VirgoanMaiden22
@Charleighrose22
7 Years
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Virgo woman & Aries man
I have a virgo friend who is dating an aries. They seem to be going okay. Maybe dating for 2-3 years.
I know a virgo guy whose best friend is an aries.
I know a virgo guy whose best friend is an aries.
I have the same bday as you
What’s you rising
I think virgos and Aries go well
What’s you rising
I think virgos and Aries go well
Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Queenaries2I think she is the virgo click to expandclick to expand
I have the same bday as you
What’s you rising
I think virgos and Aries go wellclick to expand
I'm a Virgo - Leo Rising so it's my boyfriend whom you share a birthday with
Posted by Earthgoddess
Wat would you like to know?
I am mostly interested in finding out if we would fit together. He chased me for awhile and then I think his last resort was asking me to give him a chance which I've done. Spent time getting to know him. So far, things seem to be going well but I've heard that's usually what happens and the Aries and Virgo split up. I wanted to know our chances of working out through the info I gave and if anyone knew of any positive stories haha!
Posted by Earthgoddess
Wat would you like to know?
I am mostly interested in finding out if we would fit together. He chased me for awhile and then I think his last resort was asking me to give him a chance which I've done. Spent time getting to know him. So far, things seem to be going well but I've heard that's usually what happens and the Aries and Virgo split up. I wanted to know our chances of working out through the info I gave and if anyone knew of any positive stories haha!
Posted by kitten_Why is that?☺
Best match ever. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Posted by WittyGem88v2
I have a friend who dated an aries man for 10 years and got married. Now they have a baby. Its a good rs between the two of them. Virgo woman is very responsible and Aries man loves that about her. Aries man is very kind and requires a lot of loyalty and virgo woman being a one man type of woman, never had jealousy issues with each other whatsoever.
That sounds perfect! I only hope that this relationship will turn into something like that. I didn't know anything about Aries until I read up on them. I wasn't thrilled either when I read that they could cheat if they think you're boring and that you need to constantly challenge them. It seemed like too much for me as a Virgo but in person it's not that bad. I'm just myself and that seems to work so far😅
Posted by EarthgoddessThat's sweet! My relationship is still early days so we are figuring out what role we play in each other's lives. Though I can already see it sounds a bit like your relationship. He doesn't mind that I have trouble talking to strangers or making lots of friends (my socially awkward). He excels where I..can improve haha! How how have you two been together?Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by WittyGem88v2
I have a friend who dated an aries man for 10 years and got married. Now they have a baby. Its a good rs between the two of them. Virgo woman is very responsible and Aries man loves that about her. Aries man is very kind and requires a lot of loyalty and virgo woman being a one man type of woman, never had jealousy issues with each other whatsoever.
That sounds perfect! I only hope that this relationship will turn into something like that. I didn't know anything about Aries until I read up on them. I wasn't thrilled either when I read that they could cheat if they think you're boring and that you need to constantly challenge them. It seemed like too much for me as a Virgo but in person it's not that bad. I'm just myself and that seems to work so far😅 click to expand
Yes they are great people but also difficult.
Being myself worked like a charm too🙂
Wat I found is he likes “who I am” ya know
Like he likes that I don’t make connections easily,, that I don’t like to have emotional spills, that I’m quiet but if he is pushing for a fight he gets one🤦🏽♀️. That I’m sometimes brutally honest. Even my awkward social skills sometimes.
And he’s natural acceptance of that is wat bonded me to him☺️
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Posted by TotiWhat does that mean?😹
Leo moon🙈
As an Aries I don’t like Virgo because they are the epitome of watching paint dry. You’d have to be fire sun for me to even pay attention to u
Posted by EarthgoddessLooking forward to experiencing that😅Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by Earthgoddess
Wat would you like to know?
I am mostly interested in finding out if we would fit together. He chased me for awhile and then I think his last resort was asking me to give him a chance which I've done. Spent time getting to know him. So far, things seem to be going well but I've heard that's usually what happens and the Aries and Virgo split up. I wanted to know our chances of working out through the info I gave and if anyone knew of any positive stories haha! click to expand
Ok well I’m a Virgo dating a Aries-
So far so good. We had a very very rough start but only becuz neither of us wanted to be the first to say wat we were both feeling.
We had a situationship for years. (He even then) is possessive, selfish, very needy, insecure and jealous ( hides it with anger).
He’s demanding and always right🙄 he won’t ever take ur suggestions if he thinks different but will be annoyed if you do the same. He demands absolute loyalty anything less will be considered betrayal and he will not repeat his feelings——hell just enact watever punishment he wants.
Most of this started only after we were official and only after he begun to open up ( took forever)
I know all that might have sounded like negatives to you. But to me I get why he reacts and does the things he does....he is emotionally sensitive ( don’t ever say this to him😬) so I let him act like a baby when he needs to. It’s annoying and I end up being the responsible one most times but I fall deeper in love each day.
