Why is my Virgo guy friend such a... (Page 2)

Posted by PEITHO
What do you mean by take the relationship to another level? You keep thinking that I want more than friendship with him when I don't. That's the problem he and I have never went out together or did anything that friends do. All we did was sleep together but that's because I was afraid to go anywhere with him. I'm hoping things will be different this time that he and I may actually go out. He does comedy in LA and I told him before I'd like to go out with him when he goes.

As for him sleeping with other friends I don't know if he does or not but I've told him to make sure he ALWAYS uses protection. I don't want to give up on having a friendship with him he means too much to me.

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Posted by PEITHO
Nobody would keep wasting their time on the same person if they didn't like them. There are so many other ways a person can entertain themselves. I don't get why that's so hard to believe.

Peitho, I've told you he likes you..just not for reasons that are going to take your relationship to another level. He's a friend from afar, who you may have sex with a few times. He's not going to tell you he's probably sleeping with other friends as well.

If he.contacts you to apologize, say ok thank you, and that's that. You are gonna have to be the one to leave him be at some point, so you can actually be more open to finding a meaningful relationship with someone.

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He seems like a drug that you need though.....

Posted by faceroll
greentea some people are like crack. it's really unhealthy and fucked up.

moving past that is extremely difficult. takes some time.

Damn... I've never experienced that with anyone. Sounds terrible when it doesn't work out.

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greentea some people are like crack. it's really unhealthy and fucked up.

moving past that is extremely difficult. takes some time.

Damn... I've never experienced that with anyone. Sounds terrible when it doesn't work out.

yeah it's balls. i have a pisces ex who is also venus in aries but hers in the 8th. (mines in the 2nd) and though opposite house venus shit created a magnetic attraction that was really hard to pull away from. i was single for YEARS not months after we broke up the last time. i still mention her all the time on the board because i'm still constantly thinking about her.

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See that would drive me insane, I can't have someone from the past taking up too much space in there.

Posted by PEITHO
I haven't created any relationship in my mind I've already said several times we aren't in a relationship.

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Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by Greentea
@Peitho ...and Arielle has a valid point, perhaps you could turn your focus to more important things that will make a difference like your nursing career. You're too obsessed with this guy.

I have a girlfriend who just finished nursing school, she's in Haiti right now helping to deliver babies as part of a rescue project their involved in. She just ended a relationship and it's helping her tremendously in moving on.

what relationship? she doesn't have a relationship. What is there to move on from?

The relationship they've created, in their minds.

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I'm just saying maybe your holding him to a higher regard than what he deserves. My Virgo friend knows how to get inside, my friend does it all the time to the girls he messes with..he gives them just enough
to keep them wanoting more. He's told me this. I tell him he's a jackass and he just laughs.

He's only had one real relationship that lasted about 4 years. She cheated and then dumped him because she always caught wind that he was flirting and messing around by random girls.

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Posted by Greentea
Little bitch. He acts like a girl.

He posts all kind of stupid, useless shit on fb. Like...nobody cares dude except you...ok.

I don't wamt to see you cooking pork, and then the next day make a meal and say you want to eat healthier, when really all you want to do is showcase your plate of food.

When somethings happens he expresses such remorse and says that not many people can understand how hurt he feels about what's going on. Like keep that shit to yourself...unless you're going to do something about it ok.

Ain't got time to hear you whine and suggest you're the only one who can possibly understand how it feels because you feel more than others.

Feck you dude, posting all kinds of charity bs, while you don't even volunteer when I ask you to. Fake ass mofo!!!

He's a little shit head for real though!!

I'd say you must care if you've decided to come and make an entire thread about it on here, to tell a bunch of people who actually don't care.. :/

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Care that I'm annoyed? Ya. I do. Duh!

Posted by faceroll
greentea what does your chart look like? have you posted it anywhere?

No, but it's Jan 6 '83

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greentea what does your chart look like? have you posted it anywhere?

No, but it's Jan 6 '83

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No wonder, you are full of Aquarius.

