex's everyone's different. Everyone requires different things
I want the best in the relationship. I'm not used to I guess a Virgo man. My ex Taurus is was emotional in tune with everything. He knew I was upset before I even mentioned anything. The solid foundation I had with my ex I am not trying to creat that same solidness with my Virgo man. But this Virgo it seems like he doesn't want to budge. I'm just trying to show him this is how I love. When someone gives me emotions stability I'm floating I feel complete. I need my partner to just talk more, tell me the fears, tell me what you hate about me, love about me, tell me what you think the relationship needs, just be more engaged! That's when my colors start coming out and the insecurities vanish. I'm insecure because I don't know wtf is going on. He's unreadable. And I don't hide my insecurities at all. I will tell him straight up, "this makes me not feel secure within the relationship can we work on it?" I have no problem owning up to the bs I do. I know what I do. I know I'm extreme at times. I just want him to be able to handle it. I test my men, I do. Like Monroe said, "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best!" So far he can handle me but he tests me to with petty things. Majority of our fights are strictly on communication and I think that's ridiculous.
He bought the book I didn't beg him to read it. He was interested but when we discussed it to our relationship he got all defensive blaming me and only me. Because clearly he does no wrong and I have no problem owning up to faults but if your just going to keep it focused on me I get annoyed and now I wanna talk about your faults not just mine.
I feel like in a lot of ways he brings out his inner child and it's annoying at times like just act your age. I think all the silent treatment, the running away is completely childish and a waste of time. If you have a problem with something I said or did sit me down and talk it out with me. I could die tomorrow and because he wants to act like a little boy giving me silent treatment he wouldn't know. That's ridiculous to me, seriously. Life is short get over yourself. That's where I think the "mother and son" thing comes from because wtf is wrong with you, you should know better. Act mature, talk to me. That's all I'm asking for I need good communication.
You can teach a man how to love you. Not calling him a puppy but he's not gonna love me how he loved his ex's everyone's different. Everyone requires different things
@P-angel
Lol I'm sure when we started arguing a lot he was like that!
But on what you wrote about how you approach you husband, is that how you would approach him if you were upset? This kissing on forehead and being so calm?
When I'm upset it's in my tone, it's written on my face. I have a hard time masking my feelings. Ill look away or be extremely quiet if I'm trying to cover it up but who ever knows me they know.
Lol I'm sure when we started arguing a lot he was like that!
But on what you wrote about how you approach you husband, is that how you would approach him if you were upset? This kissing on forehead and being so calm?
When I'm upset it's in my tone, it's written on my face. I have a hard time masking my feelings. Ill look away or be extremely quiet if I'm trying to cover it up but who ever knows me they know.
@Nala13
Thank you!!! I know how I am as a person. I know my insecurities. They all come out when I feel there's a problem. When things are good what do I need to feel insecure for I'm on top of the world with my man..
It's as much of my fault as it is his. I'm just making the effort in communicating and he wants to shut down all the time. I don't know how to deal with someone who won't talk to me so it makes me even more mad and frustrated. It's like don't you see my effort?. I want to kill you but I'm talking to you so please talk back. Give me something, anything. I don't wanna feel like I'm talking to the wall.
I'm asking you guys because majority of you are Virgos so you know how you guys act. So I want your feedback on how I am, if you think I'm took mic, what to tone down on, what I need to discuss with him, how to avoid his childish behavior. I'll ask my friends but when I tell them the bad it's like they're completely against him. So that's a waste. Why talk to people who just tell you f*** him break up with him. I'm not gonna quit just like that. And that's why they're single and miserable because they run away any time something bad happens. How is that real? Work at your relationship like your grandparents have. Fight for the person you care about don't just give up. Your weak if you do. You can't handle the heat. My situation isn't even that bad. We just need to talk things out.
Thank you!!! I know how I am as a person. I know my insecurities. They all come out when I feel there's a problem. When things are good what do I need to feel insecure for I'm on top of the world with my man..