I guess I just like torture🤦🏽♀️ click to expandclick to expand
Quite personal question here: Do you get on when you are together physically for long periods of time or is it better to have breaks?
The only thing I have noticed of the traits you described in my boyfriend is the emotional sensitivity and acting in a way that I would describe as vulnerable rather than like a baby. It's as if he gets tired of being the leader all of the time and just wants to be a little boy again with no responsibilities. I quite like it though. It makes me feel useful☺️😅
My parents. My mom is aries and my dad virgo.
Married for 35y and counting...
I've seen them stick together through thick and thin, althout they're tooootally different.
My mom is more wild and loose, my dad is a little reserved control freak. I've seen days that they couldn't stand each other and they'd fight the whole day then made peace by the end of it.
They really love each other and they're each others best friend so they work out their differences for most part... some they just decided to accept but still fight about it from time to time !...
It's fire, not gonna lie. But it's a matter of how you handle it.
(while joking, my mom says "i picked your father cause i knew i could educate him. the man you see today is all my work."; my father on the other hand says "your mother is crazy. I don't think anyone else would put up with her shit so it had to sacrifice myself.")
they're the best
Married for 35y and counting...
I've seen them stick together through thick and thin, althout they're tooootally different.
My mom is more wild and loose, my dad is a little reserved control freak. I've seen days that they couldn't stand each other and they'd fight the whole day then made peace by the end of it.
They really love each other and they're each others best friend so they work out their differences for most part... some they just decided to accept but still fight about it from time to time !...
It's fire, not gonna lie. But it's a matter of how you handle it.
(while joking, my mom says "i picked your father cause i knew i could educate him. the man you see today is all my work."; my father on the other hand says "your mother is crazy. I don't think anyone else would put up with her shit so it had to sacrifice myself.")
they're the best
Posted by miriyahhhWell, I have dated a male virgo born on the same day as me and that was hell. Did not work out at all. The worst part was that most things he did wrong that I didn't like, I couldn't even comment on because I realised I do the exact same thing and I would end up looking like a hypocrite. That relationship really opened my eyes to my own flaws.
As an Aries I don’t like Virgo because they are the epitome of watching paint dry. You’d have to be fire sun for me to even pay attention to u
Virgo girls are better though in terms of liveliness😉 You just have to take time to get to know us. My close friends wouldn't describe me as boring but outsiders might😁😇
Posted by llibra
My parents. My mom is aries and my dad virgo.
Married for 35y and counting...
I've seen them stick together through thick and thin, althout they're tooootally different.
My mom is more wild and loose, my dad is a little reserved control freak. I've seen days that they couldn't stand each other and they'd fight the whole day then made peace by the end of it.
They really love each other and they're each others best friend so they work out their differences for most part... some they just decided to accept but still fight about it from time to time !...
It's fire, not gonna lie. But it's a matter of how you handle it.
(while joking, my mom says "i picked your father cause i knew i could educate him. the man you see today is all my work."; my father on the other hand says "your mother is crazy. I don't think anyone else would put up with her butter so it had to sacrifice myself.")
they're the best
Awh💕 That's absolutely lovely! I'm hoping for a relationship like that. I wish them all the best for the next 35 years🌷
Posted by TotiThat's a bit of a generalization.Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by TotiWhat does that mean?😹 click to expand
Leo moon🙈
In my opinion Leo moon is the worst moon there is. Arrogant, egocentric, agressive, drama maker. Creating problems for fun, craving attention. Thinking they are the smartest, the prettiest... Not my kind of people. If combined with libra sun, stay away 😁 click to expandclick to expand
Have seen those qualities you've listed in other people who don't have that moon sign.
But to each their own.
Posted by llibraThis is very sweet.
My parents. My mom is aries and my dad virgo.
Married for 35y and counting...
I've seen them stick together through thick and thin, althout they're tooootally different.
My mom is more wild and loose, my dad is a little reserved control freak. I've seen days that they couldn't stand each other and they'd fight the whole day then made peace by the end of it.
They really love each other and they're each others best friend so they work out their differences for most part... some they just decided to accept but still fight about it from time to time !...
It's fire, not gonna lie. But it's a matter of how you handle it.
(while joking, my mom says "i picked your father cause i knew i could educate him. the man you see today is all my work."; my father on the other hand says "your mother is crazy. I don't think anyone else would put up with her butter so it had to sacrifice myself.")
they're the best
Posted by TotiThat's fair.Posted by m3hPosted by TotiThat's a bit of a generalization.Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by Toti
Leo moon🙈
What does that mean?😹 click to expand
In my opinion Leo moon is the worst moon there is. Arrogant, egocentric, agressive, drama maker. Creating problems for fun, craving attention. Thinking they are the smartest, the prettiest... Not my kind of people. If combined with libra sun, stay away 😁 click to expand
Have seen those qualities you've listed in other people who don't have that moon sign.
