Why Virgos give mixed signals?

Virgos, why do you give mixed signals to your partners/lovers and make them confused?

no mixed signals.. ppl are just stupid

Posted by cheekyfaerie
Every Virgo I know is straight forward with you if you're straight forward with them.

AGREED

They do not give mixed signal, they merely have yet to decide whether or not you are the one they want (in all manners and in all circumstances).




Unless that is if you have befallen a lesser individual who simply lacks in the department of communication and resorts to passive aggressiveness, be it Virgo or otherwise.

As a sun sign...I see virgo was giving mixed signal, especially when shey refuse to speak or distancing. To me, is she actually sulking and urge me to come to her to ask and comfort her or she actually hang a label on her neck "do not disturb"?

We need space. We are overthinkers and anylyzing. It may seem as if we are being distant and anti but we are really just organizing our thoughts.

Posted by zoe gonzales
As a sun sign...I see virgo was giving mixed signal, especially when shey refuse to speak or distancing. To me, is she actually sulking and urge me to come to her to ask and comfort her or she actually hang a label on her neck "do not disturb"?

Go for "do not disturb". Virgos don't like playing mind games. We want to keep everything clear.

I am a Virgo myself and i don't give mixed signals. I get irritate when people are too clingy with me and they don't let me breathe. As if i am there to fulfill their expectations and needs 24×7. Then i start distancing or avoiding. But if i see them again i wil be nice with them and won't hurt them with rude comments and behavior because i hate hurting others. The intelligent ones would understand what i am doing.

Posted by kalin
Based on observing the Virgos I know:

a. When they give mixed signals = He or she is not that into you= you are just an option= you are a "spare tire"

b. If they are really into you = call/text you every day, always want to be around you, does everything for you (basically becomes your mom or dad or something along the line), etc.

Hahhahaa. Okay. hmm. This I can see. I give mixed signals, at times. First, if I am trying to decide if A; you're commitment worthy. B; If you're serious about me as I am you. C; if you're going to hurt me and use me. So yes, I do a lot of trails for my ex Sag, I did many. I gave him so many mixed signals I am not sure he knew what up and down was at the end.

But this is just how and what I or possibly other Virgo do to protect themselves. Everyone has a guard. Once I am committed and that person says that don't want me then I am still dedicated to them and end up being the one left to endure alone. So are the `mixed` signals so bad? I don't think so. I think its just shows what were willing to offer to you when and if things pan out.

ah...i see ☺



I try not to be too clingy. I text but not too often, not until into a deep coversation...I've requested to not to meet her up everyday. Thats I go with her flow you know, like I'll be there if she needs me...but most times if she didnt look for me, I'm not appear too ☺




How to build intimacy with virgo? And when she say she miss me, what should I do?

Posted by zoe gonzales
ah...i see ☺



I try not to be too clingy. I text but not too often, not until into a deep coversation...I've requested to not to meet her up everyday. Thats I go with her flow you know, like I'll be there if she needs me...but most times if she didnt look for me, I'm not appear too ☺




How to build intimacy with virgo? And when she say she miss me, what should I do?

If she is into you, slowly do things. Play with her hair, or give her a hug when you see her. Touch her hand or something small. Little tiny things. If she doesn't cringe or look weirded out, or avoid those things then keep it up- SLOWLY. don't get carried away!

My sag moved from small things and jumped to kissing me, my first kiss. Lol. I didnt freak out, but I liked him a lot. So just do less than him and if she enjoys it you will be able to tell. If she isn't, BACK OFF. don't force her to do anything, she will -dislike- and even grow to despise you. You need to be considerate of how you're making her feel. Just remember that. 😛

wait actually , i freaked out quite a bit when that happened, i avoided us being alone, but at the same time I wanted things to grow, so I let them. lol. If you do anything she looks weirded out by then back off a bit and try to go slower ^^;

Because they wanna get you confused to think about them. It's their game.

Posted by Tanya Jones
I am a Virgo myself and i don't give mixed signals. I get irritate when people are too clingy with me and they don't let me breathe. As if i am there to fulfill their expectations and needs 24×7. Then i start distancing or avoiding. But if i see them again i wil be nice with them and won't hurt them with rude comments and behavior because i hate hurting others. The intelligent ones would understand what i am doing.

Curious a little...at what point in time does the other person's expectations of you...kick in? Early? After you've known them for a little while?

@beautifulsoul74, generally when it's early.

Posted by Tanya Jones
@beautifulsoul74, generally when it's early.