It's as much of my fault as it is his. I'm just making the effort in communicating and he wants to shut down all the time. I don't know how to deal with someone who won't talk to me so it makes me even more mad and frustrated. It's like don't you see my effort?. I want to kill you but I'm talking to you so please talk back. Give me something, anything. I don't wanna feel like I'm talking to the wall.
I'm asking you guys because majority of you are Virgos so you know how you guys act. So I want your feedback on how I am, if you think I'm took mic, what to tone down on, what I need to discuss with him, how to avoid his childish behavior. I'll ask my friends but when I tell them the bad it's like they're completely against him. So that's a waste. Why talk to people who just tell you f*** him break up with him. I'm not gonna quit just like that. And that's why they're single and miserable because they run away any time something bad happens. How is that real? Work at your relationship like your grandparents have. Fight for the person you care about don't just give up. Your weak if you do. You can't handle the heat. My situation isn't even that bad. We just need to talk things out.
@Ixion120
I'll keep you updated
So far it's going slow. Good morning txts, good night txts. He's upset with me that I ask him about his loyalty. Like I'm insulting him. Do Virgo men take that as in insult btw?
I'll keep you updated
So far it's going slow. Good morning txts, good night txts. He's upset with me that I ask him about his loyalty. Like I'm insulting him. Do Virgo men take that as in insult btw?
@houstonpeach74
I spent all Christmas and New Years with him. I'll be going back for valentines day weekend. My birthday weekend. And any time in between before he goes to Afghanistan 😢...
He wanted me to move in with him in Texas. Then we started fighting more and we decided we should wait. Then he found out about his deployment so there was really no point of going down there at this time.
We txt throughout the day everyday. My schedule is different from his, so by time he gets outta work he goes straight to the gym and I'm working late hours so when I'm done work he's already sleep. That sucks that during the week we just have a txt relationship but the weekends we talk or lol stay on the phone in silence because he ran out of things to say. I like that so it doesn't matter to me.
But when we have problems I just need him and he runs. That's the main thing that get me upset.
He's made it known that he has plans for us. But I just need the effort now not later.
I spent all Christmas and New Years with him. I'll be going back for valentines day weekend. My birthday weekend. And any time in between before he goes to Afghanistan 😢...
He wanted me to move in with him in Texas. Then we started fighting more and we decided we should wait. Then he found out about his deployment so there was really no point of going down there at this time.
We txt throughout the day everyday. My schedule is different from his, so by time he gets outta work he goes straight to the gym and I'm working late hours so when I'm done work he's already sleep. That sucks that during the week we just have a txt relationship but the weekends we talk or lol stay on the phone in silence because he ran out of things to say. I like that so it doesn't matter to me.
But when we have problems I just need him and he runs. That's the main thing that get me upset.
He's made it known that he has plans for us. But I just need the effort now not later.
You "say" that he is a keeper .... but, then, talk is cheap, isn't it?
Several times when prompted you say he'd be a good man for you.
Yet, all you do is bitch and complain about him ... I haven't read anything in here on your part that describes loving feelings.
So, the logical conclusion for me is that you're an opportunist .... just looking for your next victim.
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@houstonpeach74
Then we started fighting more and we decided we should wait. Then he found out about his deployment so there was really no point of going down there at this time.
I could be wrong and I am wrong a lot, but this sounds to me like he might have asked for deployment. He was suddenly transferred to Texas (is he in the army? If so, I assume he was transferred to Fort Hood, which has the most deployed soldiers in all the bases) and now he's being deployed to Afghanistan? Again, I say it - this relationship is toxic.
@Taurusbull1977
Well I am his girlfriend I don't know what you mean. When I say wifey I assumed everyone knew what I meant. I'm not his "wife". People use wifey as gf. _—
I'm an emotional creature so I don't think as logical as the Virgo. I try to understand i make attempts to. But the logical thinker is he trying to understand why it's making me emotional? I feel like he doesn't understand me and why things bother me.
I don't have to mask my insecurities. I will make them known. I have no reason to hide. And everyone on this tread has read them and clearly are pointing them out. But that's not what I want you guys to only focus on give me some damn advice.
