@tender
10 Years
Why??
Maybe they're busy?
I'd love to wager a guess here but the question without adding context and details cannot be answered.
I can throw 20 scenarios there.
Posted by tender
Why virgos go cold themselves without any reasons..nit receiving call replying back texts why is this sign so hard to unserstand
Sometimes I'd rather spend time alone because I just don't wanna be bothered. Don't wanna hear about other people's problems until I get my own straight first. Or I'm busy, or I'm pissed @ the person & I don't want to talk to them, if I don't connect with someone &/or find them annoying or boring, I cut off contact.
Posted by Damnata
I'd love to wager a guess here but the question without adding context and details cannot be answered.I can throw 20 scenarios there.
Even i am confused....buh before week everything was smooth and we even made love before she went cold but now shes cold doesnt receives my calls doesn't replies to my msgs and when i call through another number she tries to cut the phone when finds out its me••
Posted by tiziani
Were you in a relationship or did she just want you for sex?
Hope that's true. I'll love to be a sex symbol 😄
Posted by tiziani
Were you in a relationship or did she just want you for sex?
This question is relevant, if it was a sex relationship it makes sense
I feel that most virgos have an underlying deep seated fear of being rejected. I've known a few in my life and have known them to pull a disappearing act or disappear on a potential love interest before THEY could get hurt. Also so as to not get too attached, they will create distance even when everything is going perfectly well.
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:
1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings.
I used to date a Virgo before, I'm a Taurus woman.. Yeah, most of the time, he ignores me. Like I don't even know what's happening to him.. He always disappears. & then after a few weeks/months he'll come back like nothing happened. It was the best relationship that I've ever had tho. I wish I could turn back time..
Aww yall made "love". My heart aches.
Tender what is your sign?
its easier to deal with them if you kind of put a wall up yourself. Don't take everything they say & do to heart; not in a mean way, more like self protection! And in my experience with them, they actually will warm to you.
Course then there's the issue of what to do with your walled up emotions! Any suggestions?
Posted by tiziani
Were you in a relationship or did she just want you for sex?
I guess it was lust not love if its love how can someone resist a loved one right...👀👀
Posted by Peanutbutter
Aww yall made "love". My heart aches.Tender what is your sign?
Mine CANCERŠŠŠ
Posted by LibWman
I feel that most virgos have an underlying deep seated fear of being rejected. I've known a few in my life and have known them to pull a disappearing act or disappear on a potential love interest before THEY could get hurt. Also so as to not get too attached, they will create distance even when everything is going perfectly well.
Don't know about other virgos but this is true for me... self sabotage when it comes to love interest
Posted by WateryVirgo
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings.
"I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you"..... this sounds selfish and slightly abusive.. I mean no harm, but I dealt with a Virgo on and off for a few years now. That statement shows a manipulative, selfish and controlling quality (I feel that statement applies to him and how he treated me). I feel like most virgos don't want to accept that about themselves. (The ones I've known anyway)
I understand wanting space. I was always cool with that. Hell, I love space as well. But if I were to msg him simply asking how he was doing, never getting a response is a bit rude to me. I understand it happens, but it happened a lot. Why not just tell them you're taking time for yourself? especially if you care for them?... because if a Virgo hit someone up that they were happy to speak to, and that person just left them hanging for 2 weeks they would be upset I'm sure. I hear you guys are sensitive.... if the other person hit them up 2 weeks later, like they never left the Virgo hanging (like the Virgo guy I know) Virgo probably wouldn't respond bc they're hurt... hm.
I don't know. This sign is interesting to me. Honestly all I ever want to do is help the virgos I encounter. They seem to need support but... they don't easily accept it sometimes.
Posted by sadpopcorn
constipation. locked in the bathroom for hours. can't get to the phone.
too scared to take the phone in the bathroom or mention the word bathroom..
I understand wanting space. I was always cool with that. Hell, I love space as well. But if I were to msg him simply asking how he was doing, never getting a response is a bit rude to me. I understand it happens, but it happened a lot. Why not just tell them you're taking time for yourself? especially if you care for them?... because if a Virgo hit someone up that they were happy to speak to, and that person just left them hanging for 2 weeks they would be upset I'm sure. I hear you guys are sensitive.... if the other person hit them up 2 weeks later, like they never left the Virgo hanging (like the Virgo guy I know) Virgo probably wouldn't respond bc they're hurt... hm.
I don't know. This sign is interesting to me. Honestly all I ever want to do is help the virgos I encounter. They seem to need support but... they don't easily accept it sometimes.
I'm not proud of the way that I've treated people as a young adult. Karma has definitely bit me in the a $ $ since then. I just got out of a relationship where my ex did the same to me. I would say that back then, I was very selfish and controlling of my time and attentions: "I'll answer back whenever I feel like it; it's my time and I'll do what I want. Stop bothering/pressuring me. I don't HAVE to answer to you!" It's horrible, I know :-/ I can also say that I was emotionally immature back then too; never had to consider or deal with anything emotionally detrimental happening to me. But eventually, I did grow emotionally from that experience, it was only then that I wised up.
