Wife best friend coming on to me? (Page 10)

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by iVirgo on Thursday, January 14, 2016 and has 658 replies.

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@iVirgo
10 Years

I can continue with the add on's to real events, this story is still not done, but understand if you want me to continue have to do so in story form.

Regarding my Co worker I would never sleep with her

It's a saying in business world I know too well.

"You never stick your pen in company ink"

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@Greentea
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I think we all had that when the gay kiss came about, seems too dramatic for every day life.

It was entertainment for sure!! Soap opera worthy!! Lol

However, I do know of virgos starting affairs at work. Thats how my Sag friend found out her Virgo was cheating. I know of about 5 other cases of that as well.
All Virgo men.

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@iVirgo
10 Years

@greentea

The thought was what if this guy tried to kiss me how would have I reacted,

His appearance at my door I could tell in his demeanor he may have swayed on the vines, before he admitted his preference in both men and women.

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@letterbox10
10 Years

Seriously though, be careful if you're going to get this published OP... too many plagiarised and cliched ideas. The "neighbour is a closet homosexual who was in love with the main protagonist"? Really?

And if you're going to turn this into a movie, please don't get Ben Affleck to play the main character. Get Matt Damon instead. He does the whole "innocent, dumbfounded" look more believably.

Oh get a really good editor, too. There are way too many misspellings and grammatical errors. That was a huge giveaway. Are you really a virgo??

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@DwellingOnMove
17 Years10,000+ Posts

"I disagree. There are genuine people asking for help on dxp, and then there are folks that are trolls and full of bs. This guy just admitted he fabricated half of everything he said.

Worst part is, he lied about what his wife did. Made it seem worse than what it really is. What kind of partner does that?"

vs.

"He reflected how he was treated."
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the constant part is: she confessed only recently what she did in 2005. No change to that story.

rebirth?pluto?obsession?involve me please! I'll die without it.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by ramparts

Posted by iVirgo
@ramparts

I decided to come clean because I didn't know u was following the thread aswell, I can not lie to u.

@duchesslibro,
@Dwellingonmove
@Feby
@sensitiveblue
@greentea

It was entertainment added I hope it was in the sense, no harm done.

Well thank you for not making me look like an idiot when I was trying to give you real advice while Lisabeth was throwing a hissy fit in your original thread. I guess I don't blame you...she hijacked the shit out of your thread and you just strung them along for the longest thrrad I've personally ever seen on dxp. It's kind of hilarious.

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well good morning to you too.

the only reason why that topic went SO LONG is because a bunch of women like you and the others jumped on me. Interrogating me for reacting like that.

i didnt make this topic go full blown, ramparts. i wasn't even in the first beginnings of it. You all love drama in your lives.

i love to come here due to astrology, but i will try to avoid drama. because i dont want that in my life. and some people really are good at arguing, and it's very very exhausting and i dont have that in my life. My husband is NOT argumentative thank god.

i dont like argumentative men.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyOfRebirth

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth

Posted by ramparts

Posted by iVirgo
@ramparts

I decided to come clean because I didn't know u was following the thread aswell, I can not lie to u.

@duchesslibro,
@Dwellingonmove
@Feby
@sensitiveblue
@greentea

It was entertainment added I hope it was in the sense, no harm done.

Well thank you for not making me look like an idiot when I was trying to give you real advice while Lisabeth was throwing a hissy fit in your original thread. I guess I don't blame you...she hijacked the shit out of your thread and you just strung them along for the longest thrrad I've personally ever seen on dxp. It's kind of hilarious.

It's hard, admitting Lisa was right about this dude, isn't it?

was she right?

She caught onto his bs before others did.

what bs? everybody is full of bs. that's life. that's imperfection.

we are on dxp. don't forget.
He reflected how he was treated. Everybody is here to feel highly intelligent and figure the bs out faster than anybody else. this is insane. the real life is not much cleaner than these stories. people wanted stories. he gave them that.