I know I'm controlling a lot of women are tho. Tell me something I don't know. I like to know everything I do! Especially if were together.
Everyone needs space but not too much. Sometimes he gives me too much! That makes me feel alone. I need you up my ass. I actually like that.
I don't want to mind my business tho
His business is my business and vice versa. I don't understand that seriously. If your in a relationship why do I need to mind my business we are as one. Were a unit I should know what's going on period. I shouldn't be in the shadows twirling my hair dumbfounded. That to me is like just let him walk all over you. Don't question your man. Yes master smh
Well I am his girlfriend I don't know what you mean. When I say wifey I assumed everyone knew what I meant. I'm not his "wife". People use wifey as gf. _—
I'm an emotional creature so I don't think as logical as the Virgo. I try to understand i make attempts to. But the logical thinker is he trying to understand why it's making me emotional? I feel like he doesn't understand me and why things bother me.
I don't have to mask my insecurities. I will make them known. I have no reason to hide. And everyone on this tread has read them and clearly are pointing them out. But that's not what I want you guys to only focus on give me some damn advice.
I know I'm controlling a lot of women are tho. Tell me something I don't know. I like to know everything I do! Especially if were together.
Everyone needs space but not too much. Sometimes he gives me too much! That makes me feel alone. I need you up my ass. I actually like that.
I don't want to mind my business tho
His business is my business and vice versa. I don't understand that seriously. If your in a relationship why do I need to mind my business we are as one. Were a unit I should know what's going on period. I shouldn't be in the shadows twirling my hair dumbfounded. That to me is like just let him walk all over you. Don't question your man. Yes master smh
@houstonpeach74
He's in the Air Force. He hated jersey when he was here so he asked to transfer somewhere else. He made that decision before we met. He's in San Antonio now.
He's in the Air Force. He hated jersey when he was here so he asked to transfer somewhere else. He made that decision before we met. He's in San Antonio now.
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@Nala13
Thank you!!! I know how I am as a person. I know my insecurities. They all come out when I feel there's a problem. When things are good what do I need to feel insecure for I'm on top of the world with my man..
It's as much of my fault as it is his. I'm just making the effort in communicating and he wants to shut down all the time. I don't know how to deal with someone who won't talk to me so it makes me even more mad and frustrated. It's like don't you see my effort?. I want to kill you but I'm talking to you so please talk back. Give me something, anything. I don't wanna feel like I'm talking to the wall.
I'm asking you guys because majority of you are Virgos so you know how you guys act. So I want your feedback on how I am, if you think I'm took mic, what to tone down on, what I need to discuss with him, how to avoid his childish behavior. I'll ask my friends but when I tell them the bad it's like they're completely against him. So that's a waste. Why talk to people who just tell you f*** him break up with him. I'm not gonna quit just like that. And that's why they're single and miserable because they run away any time something bad happens. How is that real? Work at your relationship like your grandparents have. Fight for the person you care about don't just give up. Your weak if you do. You can't handle the heat. My situation isn't even that bad. We just need to talk things out.
Wow! For one, being single doesnt mean being miserable. When single you get to work on personal issues such as trust, self-esteem, etc. And sticking with a stressful situation doesnt = strength. Some people value their peace of mind more than anything else. I know I wouldnt stay in a situation like yours or with someone like you. Too draining.
@P-Angel
I see so much potential in him
I just want to tweak the bad a little
An opportunist really u think that?
Yikes i have to reflect on this. Could I be? I do want the best for myself. I don't think I use him. Wow that's interesting! I need to think more about this.
I see so much potential in him
I just want to tweak the bad a little
An opportunist really u think that?
Yikes i have to reflect on this. Could I be? I do want the best for myself. I don't think I use him. Wow that's interesting! I need to think more about this.
@WaterCup
I'm not talking about everyone when I say being single is being miserable
But clearly my friend is and she wants to drag me down with her
That's what I meant
Women have to watch out of friends
They say they want the best for you but they want you to be as miserable as them
They're fake they don't want you doing better than them.
