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I do look in the mirror a lot but don't always like what I find there! Being 55 years old now I need to know how I am looking as I can't take it for granted anymore that I automatically look OK. Being a Virgo I am partly sizing up the imperfections (amount of grey hair/wrinkles/etc.): luckily however I do have a good bone structure and a full head of hair, also I don't smoke or usually drink or take drugs so I hope I am ageing relatively gracefully!
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by SevenKisses
As a Virgo I was offended...but only because its slightly true. I think my Aquarius moon keeps me from herd mentality but it makes me EXTRA Anti-social...well more detached because I enjoy socializing but don't get too close to me.
As far as being a narcissists a bit. I can say sorry but its like pulling teeth...its a very painful experience for me. And I'm Sorry only comes out if I truly feel or know I was wrong. If I feel an inkling of I'm Right then that sorry is hard to get, but even in those situations I will come back and say sorry...just not right away it may be hours or days later.
so what happens when a person touches you? gives you a hug? do you make this face?
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LOL Yes depending on who you are and how close you are to me, I may take it in stride like whatever. But if I don't know you or I feel no particular closeness to a person and they try to touch me I may very well make this face. Also I HATE with a passion people who grab me from behind unless I expect it. Don't surprise me you might get hit.
Posted by lisabethur8
LOL more like Wtf is wrong with you? get the hell away or i'll call the cops. Naw, the virgos I know in real life are very touchy feely, BUT only with those they love.
I try to be discreet but if I like you I'm very touchy feely. If I like you you will know it...but only you. I don't do PDA's but I will touch you, maybe on your back or stroke your arm. In more private settings I will be all over you. At least until It gets uncomfortable. Cuddling is always nice at first but the longer it goes on the more one person is always uncomfortable.
Posted by BlackMambaWhy'd you delete your other thread? Anyways....I'm pretty sure the Virgo I know is a narcissist. My theory is because he was kinda shunned by girls at a younger age (not that attractive), he's overcompensating now and treating woman like garbage because they are now interested in him and openly showing it. He once told me that if a woman wants to date him, she needs to show it. Otherwise, it must not meant for them to be together. Like WTF dude— You can't openly pursue anyone—Posted by virgodog58Seriously where does the need come from?
I do look in the mirror a lot but don't always like what I find there! Being 55 years old now I need to know how I am looking as I can't take it for granted anymore that I automatically look OK. Being a Virgo I am partly sizing up the imperfections (amount of grey hair/wrinkles/etc.): luckily however I do have a good bone structure and a full head of hair, also I don't smoke or usually drink or take drugs so I hope I am ageing relatively gracefully!click to expand
I wish I could go back to tge 1920s and take over the mob racket
Posted by VanishHoly crap.....yes he does. Lol. I just looked it up and that so makes sense now. SMH! So is that how you are? How do people react to that?Posted by thisismylife2015He might have a Leo venus. That, bitch if you don't show me attention, I know someone who will attitude is characteristic of me.Posted by BlackMambaWhy'd you delete your other thread? Anyways....I'm pretty sure the Virgo I know is a narcissist. My theory is because he was kinda shunned by girls at a younger age (not that attractive), he's overcompensating now and treating woman like garbage because they are now interested in him and openly showing it. He once told me that if a woman wants to date him, she needs to show it. Otherwise, it must not meant for them to be together. Like WTF dude— You can't openly pursue anyone—Posted by virgodog58Seriously where does the need come from?
I do look in the mirror a lot but don't always like what I find there! Being 55 years old now I need to know how I am looking as I can't take it for granted anymore that I automatically look OK. Being a Virgo I am partly sizing up the imperfections (amount of grey hair/wrinkles/etc.): luckily however I do have a good bone structure and a full head of hair, also I don't smoke or usually drink or take drugs so I hope I am ageing relatively gracefully!click to expand
Posted by starwarsI have no clue what you are referring to, but yes.
bullshit
Posted by VanishDamn. That has to make it hard to find a good relationship, or any relationship for that matter. Makes sense why dude has been single for 6 years now.Posted by thisismylife2015Lol I only date my fans, but when I do find someone who falls in love with everything about me, my inner virgo says "you're not good enough for them. Run away. Run away!" :/Posted by VanishHoly crap.....yes he does. Lol. I just looked it up and that so makes sense now. SMH! So is that how you are? How do people react to that?Posted by thisismylife2015He might have a Leo venus. That, bitch if you don't show me attention, I know someone who will attitude is characteristic of me.Posted by BlackMambaWhy'd you delete your other thread? Anyways....I'm pretty sure the Virgo I know is a narcissist. My theory is because he was kinda shunned by girls at a younger age (not that attractive), he's overcompensating now and treating woman like garbage because they are now interested in him and openly showing it. He once told me that if a woman wants to date him, she needs to show it. Otherwise, it must not meant for them to be together. Like WTF dude— You can't openly pursue anyone—Posted by virgodog58Seriously where does the need come from?
