Why was virgo man so mean to me?

Im a Scorpio with a virgo rising and gemini moon. We kept nitpicking at each other but I liked him and didnt want to fight. I just wanted him to stop following his ex and gossiping. I dislike him now but its hard to forget about him.

He said I was breaking his heart but he disliked me and wanted me to leave him alone. I started becoming less and less attracted to him.

mean virgo men make the best funniest friends

virgo men are terrible. they’re heartless, have no sympathy or empathy, manipulative & mostly cold. they pretend to be everything you love in the beginning of the relationship and once they have you and know you love them, they become evil and show no remorse. they think they have all the knowledge in the world and that everyone else’s ideas are dumb and wrong.

i’d say to let him go. also, you’re a water sign, he will never be able to match your emotional intensity. he’s not worth it!!!

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virgo men are terrible. they’re heartless, have no sympathy or empathy, manipulative & mostly cold. they pretend to be everything you love in the beginning of the relationship and once they have you and know you love them, they become evil and show no remorse. they think they have all the knowledge in the world and that everyone else’s ideas are dumb and wrong.

i’d say to let him go. also, you’re a water sign, he will never be able to match your emotional intensity. he’s not worth it!!!

I've heard so many women say that but I refuse to believe it. Is it really that bad? I just had a fling with a virgo, never a true relationship so I don't know. Have many virgo friends, but I have always thought of them as the great guys. But, on the other hand, their relationships are disasters...

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honestly, they’re just very controlling. they need a woman without opinions.

i was with one for a year (a year too long). he forced me to call my mother and tell her that she wasn’t a good mom to me, that she didn’t pick a good father for me, etc. it was crazy!! but i was so manipulated by him! i thought he was god, he made me believe that he was god (ironically, he’s atheist).

i wasn’t allowed to hangout with my friends. and the sick part was he never told me i wasn’t allowed to but there would be reprocuasions if i did, such as not allowing me to stay over. telling me he’s embarrassed to be seen with me.

needless to say, it was really bad. and maybe there are other factors that made him the way he is but i read many other stories about pisces women with virgo men troubles and there soooo many similarities. everything i read was true about my relationship and allowed me to know that i wasn’t the crazy one (like he made me think i was) but he was the craaazyyyyy one..like sociopath crazy.

also, i agree. definitely a cool guy to be friends with but not in a relationship with unless you’re a doormat and you want someone to walk all over you and kick you down the steps and maybe roll you in some dirt, then not wash you for a year or two because you’re legit an outside doormat. (lol but seriously.)

Sometimes...people are assholes. Its really as simple as that.

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virgo men are terrible. they’re heartless, have no sympathy or empathy, manipulative & mostly cold. they pretend to be everything you love in the beginning of the relationship and once they have you and know you love them, they become evil and show no remorse. they think they have all the knowledge in the world and that everyone else’s ideas are dumb and wrong.

i’d say to let him go. also, you’re a water sign, he will never be able to match your emotional intensity. he’s not worth it!!!

I've heard so many women say that but I refuse to believe it. Is it really that bad? I just had a fling with a virgo, never a true relationship so I don't know. Have many virgo friends, but I have always thought of them as the great guys. But, on the other hand, their relationships are disasters...

honestly, they’re just very controlling. they need a woman without opinions.

i was with one for a year (a year too long). he forced me to call my mother and tell her that she wasn’t a good mom to me, that she didn’t pick a good father for me, etc. it was crazy!! but i was so manipulated by him! i thought he was god, he made me believe that he was god (ironically, he’s atheist).

i wasn’t allowed to hangout with my friends. and the sick part was he never told me i wasn’t allowed to but there would be reprocuasions if i did, such as not allowing me to stay over. telling me he’s embarrassed to be seen with me.

needless to say, it was really bad. and maybe there are other factors that made him the way he is but i read many other stories about pisces women with virgo men troubles and there soooo many similarities. everything i read was true about my relationship and allowed me to know that i wasn’t the crazy one (like he made me think i was) but he was the craaazyyyyy one..like sociopath crazy.

also, i agree. definitely a cool guy to be friends with but not in a relationship with unless you’re a doormat and you want someone to walk all over you and kick you down the steps and maybe roll you in some dirt, then not wash you for a year or two because you’re legit an outside doormat. (lol but seriously.)

I've noticed the tendency to control in my friends and a need to always have a "perfectly packed" woman beside them. When they talk about sex, they speak about it as if it was a competition rather than something else.

I'm sorry you had to go through that.your virgo was probably a narcissist. He sounds like one.