But to each their own. click to expand
I'd rather call it Leo moon experience. Very long one with many people who have it. I never tend to generalize. I've never even observed astrology as something serious until I became aware of the patterns. click to expandclick to expand
At the end of the day, our experiences and the meaning we put behind them create our understanding of the world.
Posted by TotiOh dear! I think being a Virgo has cancelled out some of those traits. I don't like attention. Often feel that people don't notice I exist but that has more positives than negatives. Constantly insist I'm average and not aggressive at all. When I try to be assertive (very rare), people just find it humorous. I'm too small and powerless to make a difference😹 I just want to live a quiet life!!😯Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by TotiWhat does that mean?😹 click to expand
Leo moon🙈
In my opinion Leo moon is the worst moon there is. Arrogant, egocentric, agressive, drama maker. Creating problems for fun, craving attention. Thinking they are the smartest, the prettiest... Not my kind of people. If combined with libra sun, stay away 😁 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by EarthgoddessThis was the most helpful information I've seen for this relationship😇 I understand about the going all in thing - I sensed that there was some sort of 'game' and I was naturally holding back. That's never happened before. I've only dated Scorpios and one Virgo prior to this Aries so I had no idea what I was in for😹Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessLooking forward to experiencing that😅Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by Earthgoddess
Wat would you like to know?
I am mostly interested in finding out if we would fit together. He chased me for awhile and then I think his last resort was asking me to give him a chance which I've done. Spent time getting to know him. So far, things seem to be going well but I've heard that's usually what happens and the Aries and Virgo split up. I wanted to know our chances of working out through the info I gave and if anyone knew of any positive stories haha! click to expand
Ok well I’m a Virgo dating a Aries-
So far so good. We had a very very rough start but only becuz neither of us wanted to be the first to say wat we were both feeling.
We had a situationship for years. (He even then) is possessive, selfish, very needy, insecure and jealous ( hides it with anger).
He’s demanding and always right🙄 he won’t ever take ur suggestions if he thinks different but will be annoyed if you do the same. He demands absolute loyalty anything less will be considered betrayal and he will not repeat his feelings——hell just enact watever punishment he wants.
Most of this started only after we were official and only after he begun to open up ( took forever)
I know all that might have sounded like negatives to you. But to me I get why he reacts and does the things he does....he is emotionally sensitive ( don’t ever say this to him😬) so I let him act like a baby when he needs to. It’s annoying and I end up being the responsible one most times but I fall deeper in love each day.
I guess I just like torture🤦🏽♀️ click to expand
Quite personal question here: Do you get on when you are together physically for long periods of time or is it better to have breaks?
The only thing I have noticed of the traits you described in my boyfriend is the emotional sensitivity and acting in a way that I would describe as vulnerable rather than like a baby. It's as if he gets tired of being the leader all of the time and just wants to be a little boy again with no responsibilities. I quite like it though. It makes me feel useful☺️😅 click to expand
I think we need breaks in between....or we can annoy the crap outta each other
He will say I’m “easily irritated” ( fussy,naggy)
I think he is loud, demanding, and god forbid I give full attention to something other than him🙄
But this usually happens when we don’t give each other space. Sometimes we get trap inside our own bubble ya know ( he can be kinda homebody sometimes) and we just avoid the world together. Then it’s like
I wanna read while I lay in his lap but he just wants to jiggle by boobs the whole time😂
Or he is doing work from home on the laptop and now I’m needy so I basically crawl all over him and he snaps
I’m like wtf😳😢
That’s when I find time for me. When he doesn’t want my attention- but when I don’t want his he has no chill...
He will just take it anyway and I’m like *sigh* ok I’ll love you now😂😂
Just remember they are moody and closed off at first. Moody doesn’t change but the closed off does. Here’s wat they don’t tell you once they open that emotional door. IT NEVER CLOSES.
He is on full blast all the time- all emotions intact
He’s angry, then he’s needy, now he’s clingy, then he’s standoffish, now he’s horney, oh wait he needs reassurance that I have feelings again😂😂 becuz somewhere between last week when I last said it and now he forgot!!!!!
They are work but they give so much in return. Just don’t go all in until he does. Ok Virgo 👌🏽 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by EarthgoddessOh, I don't think I know any libras. All of my close friends are virgos or scorpios😹Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessThis was the most helpful information I've seen for this relationship😇 I understand about the going all in thing - I sensed that there was some sort of 'game' and I was naturally holding back. That's never happened before. I've only dated Scorpios and one Virgo prior to this Aries so I had no idea what I was in for😹 click to expandPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by Earthgoddess
Wat would you like to know?