The real highly intelligent people won't write more than 1-2-3 posts to a troll. sorry. obsession=bs.

I disagree. There are genuine people asking for help on dxp, and then there are folks that are trolls and full of bs. This guy just admitted he fabricated half of everything he said.

Worst part is, he lied about what his wife did. Made it seem worse than what it really is. What kind of partner does that?

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some people love drama.

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@iVirgo
10 Years

@ladyofRebirth

If you read into the story line and became so tangled in a web weaved and crafted only met to capture attention I see were u presume deception, only after it was clear that followers were commenting on unrelated topics, that I steer the thread off course, I made it obvious.

But Lisa did not call me out on my original post I was honest 100% , strangely not this one

But evrry1 else did ....

Because I am a man I can never be victimized by fault of gender , If you have a son I hope he knows this well

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@iVirgo
10 Years

@ladyofRibirth

I didnt play the victim, i am the victim.

I keep quiet, I dnt she'd tears, I walk away when we argued, but because I am married I can not take my time to live in my mind.

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@iVirgo
10 Years

@lafyofRebirth

She didn't sense anything wrong about me, because there was nothing to assume I was trolling , I learned this only by repeatedly being accused, with out representation or jury. She attacked me, she reflected her own destructive past history with abused men, who wrongfully so took advantage of her caring Nature, but they are not here to defend themselves, so who knows.

But I like Lisa I actually felt she was trolling me at first.

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@iVirgo
10 Years

But you started back 4 pages forward,

Again in this cyber world of make believe, you see what you write.

And I'm actually cooking my wife breakfast

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@iVirgo
10 Years

If you are looking for a Virgo, my younger brother is a August Virgo 6"2 athletic and single, all his exs were cancers the emotional crab maybe you would pair well. But sadly

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@iVirgo
10 Years

@ramparts

Thank you for seeing what she was doing, being new I was not aware of what was unfolding, is it normal to attack first timers. When ramparts stepped in I figured it wasn't, and trolled Lisa back

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by ramparts

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by ramparts

Posted by iVirgo
@ramparts

I decided to come clean because I didn't know u was following the thread aswell, I can not lie to u.

@duchesslibro,
@Dwellingonmove
@Feby
@sensitiveblue
@greentea

It was entertainment added I hope it was in the sense, no harm done.

Well thank you for not making me look like an idiot when I was trying to give you real advice while Lisabeth was throwing a hissy fit in your original thread. I guess I don't blame you...she hijacked the shit out of your thread and you just strung them along for the longest thrrad I've personally ever seen on dxp. It's kind of hilarious.

well good morning to you too.

the only reason why that topic went SO LONG is because a bunch of women like you and the others jumped on me. Interrogating me for reacting like that.

i didnt make this topic go full blown, ramparts. i wasn't even in the first beginnings of it. You all love drama in your lives.

i love to come here due to astrology, but i will try to avoid drama. because i dont want that in my life. and some people really are good at arguing, and it's very very exhausting and i dont have that in my life. My husband is NOT argumentative thank god.

i dont like argumentative men.

Well Lisa I didn't even come in this thread until it was already on page 65 so no, I don't like drama. And as soon as I came in here he confessed he was trolling everyone because he wasn't getting any helpful advice. And why wasn't he getting any helpful advice? Because you trolled his original thrrad projecting your own relationship issues on him.

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then how come you came into the first topic at the aqua board?? lol

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@iVirgo
10 Years

I forgive you Lisa, and I love how mature you are today

I'm glade to see your morning Joe wasn't 40prof.

Lol but I'm still trolling you I'm sorry

But I will stop I dnt want sensitive blue to get all crabby at me for it.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by ramparts

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by ramparts

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by ramparts

Posted by iVirgo
@ramparts

I decided to come clean because I didn't know u was following the thread aswell, I can not lie to u.