I also noticed my friends lose their enthusiasm when it comes to women they are with pretty fast. Yes, they are great as friends. And they do have a lot of female friends.

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you live & you learn! although it was the worst relationship of my life, it definitely made me stronger (i know it’s corny but it’s true — especially for my fragile personality).

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virgo men are terrible. they’re heartless, have no sympathy or empathy, manipulative & mostly cold. they pretend to be everything you love in the beginning of the relationship and once they have you and know you love them, they become evil and show no remorse. they think they have all the knowledge in the world and that everyone else’s ideas are dumb and wrong.

i’d say to let him go. also, you’re a water sign, he will never be able to match your emotional intensity. he’s not worth it!!!

I've heard so many women say that but I refuse to believe it. Is it really that bad? I just had a fling with a virgo, never a true relationship so I don't know. Have many virgo friends, but I have always thought of them as the great guys. But, on the other hand, their relationships are disasters...

honestly, they’re just very controlling. they need a woman without opinions.

i was with one for a year (a year too long). he forced me to call my mother and tell her that she wasn’t a good mom to me, that she didn’t pick a good father for me, etc. it was crazy!! but i was so manipulated by him! i thought he was god, he made me believe that he was god (ironically, he’s atheist).

i wasn’t allowed to hangout with my friends. and the sick part was he never told me i wasn’t allowed to but there would be reprocuasions if i did, such as not allowing me to stay over. telling me he’s embarrassed to be seen with me.

needless to say, it was really bad. and maybe there are other factors that made him the way he is but i read many other stories about pisces women with virgo men troubles and there soooo many similarities. everything i read was true about my relationship and allowed me to know that i wasn’t the crazy one (like he made me think i was) but he was the craaazyyyyy one..like sociopath crazy.

also, i agree. definitely a cool guy to be friends with but not in a relationship with unless you’re a doormat and you want someone to walk all over you and kick you down the steps and maybe roll you in some dirt, then not wash you for a year or two because you’re legit an outside doormat. (lol but seriously.)

Fascinating-I knew you're Pisces after first post you made lol

Honestly-you allowed such behavior so you brought it on yourself.Not saying it was the right he acted the way he did but you ahould have known where to draw a line.I know very well the dark side of Virgo and this can only go as far as you allow it.If you stand up for yourself those things won't happen so honestly speaking it's as much as your fault as it's his.You fishes are too sensitive an doormat for them.Sorry to say this and I don't mean to offend you with it just to tell you that you need to either taughen up or not get involved with them in the first place.Unfortunately I also allowed such behavior for a while since I have a lot of Neptune energy and water as my second dominant element but eventually fire came out and I ended up beating that behavior instead of submitting to it.So it's really up to you how far you will allow it to go.

But if you don't allow it and stand up for yourself you'll get a complete other side of Virgo,sensitive,loving and caring side that you wouldn't even know existed if you continued being the door mat for them.Virgo wants someone who respects them and who they respect

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yeah, it is my fault but people shouldn’t be treating people like that. he saw i was weak & an easy target & needed guidance & he took advantage of it.

he was physically & mentally abusive — it’s difficult for people in those types of relationships to get out of them. easier said than done type of thing.

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virgo men are terrible. they’re heartless, have no sympathy or empathy, manipulative & mostly cold. they pretend to be everything you love in the beginning of the relationship and once they have you and know you love them, they become evil and show no remorse. they think they have all the knowledge in the world and that everyone else’s ideas are dumb and wrong.

i’d say to let him go. also, you’re a water sign, he will never be able to match your emotional intensity. he’s not worth it!!!

I've heard so many women say that but I refuse to believe it. Is it really that bad? I just had a fling with a virgo, never a true relationship so I don't know. Have many virgo friends, but I have always thought of them as the great guys. But, on the other hand, their relationships are disasters...

honestly, they’re just very controlling. they need a woman without opinions.

i was with one for a year (a year too long). he forced me to call my mother and tell her that she wasn’t a good mom to me, that she didn’t pick a good father for me, etc. it was crazy!! but i was so manipulated by him! i thought he was god, he made me believe that he was god (ironically, he’s atheist).

i wasn’t allowed to hangout with my friends. and the sick part was he never told me i wasn’t allowed to but there would be reprocuasions if i did, such as not allowing me to stay over. telling me he’s embarrassed to be seen with me.

needless to say, it was really bad. and maybe there are other factors that made him the way he is but i read many other stories about pisces women with virgo men troubles and there soooo many similarities. everything i read was true about my relationship and allowed me to know that i wasn’t the crazy one (like he made me think i was) but he was the craaazyyyyy one..like sociopath crazy.

also, i agree. definitely a cool guy to be friends with but not in a relationship with unless you’re a doormat and you want someone to walk all over you and kick you down the steps and maybe roll you in some dirt, then not wash you for a year or two because you’re legit an outside doormat. (lol but seriously.)

