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@scorchedearth, why wouldn't you search for a pisces instead(:

Plus Scorched... the boards have been pretty boring as of late. I find this entirely entertaining.. 😈

Cancerleo

You were so concerned about your daughter's well being in regards to attending a public school in the Bay area, that you decided NYC was a safer choice?

May I ask, in what borough do you live in?

They do not coddle kids here in NYC in regards to school & transportation. You're on your own in learning the transit system (this includes both the bus and the subway).

Where does your daughter go to school, I'm curious?

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Posted by Feistypisces777
Why do you think that is, TaurusBull? There are 12 signs in the zodiac, yet there is one sign who receives the most crap on dxp. There's got to be an explanation why Virgo is perhaps maybe even the most hated sign, only judging from all the negatives expressed on this one thread.

Hence.... the answer to your second question. Please read below.

Posted by Feistypisces777
But one thing that is frustrating and I can vouch for half of the females that ask questions about the most ridiculous things is that they can answer their own questions.

They can't answer those questions because they're either lying to the Virgo, DXP, themselves, playing games, disingenuous about their intentions, and expecting pity parties because their Virgos called checkmate. Game over.

Out of all the Earth signs, Virgos are the most mutable, which means they're the most adaptable...they reflect you...you...and you!

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When has a Virgo ever said checkmate it seems like they like the drama kind of like Leo men. They say they don't want to deal with you anymore then they keep calling your phone.

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Cancerleo

You were so concerned about your daughter's well being in regards to attending a public school in the Bay area, that you decided NYC was a safer choice?

May I ask, in what borough do you live in?

They do not coddle kids here in NYC in regards to school & transportation. You're on your own in learning the transit system (this includes both the bus and the subway).

Where does your daughter go to school, I'm curious?

I have a car so i take her to school. Id rather not say what school she goes to but it's supposed to be the best school in the borough she got in because of her grades. What teenager wouldn't want to go to school in NYC.

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Posted by canerleo101

It's all starting to make sense now maybe because of the fact that I refused to have sex with this Virgo is the reason why i didn't work out

It didn't work out because you took your daughter out of school {in the middle of the school year} to move all the way to NYC from Cali for a man who NEVER gave you the invitation, or the promise of a relationship.


^^^^^^^Prime example as to why Virgos stop giving reasonable advice to individuals who are NOT in relationships with Virgos.^^^^^^^^^^

Please don't comment about my daughters education if you don't know what the fuck your talking about. I paid for my daughter to go to private Christian schools for the majority of her life. I had plans on moving to NY way before I met this man. As far as relationships that is just a figment of ones imagination however, he and I had an agreement and he didn't live up to his part of it.

You mean this agreement :

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And that little bit of money that he would issue out to me didn't amount to shit (with his cheap ass). I don't know maybe I'm just used to dealing with men who have deep pockets.

You expected him to support you and your daughter, he didn't so now you have come here again, crying your woes.


@Feistypisces fair enough on browsing long before joining, I did the same.

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Let me make this very clear I don't need any one to support my daughter or myself. My Libra ex-boyfriend, the one who this virgo guy begged me to stop talking to is at least worth 500K he has allowed my daughter and myself to live in his nice ass new house (and not he was not living there on the premises with us) and has offered to buy me what ever car that i want. If I wanted a man for money I would still be with him.

Posted by canerleo101

When has a Virgo ever said checkmate it seems like they like the drama kind of like Leo men. They say they don't want to deal with you anymore then they keep calling your phone.

According to you, a relationship doesn't exist.
According to the Virgo, he KNOWS a relationship doesn't exist, probably still baffled as to why you're in NYC in the 1st place, asking him for money.
According to you, a relationship isn't practical, it's either you're married or you're not.
According to you, a man should financially take care of a woman he isn't in a relationship with, because according to you, a relationship isn't practical.


Now according to you, the Virgo still continues to call you after he tells you he doesn't want to deal with you anymore.