Plus you were born the same year I was, which makes you an annoying bitch to begin with, with all that sanctimonious Sag energy we have.

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greentea what does your chart look like? have you posted it anywhere?

No, but it's Jan 6 '83

No wonder, you are full of Aquarius.

Plus you were born the same year I was, which makes you an annoying bitch to begin with, with all that sanctimonious Sag energy we have.

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LMAO!

Your Aqua planets are my Leo planets, no wonder the tension 😉

Posted by faceroll
you have a great chart, greentea. i love air placements! you have a couple of my favorites. lol

Thank you! I'm usually reserved and stoic until I get close to someone then it's like I'm a different person.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Your Aqua planets are my Leo planets, no wonder the tension 😉

So get me books for birthdays and I'll get you a shiny new mirror. Ya..

I'll get you this book:

"Understanding the awesomeness of Virgo 101"

You probably love virtual sex more than the real thing btw

Posted by faceroll
you have a great chart, greentea. i love air placements! you have a couple of my favorites. lol

Which are your favorites?

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You probably love virtual sex more than the real thing btw

Ahem... I wouldn't take it that far. I do very much love the real thing, I do like being stimulated mentally though, as part of the seduction.

Chill out darling, dxp is a joke

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you have a great chart, greentea. i love air placements! you have a couple of my favorites. lol

Which are your favorites?

the aqua placements. i'm also not sure of your moon. if it's in libra that's one of my favorites too. if it's in scorpio i think i'll have to throw holy water on you.

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It's libra.

What's up with scorp moons, are they the devil?

Caps are the devil, literally. Saturn is just another name for Satan

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Chill out darling, dxp is a joke

if i was your girl and reading this id be concerned

not cool man

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Shes quite flirty herself, as a Libra. Which is fine by me. Stop being so sensitive and...so water and so......crab 😛

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Posted by Greentea
Little bitch. He acts like a girl.

He posts all kind of stupid, useless shit on fb. Like...nobody cares dude except you...ok.

I don't wamt to see you cooking pork, and then the next day make a meal and say you want to eat healthier, when really all you want to do is showcase your plate of food.

When somethings happens he expresses such remorse and says that not many people can understand how hurt he feels about what's going on. Like keep that shit to yourself...unless you're going to do something about it ok.

Ain't got time to hear you whine and suggest you're the only one who can possibly understand how it feels because you feel more than others.

Feck you dude, posting all kinds of charity bs, while you don't even volunteer when I ask you to. Fake ass mofo!!!

He's a little shit head for real though!!

I'd say you must care if you've decided to come and make an entire thread about it on here, to tell a bunch of people who actually don't care.. :/

Care that I'm annoyed? Ya. I do. Duh!

I have a few friends on FB that really annoy me too, but are the sort of friends that I would feel bad deleting as we are or were actually good friends at some point. There is an option to turn off posts from certain people so that you will never see their updates and all that crap that they post. I'd highly recommend it 😛

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I already unfollowed him. I domt go on there much, but.when I do I just see bullshit everywhere.

She wants to put a wedding ring on her guys within the first month of courtship, no wonder their guys run for the hills 😛

Posted by faceroll
stillwater is amazing. we used to be enemies but now we get along great. 🙂

Did she have my placements or scorp moon placement?

I'm confused.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Caps are the devil, literally. Saturn is just another name for Satan

That's fucked up dude, my feelings are hurt. NOT!!

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She wants to put a wedding ring on her guys within the first month of courtship, no wonder their guys run for the hills 😛

who me? nah. I just like loyalty and 100% commitment, virgos charms and flirtations are annoying to me.

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I like those things too, but personally, flirting is pretty harmless to me, just innocent fun, I dont put that much weight to it. I just know I'm being a pretty good boyfriend to my Libra so far, and quite proud of it 🙂

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Caps are the devil, literally. Saturn is just another name for Satan

That's fucked up dude, my feelings are hurt. NOT!!

