Virgo's LOVE attention They NEED IT BAD

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no we aren't that different..we hide away because we hate confrontations and alot of arguing and stuff..we are generally peaceful and shy so thats all that the problem..i do that all the time..you just have to talk to him without yelling or being suspicious or else he'll think you're accusing him of something..*lol* the person you decribed could be my double , except i'm female*l*
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I never yelled - we had a very good realationship. Anytime we disagreed, we sould resolve it quickly. I think virgo's and cancers like peaceful surroundings. He broke up with me, because of another (he found). I did become suspicious at times, yes, becuase his answers were too vague and his moods were hard to read. I did all I could in that relationship - and got a swift, kick to the curb. I can tell, however, he feels guilty thru his emails. We haven't spoke at all.
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The Virgo's I know are superficial, selfish, immature, childish, attention seekers... They have NO idea what they want, but are never satisfied with what the've got.. They find fault with everyone and think that they are perfect.. Probably the most confused people I know. They are also not affectionate AT ALL... Thank goodness I don't have to be married to one or have one as a parent. They are self-centred, moody DRIPS who want to blame the universe for their shortcommings....



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168.209, all Virgos are different, and it's sad that you had "bad luck" with Virgos. I'm a Virgo girl who has a Sagittarius Ascendant, and yes, I can have all the faults you described, but I can also be friendly, considerate and loving. Usually, Virgos are shy and reserved and don't trust emotions. I get that way, too, but I can also be gentle, warm and affectionate as well. Did you visit the Aries message board? I posted the comment about ALL Rams being immature, but it isn't 100% true. I've met good, pleasant Rams as well as bad ones like my Aries father - HE'S immature, thoughtless, selfishless, reckless and has no respect for the needs, feelings and rights of others. He's 68, and it's RARE I have any communication with him because of that. Fortunately my 60-year-old Cancer mother understands.
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168.209 ONCE AGAIN HATING IM A VIRGO WHO ALWAYS GO OUT MY WAY TO BE NICE AND TO NOT JUDGE BUT I SEE THAT YOUR TRYING TO DEGRADE MY SIGN WITH ALL NONSENSE ABOUT BEING SUPERFICIAL,SELFISH AND ETC... WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS EVERY VIRGO YOU MEET IS DIFFRENT IN THERE OWN WAY AND UNTIL YOU MEET EVERY VIRGO YOU CAN ONLY GIVE YOUR OPINION ON WHO YOU KNOW AND WHO HURT YOUR FEELING.
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Hey 168.209!!!!!!! I'm a female Virgo and i have 2 best friends also Virgos,one is female and the other is male. You have mentioned Virgos are superficial, selfish, immature, childish and so on. Please check properly before you criticise others. If i know your sign and i also criticise about your signs, do you like it— Every signs have their own good and bad, so don't ever criticise others just because you only met one or two. Can i know how many Virgos do you know in the whole world—— Me and my best friends, are always helpful to others when they have problems and not like what you said so selfish. Three of us are very socialable, warm and affectionate persons. I myself know a lot of people with different signs too, and some are really terrible! What happen if i know that terrible one same as your sign and i criticise you, do you like it— So watch out what you said before you offend others!!!
Always think first and ask yourself, are you so very damn good— Are you so perfect in everything without making any mistakes before you criticise others. NO ONE IS PERFECT IN EVERYTHING!!! IF THERE IS, THAT MUST BE AN ANGEL!!! I'm not like you, although i may not like other signs i don't use to criticise others. I'm thinking you are the one who is superficial, selfish, immature childish and not affectionate that was why you said something bad about others!!!! So next time wash your mouth before you speak!!!!!!!! Anyway i'm a female and i have a lot good friends,if i'm like one that you mentioned i'll not have so many good friends including other countries!
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Its obvious whos been scorned by virgo exes in this thread lmao, its pointless to argue just let them vent. Its funny actually, and virgos have a way of affecting so im not even mad at them, get your anger off your mind. Being a virgo i see the negativity, agree and want to add to it, but i also could create a list just as long of positive things ........... its all realitive to experience and perspective. If you are speaking from a logical place what im saying doesn't have to be explained.
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The Virgo's I know are superficial, selfish, immature, childish, attention seekers... They have NO idea what they want, but are never satisfied with what the've got.. They find fault with everyone and think that they are perfect.. Probably the most confused people I know. They are also not affectionate AT ALL... Thank goodness I don't have to be married to one or have one as a parent. They are self-centred, moody DRIPS who want to blame the universe for their shortcommings....


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we are attention whores of the zodiac
Really? Is that why you have multiple partners on the side even though you're dating one person exclusively?
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I think a lot of them have quite a few female "friends" that crush on them, maybe the virgo gives them the wrong impression, so it seems to their woman that these other women are just waiting on the sidelines for the virgo and their mate to break up.