Calling the cops didn't keep you at bay. I doubt he's contacting you or going hard for someone he never wanted to begin with.

You took his reaction to your possible reconciliation with your Libra ex, and raaaan with it, since you alluded to it so many times.

I'm convinced that what prompted you to make the move to NYC.

@scorchedearth what is your sign?

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Posted by canerleo101
Relationships are just forms of non legal agreements or just free sex

Oh and don't forget free money from men you have no intentions of sleeping with.

As I stated to you previously, you're a long way from Cali.

Play these games with these New Yorkers if you want to.

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Girl please the men in Cali are way more harder and real that the ones that I have encountered in Ny.

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@Feistypieces After being on here for over a year.. its a pattern we all see every few months. The strongest, negative opinions of those bashing have been Scorned by them, they where not even in a relationship with said man, typically. Occasionally, yes there will be a valid thread about someone being treated wrong, but come on, the majority of these , I hate Virgo blah, blah, are from females that are bitter because they didn't get their way or where just a fuck plain and simple. You need to establish what you are to a guy BEFORE you spread the legs, not after.

CC was done wrong by her guy, whom she WAS in a relationship with.

The other that is being the loudest, was never in one with this Virgo man. She won't/can't see past her ego to see it for what it was.

I never had sex with this virgo guy and he's the one he begged me to stop talking to my ex because in his words we are "trying to establish a relationship". I just have never had these kinds of problems with any other guys that I have known. And what the fuck is a relationship anyway its either your married or your not (but dam when two people are trying to get to that stage at least have the decency to be real) . Relationships are just forms of non legal agreements or just free sex.

Never said you guys had sex. I have read all your threads. Even on the other account you lost the password too. Again, you guys had an agreement (your word) not a relationship. There is a huge difference. You even bashed the Virgo on how little money he made in comparison to the ex you dumped or stopped talking to for the Virgo. do you not see how fucked up that is? You where trying to jump from one dude to the next and get him to support you, you say you have guys do that all the time for you..... so are you a prostitute or a gold digger?

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What is relationship? And yes i am kind of mean because just this week I threw up the fact that most all of my ex's had way more money than he will ever have. But I noticed that he can dish it out but he can't take it. And no I'm not a prostitute or a gold digger but i do not believe in having sex for free.

Posted by canerleo101

I have a car so i take her to school. Id rather not say what school she goes to but it's supposed to be the best school in the borough she got in because of her grades. What teenager wouldn't want to go to school in NYC.

You can't fool a New Yorker.
There are two specialized High Schools, Brooklyn Tech, and Bronx Academy of Science.
For Laguardia (it's a test for acting, singing, and dancing).
You have to take a specialized test to get into these schools.
NYC isn't like other cities/states.
When you're in JHS, you apply for more than 4 high schools (in any of the 5 boroughs of your choice) or you're given the option to go to your zone school.
You're not just placed into any high school especially being a transfer student in the middle of the school year.
She was zoned to the closest HS, and you know it!

Unless you provided the Board of Ed with a fake address....

I knew you didn't submit any paystubs for any apt in NYC.
You couldn't have worked full-time in Cali, homeschooling your children.

Cancerleo, you're not a very good liar.

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Posted by canerleo101

This year was the first time in many years that my daughter attended a public school in the Bay Area. I didn't like the school so I withdrew her from the school. Instead of paying $ 560 per month for her to go back to the private school that she attended last year, I home schooled her (and yes i payed a lot of money for the home school materials but it was more cost efficient than me paying $ 560 per month) I then told my daughter since things didn't work out with her going to a public school in the Bay Area then she could go to any school of her choice in what ever city that she wanted. She said that she wanted to go to High School in New York. So I made that possible for her. Don't get it wrong I have always wanted to move to NY also. These plans were in place way before i met this guy.

LMAAAAAO.
I couldn't make this up!