You know those friends even family does that
I'm not talking about everyone when I say being single is being miserable
But clearly my friend is and she wants to drag me down with her
That's what I meant
Women have to watch out of friends
They say they want the best for you but they want you to be as miserable as them
They're fake they don't want you doing better than them.
You know those friends even family does that
This guy sounds weak for putting up with all of this. I mean flicking someone's earphones off. That would piss me off. Its so disrespectful. You respectfully talk to people if you want to be heard or you leave them alone if they're not in the mental space to talk/listen.
@watercup
So it's rude to take headphones out but it's not rude if you were being nice and talking and your not getting the attention you deserve
That's great..
So it's rude to take headphones out but it's not rude if you were being nice and talking and your not getting the attention you deserve
That's great..
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@WaterCup
I'm not talking about everyone when I say being single is being miserable
But clearly my friend is and she wants to drag me down with her
That's what I meant
Women have to watch out of friends
They say they want the best for you but they want you to be as miserable as them
They're fake they don't want you doing better than them.
You know those friends even family does that
Do you know the rest of your chart placements?
It's disrespectful that your ignoring me when clearly I'm talking. Now I'm pissed off when I was chillin at first. If I approached you calm and your ignoring me that's bs. Why act like that it's bs! So now I'm pissed off an you will listen now
That's childish to me. You respect anyone else who approaches you strangers even u take your headphones out but you want to act brand new with me!?? No I'm not tolerating that bs...
Respect me as well
That's childish to me. You respect anyone else who approaches you strangers even u take your headphones out but you want to act brand new with me!?? No I'm not tolerating that bs...
Respect me as well
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@Taurusbull1977
Well I am his girlfriend I don't know what you mean. When I say wifey I assumed everyone knew what I meant. I'm not his "wife". People use wifey as gf. _—
I know exactly what it means. It's the urban term for a woman who is your best friend and possesses all the model wife qualities for a man. With all this stressful turmoil and lack of communication between the two of you, I doubt that he gave you that recognition.
Posted by PiscesGoddess
I know I'm controlling a lot of women are tho.
Actually that generalization is fiction. Speak for yourself darling.
Posted by PiscesGoddess
Everyone needs space but not too much. Sometimes he gives me too much! That makes me feel alone. I need you up my ass. I actually like that.click to expand
How precious. There are plenty of unemployed ex-convicts that will be more than content to fill in a Full time position for being your tag-along accessory.
@Watercup
No I don't even know how to do it!
I just found this site not too long ago and this is my first time commenting and posting something
Can you help me find out all that stuff?
No I don't even know how to do it!
I just found this site not too long ago and this is my first time commenting and posting something
Can you help me find out all that stuff?
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@watercup
So it's rude to take headphones out but it's not rude if you were being nice and talking and your not getting the attention you deserve
That's great..
IMO, yes it's very rude. Seriously, you sound needy as well amongst other things. Attention you deserve!? Wow just wow.
@Taurusbull1977
Why would I even continue talking to a man for this long if I have no title?
Why even post all this stuff up if I mean nothing to him
He asked me to be his gf and were still together. Wtf else do you want? Want it in writing?
I clearly spoke for myself and mentioned it plenty in the thread that I am controlling it's not a hidden thing about me. And I also know other women who are as well
Eww
Why would I even continue talking to a man for this long if I have no title?
Why even post all this stuff up if I mean nothing to him
He asked me to be his gf and were still together. Wtf else do you want? Want it in writing?
I clearly spoke for myself and mentioned it plenty in the thread that I am controlling it's not a hidden thing about me. And I also know other women who are as well
Eww
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@Watercup
No I don't even know how to do it!
I just found this site not too long ago and this is my first time commenting and posting something
Can you help me find out all that stuff?
Google "natal chart" & go to cafeastrology...do your birth chart there. Maybe someone can post a direct link.
@watercup
I know I'm all these things and then some.
I know I'm all these things and then some.
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@watercup
I know I'm all these things and then some.
What are you doing about it? This is not healthy for you & for the people that have to associate with you. It all starts with you. Its not & shouldnt be about a man. You do need a lot of single time or at least therapy. This is crazy lol.
