Why is my Virgo guy friend such a... (Page 3)

Posted by faceroll
that's a strange thing to say about someone you don't know well.

I know, he's got some nerve, I tell you.

We are fine indeed 😄

Posted by PEITHO
I think one of the reasons why I care about the Virgo so much is because I know he's been through a lot. He's a comedian and you know what they say about comedians they usually suffer from a lot of issues. I can sense things about people it's probably because of my Venus in Pisces. I've been reading where people have been saying bad things about him. Like how he's weird and insecure that people pick on him etc. He told me about how he's been having financial issues but that I don't need to worry about him. He knows that I worry about him anyway I wish he would let me be there for him.

THIS post is the reason you guys scared everyone away!


Seriously no moreeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!! Stop talking about this fucking guy

Its a decision. Everybody can make a decision.

Stop hiding under astrology

I'm not listening.... *lalalalalalalalalalala*

Hold what in— You are living in the past.

How about you talk about stuff that you are passionate about? Your plans, dreams, is there a new guy trying to hit on you?

Live in the now

Posted by PEITHO
It must be very easy for you to give up on people.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I'm not listening.... *lalalalalalalalalalala*

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Its never easy, but I ALWAYS do my best to move on. I rearrange my life in such a way that I have a new focus, new plans, new things to be excited about.

Of course there is always the mourning period before that, which in my case doesnt last more than a month or two. After that it just gets boring, all that self-pity, all that living in the past, it just gets really really boring

Not to mention you're only hurting yourself for something that will probably never change.or grow. Grow yourself.

And it's never easy letting go, but you can't move forward if you're keep stuck in the past. You have a life to live. You're probably turning away many great opportunities because of this guy. I hope not.

Its the past because the time you saw him as a potentially long-term partner is GONE! You have changed, he has changed, whatever you guys had changed, its not gonna be the same, just deal with it

Posted by PEITHO
How is it the past when I'll be seeing him next week.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Hold what in— You are living in the past.

How about you talk about stuff that you are passionate about? Your plans, dreams, is there a new guy trying to hit on you?

Live in the now

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How would.you feel if he told you he's found someone he's inlove with and wants to marry her?

Knowing you love this guy... see I don't think you just like him as this "friend" you keep saying. Its an obsession.

Correct me if I'm wrong here.

Posted by PEITHO
I never saw him as a long term partner never once did I say I wanted him to be my partner. No one ever knows what could happen that's life and there is no way to predict that.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Its the past because the time you saw him as a potentially long-term partner is GONE! You have changed, he has changed, whatever you guys had changed, its not gonna be the same, just deal with it

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The only one here not seeing that this guy DOESNT WANT YOU FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS is you, wake up! Do you want to keep on being his toy forever? How about you try and find a guy that knows what he wants and can give you a healthy relationship, dont you get you love being in a fucked up situation right now because it feels safe?

Posted by PEITHO
I would be fine with that as long as he and I were friends but I've already told him I didn't want to come between anything if he was trying to be with someone.

Posted by Greentea

Posted by PEITHO
How is it the past when I'll be seeing him next week.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Hold what in— You are living in the past.

How about you talk about stuff that you are passionate about? Your plans, dreams, is there a new guy trying to hit on you?

Live in the now

How would.you feel if he told you he's found someone he's inlove with and wants to marry her?

Knowing you love this guy... see I don't think you just like him as this "friend" you keep saying. Its an obsession.

Correct me if I'm wrong here.

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So you just want to be there for this underlining sense of attraction even if he's trying to move on with a wife. Because you know that's how it's going to be, even if you added that little "I don't want to come between anything" disclosure in the end.

Posted by PEITHO
Everyone keeps telling me I'm obsessed what about him? Is he obsessed? He's the one who keeps adding me on accounts.

You are obsessed with him because him is all you keep talking about every single fucking day. If you wanna regain your mental sanity, the first thing you need to do is stop talking about him

Posted by PEITHO
Everyone keeps telling me I'm obsessed what about him? Is he obsessed? He's the one who keeps adding me on accounts.

I think he's obsessed with him seeing if he can get you every time.

Posted by Greentea

Posted by PEITHO
Everyone keeps telling me I'm obsessed what about him? Is he obsessed? He's the one who keeps adding me on accounts.

I think he's obsessed with him seeing if he can get you every time.

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...and you're obsessed with him trying because you think he's doing it because he actually cares.

Posted by Greentea

Posted by PEITHO
Everyone keeps telling me I'm obsessed what about him? Is he obsessed? He's the one who keeps adding me on accounts.

I think he's obsessed with him seeing if he can get you every time.

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Exactly, it gives him an enourmous kick! He feels like a king for knowing that he can pull every single type of shit he wants on you and you will still accept him regardless.

Why don't you be different than the other girls he can string along...and actually take charge of yoursslf. He'll show greater respect for you, than some girl who falls for his stupid shit all the time.

A player is a player, regardless of sign

Posted by faceroll
if that's the case virgos are assholes. -.-

fuck other earth signs though, seriously.

Yes, they can be terrible!...and people make excuses for them, I fucking hate that shit.