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What is there to make up I also went to private Christian schools in Silicon Valley. So I did the same for my daughter. I went to Valley Christian school in San Jose, Ca. As a matter of fact this school got national attention by doing the space program shuttle launch with NASA. If you look in the year books you will see my picture.

@scorchedearth You're one of the sweetest signs of the zodiac... I don't know many Taurai but I know they love to cook and what they cook is very yummy(: my aunt is a Taurus and my mom is a Virgo and they are only on good terms 75% of the time. I know a Virgo-Taurus couple marriage that formed after the Virgo left a Virgo-Virgo marriage, and I don't think that Virgo treats the Taurus the way he deserves. I just think that Taurus deserves more appreciation for all he/she does, because you all are always taking care of people. I think you might find that in a stable scorpio, or a cancer. A Capricorn can also suit you well, @scorchedearth(: I hope you find someone who realises how special you are.

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Plus Scorched... the boards have been pretty boring as of late. I find this entirely entertaining.. 😈

I can agree with that.

Why am I riding this issue, instead of ignoring you Cancerleo,

I despise women use their children as a pawn in their game-plan to land a man who NEVER solidified a relationship with them.

I empathized with you before, but I'm amazed you still have this fraudulent story going....

And...

You have followers, too.

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Posted by canerleo101

I have a car so i take her to school. Id rather not say what school she goes to but it's supposed to be the best school in the borough she got in because of her grades. What teenager wouldn't want to go to school in NYC.

You can't fool a New Yorker.
There are two specialized High Schools, Brooklyn Tech, and Bronx Academy of Science.
For Laguardia (it's a test for acting, singing, and dancing).
You have to take a specialized test to get into these schools.
NYC isn't like other cities/states.
When you're in JHS, you apply for more than 4 high schools (in any of the 5 boroughs of your choice) or you're given the option to go to your zone school.
You're not just placed into any high school especially being a transfer student in the middle of the school year.
She was zoned to the closest HS, and you know it!

Unless you provided the Board of Ed with a fake address....

I knew you didn't submit any paystubs for any apt in NYC.
You couldn't have worked full-time in Cali, homeschooling your children.

Cancerleo, you're not a very good liar.

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Correct we were zone to the closest school. This school also happens to be to closest to where i live. When i first went to the dept of education they told me that she could not get into this school because of the time of year. However when the counselor saw may daughter grades he said that he was going to fax her info to this school to see if she could get accepted. I came back to the dept of ed the next day. They gave me a letter to take to the school that said that she was accepted. When we got to the school I showed the security the letter. And the security said that this never happens (as far as them admitting a child at this perticular school in the middle of a school year) she also said that we were very lucky. I honestly don't see what's the big hype about this school. In my opinion it is ghetto as hell which is sad that it is supposed to be the best school in the borough and the one that everyone is fighting to get their kids into.

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Correct we were zone to the closest school. This school also happens to be to closest to where i live. When i first went to the dept of education they told me that she could not get into this school because of the time of year. However when the counselor saw may daughter grades he said that he was going to fax her info to this school to see if she could get accepted. I came back to the dept of ed the next day. They gave me a letter to take to the school that said that she was accepted. When we got to the school I showed the security the letter. And the security said that this never happens (as far as them admitting a child at this perticular school in the middle of a school year) she also said that we were very lucky. I honestly don't see what's the big hype about this school. In my opinion it is ghetto as hell which is sad that it is supposed to be the best school in the borough and the one that everyone is fighting to get their kids into.

Your stories are hilarious. 😉

Thanks for the entertainment.

Kudos to the Virgo and the 911 phone call.

Night, night everyone!

I have other engagements.

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Posted by canerleo101

When has a Virgo ever said checkmate it seems like they like the drama kind of like Leo men. They say they don't want to deal with you anymore then they keep calling your phone.