@taurusbull1977
And that's my preference
You may do things differently clearly
I like relationships not just f*** buddy care and call you when ever I feel like it bs
And that's my preference
You may do things differently clearly
I like relationships not just f*** buddy care and call you when ever I feel like it bs
I'm done with this post...Good luck to you and this Virgo, PG. If it's not your way, then you ain't happy and that ain't positive for a HEALTHY relationship.
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@Taurusbull1977
Why would I even continue talking to a man for this long if I have no title?
Why even post all this stuff up if I mean nothing to him
He asked me to be his gf and were still together. Wtf else do you want? Want it in writing?
Just ask the urban dictionary....
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=wifey% 20type
Keep calling it what you want....
I see why you rose to the occasion & assumed a position you were not given.
This Virgo you're dealing with obviously has no set of balls.
@Watercup
I'm here asking for your opinions how how I should approach my Virgo in a better way
I'm not needy where it's a serious problem I give him his space. He's all the way in Texas if I was soo needy I would have to be there with him 24/7
I just need to be able to communicate with him and frankly I don't know how to do that effectively because he doesn't open up and talk and that's why I'm here asking other Virgos what's there opinions. What's the appropriate way to approach a Virgo male when something is bothering you? What's the best way to communicate with the Virgo male?
I'm here asking for your opinions how how I should approach my Virgo in a better way
I'm not needy where it's a serious problem I give him his space. He's all the way in Texas if I was soo needy I would have to be there with him 24/7
I just need to be able to communicate with him and frankly I don't know how to do that effectively because he doesn't open up and talk and that's why I'm here asking other Virgos what's there opinions. What's the appropriate way to approach a Virgo male when something is bothering you? What's the best way to communicate with the Virgo male?
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@Watercup
I'm here asking for your opinions how how I should approach my Virgo in a better way
I'm not needy where it's a serious problem I give him his space. He's all the way in Texas if I was soo needy I would have to be there with him 24/7
I just need to be able to communicate with him and frankly I don't know how to do that effectively because he doesn't open up and talk and that's why I'm here asking other Virgos what's there opinions. What's the appropriate way to approach a Virgo male when something is bothering you? What's the best way to communicate with the Virgo male?
I'm not a virgo but the answer is simple, talk to him like how you'd like to be talked to. If you like being yelled at & being disresped then go ahead. But if you like being spoken to like an adult then speak that way with him. Do unto others...
Girl, see, I get the frustration that comes with not getting exactly what you want, I'm the same way. If I want to have a discussion about something important, I want to have it NOW or I get extremely irritated. I even storm out of the room to calm myself. Yeah, I have a terrible temper as well. But man there are ways of talking to someone you claim to love, calmly & respectfully. Buy a stressball, count to ten, walk out... do whatever to calm yourself down when you start to feel irritable. This sounds like either a hormonal imbalance or revenge. Like maybe you were treated bad but men in your part & now you're set on never being a doormat again, so you're taking it out on this guy. I say this because more than once you said "let him walk all over me" & other such indicators. Relax, it's not about being walked all over, its about treating others like how you'd want to be treated.
*past, not part
Posted by PiscesGoddess
... is that how you would approach him if you were upset? This kissing on forehead and being so calm?
Of course .... I'm talking about adults.
@WaterCup
I think I should do the chant Tina Turner did to get back to peace of mind.
The thing is tho I'll talk to him with all intentions of being nice caring etc and he'll do something that will just set me off. And then I explode.
For example
I'll go in ask him a question and hell answers quickly and rush it by saying oh ima bout to clean, shower, cook, anything to basically avoid my little question. And this question could have been anything not anything Naggy, like mb idk how was lunch, work, the gym. And I guess he set his mind into thinking everything I say will turn into a fight idk. But I mean absolutely no harm I just want to have a good talk. When he rushes the convo it makes me feel like wtf I'm just trying to be a good gf but u obviously don't want that u want me to black out on you. Come on I'm being nice here don't ruin this for me. And he'll say I'll talk to you later and if I suck my teeth he gets all weird like Ill hang up if you don't say bye. I just don't understand how it went from neutral to level 10 possible fight.