But I love you baby sister!!!!

Posted by PEITHO
Did I ever say I wanted to have something serious with him? Ok so he doesn't like me even though he keeps adding me on different accounts. Watches the conversations I have with people even when we aren't even facebook friends. Just a few days ago he made another account asking me if he could reason with me. Well what am I suppose to say about that? What do you suggest I say to him if he meets me next week? You have all the answers so tell me if we meet what exactly should I say to him?

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Posted by PEITHO
I never saw him as a long term partner never once did I say I wanted him to be my partner. No one ever knows what could happen that's life and there is no way to predict that.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Its the past because the time you saw him as a potentially long-term partner is GONE! You have changed, he has changed, whatever you guys had changed, its not gonna be the same, just deal with it

The only one here not seeing that this guy DOESNT WANT YOU FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS is you, wake up! Do you want to keep on being his toy forever? How about you try and find a guy that knows what he wants and can give you a healthy relationship, dont you get you love being in a fucked up situation right now because it feels safe?

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I dont give a shit if he keeps adding you to accounts, WHO GIVES A SHIT— STOP REPEATING THAT ON EVERY POST, seriously stop overanalyzing every single idiotic thing you notice or that crosses your mind, just because something crosses your mind doesnt mean its important to think about, it doesnt necessarily mean its something that is happening.

Posted by PEITHO
Well he doesn't even have his own place to stay.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
A player is a player, regardless of sign

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What does that have to do with being a player?

or a Virgo for that matter?

Posted by PEITHO
I'm not over analyzing anything I'm just telling you that the man won't leave me alone even though he says that he doesn't want to talk to me I'm just telling you what's been happening. So what do you suggest I say to him next week? At this point I have no idea.

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Posted by PEITHO
Did I ever say I wanted to have something serious with him? Ok so he doesn't like me even though he keeps adding me on different accounts. Watches the conversations I have with people even when we aren't even facebook friends. Just a few days ago he made another account asking me if he could reason with me. Well what am I suppose to say about that? What do you suggest I say to him if he meets me next week? You have all the answers so tell me if we meet what exactly should I say to him?

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Posted by PEITHO
I never saw him as a long term partner never once did I say I wanted him to be my partner. No one ever knows what could happen that's life and there is no way to predict that.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Its the past because the time you saw him as a potentially long-term partner is GONE! You have changed, he has changed, whatever you guys had changed, its not gonna be the same, just deal with it

The only one here not seeing that this guy DOESNT WANT YOU FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS is you, wake up! Do you want to keep on being his toy forever? How about you try and find a guy that knows what he wants and can give you a healthy relationship, dont you get you love being in a fucked up situation right now because it feels safe?

I dont give a shit if he keeps adding you to accounts, WHO GIVES A SHIT— STOP REPEATING THAT ON EVERY POST, seriously stop overanalyzing every single idiotic thing you notice or that crosses your mind, just because something crosses your mind doesnt mean its important to think about, it doesnt necessarily mean its something that is happening.

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I suggest you to GET A LIFE. Thats the only thing I truly want to suggest you.

Posted by PEITHO
I told him that I don't want to come in between anything if he's trying to be with someone what does that tell you?

Posted by Greentea

Posted by PEITHO
I would be fine with that as long as he and I were friends but I've already told him I didn't want to come between anything if he was trying to be with someone.

Posted by Greentea

Posted by PEITHO
How is it the past when I'll be seeing him next week.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Hold what in— You are living in the past.

How about you talk about stuff that you are passionate about? Your plans, dreams, is there a new guy trying to hit on you?

Live in the now

How would.you feel if he told you he's found someone he's inlove with and wants to marry her?

Knowing you love this guy... see I don't think you just like him as this "friend" you keep saying. Its an obsession.

Correct me if I'm wrong here.

So you just want to be there for this underlining sense of attraction even if he's trying to move on with a wife. Because you know that's how it's going to be, even if you added that little "I don't want to come between anything" disclosure in the end.

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Absolutely nothing.. I still think I'm right about the situation. You're just.obsessed with this.l little whatever you want to call it...and if you can still have crumbs of that feeling then you will accept that. You wouldn't want him to completely move on without you being on his coattails somehow.

Posted by PEITHO
This is all just really a big ass mess I just wish we could work this shit out. Now I might be stuck with a person harassing me on social media.

You can unstuck yourself you know, YOU, YOU.. (pointing at YOU)

Start a plan, call that plan: "getting rid of this fucker for good'

And stick to it

Posted by faceroll
shaks was i like this? this bad? when i was still dealing with the other virgo? because i hope not.

You didnt quite get to that point, though you were kinda heading towards becoming PEITHO 2 😛 😛 Nah, you are less stubborn and way way less naive than PEITHO

Posted by PEITHO
Naive? I know exactly what's going on here.

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Posted by faceroll
shaks was i like this? this bad? when i was still dealing with the other virgo? because i hope not.