I am mostly interested in finding out if we would fit together. He chased me for awhile and then I think his last resort was asking me to give him a chance which I've done. Spent time getting to know him. So far, things seem to be going well but I've heard that's usually what happens and the Aries and Virgo split up. I wanted to know our chances of working out through the info I gave and if anyone knew of any positive stories haha! click to expand
Ok well I’m a Virgo dating a Aries-
So far so good. We had a very very rough start but only becuz neither of us wanted to be the first to say wat we were both feeling.
We had a situationship for years. (He even then) is possessive, selfish, very needy, insecure and jealous ( hides it with anger).
He’s demanding and always right🙄 he won’t ever take ur suggestions if he thinks different but will be annoyed if you do the same. He demands absolute loyalty anything less will be considered betrayal and he will not repeat his feelings——hell just enact watever punishment he wants.
Most of this started only after we were official and only after he begun to open up ( took forever)
I know all that might have sounded like negatives to you. But to me I get why he reacts and does the things he does....he is emotionally sensitive ( don’t ever say this to him😬) so I let him act like a baby when he needs to. It’s annoying and I end up being the responsible one most times but I fall deeper in love each day.
I guess I just like torture🤦🏽♀️ click to expand
Looking forward to experiencing that😅
Quite personal question here: Do you get on when you are together physically for long periods of time or is it better to have breaks?
The only thing I have noticed of the traits you described in my boyfriend is the emotional sensitivity and acting in a way that I would describe as vulnerable rather than like a baby. It's as if he gets tired of being the leader all of the time and just wants to be a little boy again with no responsibilities. I quite like it though. It makes me feel useful☺️😅 click to expand
I think we need breaks in between....or we can annoy the crap outta each other
He will say I’m “easily irritated” ( fussy,naggy)
I think he is loud, demanding, and god forbid I give full attention to something other than him🙄
But this usually happens when we don’t give each other space. Sometimes we get trap inside our own bubble ya know ( he can be kinda homebody sometimes) and we just avoid the world together. Then it’s like
I wanna read while I lay in his lap but he just wants to jiggle by boobs the whole time😂
Or he is doing work from home on the laptop and now I’m needy so I basically crawl all over him and he snaps
I’m like wtf😳😢
That’s when I find time for me. When he doesn’t want my attention- but when I don’t want his he has no chill...
He will just take it anyway and I’m like *sigh* ok I’ll love you now😂😂
Just remember they are moody and closed off at first. Moody doesn’t change but the closed off does. Here’s wat they don’t tell you once they open that emotional door. IT NEVER CLOSES.
He is on full blast all the time- all emotions intact
He’s angry, then he’s needy, now he’s clingy, then he’s standoffish, now he’s horney, oh wait he needs reassurance that I have feelings again😂😂 becuz somewhere between last week when I last said it and now he forgot!!!!!
They are work but they give so much in return. Just don’t go all in until he does. Ok Virgo 👌🏽 click to expand
I’ve only ever dated a libra before him so it’s a TOTAL shock to the system lol
Now I have questions—-sorry I don’t know many Virgo women and Aries man pairing so I need to compare
Sex—? How’s that? Sorry I can be blunt, I’m sure you know but I’m fine if you don’t wanna answer or are more comfortable with pming for that subject click to expandclick to expand
I'll say this: it is definitely interesting and not like anything I've ever experienced before.
Posted by EarthgoddessThis is gold! You're the best😹Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessThis was the most helpful information I've seen for this relationship😇 I understand about the going all in thing - I sensed that there was some sort of 'game' and I was naturally holding back. That's never happened before. I've only dated Scorpios and one Virgo prior to this Aries so I had no idea what I was in for😹 click to expandPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by Earthgoddess
Wat would you like to know?
I am mostly interested in finding out if we would fit together. He chased me for awhile and then I think his last resort was asking me to give him a chance which I've done. Spent time getting to know him. So far, things seem to be going well but I've heard that's usually what happens and the Aries and Virgo split up. I wanted to know our chances of working out through the info I gave and if anyone knew of any positive stories haha! click to expand
Ok well I’m a Virgo dating a Aries-
So far so good. We had a very very rough start but only becuz neither of us wanted to be the first to say wat we were both feeling.
We had a situationship for years. (He even then) is possessive, selfish, very needy, insecure and jealous ( hides it with anger).
He’s demanding and always right🙄 he won’t ever take ur suggestions if he thinks different but will be annoyed if you do the same. He demands absolute loyalty anything less will be considered betrayal and he will not repeat his feelings——hell just enact watever punishment he wants.