I really do approach him "on the phone because I'm not in tx" calm, respectful. I guess he has a bad taste in his mouth about the negativity, but why are you still holding a grudge!!! It's exhausting. If your mad express what made u feel that way so you won't have to keep it bottled up and hold it against me. I'm trying to bring the peace and he shuts it down with his negativity.
How can I fix something with someone who thinks so negatively about me? How can I approach him now that you kinda understand how it goes? Should I just not talk to him so I find others (not saying men but friends) to talk to so I can fill the void of not being able to talk to my bf how I want? Should I just for now on have him prove he wants to make this work and step down let him do all the work?
What do you think?
I think I should do the chant Tina Turner did to get back to peace of mind.
The thing is tho I'll talk to him with all intentions of being nice caring etc and he'll do something that will just set me off. And then I explode.
For example
I'll go in ask him a question and hell answers quickly and rush it by saying oh ima bout to clean, shower, cook, anything to basically avoid my little question. And this question could have been anything not anything Naggy, like mb idk how was lunch, work, the gym. And I guess he set his mind into thinking everything I say will turn into a fight idk. But I mean absolutely no harm I just want to have a good talk. When he rushes the convo it makes me feel like wtf I'm just trying to be a good gf but u obviously don't want that u want me to black out on you. Come on I'm being nice here don't ruin this for me. And he'll say I'll talk to you later and if I suck my teeth he gets all weird like Ill hang up if you don't say bye. I just don't understand how it went from neutral to level 10 possible fight.
I really do approach him "on the phone because I'm not in tx" calm, respectful. I guess he has a bad taste in his mouth about the negativity, but why are you still holding a grudge!!! It's exhausting. If your mad express what made u feel that way so you won't have to keep it bottled up and hold it against me. I'm trying to bring the peace and he shuts it down with his negativity.
How can I fix something with someone who thinks so negatively about me? How can I approach him now that you kinda understand how it goes? Should I just not talk to him so I find others (not saying men but friends) to talk to so I can fill the void of not being able to talk to my bf how I want? Should I just for now on have him prove he wants to make this work and step down let him do all the work?
What do you think?
@Watercup
I do need to chill sometimes. It's all from movies, witnessing woman getting mistreated.. All of those things piss me off I turn into a feminine supremacist lol...
I do need to chill sometimes. It's all from movies, witnessing woman getting mistreated.. All of those things piss me off I turn into a feminine supremacist lol...
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@Watercup
I do need to chill sometimes. It's all from movies, witnessing woman getting mistreated.. All of those things piss me off I turn into a feminine supremacist lol...
what a crock of shit. You do not act the way you act from movies. are you serious?
Ya that's what I thought. I smelled your BS way early. I even alluded to it when I said I can see peoples Bullshit in my 2nd or 3 reply. I quietly left because I personally think you are attention seeking. If you really want to make this work. go do something about it and fix YOUR shit in the situation. Ain't nothing but your 2 self's doing the damage in your relationship.
@CC
I've read what you've wrote in the past on your ex Virgo before I created an account and girl, we def have similarities seriously! I completely agree with everything you said that's my mental 100% .. I think something's off alittle
@CC @WaterCup
I go to the gym I guess I really should take all my frustration out doing that! Kick boxing or something. Bcuz this stresses me out
I've read what you've wrote in the past on your ex Virgo before I created an account and girl, we def have similarities seriously! I completely agree with everything you said that's my mental 100% .. I think something's off alittle
@CC @WaterCup
I go to the gym I guess I really should take all my frustration out doing that! Kick boxing or something. Bcuz this stresses me out
@justagirl
Documentaries, and shit in real life. Wtf does it matter it's how I am. Think what you want
I posted this s*** to get opinions etc if that's attention seeking who give a f***. I just want someone's expertise on how to handle my situation if you have a problem with that go on a different threat wtf. If I bother you so much Girl Bye!!