@duchesslibro,
@Dwellingonmove
@Feby
@sensitiveblue
@greentea

It was entertainment added I hope it was in the sense, no harm done.

Well thank you for not making me look like an idiot when I was trying to give you real advice while Lisabeth was throwing a hissy fit in your original thread. I guess I don't blame you...she hijacked the shit out of your thread and you just strung them along for the longest thrrad I've personally ever seen on dxp. It's kind of hilarious.

well good morning to you too.

the only reason why that topic went SO LONG is because a bunch of women like you and the others jumped on me. Interrogating me for reacting like that.

i didnt make this topic go full blown, ramparts. i wasn't even in the first beginnings of it. You all love drama in your lives.

i love to come here due to astrology, but i will try to avoid drama. because i dont want that in my life. and some people really are good at arguing, and it's very very exhausting and i dont have that in my life. My husband is NOT argumentative thank god.

i dont like argumentative men.

Well Lisa I didn't even come in this thread until it was already on page 65 so no, I don't like drama. And as soon as I came in here he confessed he was trolling everyone because he wasn't getting any helpful advice. And why wasn't he getting any helpful advice? Because you trolled his original thrrad projecting your own relationship issues on him.

then how come you came into the first topic at the aqua board?? lol

To save him from your abuse but it was already too late...you were treating him like one of your ex husbands.

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you mean ex husband and ex? to be very honest, i never had the courage to get upset at them. Because they were very viiolent and cruel men. I'd get a backhand if i even said anything. This place, you can say what you feel....you dont get a fist.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by ramparts
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/do-aqua-girls-cheat-when-in-love-5984618/

Just read his original thread. Even just the first page. He makes ONE post about his situation and BAM BAM BAM...Lisa is on his shit "your wife's a drug addict" "she hates you and wants to get away from you" "you're abusing her"

And then her ass has the nerve to turn around and say this man insulted her. Yeah bitch!!! And rightfully so!!

Like wtf—? And you guys think it's awful what he's doing but it was perfectly okay for Lisa to unleash her issues onto him? Naw. Nope.

If he needs help he needs to take her ass with him because she needs helps too.

it was a very EXTREMELY traumatic experience for me... so i did perhaps project my past issues and deep traumas.

but OP is someone i dont know.

he can do whatever he wants with his wife. My own husband doesn't have his placements so i dont know why i even bothered.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by ramparts

Posted by lisabethur8
so maybe i was too weak in their eyes. If they wanted a strong woman then they should have gotten one becuase i didnt have the courage.

Look im sorry you were abused. I really and truly am...but no you can't say whatever you want to people without consequence. There is still a real person on the other side of the screen. It's not fair play to abuse them because they ant retaliate

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i told you, i didnt accuse him outright, i was suspicious. I put it all out there. of WHAT IFS...

you never know about people!!!

and the way he was doing things were suspicious.

i should have stayed out of it. I didnt realize people like to psychoanalyze ME instead of him.

it's like .. he's the one who brought his mess here PUBLICLY....

no one has bothered to psychoanalzye him.

if i wanted my issues from the past to haunt me, then i will post a topic on it.

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@Greentea
10 Years1,000+ Posts

You guys leave @lisabethur8 alone. She's a cool chick, and is always nice on here.

@lisabethur8 - my Sag friend just broke up with her virgo. She told me their problems only after they broke up. She's a private person about that stuff, but I think if I asked her she would have opened up.

So your sister may have issues, but chooses to keep it between them.. or she may be blunt and call him out on his victim mentality, or they can actually be happy. I would ask her about him.

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@aquapiscescusp
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by ramparts

Posted by lisabethur8
so maybe i was too weak in their eyes. If they wanted a strong woman then they should have gotten one becuase i didnt have the courage.

Look im sorry you were abused. I really and truly am...but no you can't say whatever you want to people without consequence. There is still a real person on the other side of the screen. It's not fair play to abuse them because they ant retaliate

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This coming from you? GTFO