Most of this started only after we were official and only after he begun to open up ( took forever)
I know all that might have sounded like negatives to you. But to me I get why he reacts and does the things he does....he is emotionally sensitive ( don’t ever say this to him😬) so I let him act like a baby when he needs to. It’s annoying and I end up being the responsible one most times but I fall deeper in love each day.
I guess I just like torture🤦🏽♀️ click to expand
Looking forward to experiencing that😅
Quite personal question here: Do you get on when you are together physically for long periods of time or is it better to have breaks?
The only thing I have noticed of the traits you described in my boyfriend is the emotional sensitivity and acting in a way that I would describe as vulnerable rather than like a baby. It's as if he gets tired of being the leader all of the time and just wants to be a little boy again with no responsibilities. I quite like it though. It makes me feel useful☺️😅 click to expand
I think we need breaks in between....or we can annoy the crap outta each other
He will say I’m “easily irritated” ( fussy,naggy)
I think he is loud, demanding, and god forbid I give full attention to something other than him🙄
But this usually happens when we don’t give each other space. Sometimes we get trap inside our own bubble ya know ( he can be kinda homebody sometimes) and we just avoid the world together. Then it’s like
I wanna read while I lay in his lap but he just wants to jiggle by boobs the whole time😂
Or he is doing work from home on the laptop and now I’m needy so I basically crawl all over him and he snaps
I’m like wtf😳😢
That’s when I find time for me. When he doesn’t want my attention- but when I don’t want his he has no chill...
He will just take it anyway and I’m like *sigh* ok I’ll love you now😂😂
Just remember they are moody and closed off at first. Moody doesn’t change but the closed off does. Here’s wat they don’t tell you once they open that emotional door. IT NEVER CLOSES.
He is on full blast all the time- all emotions intact
He’s angry, then he’s needy, now he’s clingy, then he’s standoffish, now he’s horney, oh wait he needs reassurance that I have feelings again😂😂 becuz somewhere between last week when I last said it and now he forgot!!!!!
They are work but they give so much in return. Just don’t go all in until he does. Ok Virgo 👌🏽 click to expand
Oh btw there is a game I called it “grab up”
So here’s how you play
Emotions= show them but never talk about them
Plans= make them but never actually expect to do them+ but then spontaneously do them😂
Sex= ( with mine) often fast and as open minded as possible + do have very strong limits+ plus push ur own boundaries in ur own time
Attention= When together treat him like a relationship + when apart forget he exists + always seen excited when he reaches out+ but also not disappointed when he doesn’t
Invest= only invest when he behaves+ plus be unaffected but no rewarding when he misbehaves( he will🤦🏽♀️)
Friendship/family= mingle and be friendly+ no pushing to meet and no special displays+ Wait for him to label it
Commitment=When he is probing for ur status say something like “ wat do u mean I’m not ur friend” he will be shocked but give him 20secs to process he will be like “oh ok so we’re together”
That’s how you “grab up” a ram😂😂😂
#virgolife
#justwasmyself
#theylikethatvirgobutter click to expandclick to expand
I have already understood the pretending he doesn't exist when we aren't together, being surprised when he contacts me and giving him a lot of love and attention when we are together. When I'm alone, I just do my own thing but I'm having trouble understanding at what point I have to include him. He seems sad if I go to a concert or some other event with my friends without asking him if he wants to join. I just don't think he would mind if it's outside of the days we normally spend time together (weekends). He seems like he is happy with his routines and doesn't want to break them. Do I need to ask even though I know he will not come and will reject the invitation anyway?
Posted by EarthgoddessThat sounds about right! I think as a virgo, we just go along with whatever we are given. I mean it can't be too bad but average to well above average quality sex doesn't make too much of a difference..I think?Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessOh, I don't think I know any libras. All of my close friends are virgos or scorpios😹Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by Earthgoddess
Wat would you like to know?
I am mostly interested in finding out if we would fit together. He chased me for awhile and then I think his last resort was asking me to give him a chance which I've done. Spent time getting to know him. So far, things seem to be going well but I've heard that's usually what happens and the Aries and Virgo split up. I wanted to know our chances of working out through the info I gave and if anyone knew of any positive stories haha! click to expand
Ok well I’m a Virgo dating a Aries-
So far so good. We had a very very rough start but only becuz neither of us wanted to be the first to say wat we were both feeling.
We had a situationship for years. (He even then) is possessive, selfish, very needy, insecure and jealous ( hides it with anger).
He’s demanding and always right🙄 he won’t ever take ur suggestions if he thinks different but will be annoyed if you do the same. He demands absolute loyalty anything less will be considered betrayal and he will not repeat his feelings——hell just enact watever punishment he wants.
Most of this started only after we were official and only after he begun to open up ( took forever)
I know all that might have sounded like negatives to you. But to me I get why he reacts and does the things he does....he is emotionally sensitive ( don’t ever say this to him😬) so I let him act like a baby when he needs to. It’s annoying and I end up being the responsible one most times but I fall deeper in love each day.