You didnt quite get to that point, though you were kinda heading towards becoming PEITHO 2 😛 😛 Nah, you are less stubborn and way way less naive than PEITHO

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You dont know SHIT of whats going on with you, and thats the main problem. The problem is not the guy being an idiot, its YOU allowing to be treated like an idiot by this guy

Ok, Im seriously going to put you on ignore PEITHO, so I dont have to read your same stuff till the day I die, sorry. Nothing personal

Posted by faceroll
greentea tell me a little bit about your scorpio. i want something positive and not delusional to read for a bit.

Ok I will give me about 10 minutes I just need to respond to some emails. Brb

Thats it! Ignoreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

so whos this new Cancerian, scorchy? 😉

Posted by faceroll
shaks before last night i had like 30 people blocked on here. now i am seeing everyones bullshit. boards a lot different without people blocked.

Hahah well drama is fun, but the same drama story for years and years is pretty exhausting to read..its like..come up with a new script or something!

Posted by faceroll
an amazing woman, shaks. i am trying to adjust to how expressive she is. after being used to a robot virgo. freaks me out a bit. and i rage quit already. but we sorted it out. we're taking it slow and working on the friendship first. but we're attracted to each other. and it's with "intent" if you know what i mean. lol.

she's hot too. all my friends think so. so that's good for my venus dominance. 😄

*wiping the sweat off my forehead*

Feel the (sexual) tension mounting and mounting..at some point its gonna become unbearable. I really believe you shouldnt make it too slow either or its gonna feel contrived, if it feels good it feels good, no denying

Are you 100% sure shes going to divorce her though? Plenty of evil spirited girls out there wanting to eat from two cakes at the same time..

How long has she been having trouble with her "soon-to-be-ex"?

Posted by faceroll
greentea tell me a little bit about your scorpio. i want something positive and not delusional to read for a bit.

First off, we were friends first/coworkers so I didn't get the whole romanticizing thing when they're trying to show their good boy behavior amd then things start to show themselves slowly. I've seen him get mad, sad, etc.

We got to know eachother slowly. Which I like very much.
He's just an amazing guy, very serious about his stuff but funny, can talk to him about anything amd he helps me sort things out, whatever it is I'm going through. I do the same for him.

I think what really solidified it was when I learned we can play together, he chased me around his house when we were tipsy from wine oNE night pmaYing around and it got a really cray lol. We were laughing and laughing chasing eachother, I got to the sink and sprayed him with the faucet extension real good...then he grabbed me amd plopped me in the counter.....and well..you know the rest.......

I just remember knowing then and there what I had always known, we can be.

He's a firey scorp too. Loads of fun.

Did I tell you my Libra is into all kinds of esoteric stuff, including astrology? Holy shit! Thats such a relief to meet someone you can talk EVERYTHING about astrology with? I had never met another girl that I could feel discuss all kinds of random esoteric shit with, stuff that I love talking about too

Posted by faceroll
being able to talk about astrology is cool, yes.

He knows more about astrology than I do. He's the one who told me I was a Cap. Lol.

So in a way he introduced me to it. We talk about it a lot too.

Posted by faceroll

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
How long has she been having trouble with her "soon-to-be-ex"?

ex is a gemini with rage problems. they've had trouble almost the entire time they've been together. which is 4 years. been married less than that obviously. since gay marriage became legal in the states. lots of breaking up and getting back together. the possibility is there they could get back together again. but #yolo

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Playing devil's advocate here...but yeah, looking at it from the Cancerians perspective; the excitement of meeting someone new you have great chemistry with can be addicting after a long, frustrating marriage, just try to keep it real, you dont wanna end up being her temporary candy she can chew on before she moves on to someone else that seems "more interesting"

Posted by faceroll
being able to talk about astrology is cool, yes.

I never discuss that stuff with anyone else outside of dxp, ever :/ shes the first person I can discuss about venus conjunct mars without sounding and looking like a lunatic to the person listening!

Posted by Greentea

Posted by faceroll
being able to talk about astrology is cool, yes.

He knows more about astrology than I do. He's the one who told me I was a Cap. Lol.

So in a way he introduced me to it. We talk about it a lot too.

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He must be very interested in Ur-anus 😉

Posted by faceroll
she has other girls who like her. she's allowed to. we're not gonna be exclusive any time in the near future. we're starting with a friendship first. though there's attraction there.

which is what i wanted to do all along. but wasn't able to.

Cancerians are usually very indirect and coy about romantic interest....unless the other person takes the lead with confidence, so dont keep it too "friendly" for too long or else you might get friendzoned. Dont be afraid of things getting too hot too quickly, as long as there is enough mutual respect, you can work things out and make plans/arrangements for the long-term

Maybe thats the reason things get confusing with girls for you at some point or another? 😛 You got to seal the deal before you lose your window of opportunity..

hahaha tell her she better means business with you or else I'll grab the first flight to whatever state you live and kick her butt 😄

Posted by PEITHO
Do you talk to people out side of this forum?

What do you mean? who is this for?

@greentea

I dnt know if I am if anybody untitled to give any one else advice, be it may.

But if u dnt like him, then just block him, tell him point blank he is irritating you. Some times friends have to be brutally honest, who knows he may change or he may just block you, either way you win.