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Posted by CopperDove
Lots of holes in the story, and inconsistencies with writing style increasingly, and an odd ammorality. The robotic reference in the user name is interesting too. If a ruse, a clever one, if not, the police is where this needs to go, and therapy.
I definitely am noticing the inconsistency in the writing style but some people are just sloppy typers, etc. Idk. I'd rather offer advice in case it's really needed. I do prefer not to be duped though.
Somebody could check out the personal placements he's claiming to see if they add up to actual dates (wife too.) Would take a little while. Probably not worth the time really.
If it's someone who knows astrology they'd likely have made sure the placements add up to a real date that makes sense anyways. Now I'm just providing advice to future troll wannabes. lol
DOB: Sept 9th 1981
Posted by iVirgo
DOB: Sept 9th 1981
Are you headed to the police dept this morning?
Yes
as soon as I take some Motrin for this headache and a hot shower.
I'm heading straight over there
Who is ands,
Is that DXPNET lingo for somthing
Or
Is that suppose to be a person u think I am?
I'm lost I keep reading Ands in this forum?
Posted by Greentea
Ok, that's it post a pic, I need to see why these people want to.fuk you so bad....If you were this guy's wife, would you tell all off these people off for him?
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I don't think I would go off, but they'd all be in the same room explaining this bullshit.
I may go off, I don't know and if I did, at that point I wouldn't care. Lol
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
The Leo Mars is strong in you OPwhy do you have to blame the LEO and not the virgo
damn you guys are pathetic, this is typical Virgo ...
Mars is about how one takes action.
He's making things more dramatic than they need to be.
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Oh man, my Scorpio has Leo mars. So far, I like it though.
Posted by iVirgo
Who is ands,Is that DXPNET lingo for somthing
Or
Is that suppose to be a person u think I am?
I'm lost I keep reading Ands in this forum?
Ands is one of us. he creates and deletes a new profile each month.
no, he does not troll by telling fake stories. he cannot stick with a story or a relationship story thread for so long.
anybody who compares you with him is just trying. he/she has no real idea.
I don't say that you are a troll.
But you are as entertaining as the Kalin girl. She posted her smart phone chats to us. She's deleted. Here is always a lot of things going on. Don't lose your cool here.
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
The Leo Mars is strong in you OPwhy do you have to blame the LEO and not the virgo
damn you guys are pathetic, this is typical Virgo ...
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We're just saying he's dramatizing everything in Leo fashion. Mars, action, how you go about doing things.
Kind of like how you go about doing things in a critical, Virgo-like way. 😈
PS CC:
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
The Leo Mars is strong in you OPwhy do you have to blame the LEO and not the virgo
damn you guys are pathetic, this is typical Virgo ...
Mars is about how one takes action.
He's making things more dramatic than they need to be.
Oh man, my Scorpio has Leo mars. So far, I like it though.
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Maybe you just perceive it that way through your Leo Moon filter...? 😄
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
The Leo Mars is strong in you OPwhy do you have to blame the LEO and not the virgo
damn you guys are pathetic, this is typical Virgo ...
Mars is about how one takes action.
He's making things more dramatic than they need to be.
Oh man, my Scorpio has Leo mars. So far, I like it though.
Maybe you just perceive it that way through your Leo Moon filter...? 😄
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I have a Libra moon though.
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
The Leo Mars is strong in you OPwhy do you have to blame the LEO and not the virgo
damn you guys are pathetic, this is typical Virgo ...
Mars is about how one takes action.
He's making things more dramatic than they need to be.
Oh man, my Scorpio has Leo mars. So far, I like it though.
Maybe you just perceive it that way through your Leo Moon filter...? 😄
I have a Libra moon though.
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Wtf. This is not the comment I meant to quote.. gonna go fix that.... LOL
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
The Leo Mars is strong in you OPwhy do you have to blame the LEO and not the virgo
damn you guys are pathetic, this is typical Virgo ...
Mars is about how one takes action.
He's making things more dramatic than they need to be.
Virgos no matter their mars, always create drama out of thin air just by their lack of common sense.
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Maybe you just perceive it that way through your Leo Moon filter...? 😄
@Greentea Fixed. lol
Filed the police report
Just picked up my wife, no kids, her mother has them out with her joy riding.
She needed a ride to the store , and she wanted to talk to me,
she said "I am sorry, and I'm not gonna play victim role, you have every right to be upset, that I deserve to be. Relationship should not have secrets that may hurt the other person.
she said she was wrong for what she did, she was young and didn't care what she did orhow they would effect other ppl, because none of her relationships lasted any way,
She feels she should have told me when things got more serious, but as time passed and things got better with us, she didn't want to ruin things.