I wouldn't blame someone, who I've messaged, to ignore me for two weeks, if I've done the same to them. I would really expect them to call me on my $ h!t. Honestly, I would lose a little respect for them if they didn't.
I could see a Virgo being scared and leery of accepting support from someone. The thought of being dependent or feeling beholden to someone is terrifying.
Posted by sadpopcorn
constipation. locked in the bathroom for hours. can't get to the phone.too scared to take the phone in the bathroom or mention the word bathroom..
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What's a bah.... A bath.... A bathroo... I can't.
Posted by tender
Why virgos go cold themselves without any reasons..nit receiving call replying back texts why is this sign so hard to unserstandI think it's something that improves with time once they value your interaction... or if you give them a taste of their own medicine they realize what it feels like...
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Yes. Tit for tat baby, makes our blood boil. Play their game.
Posted by sadpopcorn
constipation. locked in the bathroom for hours. can't get to the phone.too scared to take the phone in the bathroom or mention the word bathroom..
What's a bah.... A bath.... A bathroo... I can't.
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haha
Posted by WateryVirgo
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings.
Another Virgo Sun Pisces Moon family..and they hit it right on the point for me
Posted by WateryVirgo
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings."I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you"..... this sounds selfish and slightly abusive.. I mean no harm, but I dealt with a Virgo on and off for a few years now. That statement shows a manipulative, selfish and controlling quality (I feel that statement applies to him and how he treated me). I feel like most virgos don't want to accept that about themselves. (The ones I've known anyway)
I understand wanting space. I was always cool with that. Hell, I love space as well. But if I were to msg him simply asking how he was doing, never getting a response is a bit rude to me. I understand it happens, but it happened a lot. Why not just tell them you're taking time for yourself? especially if you care for them?... because if a Virgo hit someone up that they were happy to speak to, and that person just left them hanging for 2 weeks they would be upset I'm sure. I hear you guys are sensitive.... if the other person hit them up 2 weeks later, like they never left the Virgo hanging (like the Virgo guy I know) Virgo probably wouldn't respond bc they're hurt... hm.
I don't know. This sign is interesting to me. Honestly all I ever want to do is help the virgos I encounter. They seem to need support but... they don't easily accept it sometimes.
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I'm having the same issue. Me n this virgo guy met like a week ago and we were flirting like crazy. We were supposed to meet up then he went out of town but we texted still. Like twice he left me hanging and didn't text back so I thought it would've been a good idea to tease him and send him a pic in my bikini then not text back but he sent me a nude back lol but I didn't respond til the next day and told him I thought my text had sent, sorry and he never responded. It's been two days. So I'm wondering if he'll never hit me up again or he's just salty I didn't respond that day n will eventually idk...
I'm having the same issue. Me n this virgo guy met like a week ago and we were flirting like crazy. We were supposed to meet up then he went out of town but we texted still. Like twice he left me hanging and didn't text back so I thought it would've been a good idea to tease him and send him a pic in my bikini then not text back but he sent me a nude back lol but I didn't respond til the next day and told him I thought my text had sent, sorry and he never responded. It's been two days. So I'm wondering if he'll never hit me up again or he's just salty I didn't respond that day n will eventually idk...
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Try not to be surprised if it takes a few more days for him to reply (a week in total time passed or even 2 unfortunately) why? I can't say. Something he's analyzing about you or the situation. But after a few days and no response, I feel it's ok to message him asking if he's ok or something or that you were thinking about him. Virgos like to be cared about and missed.
Whatever you say, make sure it's genuine and natural of course.
Posted by WateryVirgo
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings."I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you"..... this sounds selfish and slightly abusive.. I mean no harm, but I dealt with a Virgo on and off for a few years now. That statement shows a manipulative, selfish and controlling quality (I feel that statement applies to him and how he treated me). I feel like most virgos don't want to accept that about themselves. (The ones I've known anyway)
I understand wanting space. I was always cool with that. Hell, I love space as well. But if I were to msg him simply asking how he was doing, never getting a response is a bit rude to me. I understand it happens, but it happened a lot. Why not just tell them you're taking time for yourself? especially if you care for them?... because if a Virgo hit someone up that they were happy to speak to, and that person just left them hanging for 2 weeks they would be upset I'm sure. I hear you guys are sensitive.... if the other person hit them up 2 weeks later, like they never left the Virgo hanging (like the Virgo guy I know) Virgo probably wouldn't respond bc they're hurt... hm.
I don't know. This sign is interesting to me. Honestly all I ever want to do is help the virgos I encounter. They seem to need support but... they don't easily accept it sometimes.
I'm having the same issue. Me n this virgo guy met like a week ago and we were flirting like crazy. We were supposed to meet up then he went out of town but we texted still. Like twice he left me hanging and didn't text back so I thought it would've been a good idea to tease him and send him a pic in my bikini then not text back but he sent me a nude back lol but I didn't respond til the next day and told him I thought my text had sent, sorry and he never responded. It's been two days. So I'm wondering if he'll never hit me up again or he's just salty I didn't respond that day n will eventually idk...
click to expandTry not to be surprised if it takes a few more days for him to reply (a week in total time
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Why virgos go cold themselves without any reasons..nit receiving call replying back texts why is this sign so hard to unserstand