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Go make me a sammich

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
She wants to put a wedding ring on her guys within the first month of courtship, no wonder their guys run for the hills 😛

I know you're not talking about me... there's guys left in the dark still wanting to get me back.

My Scorp and I are obsessed with eachother. First guy I've felt this way with since the Sag. I'm very picky, too picky actually.

Posted by PEITHO
Yeah this place can be depressing better to try to handle things for yourself then come here people only make fun of you.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
faceroll are people happier when they leave DXP? I was, but then i came back, and everything is kind of ruined. My relationship after i deleted CC was good, when i came back bad

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If you're coming to dxp for totally serious relationship advice, you are out of your mind

Posted by PEITHO
Yeah this place can be depressing better to try to handle things for yourself then come here people only make fun of you.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
faceroll are people happier when they leave DXP? I was, but then i came back, and everything is kind of ruined. My relationship after i deleted CC was good, when i came back bad

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Aww Peitho. *Internet hug*

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Caps are the devil, literally. Saturn is just another name for Satan

That's fucked up dude, my feelings are hurt. NOT!!

Go make me a sammich

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That type of treatment is only reserved for my man. Thanks..

Posted by PEITHO
What exactly do you mean? I thought people here were serious when they give advice about situations. I wish I had never even made threads about the Virgo here. I think I may take the things people say here too seriously though. I mean really how can people on a board know what another person is thinking. I need to learn how to start making decisions for myself based on how I feel not on what everyone else thinks. Yes I know my chart says I'm delusional so does that mean that every time I'm in a situation I can't rely on my own brain and thoughts?

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Posted by PEITHO
Yeah this place can be depressing better to try to handle things for yourself then come here people only make fun of you.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
faceroll are people happier when they leave DXP? I was, but then i came back, and everything is kind of ruined. My relationship after i deleted CC was good, when i came back bad

If you're coming to dxp for totally serious relationship advice, you are out of your mind

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DXP is a dump, for all the emotional nonsense and garbage they cant express in their "real lives". Not a lot of people want to play Dr Love on here, most people just want validation.

Posted by PEITHO
Yeah this place can be depressing better to try to handle things for yourself then come here people only make fun of you.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
faceroll are people happier when they leave DXP? I was, but then i came back, and everything is kind of ruined. My relationship after i deleted CC was good, when i came back bad

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You also have to be open to what advice, real advice people have to give. Instead of fighting it. There will always be the ones who just want to talk shit. Those you need to dispose of.

People are fascinated by DXP for the same reason they are fascinated by car accidents

Posted by PEITHO
So basically I really shouldn't take what people say here seriously?

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Posted by PEITHO
What exactly do you mean? I thought people here were serious when they give advice about situations. I wish I had never even made threads about the Virgo here. I think I may take the things people say here too seriously though. I mean really how can people on a board know what another person is thinking. I need to learn how to start making decisions for myself based on how I feel not on what everyone else thinks. Yes I know my chart says I'm delusional so does that mean that every time I'm in a situation I can't rely on my own brain and thoughts?

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Posted by PEITHO
Yeah this place can be depressing better to try to handle things for yourself then come here people only make fun of you.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
faceroll are people happier when they leave DXP? I was, but then i came back, and everything is kind of ruined. My relationship after i deleted CC was good, when i came back bad

If you're coming to dxp for totally serious relationship advice, you are out of your mind

DXP is a dump, for all the emotional nonsense and garbage they cant express in their "real lives". Not a lot of people want to play Dr Love on here, most people just want validation.

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For real relationship advice you should ask your best friend, family member, or someone like that, someone who knows you.

and cares for you

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Posted by PEITHO
Yeah this place can be depressing better to try to handle things for yourself then come here people only make fun of you.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
faceroll are people happier when they leave DXP? I was, but then i came back, and everything is kind of ruined. My relationship after i deleted CC was good, when i came back bad

If you're coming to dxp for totally serious relationship advice, you are out of your mind

i think the problem with me was not the advice but the fact that i started to over analyze and not just be in the moment. DXP helped me lots with over analyzing and having doubts and insecurities.

it really never helped solve problems, i think when i logged back in as BlackMamba is when things got worse, cause now i have a place to kind of ruminate...

