Virgos and Long Distance Relationships?

When you're with a Virgo guy he's amazing, but the second you go to another part of the world....he's not able to express his feelings! Do you love them? Hate them? Hug them? Or shrug them off?

Being a bit more generic....Why are long distance relationships harder to keep?

'..Why are long distance relationships harder to keep?...'

coz for virgos wen ur out of sight... baby ur out of heart 🙂

well in sum cases wen the guy is not around u fall for him more and more but wen hes around u see how imperfect he is....and so distanc helpz 🙂

but in other cases wen a person isnt around.. wid time u kindda forget their strengths and u kindda judge them from wat u hear on the phone ..etc...

but ya they can work.. i have seen quite a few distance-relationshipz work and it really dependz in which category u or ur man fallz...

but my recommendation wud be to not fall for a guy whose faaaaaaaar away ( unless u already know him and hes gone of to another state..)coz u might end up in heartache... u dont even know wat the other person feelz about ya...

i definitely second that

LDR are painful at times, but sometimes they can really help you to appreciate the person once you do see them again. provided that you see the other person at fairly regular intervals. but its also important that the relationship does not stay long distance for a long period of time, or indefinitely. you need to know at some point (hopefully sooner than later) you 2 will be together.

as for the virgo and LDR's...i'd like to hear more virgo comments about that

Hi Miriam 🙂 Speaking from experience (I am a Virgo and have been in more than one long-distance relationships), I believe that when the other person is far away the relationship fizzles away. This is certainly true in my case, as I need to see, hear and feel my partner close to me at least a couple of days in a week. (Most) Virgos are practical and realistic people, and hence when a relationship (which, by definition, is based on intimacy and thus requires both people to be there for one another) is carried out from a distance, the whole purpose of being with someone is defeated. Personally, I also like my partner to be independent and self-secure, which again goes against the very concept of long-distance relationships. This is because such 'relationships' bring out insecurity and fear in most people, and this causes such people to become even more clingy/needy. It's not in my nature to call someone every day just to remind them that I love them or that I could not live without them. Call it being detached, etc. I call it being secure about oneself, strong and independent. So a long-distance relationship is bound to fail if it involves me. Bear in mind that my comments do not regard situations where the people see each other regularly (maybe twice a month), or in cases where there are real and definite plans for being together again in the near future.

I hope this helps a bit 🙂