I do look in the mirror a lot but don't always like what I find there! Being 55 years old now I need to know how I am looking as I can't take it for granted anymore that I automatically look OK. Being a Virgo I am partly sizing up the imperfections (amount of grey hair/wrinkles/etc.): luckily however I do have a good bone structure and a full head of hair, also I don't smoke or usually drink or take drugs so I hope I am ageing relatively gracefully!click to expand
My bro is legit NPD. No Virgo anywhere in his chart (Aries Sun/Gem Moon with a Libra stellium).
Nice try, though....smh.
Nice try, though....smh.
Wow...interesting read. I've been trying to put my finger on some of the relationship issues between me and my guy. Admittedly, it was confusing as hell, because it wasn't the Scorp sun. I know that energy too well. After following some of the Leo moon people here and seeing their POV, plus after being pursued and married to a Leo sun, I figured out that this "weirdness" wasn't/isn't Leo moon. I'm a Venus in Capricorn...so I EASILY recognize his VIC. Alas, after weeks of searching, I find it...Virgo Mars. I have to agree with OP that modern day astrology wants to give Virgo energy the cloak of servitude. Yes, but to self...not only first and foremost, but PERIOD. I just decided to do a search and see what Virgo men have to say about being a Virgo and I SWEAR ON MY LIFE, this is my guy in our relationship. I'm just speechless, because now I'm like...wow. This Virgo Mars is like, the WORST part of him. He mitigates this in our relationship by becoming somber and then quietly saying to me....it's me, it's not you. I was beginning to think that his statement was a cop out until now. He really means it. The other great thing about him is that after Virgo Mars acts like an ass, he readily (but quietly) embraces me. It's like he knows that his actions turns women off and he can't prevent from acting this way, but he's learned how to apologize and how to make up for it in his own way...but yea...I'm still like...jaw dropping...whoa. The post I read before this one was brutal. Basically, a Virgo man admitting that the best thing a woman can do is shut up and do as her man says. That's pretty much the "joke" my guy sent me in response to a very sweet good morning greeting. Now, I'm thinking...how nasty does this Virgo energy REALLY get—??
FYI...I've NEVER been in relationship with a Virgo or a close friendship with a female Virgo. My male Virgo friend turned me off with the detached nature and his views of women. Now he's chasing me, knowing that I have a man. I've been trying to save the friendship, but don't know if it's possible. His call last week was to nastily ask me if I was married yet. I was shocked and was like...ummm, no. Then he goes, "oh..not yet? But I bet you he's trying to move in already". I was like, "nope...hasn't even come up in convo". Then he resorts to, "well, I know he has a drawer at your house or you have a drawer at his...something." At that point I laughed and said, "Nope. He's comfortable in his space and I'm comfortable in mine." He goes silent. So, then I say, "but the relationship is progressing well. He's working in such n such city and I was just there visiting him last week. Just got back on Sunday. It's all good." He really didn't have much to say. We chit chat about life updates and I ask him if he still goes to church near my home. He says, "Look...I don't pass by your house on the way to church OR on the way home." So I reminded him that he's the one who said he did MONTHS ago. I was just going by what he told me. This dude says to me..."But I can stop by your house and put my tongue in your mouth." I've NEVER had anything sexual with this guy in over two years. He only started this aggro sex talk AFTER my last relationship ended. I guess he's bitter, because I went from single to being with the Scorp instead of being with him. But I don't get it, because I never ever indicated that I've ever wanted to be with him on any level and have only expressed that I really really appreciate that we can be friends. Now it's like he's trying to wreck the friendship. Smh I even introduced him to a friend of mine...right after my break up. I invited him over to her house...he's a Virgo, she's a Taurus, I thought they might hit it off. When I turned him down flat while still single and told him that I felt his remarks disrespected our friendship...this dude asked me why I invited him over there. I had to tell him, "you're single and she's single...I honestly thought you guys would be intetested in meeting each other. I called you over there to meet HER!". She's actually really cute and a nuclear engineer. He said, "well...I didn't like her. She's weird." I was like FML.