Documentaries, and shit in real life. Wtf does it matter it's how I am. Think what you want
I posted this s*** to get opinions etc if that's attention seeking who give a f***. I just want someone's expertise on how to handle my situation if you have a problem with that go on a different threat wtf. If I bother you so much Girl Bye!!
@justagirl
Quietly leave for good _??
Quietly leave for good _??
LMAO, what you don't like that I called YOU out for your BS? Can't force someone to leave a thread btw so you can kindly kiss my ass 😉 I was polite to you earlier because I gave you the benefit of the doubt that you where truly seeking help. But you are not, if you where you would take the advise given to you by almost everyone here and go do something, you haven't, You ARE attention seeking.
@LadyOfRebirth
You're right!!!
I'm going to try to tone it down
Take my frustration out on something else for the meantime .. The gym
I was thinking just letting him approach me I'm kinda starting to die down not give up but not so involved. I don't want to give 80 and he's giving 20
So I need to self evaluate, fall back alittle get back into me.
My thing is I get way to into the man I'm with it's all about them I lose myself. I'm trying to work on that!
You're right!!!
I'm going to try to tone it down
Take my frustration out on something else for the meantime .. The gym
I was thinking just letting him approach me I'm kinda starting to die down not give up but not so involved. I don't want to give 80 and he's giving 20
So I need to self evaluate, fall back alittle get back into me.
My thing is I get way to into the man I'm with it's all about them I lose myself. I'm trying to work on that!
@justagirl
You were polite at first but you go back in forth
Nobody has time for that bipolar bs
You wanna help me then you wanna talk s***
Wtf make up your mind
You were polite at first but you go back in forth
Nobody has time for that bipolar bs
You wanna help me then you wanna talk s***
Wtf make up your mind
@justagirl
Calling me out on my bs.. Hmm don't think that bothers me you're just annoying with the back n forth s***
Make up your mind do you want to help or just continue to talk s***?
I'm taking everyone's opinions on how I should handle the matter and I will handle it
One day at a time
Did I say I wasn't going to do anything about it..?? I didn't think I said that. I didn't know you knew me like that.
People like you annoy the hell outta me I can't make you leave but I could block ya a**
Calling me out on my bs.. Hmm don't think that bothers me you're just annoying with the back n forth s***
Make up your mind do you want to help or just continue to talk s***?
I'm taking everyone's opinions on how I should handle the matter and I will handle it
One day at a time
Did I say I wasn't going to do anything about it..?? I didn't think I said that. I didn't know you knew me like that.
People like you annoy the hell outta me I can't make you leave but I could block ya a**
@CC
I heard that too about caps
Like tyrese song - signs of love making..
Never had the pleasure of meeting one yet
Also scorpios
I had a moment before I met my Virgo. It was extremely intense. Like soul mate level. We knew each other in and out. He just plays football and there all over the place so I know I would be going crazy. He's a lady's man too smh.. We still talk randomly but I'm focused on my relationship with my Virgo. Tryna make it work
I heard that too about caps
Like tyrese song - signs of love making..
Never had the pleasure of meeting one yet
Also scorpios
I had a moment before I met my Virgo. It was extremely intense. Like soul mate level. We knew each other in and out. He just plays football and there all over the place so I know I would be going crazy. He's a lady's man too smh.. We still talk randomly but I'm focused on my relationship with my Virgo. Tryna make it work
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@justagirl
Calling me out on my bs.. Hmm don't think that bothers me you're just annoying with the back n forth s***
Make up your mind do you want to help or just continue to talk s***?
I'm taking everyone's opinions on how I should handle the matter and I will handle it
One day at a time
Did I say I wasn't going to do anything about it..?? I didn't think I said that. I didn't know you knew me like that.
People like you annoy the hell outta me I can't make you leave but I could block ya a**
I take in what I read and see, your reactions to others posts, additional comments you have made and respond accordingly. /shrug I changed my opinion of your situation part way through, to you that is back and forth, that was me seeing you differently based on what I took in.
