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It's a massive case of "if you love someone set them free, if they come back to you they are yours to keep if not they never were"
What do you guys think might happen?
Posted by scorpio24
What's wrong with emotions and logic at the same time? I'm an emotional sensitive person.. I can't help it, but at the same time I'm trying to be logical about this and do what's right'
I'm not attacking you.
Just making an observation.
I think your tactic worked.
The two of you will be headed towards a reconciliation pretty soon.
Bravo!
You're not trying to do what's right...
Logic: Allowing yourself to heal. Communication as a means of closure. Time alone. No contact...until you're no longer emotionally tied to him...then possibly a friendship can develop in the near future.
You're trying to DO what's right for YOU.
Emotions: Using 'logic' as a backdoor to enter a much bigger picture. A more evolved relationship with you and the Virgo, where he is more expressive, and broken down emotionally, and you being in control again...as in the 1st day he 'wooed' you and 'drew' you in.
See the difference?
Yes 🙂 THANKYOU
Posted by scorpio24
What do you guys think might happen?
The two of you may get back together....(unless he catches 'wind' to what you're attempting to do...)
I digress...You will have to ask the Virgos about that one....
They're a little more analytic.
even if virgo men did reply, im not gonna read through that again cause the majority of it is people arguing.
hes sent me a couple messages saying how disgusting he feels in how he treated me, that im the most "beautiful kind souled person hes ever known" etc heaps of nice things that are coming from his heart
so.. virog men, what do u think might happen? he says he realizes now where we went wrong and we know how to avoid it. the only reason we arent jumping back into it is cause its too soon and we need to slow down and see what happens. im not going to pester him, he's asked for time and thats what i will give him and what we BOTH need. i hope we get back together but im not going to TRY to make this happen, instead im letting things flow as they are supposed to 😢
*virgo men
Posted by LostinmyMind11
You're*
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LOOK! Someone hid their post under "friends with benefits with a male virgo" 🙂 lol
Posted by LostinmyMind11
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Done*LOOK! Someone hid their post under "friends with benefits with a male virgo" 🙂 lol
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Oh look..you're a dumbass who apparently can't read anyway 🙂
He's now initiated contact 3 times, just small texts one saying "night xxx" one asking me if I want to go motor cross riding but I can't go with him cause he's got something else on but I can use his bike (I always used to ride it when we were together) and then he sent another saying he realized he bought the wrong sprocket and won't have time to fix it" so all I wrote was "haha that's alright 🙂" then he messaged me again half hour later saying "what u up to tonight" I replied telling him what I did and I'm gonna go to sleep soon and he says "yeah I'm going to sleep now too huh x"
What's goin on? I'm giving him space/trying not to think too far into it but what is it that he's doing? :/ just being nice or misses me?
::: shakes head :::
And so it continues ...... let's see what you conjure up this time
He's just being nice and wanting attention he SO enjoyed. He's basically trying to get you to be around without the gf/bf title. Don't fall for it. Take hours if not a day to respond. If he wants to do something, tell him you're busy.
He broke up with you and still managed to have sex with you (I know I know there was an amazing connection and was making love blah blah blah...) without the commitment, he wants you around but not as his girlfriend... I see a FWB situation if you are not careful...
The ball is now in HER court.
He broke down emotionally.
Now she's got his balls in the cup of her hand....He will pursue her.
He will write letters.
He will ask for a reconciliation.She will say nothing...and DO nothing....
Posted by scorpio24
He's now initiated contact 3 times,
Posted by scorpio24
What's goin on? I'm giving him space/trying not to think too far into it but what is it that he's doing? :/ just being nice or misses me?click to expand
What did I tell you...😉
youtube Matthew Hussey @Scorpio ... maybe you'll understand better from a man's perspective.
Damn...why is everyone attacking LIMM? LIMM did you notice the chicks that are getting offended by what you are saying, are the same broads that have issues with their Virgo man...epic.
I for one agree with what she says as well, so I'm a bully to then? So be it & I'll be sure to take your lunch money & beat your ass on the playground. 😄
I swear...people really fucking kill me, smh. Here's a tip folks. When someone makes a thread, they put their shit out their to be scrutinized whether they receive negative or positive feedback. People can't stand the damn truth & rather be comforted by a lie. So LIMM, next time just comment that they will be married, skip off into the field of daisies, have 2.5 kids, a dog, a cat, with a white picket fence, that they will NEVER have problems & will live perfectly ever after forever. Oh, be sure to let her know that these dreams will come true on May 43rd. 😛
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Posted by scorpio24
He's now initiated contact 3 times, just small texts one saying "night xxx" one asking me if I want to go motor cross riding but I can't go with him cause he's got something else on but I can use his bike (I always used to ride it when we were together) and then he sent another saying he realized he bought the wrong sprocket and won't have time to fix it" so all I wrote was "haha that's alright 🙂" then he messaged me again half hour later saying "what u up to tonight" I replied telling him what I did and I'm gonna go to sleep soon and he says "yeah I'm going to sleep now too huh x"What's goin on? I'm giving him space/trying not to think too far into it but what is it that he's doing? :/ just being nice or misses me?