The set up when he came over my friends house was this...she and I sat on one couch together tearing UP these street tacos. He talked about us while we smashed on the food. She was asking him a BUNCH of questions and he was sitting on the couch on the other side of the room. I already knew all of the answers to the questions and those tacos were good as hell. Shit...I was fucking that food up while they were chit chatting. How in the hell did he get ANY impression that after two years of platonic frienship that I called him over there for MY pleasure? I don't get it. Smh
lol this post tripped me out ahaha my ex virgo was def a narc and im a virgo too so i must have been as well ahhahaha
Couldnt agree more! Experiencing one ! Total pain!
My ex.
Someone said that Virgo's refuse blame. I find this to have been the case with the male Virgo's I've known. In particular, a friend of five years and I had a falling out. He made a mistake, yet somehow it was my fault.
I then told him how tired I was of the way he had been treating me. How ridiculous he had been. I was tired of being yelled at. He made me feel like he didn't need or want me as a friend anymore. He'd swear at me, and regularly get so aggravated with me. He decided we couldn't be friends, because I was too resentful and angry, and had little in common with him.
No matter what I said, I was always wrong. I was always fighting. I was arrogant. I was the problem. He never apologized for anything. Never acknowledged his part no matter how many times I "confronted" him. He'd just become more and more sarcastic and insulting.
I then told him how tired I was of the way he had been treating me. How ridiculous he had been. I was tired of being yelled at. He made me feel like he didn't need or want me as a friend anymore. He'd swear at me, and regularly get so aggravated with me. He decided we couldn't be friends, because I was too resentful and angry, and had little in common with him.
No matter what I said, I was always wrong. I was always fighting. I was arrogant. I was the problem. He never apologized for anything. Never acknowledged his part no matter how many times I "confronted" him. He'd just become more and more sarcastic and insulting.
Posted by 81gemsThey never accept blame. One poster just blamed an OP for the behavior of a cheating Virguy like ummm no sir.
Someone said that Virgo's refuse blame. I find this to have been the case with the male Virgo's I've known. In particular, a friend of five years and I had a falling out. He made a mistake, yet somehow it was my fault.
I then told him how tired I was of the way he had been treating me. How ridiculous he had been. I was tired of being yelled at. He made me feel like he didn't need or want me as a friend anymore. He'd swear at me, and regularly get so aggravated with me. He decided we couldn't be friends, because I was too resentful and angry, and had little in common with him.
No matter what I said, I was always wrong. I was always fighting. I was arrogant. I was the problem. He never apologized for anything. Never acknowledged his part no matter how many times I "confronted" him. He'd just become more and more sarcastic and insulting.
But I do not think it is because Virgos at their core are arrogant and narcissist, I believe it is a pride thing due to insecurity. The Virguys I have known like to keep a front like everything is perfect, from their clothes (super vain and materialistic), to the house they live in, car they drive, what photos they post on social media, it is all to cultivate the perception that all is okay because well they care. They want to be liked, they want to be admired because it means they have value, and if you try to point out these flaws in an argument they cannot accept it because it damages their image of perfection.
Im an aquarius was dating a virgo this description is dead on. Everything has to be HIS way if you miss one step or do it your way and not his he explodes. Even when cooking for him i get complete details and steps on how to cook and he doesnt know how to cook. Lol he lives in the past everything is all about him if he makes a mistake somehow i caused him to lose his concentration and its my fault. He is verbally and emotionally abusive, nothing is or was EVER his fault and the more power i took back from him the worse thing became. He dumped me because i no longer was "controllable" his words not mine. translation: he dumped me so i couldnt dump him first. the thing is i did truly love this man and he sabotaged the relationship because he expected me to leave him eventually so why bother trying. As far as hes concerned all women cheat lie and conspire its sad really they are narcissists in the true sense of the word. Outwardly nobody is ever as perfect as they are but inwardly the have no self esteem no pride and severe self loathing. You can never tell them enough they have talent smarts or looks very sad way to live! Rant over
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Posted by Riri198
I am a virgo female.
I was mildly offended by this article. The undertone of bias is clear and the writer does not site any credible references. For every negative point I could easily find an article to refute it.
