Virgo woman + Cancer guy

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by kleanchap on Thursday, December 28, 2006 and has 5 replies.

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@kleanchap
19 YearsCancer

I am a Cancer guy. How do I get this Virgo lady I am dating to talk? Can Virgo women be faithful partners? This Virgoan lady (dating for a year) is really nice in every way but she has other male friends. She is only friends with them, however that is making me uncomfortable. When my ex-girlfriend (long distance realtionship) calls me (with whom I do not maintain much communication from my side), my Virgoan lady gets upset. Is there any positive way to handle this conflict? Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Hehe?

Cancerian double standards?!

?She is only friends with them, however that is making me uncomfortable?

then?

?When my ex-girlfriend (long distance realtionship) calls me (with whom I do not maintain much communication from my side), my Virgoan lady gets upset.?

Anything wrong here..??

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@kleanchap
19 YearsCancer

Please keep in mind, that I do not maintain contact with my ex-girlfriend. Our breakup was not pleasant. She however tries to mend and wants to maintain the friendship. I never call her on my own. She calls about twice a year.

My Virgoan lady has friends that she calls pretty much every week. Some of them that she was involved with in the past.

I don't think this by any means double standards on my part.

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@cancerLA
20 Years500+ Posts

Find someone else....she'll nag, freeze up in the bedroom everytime you leave a toilet seat up, and never shut the fuck up. Within two years you'll be living like two old senior citizens sleeping on opposite sides of the bed. Get a Scorp, Pisc, Taurus, or Leo and call it a day.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

kleanchap, what Q meant was . . her friends are only friends . . platonic

Yours was an ex . . that's different . .

"Is there any positive way to handle this conflict?"

The conflict doesn't appear to be with two people, rather, inside yourself. As a human being who is bound to another, she SHOULD be upset if your ex calls you. As a human being who is bound to another, you SHOULD not be upset if your partner has male friends. So, what is the answer, if the conflict is one-sided?

As to your other question, "How do I get this Virgo lady I am dating to talk?"

That, my friend, is the question of the Century, and all the other ones that have past and are yet to come . . we've no clue and dissect this issue on a daily basis. I'm not even sure they know exactly why.

Good Luck, and it's possible for a water sign to make it with a Virgo . .