I guess I just like torture🤦🏽♀️ click to expand
Looking forward to experiencing that😅
Quite personal question here: Do you get on when you are together physically for long periods of time or is it better to have breaks?
The only thing I have noticed of the traits you described in my boyfriend is the emotional sensitivity and acting in a way that I would describe as vulnerable rather than like a baby. It's as if he gets tired of being the leader all of the time and just wants to be a little boy again with no responsibilities. I quite like it though. It makes me feel useful☺️😅 click to expand
I think we need breaks in between....or we can annoy the crap outta each other
He will say I’m “easily irritated” ( fussy,naggy)
I think he is loud, demanding, and god forbid I give full attention to something other than him🙄
But this usually happens when we don’t give each other space. Sometimes we get trap inside our own bubble ya know ( he can be kinda homebody sometimes) and we just avoid the world together. Then it’s like
I wanna read while I lay in his lap but he just wants to jiggle by boobs the whole time😂
Or he is doing work from home on the laptop and now I’m needy so I basically crawl all over him and he snaps
I’m like wtf😳😢
That’s when I find time for me. When he doesn’t want my attention- but when I don’t want his he has no chill...
He will just take it anyway and I’m like *sigh* ok I’ll love you now😂😂
Just remember they are moody and closed off at first. Moody doesn’t change but the closed off does. Here’s wat they don’t tell you once they open that emotional door. IT NEVER CLOSES.
He is on full blast all the time- all emotions intact
He’s angry, then he’s needy, now he’s clingy, then he’s standoffish, now he’s horney, oh wait he needs reassurance that I have feelings again😂😂 becuz somewhere between last week when I last said it and now he forgot!!!!!
They are work but they give so much in return. Just don’t go all in until he does. Ok Virgo 👌🏽 click to expand
This was the most helpful information I've seen for this relationship😇 I understand about the going all in thing - I sensed that there was some sort of 'game' and I was naturally holding back. That's never happened before. I've only dated Scorpios and one Virgo prior to this Aries so I had no idea what I was in for😹 click to expand
I’ve only ever dated a libra before him so it’s a TOTAL shock to the system lol
Now I have questions—-sorry I don’t know many Virgo women and Aries man pairing so I need to compare
Sex—? How’s that? Sorry I can be blunt, I’m sure you know but I’m fine if you don’t wanna answer or are more comfortable with pming for that subject click to expand
I'll say this: it is definitely interesting and not like anything I've ever experienced before. click to expand
I agree about the sex part...something I’ve never experienced....it keeps changing and every time it’s new and intense
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Posted by EarthgoddessAhh okay! Mine is not like that. If I seem like I'm not really into it then he's finished. Play time is over. Sometimes I wish I could just get the attention off me. I would argue that you are somewhat lucky in that way. They don't seem to be balanced people. It's always extreme haha!Posted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessThat sounds about right! I think as a virgo, we just go along with whatever we are given. I mean it can't be too bad but average to well above average quality sex doesn't make too much of a difference..I think? click to expandPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by Earthgoddess
Wat would you like to know?
I am mostly interested in finding out if we would fit together. He chased me for awhile and then I think his last resort was asking me to give him a chance which I've done. Spent time getting to know him. So far, things seem to be going well but I've heard that's usually what happens and the Aries and Virgo split up. I wanted to know our chances of working out through the info I gave and if anyone knew of any positive stories haha! click to expand
Ok well I’m a Virgo dating a Aries-
So far so good. We had a very very rough start but only becuz neither of us wanted to be the first to say wat we were both feeling.
We had a situationship for years. (He even then) is possessive, selfish, very needy, insecure and jealous ( hides it with anger).
He’s demanding and always right🙄 he won’t ever take ur suggestions if he thinks different but will be annoyed if you do the same. He demands absolute loyalty anything less will be considered betrayal and he will not repeat his feelings——hell just enact watever punishment he wants.
Most of this started only after we were official and only after he begun to open up ( took forever)
I know all that might have sounded like negatives to you. But to me I get why he reacts and does the things he does....he is emotionally sensitive ( don’t ever say this to him😬) so I let him act like a baby when he needs to. It’s annoying and I end up being the responsible one most times but I fall deeper in love each day.
I guess I just like torture🤦🏽♀️ click to expand
Looking forward to experiencing that😅
Quite personal question here: Do you get on when you are together physically for long periods of time or is it better to have breaks?