According to you, a relationship doesn't exist.
According to the Virgo, he KNOWS a relationship doesn't exist, probably still baffled as to why you're in NYC in the 1st place, asking him for money.
According to you, a relationship isn't practical, it's either you're married or you're not.
According to you, a man should financially take care of a woman he isn't in a relationship with, because according to you, a relationship isn't practical.


Now according to you, the Virgo still continues to call you after he tells you he doesn't want to deal with you anymore.

Calling the cops didn't keep you at bay. I doubt he's contacting you or going hard for someone he never wanted to begin with.

You took his reaction to your possible reconciliation with your Libra ex, and raaaan with it, since you alluded to it so many times.

I'm convinced that what prompted you to make the move to NYC.

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I'm not going to lie I wanted to move to Nyc to get away from everything but this was in my plans way before i met this guy. This Virgo guy is the one who was talking about marriage fist not me. He didn't call the cops on me. After i told him that I was going to slap the shit out of him, he then threatened to call the police on me. And I don't think that this guy is going hard for me if he was he would put a ring on my finger.And no I don't really believe in relationships. No one still has given me their descripion on what a relationship is.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Why am I riding this issue, instead of ignoring you Cancerleo,

I despise women use their children as a pawn in their game-plan to land a man who NEVER solidified a relationship with them.

I empathized with you before, but I'm amazed you still have this fraudulent story going....

And...

You have followers, too.

What is a relationship. Like I said he was the one who talking about marriage first not me. You act just like this virgo guy, he's always right and i'm always wrong, and i'm such a bad person. If I was trying to use a child as a pawn i would just open my legs and get pregnant by him, which by the way a LOT of women do.

@scorchedearth don't kick yourself for something that's in the past. Take this, all the hurt, stress and chaos You and Virgo built and toss it out the window. You're on a clean slate now and you have the chance to meet someone new and not make the same mistakes. The fact of the matter is, she's not as perfect as you might think. No one really is that perfect, although sometimes in our heads we make them out to be. You can do this, scorched. You know what not to do. Open yourself up, you don't want to close your heart to the next person who tries just like the last one to love you. Let love in.

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Posted by canerleo101

Correct we were zone to the closest school. This school also happens to be to closest to where i live. When i first went to the dept of education they told me that she could not get into this school because of the time of year. However when the counselor saw may daughter grades he said that he was going to fax her info to this school to see if she could get accepted. I came back to the dept of ed the next day. They gave me a letter to take to the school that said that she was accepted. When we got to the school I showed the security the letter. And the security said that this never happens (as far as them admitting a child at this perticular school in the middle of a school year) she also said that we were very lucky. I honestly don't see what's the big hype about this school. In my opinion it is ghetto as hell which is sad that it is supposed to be the best school in the borough and the one that everyone is fighting to get their kids into.

Your stories are hilarious. 😉

Thanks for the entertainment.

Kudos to the Virgo and the 911 phone call.

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Kudos for him almost getting the shit slapped out of him and by the way he never called 911 his weak ass just threatened to and Kudos for you being so obsessed with my life. Yours must be pretty boring.

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Posted by canerleo101

Correct we were zone to the closest school. This school also happens to be to closest to where i live. When i first went to the dept of education they told me that she could not get into this school because of the time of year. However when the counselor saw may daughter grades he said that he was going to fax her info to this school to see if she could get accepted. I came back to the dept of ed the next day. They gave me a letter to take to the school that said that she was accepted. When we got to the school I showed the security the letter. And the security said that this never happens (as far as them admitting a child at this perticular school in the middle of a school year) she also said that we were very lucky. I honestly don't see what's the big hype about this school. In my opinion it is ghetto as hell which is sad that it is supposed to be the best school in the borough and the one that everyone is fighting to get their kids into.

Your stories are hilarious. 😉

Thanks for the entertainment.

Kudos to the Virgo and the 911 phone call.

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And your obsession with my life is even for hilarious and entertaining.

