Virgo woman dating a Virgo man - can it work?

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Siobhan
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21 YearsVirgo

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I'm a 32 year old Virgo woman who has been in a relationship with a 25 year old Virgo man for over a year now. I love him very much and he says he loves me, sometimes telling me 5 times a day. When we are together he treats me like I am everything to him...always telling me how beautiful and perfect I am and that I'm everything he could ever want and ask for and thought would never have. My problem with the relationship is I never get to see him as often as I'd like to. He's in school taking Engineering and is always studying. I know how important that is as this is his career choice and from what I see, he seems to have a very level-head as well as being focused...however, he is always telling me he misses me and wants to see me and that we'll do something on the weekends...weekends come and go and sometimes I never hear from him. It's been over 2 weeks since we last saw each other and I'm really frustrated. My friends think I'm just worrying over nothing because they can see how much he loves and cares about me and try to ensure me that he's just busy with school. But May 15th I found out I was pregnant and had had a miscarriage and I told him...he was very caring about it and wanted to take care of me. That was the 23rd of May...havent seen him since although he has emailed me with the last one on June 2nd which told me he missed me and hoped we could do something that weekend....again, never heard from him. I emailed him on June 7th telling him how frustrated I feel etc. I haven't heard back from him...maybe something happened..I don't know. Back in Dec/03 I broke it off with him because of lack of not seeing each other and after a month of being apart he told me that he was miserable without me and wanted to make things work again. After that I was getting roses all the time, taken out to dinner, movies, even limo rides. He's very artistic and would always make me things. Actually we were spoiling each other which is nice...but now I'm really feeling like he doesn't give a butter and I'm not important to him at all....sometimes I think he's seeing someone else as he can't posibily be studying all the time. I don't know what to do...I know I'm rambling here and I appologize for that. I love this man very much and do not want this relationship to end. Can anyone give me some advice on what to do? I've already sent him an email stating how I feel. HELP!
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Qbone
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21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

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Hm....

Hello and welcome Siobhan... 🙂

Right to the point?. From V to V about V.

Please read what you have written? as many times as possible, then continue with my post.

Have you ever heard about Virgo's famous greed for everything..?? and their needs to get more attention?more?. and even MORE..??
What you are talking about here lady is about that greed, need for emotionally feel secured, and to be honest with you this is the one that mess with your head/heart and make your life difficult, you want to create a harmony in your relationship and you are already afraid of "imaginary" rivals..!! There is no such a thing like Security. If this is the case, then you'll have to be always on guard and prepare for the worst every day and night, 24/7.. now tell me?!!

Are you going to enjoying this..??
Is this a kind of life you are looking for..??

This...Greed and neediness makes you assume things..imagine things...that does not exist but in your head...!! Let it go.. before it get in to you, no one cause conflict or threatens to upset the peace and tranquillity you are enjoying but your assumption about imaginary things.

You need to learn to TRUST your partner...If you cannot TRUST him, then there is no reason to continue this relationship, as Virgo I know it is difficult to maintain the everyday life when we have the feelings like this (cause we always want to get to the bottom of things a.s.a.p.) but you don't have to burn yourself to get things in the way you want it.. there is something in life called (time works) sometimes you'll have to let time to solve the situation, so SLOW DOWN YOU SPEEDY VIRGO and let things happen in the way they are meant to be, you already know that, the more you dig in this situation, the more energy you waste instead of going somewhere.
If you ask me...you need to cool down, take heart and be patient, life will soon have a sense of normality again if you let things happen in their way. Aggressive bullying behaviour will only set you back and you going no where.

Remember lady:

No matter what will happen, embrace the life and live every day as though it was your last, life is for living not suffering!
🙂