The only thing I have noticed of the traits you described in my boyfriend is the emotional sensitivity and acting in a way that I would describe as vulnerable rather than like a baby. It's as if he gets tired of being the leader all of the time and just wants to be a little boy again with no responsibilities. I quite like it though. It makes me feel useful☺️😅 click to expand
I think we need breaks in between....or we can annoy the crap outta each other
He will say I’m “easily irritated” ( fussy,naggy)
I think he is loud, demanding, and god forbid I give full attention to something other than him🙄
But this usually happens when we don’t give each other space. Sometimes we get trap inside our own bubble ya know ( he can be kinda homebody sometimes) and we just avoid the world together. Then it’s like
I wanna read while I lay in his lap but he just wants to jiggle by boobs the whole time😂
Or he is doing work from home on the laptop and now I’m needy so I basically crawl all over him and he snaps
I’m like wtf😳😢
That’s when I find time for me. When he doesn’t want my attention- but when I don’t want his he has no chill...
He will just take it anyway and I’m like *sigh* ok I’ll love you now😂😂
Just remember they are moody and closed off at first. Moody doesn’t change but the closed off does. Here’s wat they don’t tell you once they open that emotional door. IT NEVER CLOSES.
He is on full blast all the time- all emotions intact
He’s angry, then he’s needy, now he’s clingy, then he’s standoffish, now he’s horney, oh wait he needs reassurance that I have feelings again😂😂 becuz somewhere between last week when I last said it and now he forgot!!!!!
They are work but they give so much in return. Just don’t go all in until he does. Ok Virgo 👌🏽 click to expand
This was the most helpful information I've seen for this relationship😇 I understand about the going all in thing - I sensed that there was some sort of 'game' and I was naturally holding back. That's never happened before. I've only dated Scorpios and one Virgo prior to this Aries so I had no idea what I was in for😹 click to expand
I’ve only ever dated a libra before him so it’s a TOTAL shock to the system lol
Now I have questions—-sorry I don’t know many Virgo women and Aries man pairing so I need to compare
Sex—? How’s that? Sorry I can be blunt, I’m sure you know but I’m fine if you don’t wanna answer or are more comfortable with pming for that subject click to expand
Oh, I don't think I know any libras. All of my close friends are virgos or scorpios😹
I'll say this: it is definitely interesting and not like anything I've ever experienced before. click to expand
I agree about the sex part...something I’ve never experienced....it keeps changing and every time it’s new and intense
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Agreed
See here was my problem at first he moved in quick....not like rushing me but when we were both ready he went straight to business.
I was like “wait a min sir” he seems just like he forgets I’m there if I let him. He likes to dominate in this department. Don’t get me wrong I’m ok with that (Virgo) but you have to stimulate my mind first even during the act.
So I had to teach him this( he’s 40)
We’re still working on him remembering that It’s about me too. But something new I just let him forget I’m there and use me🤫🤭😱 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22I've got to try that😹 Sometimes I feel a little lost when it comes to him. You seem to understand Aries well though!Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22This is gold! You're the best😹Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by Charleighrose22Posted by Earthgoddess
Wat would you like to know?
I am mostly interested in finding out if we would fit together. He chased me for awhile and then I think his last resort was asking me to give him a chance which I've done. Spent time getting to know him. So far, things seem to be going well but I've heard that's usually what happens and the Aries and Virgo split up. I wanted to know our chances of working out through the info I gave and if anyone knew of any positive stories haha! click to expand
Ok well I’m a Virgo dating a Aries-
So far so good. We had a very very rough start but only becuz neither of us wanted to be the first to say wat we were both feeling.
We had a situationship for years. (He even then) is possessive, selfish, very needy, insecure and jealous ( hides it with anger).
He’s demanding and always right🙄 he won’t ever take ur suggestions if he thinks different but will be annoyed if you do the same. He demands absolute loyalty anything less will be considered betrayal and he will not repeat his feelings——hell just enact watever punishment he wants.
Most of this started only after we were official and only after he begun to open up ( took forever)
I know all that might have sounded like negatives to you. But to me I get why he reacts and does the things he does....he is emotionally sensitive ( don’t ever say this to him😬) so I let him act like a baby when he needs to. It’s annoying and I end up being the responsible one most times but I fall deeper in love each day.
I guess I just like torture🤦🏽♀️ click to expand
Looking forward to experiencing that😅
Quite personal question here: Do you get on when you are together physically for long periods of time or is it better to have breaks?
The only thing I have noticed of the traits you described in my boyfriend is the emotional sensitivity and acting in a way that I would describe as vulnerable rather than like a baby. It's as if he gets tired of being the leader all of the time and just wants to be a little boy again with no responsibilities. I quite like it though. It makes me feel useful☺️😅 click to expand
I think we need breaks in between....or we can annoy the crap outta each other
He will say I’m “easily irritated” ( fussy,naggy)
I think he is loud, demanding, and god forbid I give full attention to something other than him🙄
But this usually happens when we don’t give each other space. Sometimes we get trap inside our own bubble ya know ( he can be kinda homebody sometimes) and we just avoid the world together. Then it’s like
I wanna read while I lay in his lap but he just wants to jiggle by boobs the whole time😂
Or he is doing work from home on the laptop and now I’m needy so I basically crawl all over him and he snaps
I’m like wtf😳😢
That’s when I find time for me. When he doesn’t want my attention- but when I don’t want his he has no chill...