Like for instance, after my virgo friend and his ex broke up, she.told me that there were some females he would act weird around, like there was something unspoken between them, she just felt threatened, and that something was off. He made it seem like it's nothing, but their actions don't copy. Anyway, she left him for a Taurus, she didn't feel secure with him. I also think that's why they claim they get cheated on, bcuz they make the woman feel insecure.
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we are attention whores of the zodiac
Really? Is that why you have multiple partners on the side even though you're dating one person exclusively?
I think a lot of them have quite a few female "friends" that crush on them, maybe the virgo gives them the wrong impression, so it seems to their woman that these other women are just waiting on the sidelines for the virgo and their mate to break up.

Like for instance, after my virgo friend and his ex broke up, she.told me that there were some females he would act weird around, like there was something unspoken between them, she just felt threatened, and that something was off. He made it seem like it's nothing, but their actions don't copy. Anyway, she left him for a Taurus, she didn't feel secure with him. I also think that's why they claim they get cheated on, bcuz they make the woman feel insecure.
Exactly how I was feeling! Extremely insecure! Even if he was a saint his weird ways were never reassuring

Its like quick sand
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What's weird, is women don't complain about men from other signs about that sort of thing, as much as they do with Virgo.
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we are attention whores of the zodiac
Really? Is that why you have multiple partners on the side even though you're dating one person exclusively?
I think a lot of them have quite a few female "friends" that crush on them, maybe the virgo gives them the wrong impression, so it seems to their woman that these other women are just waiting on the sidelines for the virgo and their mate to break up.

Like for instance, after my virgo friend and his ex broke up, she.told me that there were some females he would act weird around, like there was something unspoken between them, she just felt threatened, and that something was off. He made it seem like it's nothing, but their actions don't copy. Anyway, she left him for a Taurus, she didn't feel secure with him. I also think that's why they claim they get cheated on, bcuz they make the woman feel insecure.
So now we are back where the female manifests this idea in her head, that a guy has mnay women after him. The sad thing is, it's rarely ever the case dear.
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Women don't just manifest this stuff (not always)...it's a feeling they get based off of the energies thats being put out there by the Virgo and whomever. You can sense attraction (underlining or not) between two people. It's not rocket science.
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ok keys to the kingdom: a true story @Greentea

lets say you meet woman on the internet. a relationship starts. some time down the road the woman starts to thinking the guy is chatting up other women on the site they meet on..

she keeps on and on about this bc maybe another women on the site told a lie to her, to the extent of this guy is not being honest with you.

so the guy gives her unfettered access to his account on the site they meet on. even doing this she never never believed the guy...bc the seed had been planted in her mind so doubt formed still. jealous females and lies, what a crock o foobar.
I've never been on any dating sites so I don't know the dynamic of how that whole thing works, besides the basics. You look through profiles and you try to communicate with someone that may interest you or.compatible with on paper, I would assume. I'm also assuming you experienced this.

I have to say, a woman will know without a doubt that she is the only one you have an interest in, by how you are perceived by her. Giving her access to your account was a good move. There are men out there that completely make their woman feel secure, without a doubt in their minds. But by judging how you are on here, perhaps she felt like you were putting your feelers out there to see who feels you back. By judging on some of your posts on here, it seem like you do put your feelers out,.... and perhaps also have had/ have a crush on a fish or two...
Hopefully you didn't do that on the site you were on.

Anyhow, so maybe she didn't feel like you were truly genuine, bcuz if women doesn't have a reason to be jealous, then they won't try to cause waves. You mentioned that other women may have told her something...why on earth would they have anything to say....So if your woman is insecure about something, it's bcuz of drama you most likely brought. Women who feel secure in their relationships, they're men are only crushing on them. You even said yourself, virgos are attention whores. That is not a quality most women want. Tis all.



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ok keys to the kingdom: a true story @Greentea

lets say you meet woman on the internet. a relationship starts. some time down the road the woman starts to thinking the guy is chatting up other women on the site they meet on..

she keeps on and on about this bc maybe another women on the site told a lie to her, to the extent of this guy is not being honest with you.

so the guy gives her unfettered access to his account on the site they meet on. even doing this she never never believed the guy...bc the seed had been planted in her mind so doubt formed still. jealous females and lies, what a crock o foobar.
I've never been on any dating sites so I don't know the dynamic of how that whole thing works, besides the basics. You look through profiles and you try to communicate with someone that may interest you or.compatible with on paper, I would assume. I'm also assuming you experienced this.

I have to say, a woman will know without a doubt that she is the only one you have an interest in, by how you are perceived by her. Giving her access to your account was a good move. There are men out there that completely make their woman feel secure, without a doubt in their minds. But by judging how you are on here, perhaps she felt like you were putting your feelers out there to see who feels you back. By judging on some of your posts on here, it seem like you do put your feelers out,.... and perhaps also have had/ have a crush on a fish or two...
Hopefully you didn't do that on the site you were on.

Anyhow, so maybe she didn't feel like you were truly genuine, bcuz if women doesn't have a reason to be jealous, then they won't try to cause waves. You mentioned that other women may have told her something...why on earth would they have anything to say....So if your woman is insecure about something, it's bcuz of drama you most likely brought. Women who feel secure in their relationships, they're men are only crushing on them. You even said yourself, virgos are attention whores. That is not a quality most women want. Tis all.


now its known who your secret crush is....wink
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Because I looked through some of your posts...