There is nothing matter of fact about this article - it seems to be nothing more than an opinion.
I believe that narcissism may be the dark side of virgo. Every sign has a dark side that manifests itself in different degrees (or not at all) - for example, a healthy cap is very loving, fatherly/motherly and loyal but the dark side of cap is that they can be promiscuous, sabotage happy relationships and have an addiction to longing. (FYI this cap info was written by a psychologist not a blogger) An example of unhealthy cap: tiger woods. But there are lots of good caps out there. My best friend is one of them.
As a virgo I can be self centered sometimes because I find that I let my problems consume me.. But I also really feel for others, even strangers, but especially loved ones. Their problems are my problems and I'm affected by their pain and want to help always.
Also I can accept criticism because I'm my own worst critic. Every time I mess up I'm so hard on myself and do everything I can to improve, grow, learn, never make that mistake ever ever ever again. Virgo's problem is more that we have a fragile ego. We may not be able to ADMIT we are wrong but deep down we are so hard on ourselves about it. Rest assured we analyzed it, learned from it, beat ourselves up about it and vowed to never make that mistake again.
This article offers a one sided opinion about the dark side, not the whole side, of virgo and I don't agree with a large portion of it.
My two virgo cents 🙂
So hard to accept criticism ... Butt hurt... Typical ... When folks read or see the truth ... Virgos (the know it all) sike by the way... Screams this is biased... Well if you aren't a narcissist then this shouldn't bother you one bit... But seeing as to how it does bother you... Considering you wrote a book... Hit dogs hollers ... A friend of mines is being tortured by a Virgo for no reason ... And she thinks it's okay... Pay back fixing to be something else for that one... The universe sees your soul love... Not what you fake for colleagues or friends ... Your soul
Posted by RozaeonI agree with you. The only criticism I have for the virgos I've known is that they can be flaky and get stuck in their own thoughts for long periods of time.
Oh wow it's not even criticism at this point ... I know a lot of Virgos actually and neither of them are like that at all. Ok their description is not very well made, i can find them quite stubborn and self-centered at times, but narcissists ? No way
Ok some of them will never tell that they are wrong but they will DO something to fix their fault, some of them are liars yes but every sign can be so it's not even a relevant point
They're not the know-it-all, the ones i know are interested in learning new things, they are curious and they admit when they don't know something
Some of them can be really sensible and some of them lack completely self-confidence etc etc i can go for hours haha
So no, don't claim that as the absolute truth, it's not
Posted by Bottabing
This is the absolute truth... That virgin mess is a lie... May be a Virgo who made that virgin mess up... All Virgos I know are undercover sluts ... Hide it very well... Wolves in sheeps clothing ... Constantly throwing the evil eye when they think you don't see... Jealousy deep down... Not all Virgos are like this... But the ones I know... Wouldn't pee on them if they were on fire ... Heaven forbid you deal with a dark Virgo ... Mind game..manipulative... Lies to no end... Won't ever tell the truth... Unless it benefits them some how... Very hard to get rid of.... Sleeps around but you would think they're innocent ... But behind the scenes devilish ... Nasty ... Nasty sexual fetishes ... But they appear so clean... Biggest lie ever... Their souls (some) are dirty as hell ... They hide it very well... I have had my experience with Virgos ... All together they lack empathy. They see a group sad... They will stand and observe say to themselves "I need to act this way" because every one else ... Let me fake... So I can appear to be the hero..... Basically play the role of having sympathy .... Tuh so they comfort you only to have their own personal agenda...... Totally not genuine ... I Don't trust them... typically when I meet one... I pull their card.... And yeah they end up being jealous ... Here is what's funny ... Will be jealous but will still try to be like you... Basically a thief... Will literally steal your entire swag and swear up and down they invented ... Very pessimistic ... Ugh disgusting sign to be honest ... Sticks in the mud... I could go on... Many are fooled by the Virgos... But things will change the masks will come off after these eclipses ... They want be able to hide their ways... Or true intentions ... There is no coincidence how The energy shifts are in the month of August 2017 .... Virgos will be exposed if you haven't been genuine ... We are all called to walk in truth with empathy ... This is something Virgos in this lifetime have never experienced (the energy shift) it will blow their cover... Got the whole world fooled even got a Virgin as their archetype .... Try the devil ... Nasty deep down...
Ooooh I like being called nasty! Can you say it again please?
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