If I were a man I would stay being in relationships with one women to the next partly for the free sex. That's why i ask, "what is a relationship". Think of it like this, if a man stays in a relationship with a woman for two years, that's two years of free sex that the man got, without even having to put a ring on her finger.

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Posted by canerleo101
If I were a man I would stay being in relationships with one women to the next partly for the free sex. That's why i ask, "what is a relationship". Think of it like this, if a man stays in a relationship with a woman for two years, that's two years of free sex that the man got, without even having to put a ring on her finger.

women trade sex for love. she got his feelings out of the deal. and really that's all you really need. to think of it monetarily makes you a hooker. that no romance without finance way of thinking is scandalous.

if you don't want a man to get sex from you without giving you a ring then learn to keep your legs closed until you get the ring.

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I must say that i do practice what I preach because i keep my legs closed if there's no ring involved.

Fuck feelings, feelings come and go but marriage is supposed to be forever.

@scorchedearth ... I can relate to you. But for different reasons. I just know that one day, I will have to let someone in because I don't want to get to 40 and not have the cookie cutter life I've always dreamed about. I want to settle down one day. I know you would too... When you find that one person they'll have the patience to break down those walls and they won't care if you push away. Because love fights for who they love, even if its against the person you love

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Posted by canerleo101
If I were a man I would stay being in relationships with one women to the next partly for the free sex. That's why i ask, "what is a relationship". Think of it like this, if a man stays in a relationship with a woman for two years, that's two years of free sex that the man got, without even having to put a ring on her finger.

women trade sex for love. she got his feelings out of the deal. and really that's all you really need. to think of it monetarily makes you a hooker. that no romance without finance way of thinking is scandalous.

if you don't want a man to get sex from you without giving you a ring then learn to keep your legs closed until you get the ring.

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I think that most women in their 60's and above think as i do. All this new age relationship shit is just letting men have it way too easy.

Posted by scorchedearth
even marriages end. sometimes over trivial stuff. you have intimacy issues the same as i do. which is why you're so angry and trying to keep love at bay. the thing about that though is all that happens is that you half ass involve yourself with someone, are angry about feeling for them, and then punish them for not fitting some arbitrary set of expectations that no one could possibly fulfill. so essentially you're dragging someone else through your dysfunctions. you aren't actually open to love. if you were you wouldn't think in the terms you're thinking right now. you're so fucking angry. and i get it. the thing is though you really shouldn't be trying to date when you're in this state. you need to fix yourself. otherwise you're just going to hurt the men that you refuse to trust, that try to get close to you. and that's not fair to them.

Please I went for years without dating. I'm just a realist. And I'm not trying to keep love at bay, i'm just trying to keep sex before marriage at bay. I have zone problems with opening up or getting close to men.

*zero

Posted by scorchedearth
you think of sex as a commodity. you're not exactly thinking of love or relationships in a healthy way. and spare me the you have no problems opening up to men. if you actually didn't have a problem you wouldn't be thinking of your vagina like an atm.

Sex is partly a commodity.

It makes me so sad that you would feel that way though. I feel like everyone has the right to be happy... And be loved. No one is "flawless" goods. I've been damaged and gone through hell to get where I am today, but I had to do it by letting go of the chains that were holding me back. It feels so good to let go and be free. I only wish that you don't view yourself as damaged. All of us have a past.

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you think of sex as a commodity. you're not exactly thinking of love or relationships in a healthy way. and spare me the you have no problems opening up to men. if you actually didn't have a problem you wouldn't be thinking of your vagina like an atm.

I wish more women thought this way.