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But it's no one's responsibilities to solve your problems, but yours and only yours. Random strangers arent going to mother you

I think theres people who.come on heRe because they aren't comfortable going to their real life friends and family. Depending on the situation but still need help or advice.

Not always gonna get it though, however there are people on here that are good at giving just depends on how truly open and aware you are to accepting it.

Posted by faceroll
most people here want validation not advice. i've been guilty of that myself at various points. it is what it is.

Yes I've noticed that too..a lot actually.

Posted by PEITHO
I'm not being stubborn lol.

Posted by Gobshite
The stubborn Taurean strikes again...

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You have been obsessed with this Virgo guy for like 2 years now, of course you are stubborn. Just let him go, seriously. Just stop talking about him, stop perpetuating the bullshit, simply disconnect, BAM GONE byee byeeeeeeee

What are you cooking for dinner tonight btw?

My Libra is a vegan, I've been introduced to some really yummy vegan dishes, I never knew vegan food could be so yummy!

Posted by faceroll
shaks, how do you take your coffee?

WIth honey and some cream 😄

I rarely drink coffee though, I kinda gave up on caffeine like 6 years ago

how about you?

I only read the Taco part...

I cooked mexican christmas dinner for my family!

scorchy, out of those 3 girls...why dont you choose for the one that can cook best? 😄

Black, no sugar no cream...

And turkey tacos do sound good right now.

Im kinda anxious about preparing a romantic evening with my Libra tomorrow...I'm gonna take her to the town I used to live and kinda be her tour guide, showing her all the nice historical places, factoids, etc, then take her for dinner (pretty hard to find a good vegan restaurant!!) and then end the evening at the local opera house for some cool show. Any suggestions?

Posted by PEITHO
Can I at least come here and post an update?

If its about food, yes!

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
scorchy, out of those 3 girls...why dont you choose for the one that can cook best? 😄

none of them can cook.

my pisces ex is one of the worst cooks i've ever seen. she would make boxed mashed potatoes and that would be dinner. and i can cook and she wouldn't let me. i ate a lot of wendy's while we were together. ijs.

though no one is as hopeless as my aries ex. she literally had me hold her hand through making waffles from a mix. i'm sure she'd find a way to burn water.

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I feel your pain! I think I've only dealt with one girl that couldnt cook at all, needless to say it didnt last long between us 😛 somehow though I always atrract girls that are great cooks! Lucky me! (They all have strong Cancer/Taurus in them tthough) My Libra has moon in Taurus, she loves to cook and does some amazing things

Posted by faceroll
evil taurus i'm completely delusional about a virgos intentions with me. none of them have ever actually been my friend. though i want a virgo best friend so much. maybe i should find a male virgo to be friends with. idk.

I can be your friend 😢

Posted by faceroll
evil taurus i'm completely delusional about a virgos intentions with me. none of them have ever actually been my friend. though i want a virgo best friend so much. maybe i should find a male virgo to be friends with. idk.

My virgo guy friend and I had an argument some days ago. He doesn't like my scorpio, says he thinks hell be controlling of me. I'm like you just met him, how can you assess that.

This makes me think he's just talking shit, or he just doesn't want to see me happy. Pisses me off. He's always got something to say about everything I do.

He says I pick guys that aren't good enough.

Why?... because they don't have rich parents. I think he's great. Treats me well, or I wouldn't have waited all that time for him.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Im kinda anxious about preparing a romantic evening with my Libra tomorrow...I'm gonna take her to the town I used to live and kinda be her tour guide, showing her all the nice historical places, factoids, etc, then take her for dinner (pretty hard to find a good vegan restaurant!!) and then end the evening at the local opera house for some cool show. Any suggestions?

That actually soundo perfect Boom, I think she'll love it. I wouldn't change a thing.