I still think you are full of it and that can be my opinion. You can block me if you want, but there really is no need. I did give my advise earlier, work on you. If you truly are only getting 80/20 that's not a healthy relationship. I get you have stressed you want better communication. But until you can figure out how to communicate with him, it's just making matters worse. How long is he in Texas? Maybe take that time to delve within you and figure the stuff out. honestly I wouldn't want this sort of relationship, with either person, which I think several others would agree. It's toxic. Not saying you are fault all alone. It takes both of you to create that.
I never have ill intent with my postings. Others do not like the truth most of the times. I will not sensor myself to appease someone however.
@justagirl
80/20 when it comes to communicating that's how I feel
He's in tx until April then Afghanistan _—
Yes I mentioned earlier I was just gonna let him come to me I guess
If I'm not pushing up on him ( forcing him to communicate) he'll see that and mb want to talk things out
I'll just be more nonchalant
But when I do stuff like this I feel like I'm being fake like it's not me. It's a constant battle inside of me. I'm very indecisive with everything. So I like to get as much info on any matter and do what I think is best out of everything I got.
80/20 when it comes to communicating that's how I feel
He's in tx until April then Afghanistan _—
Yes I mentioned earlier I was just gonna let him come to me I guess
If I'm not pushing up on him ( forcing him to communicate) he'll see that and mb want to talk things out
I'll just be more nonchalant
But when I do stuff like this I feel like I'm being fake like it's not me. It's a constant battle inside of me. I'm very indecisive with everything. So I like to get as much info on any matter and do what I think is best out of everything I got.
@justagirl
I try to see him as much as possible
Like right at this moment were not talking because he's upset with me trying to talk about something. He says good night and good morning txts and that's it
But I did make plans to see him for valentines day
So hopefully we get back to good terms for that since it's coming up
I try to see him as much as possible
Like right at this moment were not talking because he's upset with me trying to talk about something. He says good night and good morning txts and that's it
But I did make plans to see him for valentines day
So hopefully we get back to good terms for that since it's coming up
@TheProphetProdigy
It's not a burden tho
I want you to express what stresses you out at work. I don't think less of you for being emotional
I wouldn't care if you cried on my shoulder. I want to be there for you! Let me understand you so I can't help you! Just communicate with me that's all I'm asking.
Military life can be hard but I want to be apart of it and he's not letting me. He's just letting all the bad sink in him I want him to let it out
It's not a burden tho
I want you to express what stresses you out at work. I don't think less of you for being emotional
I wouldn't care if you cried on my shoulder. I want to be there for you! Let me understand you so I can't help you! Just communicate with me that's all I'm asking.
Military life can be hard but I want to be apart of it and he's not letting me. He's just letting all the bad sink in him I want him to let it out
Posted by PiscesGoddess
@justagirl
I try to see him as much as possible
Like right at this moment were not talking because he's upset with me trying to talk about something. He says good night and good morning txts and that's it
But I did make plans to see him for valentines day
So hopefully we get back to good terms for that since it's coming up
I'd venture to say you will be alone Valentines day.
This man is finished with you.
Grow up and stay out of relationships until you do.
@honeejr
I absolutely loved everything that you posted I agree 100% omg!!!!
@virgoflirt
I'm trying to make it work.. Even tho it seems like the relationship is against me. I'll try different tactics and if that doesn't work I have to give up. Sigh thank you for your insight. The Virgo man is a serious challenge to me. I don't really understand how your minds work
I absolutely loved everything that you posted I agree 100% omg!!!!
@virgoflirt
I'm trying to make it work.. Even tho it seems like the relationship is against me. I'll try different tactics and if that doesn't work I have to give up. Sigh thank you for your insight. The Virgo man is a serious challenge to me. I don't really understand how your minds work
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Don't give yourself a title that he didn't give you. It's misleading.
You're not at liberty to make this statement. Applying rationale and logical communication is not your forte. You prefer to emotionally 'act' on your feelings rather than to reach a mutual level of understanding.
Translation: "I need to control and dictate every movement you make to mask all my insecurities."
No he just needs you to fall back, quit invading his space, and to mind your business.
You're too much! 😢