But she feels given the past 9 1/2 years she has given me everything and 100% of her heart, given me 4kids, she said she sacrificed and quite jobs she loved for me, and cut ties with a lot of her good friends who were loose party girls, because of there life style choices
It was good conversation
We continued and talked a little bit more, then I dropped her off after a 40min ride and trip to the store.
As she exited she looked at me as she always did, with a short pause, then said "I guess I'll call you tonight, or u can call me if u have any questions, and I love you.
I think she wanted me or expected me to give her a hug or a kiss. I wanted too, but not right now at least.
My phone started ringing as I pulled off
It was my Co worker callng she decided to come in on a Saturday at office to finish up on some of my work for me, but missed placed a claims file, so she wants my password to access my computer, but that's against company policy so I m was going to head to the office, but she has to leave to go pick up a rental so instead she wants me to meet her later tonight around 8pm at my office.
Posted by PEITHO
Why are people on here telling the OP that he sure knows how to pick them when he hasn't even done anything? He said that his bestfriends wife is coming on to him not the other way around. I'm sure he didn't think his wife would cheat on him when he married her.
Because people are posting without reading the thread. It's called HIPPOing: Happily Ignoring Previous Posters Opinions. OP's wife didn't cheat on him after they were married, as far as he knows. It happened way before and she just recently told him.
"It was my Co worker callng she decided to come in on a Saturday at office to finish up on some of my work for me, but missed placed a claims file, so she wants my password to access my computer, but that's against company policy so I m was going to head to the office, but she has to leave to go pick up a rental so instead she wants me to meet her later tonight around 8pm at my office."
This is a really really really really really really really really bad idea.
Posted by duchesslibro
"It was my Co worker callng she decided to come in on a Saturday at office to finish up on some of my work for me, but missed placed a claims file, so she wants my password to access my computer, but that's against company policy so I m was going to head to the office, but she has to leave to go pick up a rental so instead she wants me to meet her later tonight around 8pm at my office."This is a really really really really really really really really bad idea.
What's awesome about it? I'm still feel about last night...
But
seeing my wife felt so good , I wished I would have kissed her. Her lips look so damn soft, she smelled so damn good, I still smell her in my car.
Posted by iVirgo
What's awesome about it? I'm still feel about last night...But
seeing my wife felt so good , I wished I would have kissed her. Her lips look so damn soft, she smelled so damn good, I still smell her in my car.
Don't worry about it, you'll have fresh puss waiting for you at 8p. (Rolls eyes)
Posted by iVirgo
What's awesome about it? I'm still feel about last night...But
seeing my wife felt so good , I wished I would have kissed her. Her lips look so damn soft, she smelled so damn good, I still smell her in my car.
I kinda wish your wife cheats on you now. Is that bad?..., the way you krep bringing up this coworker, it seems like your making it seem innocent, bUT its not.
This thread is crazy....page 40 had me laughing so hard...I pictured everyone grabbing their purses and coats to leave in an angry manner.
And yes...the OP does do a great job telling his story. Didn't see the angry husband's visit turning into a gay confession coming...ha!
And the new female employee who just needs your extra special guidance after hours...riveting
She's attractive women but
She is younger then me, 25year old, with good work ethics
-it is innocent,
I doubt she would be interested in compromising her job, and I defiantly won't compromise my own. I'm just in position to lead, and plus this claims folder has been lingering around my desk for almost 2weeks, I'm actually glade she is taking effort to to show her dedication to work very attractive in a women.
She's attractive women but
She is younger then me, 25year old, with good work ethics
-it is innocent,
I doubt she would be interested in compromising her job, and I defiantly won't compromise my own. I'm just in position to lead, and plus this claims folder has been lingering around my desk for almost 2weeks, I'm actually glade she is taking effort to to show her dedication to work very attractive in a women.
Great answer but I'm still not convinced, with that detailed explanation, with all those kudos to her to add. But ok..
If this doesn't work out, I hope OP's wife finds someone who isn't so in cahoots with people amd just stays in his lane.
She is independent,
confident,
she seems to have a passionate drive to get things done. She has really stepped in and taken charge at work, she knows what she wants and isn't afraid to step up and not back down, which I think is inspiring. I must admit I thought she would be just another flirt , who has the guys all up on her coat tail. She is intimidating to say the least.
She is perfect, she driven, but she is not for me.
I admire her passion
But I adore my wife, and I really feel we are getting better and maybe back on track.
Posted by iVirgo
She is independent,
confident,
she seems to have a passionate drive to get things done. She has really stepped in and taken charge at work, she knows what she wants and isn't afraid to step up and not back down, which I think is inspiring. I must admit I thought she would be just another flirt , who has the guys all up on her coat tail. She is intimidating to say the least.
A challenge, what virgos like right?.... don't worry, she's easy prey.
25 yr old...8p at night on a Saturday?... I dont think things are innocent here. But ok...
Posted by iVirgo
She is perfect, she driven, but she is not for me.I admire her passion
But I adore my wife, and I really feel we are getting better and maybe back on track.