I've noticed the tendency to control in my friends and a need to always have a "perfectly packed" woman beside them. When they talk about sex, they speak about it as if it was a competition rather than something else.

I'm sorry you had to go through that.your virgo was probably a narcissist. He sounds like one.

I also noticed my friends lose their enthusiasm when it comes to women they are with pretty fast. Yes, they are great as friends. And they do have a lot of female friends.

you live & you learn! although it was the worst relationship of my life, it definitely made me stronger (i know it’s corny but it’s true — especially for my fragile personality).

Would you ever give another Virgo a chance or this sign is a definite no for you?

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i think it’s a definite no from me — it’s not worth my time because i know the same thing will happen again — it’ll be ecstasy in the beginning and then control once he has me. and i fall way too hard to allow any virgo men’s tendencies to effect me again.

i’m not just saying this based off of that one relationship; i’ve met a few more virgo men and within the first night i saw bits and pieces of my ex in them. (my ex was also a bit more extreme because he doesn’t drink or smoke weed but i like to have fun sometimes in that way so basically he has a stick up his ass instead of letting loose — not saying you need to do those things to have fun but we were in college and that’s how the masses had fun).

side note that was also one of the things he didn’t like about me but pretended not to care about in the beginning of the relationship and, for me, weed is my medicine and he took it away from me; i wasn’t allowed to smoke and had to sneak around in order to do so; it was bad.

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Posted by Toti

Posted by bloopbloopbloop
virgo men are terrible. they’re heartless, have no sympathy or empathy, manipulative & mostly cold. they pretend to be everything you love in the beginning of the relationship and once they have you and know you love them, they become evil and show no remorse. they think they have all the knowledge in the world and that everyone else’s ideas are dumb and wrong.

i’d say to let him go. also, you’re a water sign, he will never be able to match your emotional intensity. he’s not worth it!!!

I've heard so many women say that but I refuse to believe it. Is it really that bad? I just had a fling with a virgo, never a true relationship so I don't know. Have many virgo friends, but I have always thought of them as the great guys. But, on the other hand, their relationships are disasters...

honestly, they’re just very controlling. they need a woman without opinions.

i was with one for a year (a year too long). he forced me to call my mother and tell her that she wasn’t a good mom to me, that she didn’t pick a good father for me, etc. it was crazy!! but i was so manipulated by him! i thought he was god, he made me believe that he was god (ironically, he’s atheist).

i wasn’t allowed to hangout with my friends. and the sick part was he never told me i wasn’t allowed to but there would be reprocuasions if i did, such as not allowing me to stay over. telling me he’s embarrassed to be seen with me.

needless to say, it was really bad. and maybe there are other factors that made him the way he is but i read many other stories about pisces women with virgo men troubles and there soooo many similarities. everything i read was true about my relationship and allowed me to know that i wasn’t the crazy one (like he made me think i was) but he was the craaazyyyyy one..like sociopath crazy.

also, i agree. definitely a cool guy to be friends with but not in a relationship with unless you’re a doormat and you want someone to walk all over you and kick you down the steps and maybe roll you in some dirt, then not wash you for a year or two because you’re legit an outside doormat. (lol but seriously.)

Fascinating-I knew you're Pisces after first post you made lol

Honestly-you allowed such behavior so you brought it on yourself.Not saying it was the right he acted the way he did but you ahould have known where to draw a line.I know very well the dark side of Virgo and this can only go as far as you allow it.If you stand up for yourself those things won't happen so honestly speaking it's as much as your fault as it's his.You fishes are too sensitive an doormat for them.Sorry to say this and I don't mean to offend you with it just to tell you that you need to either taughen up or not get involved with them in the first place.Unfortunately I also allowed such behavior for a while since I have a lot of Neptune energy and water as my second dominant element but eventually fire came out and I ended up beating that behavior instead of submitting to it.So it's really up to you how far you will allow it to go.

But if you don't allow it and stand up for yourself you'll get a complete other side of Virgo,sensitive,loving and caring side that you wouldn't even know existed if you continued being the door mat for them.Virgo wants someone who respects them and who they respect

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I agree with everything you said, but I'm a Pisces too married to a Virgo and not all of us are doormats.