He will just take it anyway and I’m like *sigh* ok I’ll love you now😂😂
Just remember they are moody and closed off at first. Moody doesn’t change but the closed off does. Here’s wat they don’t tell you once they open that emotional door. IT NEVER CLOSES.
He is on full blast all the time- all emotions intact
He’s angry, then he’s needy, now he’s clingy, then he’s standoffish, now he’s horney, oh wait he needs reassurance that I have feelings again😂😂 becuz somewhere between last week when I last said it and now he forgot!!!!!
They are work but they give so much in return. Just don’t go all in until he does. Ok Virgo 👌🏽 click to expand
Oh btw there is a game I called it “grab up”
So here’s how you play
Emotions= show them but never talk about them
Plans= make them but never actually expect to do them+ but then spontaneously do them😂
Sex= ( with mine) often fast and as open minded as possible + do have very strong limits+ plus push ur own boundaries in ur own time
Attention= When together treat him like a relationship + when apart forget he exists + always seen excited when he reaches out+ but also not disappointed when he doesn’t
Invest= only invest when he behaves+ plus be unaffected but no rewarding when he misbehaves( he will🤦🏽♀️)
Friendship/family= mingle and be friendly+ no pushing to meet and no special displays+ Wait for him to label it
Commitment=When he is probing for ur status say something like “ wat do u mean I’m not ur friend” he will be shocked but give him 20secs to process he will be like “oh ok so we’re together”
That’s how you “grab up” a ram😂😂😂
#virgolife
#justwasmyself
#theylikethatvirgobutter click to expand
I have already understood the pretending he doesn't exist when we aren't together, being surprised when he contacts me and giving him a lot of love and attention when we are together. When I'm alone, I just do my own thing but I'm having trouble understanding at what point I have to include him. He seems sad if I go to a concert or some other event with my friends without asking him if he wants to join. I just don't think he would mind if it's outside of the days we normally spend time together (weekends). He seems like he is happy with his routines and doesn't want to break them. Do I need to ask even though I know he will not come and will reject the invitation anyway? click to expand
So weird I had this same problem while starting off
Here wat I did
I’d call or when he’d call I’d say something like
ME:“ hey baby can you take me to the gun range Friday ( he knows I love to shoot)
Him:“ can baby but I’ll let you know when”
ME: “aww ok my love let me know when but insert friend name says we Gonna go onSaturday. I can’t wait until we go tho”
Friday morning guess who calls😁
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*takes notes*
Posted by EarthgoddessSmart woman!
Also he is comfortable with his routines becuz he gets to have his way....
Gently guiding while making it seem like he’s the one who came up with the idea of taking you out is wat works
Posted by EarthgoddessIt only sounds mad from the outside. Once you date an Aries especially being a Virgo, I think this is all natural. A lot of what she said happened with me without me consciously thinking about it at all. Aries like their space, their routines and getting their way. I think most Virgos would prefer more time spent with the object of their desire but this relationship doesn't work like that. I wouldn't describe it as manipulating at all. Aries men are very different than we are. This, I would argue, is essential if you want the relationship to survive, especially in the beginning stages.Posted by SuninLibraPosted by EarthgoddessPosted by Sunsetvirgo
*takes notes*
When you finish can I borrow those
These men diff don’t let you get confortable🤦🏽♀️ click to expand
Sorry I couldn't help but read the whole thread and as u said you can't get comfortable at all with all these notes, and I'm saying this with all my good intentions but it really seems like manipulation to me. Your Aries seems to really love why u do all this? click to expand
I’m sorry but I’m not sure I understand wat ur saying....why do I do wat? And which part was manipulating?
Were you referring to the “grab up” game!!!
If so....he and I both thank u for ur concern of his emotional status but honestly. I was just sharing my experience and some of the things that got us thro the rough beginnings. Also things I learned dealing with him and such ( likes,dislikes)
As I said before he likes me as I am, and wat u read is exactly my natural dating process 🤷♀️
Now as far as if it’s a form of manipulation I’ll let you bear your own judgment- either way. He’s happy, I’m happy and for now who can really ask for more🙂 click to expandclick to expand
I would also add that Aries men don't seem to want to get comfortable. As soon as things seem to calm down and you get a normal routine and everything is stable - they change it and rip the ground right from under your feet! It's impressive and I'm not sure if that is a good or bad thing haha!
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhat do you mean?😹
For some stupid reason I want to unearth my Virgo girlfriend and do something fun.
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