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Posted by Feistypisces777
@scorchedearth ... I can relate to you. But for different reasons. I just know that one day, I will have to let someone in because I don't want to get to 40 and not have the cookie cutter life I've always dreamed about. I want to settle down one day. I know you would too... When you find that one person they'll have the patience to break down those walls and they won't care if you push away. Because love fights for who they love, even if its against the person you love

i honestly feel like i've gotten my big love for my lifetime. so no one else really seems necessary. i don't want to feel like i could marry someone again. i don't want to love like that again. i don't want to let someone in like that again. my issue is that i let girls with terrible boundaries get me to thinking things might be different. a normal healthy person should want to have nothing to do with me. damaged goods to say the least. i am always upfront about what i have to offer. and all i really want is a friend that i can have feelings for that will never lead to a relationship.

no one should have to fight me the way they'd need to to make things work with me. i am not safe to date. at all. and i am okay with that. i just need to stop associating with troublesome women i could have deep feelings for. fighting in that way isn't love. it's having terrible boundaries. which is something i fall for every time. but that just means we're no good for each other.

i respect that you eventually want to settle down though. if you open yourself up to love you'll find that love eventually. it's just a matter of being patient.

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I doesn't seem to me like your damaged goods. You know who you are, most people don't even know that. With just that alone I think that you could have a very successful relationship.

I agree with @cancerleo!

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Cancerleo

You were so concerned about your daughter's well being in regards to attending a public school in the Bay area, that you decided NYC was a safer choice?

May I ask, in what borough do you live in?

They do not coddle kids here in NYC in regards to school & transportation. You're on your own in learning the transit system (this includes both the bus and the subway).

Where does your daughter go to school, I'm curious?

There's so many things about my life that I refuse to put on dxp like who my in-law's were and things of that nature.The fact that there is a lot of famous people in my ex-husband's immediate family is something that someone could say that i'm lying about. But the little stuff that i'm posting here is nothing.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Why are there less responses from Virgos on this board?

The answer is obvious.

Earth signs are practical.

It's almost unreasonable to give relationship advice to someone who isn't in one.

It's just pages and pages of shock against the truth serum P Angel introduced to the system.

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No one as of yet has explained to me what a relationship is.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Why are there less responses from Virgos on this board?

The answer is obvious.

Earth signs are practical.

It's almost unreasonable to give relationship advice to someone who isn't in one.

It's just pages and pages of shock against the truth serum P Angel introduced to the system.

No one as of yet has explained to me what a relationship is.

Right, and good luck with that... I'm just saying we can take the short or the long way around - it all eventually leads back to what was said on the first page.

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P-Angel is an idiot. Who is by the looks of it is in an abusive marriage her dam self.

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People are so misplaced when drowning in feelings .... they think they want a person to jump in with them, mindlessly as they are.

finally someone said it

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I guess im finally starting to get it i shouldnt catch feelings for a guy aporarate on pure logic. When women act like this men call them gold diggers. But now i know that when dealling with a virgo man you should act like a gold diggin robot. Because i swear i have never had these kinds of problems with any other man that i have delt with.

I love virgo hate threads in the words of Katt Williams.....


Drops the mic

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Posted by P-Angel

People are so misplaced when drowning in feelings .... they think they want a person to jump in with them, mindlessly as they are.

finally someone said it

I guess im finally starting to get it i shouldnt catch feelings for a guy aporarate on pure logic. When women act like this men call them gold diggers. But now i know that when dealling with a virgo man you should act like a gold diggin robot. Because i swear i have never had these kinds of problems with any other man that i have delt with.

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But now that i think about this guy was the one who started drowning in his feeling way before I did so once again P-Angle doesn't know what the fuck she's talking about.

I think that Virgo women are ok. As far as the men idk I haven't come across that many of them to come up with a finial conclusion.

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Posted by canerleo101
If I were a man I would stay being in relationships with one women to the next partly for the free sex. That's why i ask, "what is a relationship". Think of it like this, if a man stays in a relationship with a woman for two years, that's two years of free sex that the man got, without even having to put a ring on her finger.

A relationship defines a bond (not in the finance sense) between two people.