Neither. He wants to continue to FUCK you without the commitment, nothing more.
So am I now "mean" because I said that? Or a bully?
Posted by RealTalk
Damn...why is everyone attacking LIMM? LIMM did you notice the chicks that are getting offended by what you are saying, are the same broads that have issues with their Virgo man...epic.I for one agree with what she says as well, so I'm a bully to then? So be it & I'll be sure to take your lunch money & beat your ass on the playground. 😄
I swear...people really fucking kill me, smh. Here's a tip folks. When someone makes a thread, they put their shit out their to be scrutinized whether they receive negative or positive feedback. People can't stand the damn truth & rather be comforted by a lie. So LIMM, next time just comment that they will be married, skip off into the field of daisies, have 2.5 kids, a dog, a cat, with a white picket fence, that they will NEVER have problems & will live perfectly ever after forever. Oh, be sure to let her know that these dreams will come true on May 43rd. 😛
Real ...you're such a troll and bully! How dare you give your opinion....you're just reveling in this poor manipulative girls misfortune. I'm so disgusted in you :p
Right! Hahaha....I'm gonna start giving opposite advice...
"Why did my virgo disappear?" He wants you to find him... Go to his house right now...if not home wait til he gets home.
"Why is my virgo so emotionless?" You're not being over emotional enough...you need to do it everyday, as much as possible...that is the only thing he will respond to!
If this virgo dude felt the same feelings as when they got together that night...he wouldn't want to stay broken up and see where things go....
He's gonna keep her around to fuck while/until he finds someone else imo.
And wait for it...the holier than thous's will becoming in shortly ...to say.....
lol
Posted by RealTalk
Damn...why is everyone attacking LIMM? LIMM did you notice the chicks that are getting offended by what you are saying, are the same broads that have issues with their Virgo man...epic.I for one agree with what she says as well, so I'm a bully to then? So be it & I'll be sure to take your lunch money & beat your ass on the playground. 😄
I swear...people really fucking kill me, smh. Here's a tip folks. When someone makes a thread, they put their shit out their to be scrutinized whether they receive negative or positive feedback. People can't stand the damn truth & rather be comforted by a lie. So LIMM, next time just comment that they will be married, skip off into the field of daisies, have 2.5 kids, a dog, a cat, with a white picket fence, that they will NEVER have problems & will live perfectly ever after forever. Oh, be sure to let her know that these dreams will come true on May 43rd. 😛
Real ...you're such a troll and bully! How dare you give your opinion....you're just reveling in this poor manipulative girls misfortune. I'm so disgusted in you :p
Right! Hahaha....I'm gonna start giving opposite advice...
"Why did my virgo disappear?" He wants you to find him... Go to his house right now...if not home wait til he gets home.
"Why is my virgo so emotionless?" You're not being over emotional enough...you need to do it everyday, as much as possible...that is the only thing he will respond to!If this virgo dude felt the same feelings as when they got together that night...he wouldn't want to stay broken up and see where things go....
He's gonna keep her around to fuck while/until he finds someone else imo.And wait for it...the holier than thous's will becoming in shortly ...to say.....
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Lmao! Why are you so mean? 😭
Virgos are so heartless!!!!
😛
Hahahahaha!
@ real....I know :/ I made myself cry
With laughter....hahahahahaha :p
Posted by RomancingA
Ooooh ur not bitter at all!! What an epic post!! Just radiates wisdom bahahhaha!
"And wait for it...the holier than thous's will becoming in shortly ...to say....."
^^^ see look how easy it is to rope them in ...smh lol
I'm not even bothered by LIMM anymore I think its a little bit sad actually that a fully grown women still acts like she is in highschool and has enough time on her hands to repeatedly come onto this thread and be a smart ass and then as soon as one person agree's with her, her self esteem increases. Whatever gets you going love 🙂
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Also during this conversation I said again "do you think we should just break up and leave it at that" he paused and said "no I really don't" and I said "are you sure" and he said yes, he said "if u don't want to give it another chance then fair enough" (because I've tried for the last year) and I said "well I've tried for the months now and this is the first time it has been like THIS so of course ill give this another shot (the space etc) and see what happens."
The thing that I'm afraid of most is not knowing what will happen, it can go either way 😢