Ok. I'm going to ask an honest question. Is this during the honeymoon phase where all kinds of excitement takes place and promises are made by both parties?

@beautifulsoul74.
I always seek excitement in a relationship, but when a person acts too clingy or needy when we are dating or in the process of getting to know one another, i am pissed. Promises are being made while getting married to someone, not before that. Even in the long run i expect understanding from my partner.

Posted by Tanya Jones
@beautifulsoul74.
I always seek excitement in a relationship, but when a person acts too clingy or needy when we are dating or in the process of getting to know one another, i am pissed. Promises are being made while getting married to someone, not before that. Even in the long run i expect understanding from my partner.

I see

Posted by kalin
I think Virgos, especially females, sometimes can be just too "politely". And people can mistake this politeness as an indicator of interest. For example, there was a guy tried to grab my Virgo roommate's boobs on their first date when they were making out. She said No but he just wouldn't quit. She was Very Upset when she got home and went on and on and on about it. She never went on a second date with this guy of course.. But she still responds to his text messages now after a year has passed, as long as the content is "normal", meaning not loaded with sexual suggestions. Why do I know? cause she still thinks he's crazy and disrespectful for wanting to touch her boobs on their first date and she still calls him Booby-Grabber every time she refers to him. (E.g. Can you believe that Booby Garbber texted me again today? ...)

My roommate is for sure still puzzled by why he just doesn't get the clue and get lost. But I can see her politeness or not wanting to be rude is mistaken by that guy as "playing hard to get"...

Haha..'booby grabber', nice name. I am different than your roommate. I won't make out on a 1st date and if that person whom i am dating grabs my boobs then he will get a slap from me. When i am annoyed because of others, i don't care about them getting hurt because of my behaviour. I am not polite or shy anymore. I will feel that they deserve it.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
Every Virgo I know is straight forward with you if you're straight forward with them.

This and to comment on what Weeds said about people being stupid- People choose to ignore the obvious as reality can be hard for some to accept. Instead of just being up front and asking, they guess, speculate and create a reality that they can accept. In other words, they mind fuck themselves into thinking games are being played, when in fact it's there own perceptions or projecting.

@KALIN

THIS IS SO TRUE!! so true! I was talking to a guy while dating my Sag ex, and at one point the guy started flirting with me, every time I told him , no things aren't like that. Were friends. JUST FRIENDS. And the guy would apologize, of course. And we could be good friends, but every time he would eventually end up saying something inappropriate and I would get uncomfortable. My boyfriend was looking at these messages, and I told the guy, listen its not like that, please stop. And he would say `I'm sorry but, yes I feel like I'm in love with you and I know you dont feel that way but I can't help it.` and apologize again.

My boyfriend would be so frustrated, and I would be like `well usually were good friends so i dont want to lose him as a friend.` i choose my boyfriend over being polite.. but it was kind of too late my boyfriend been offended. I didnt realize how toxic it overly was until after I was done being his friend, GRATEFULLY so. I am glad were no longer friends, but not sure if Virgo realize how much stress they're putting on themselves to hold up being nice to someone who shouldn't be trying to force `something `on them. But definitely have issues with being like `fawk you!` lol

booby grabber...lol‚‚‚




Such a useful opinions from you all virgo gals here, thank you to you all lovely virgos‰‰‰




I'm not virgo though, but I feel I also have similarities like I've being nice to people, he/she thought I being flirty...and when they approach me say or act something inappropriate, I get uncomfortable (they misunderstand it as I'm shy or I play hard to get...damn!) I cut off 'em all except one, this guy happens to be my workmate and he's the closest helper of my work...and I reminded my virgo lover about him already. My virgo seems cool, but I dunno whats in her mind about him🙊

Posted by Tanya Jones

I am a Virgo myself and i don't give mixed signals.

Then i start distancing or avoiding.

But if i see them again i wil be nice with them and won't hurt them with rude comments and behavior because i hate hurting others.

Those ^^^^^^^^^ are mixed signals.

I don't expect you to be able to actually grasp that, though ... you seem sort of dim, tbh

very true

when a virgo is into YOU WILL KNOW, they laser focus on you and try to improve your life so to speak

mixed signals mean they are unsure and your an option aka mr or mrs for the moment..

best way to get the attention of a virgo is leave them alone, they notice everything and will seek you out if they really are interested.

Posted by kalin
Based on observing the Virgos I know:

a. When they give mixed signals = He or she is not that into you= you are just an option= you are a "spare tire"

b. If they are really into you = call/text you every day, always want to be around you, does everything for you (basically becomes your mom or dad or something along the line), etc.