If you are putting a barter system on this bond, you are adding business values to this bond. This becomes a business relationship.

A personal relationship is where the value of the bond cannot be measured through any tangible means. There is usually some form of feelings involved. The difference between a romantic and platonic relationship I believe lies with intensity of the feelings involved. The analogy is that there are many things you like to do, but often there is ONLY ONE thing you are passionate about.

IMO 🙂

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So if this is the case every friendship is a form of a relationship. So when two people agree to have sex with each other because they are passionate about each other then I guess they have a more special relationship. I still don't buy it they so called relationships are just ways for men to get free sex without a life long commitment. A relationship is simply a work.

*these so called relationships

Posted by champranger
A marriage, in essence, is a romantic relationship with a piece of paper to validate it. Removing the relationship part makes a marriage just a piece of paper.

Yes, but the man is financially binded.

Posted by champranger
A marriage, in essence, is a romantic relationship with a piece of paper to validate it. Removing the relationship part makes a marriage just a piece of paper.

And I don't agree with this when two people marry they are making an promise to God and to that woman or man that he or she will love and take care of the other until death do them part. It's more that a piece of paper it is a promise that you make to God.

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Posted by champranger
A marriage, in essence, is a romantic relationship with a piece of paper to validate it. Removing the relationship part makes a marriage just a piece of paper.

And I don't agree with this when two people marry they are making an promise to God and to that woman or man that he or she will love and take care of the other until death do them part. It's more that a piece of paper it is a promise that you make to God.

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Also it is not true that "removing the relationship makes the marriage just a piece of paper". Someone could be off to war and not have any way of getting contact with their husband. The wife may not even know if her husband is dead or alive so that is not a real relationship (being that relationships are friendships) but regardless it is still a marriage and that is still her husband regardless.

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Posted by champranger
A marriage, in essence, is a romantic relationship with a piece of paper to validate it. Removing the relationship part makes a marriage just a piece of paper.

And I don't agree with this when two people marry they are making an promise to God and to that woman or man that he or she will love and take care of the other until death do them part. It's more that a piece of paper it is a promise that you make to God.

Are you going to remain married to someone, if you know they are not the right person for you, just because you made a promise to God?

Also I never said it was just a piece of paper.

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It depend, not if the person is abusive.

Posted by champranger

So you would stay in the marriage with someone (not abusive), even though you do not love the person, just because you made a promise to God?

Thats a hard one but i would have to say yes and also there may be kids involved and of course everyone wants their kids in a two parent home.

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Posted by champranger

So you would stay in the marriage with someone (not abusive), even though you do not love the person, just because you made a promise to God?

Thats a hard one but i would have to say yes and also there may be kids involved and of course everyone wants their kids in a two parent home.

They may want their kids in a two parent home, but it doesn't mean they will not divorce when their kids are all grown up.

This is the case for you, but it may not be the case for other people. If the relationship aspect is not working, then this promise to God will not stop some people from seeking their happiness elsewhere. Otherwise, there would NOT be as many divorce as there are now.

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True, i'm just speaking about what is good for me and also i am loyal in the extreme so i wouldn't have this probably.

Posted by P-Angel


For the people who value their life with calculated thought, rather than just reacting from uncontrolled emotions ..... actually get the Virgo.

Though, you become butthurt due to subjecting yourselves to the suffering of your feelings, so therefore are so engorged in your feelings that you cannot recognize the calm, evenness ... I promise, it is there in the Virgo. And is his strong suit.

The issue here is that the people who cannot control their emotions, and are compelled to spend their life reacting to it .... cannot see beyond this insufferable self inflicted chaos. If you could get past yourself, you'd see that a person standing steadfast is much more beneficial to you.

^^That sums up pretty much all of the negativity brought to this forum by the bitter women that attempt to play the blame game on Virgo males and have failed miserably in their attempt to snatch a Virgo up. 99.9% of the negative posts are here to confirm that.