I think a divorce would be better, you can't be trusted. I can smell it on you for some reason. Like I said in my earlier post, I don't think you've ever been innocent towards her, you just found out her shit amd yours is still locked away. Tis all.
This is why I stay away from them, I've seen too many of these cases with these guys. Can never trust them completely. The sad part is that's what they want, but they can't display the actions that will get them that because they're just whores with women. They're not satisfied being adored by just one. They have to experience.
Posted by Greentea
This is why I stay away from them, I've seen too many of these cases with these guys. Can never trust them completely. The sad part is that's what they want, but they can't display the actions that will get them that because they're just whores with women. They're not satisfied being adored by just one.how can they want it if they're not even loyal? you can't say thats what you really want, yet be a dog. I don't think they really want it, i think they want everything, i think they're cheap. They get impressed by anybody and anything.
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They want what they can't have it seems...that includes trust. They always seem to mess it up... or they're so good at home that the wife doesn't have a clue. That one is truly sad.
Well If you guys feel like I'm not being honest
You may want stop reading right now
"Because I just pulled in to my subdivision turned onto my street as soon I pull into my drive way
I see Scorpio at my door step.
Full on eye to eye contact. I'm stuc
Virgos typical affairs happen at work, because they can always use that as an excuse to get away.
Posted by iVirgo
Well If you guys feel like I'm not being honestYou may want stop reading right now
"Because I just pulled in to my subdivision turned onto my street as soon I pull into my drive way
I see Scorpio at my door step.
Full on eye to eye contact. I'm stuc
You're not stuck fool, tell her you don't want to talk amd drive off. Go to Chick FIL A!!
FREAKIN DRAMA QUEEN / GIRLS!!!
I'm stuck because I have been avoiding her calls and texts.
I'm getting out of my car
Hopefully nothing bad happens
I draw virgos a lot irl. Once I find out they're Virgo...whoop, they go to friend zone right away.
I don't care how goody goody/ bad boy or charming they can be. That's where they stay.
Posted by Greentea
FREAKIN DRAMA QUEEN / GIRLS!!!you're blaming her? he's the one who sent the txt messages to her husband. he's to blame for all this fukery
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Who's the only one being dramatic in this story? No not her.
@sensitiveblue
It's Claims management, and I end up taking cases home some times.
All you need is key card to get in the building and badge to flash to security.
I've done all nighter at work by my self. It's just work to me.
Posted by Greentea
FREAKIN DRAMA QUEEN / GIRLS!!!you're blaming her? he's the one who sent the txt messages to her husband. he's to blame for all this fukery
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Nope, dont blame her (wife) at all, not even the cheating she did a long time ago at this point. I don't think he's innocent either. Don't trust the Scorpio either. I would've probably buried the body by now.
Posted by iVirgo
Filed the police reportJust picked up my wife, no kids, her mother has them out with her joy riding.
She needed a ride to the store , and she wanted to talk to me,
she said "I am sorry, and I'm not gonna play victim role, you have every right to be upset, that I deserve to be. Relationship should not have secrets that may hurt the other person.
she said she was wrong for what she did, she was young and didn't care what she did orhow they would effect other ppl, because none of her relationships lasted any way,
She feels she should have told me when things got more serious, but as time passed and things got better with us, she didn't want to ruin things.
But she feels given the past 9 1/2 years she has given me everything and 100% of her heart, given me 4kids, she said she sacrificed and quite jobs she loved for me, and cut ties with a lot of her good friends who were loose party girls, because of there life style choicesIt was good conversation
We continued and talked a little bit more, then I dropped her off after a 40min ride and trip to the store.
As she exited she looked at me as she always did, with a short pause, then said "I guess I'll call you tonight, or u can call me if u have any questions, and I love you.
I think she wanted me or expected me to give her a hug or a kiss. I wanted too, but not right now at least.
My phone started ringing as I pulled off
It was my Co worker callng she decided to come in on a Saturday at office to finish up on some of my work for me, but missed placed a claims file, so she wants my password to access my computer, but that's against company policy so I m was going to head to the office, but she has to leave to go pick up a rental so instead she wants me to meet her later tonight around 8pm at my office.
Exactly what I said. you guys where NOT in a serious relationship when she did that, yet you are nailing her to the cross for her prior actions. Again, I did mention that she was afraid of your reaction to it hence why she didn't speak up. Got people here thinking she cheated, when she didn't. You never once answered my direct questioning on if you had even discussed being exclusive.. I wonder why? cause you knew your thread would die.
plus I am really doubting all of this, as I have since day 1..
DJ is that You? 😛
Posted by Greentea
I draw virgos a lot irl. Once I find out they're Virgo...whoop, they go to friend zone right away.
I don't care how goody goody/ bad boy or charming they can be. That's where they stay.That's terrible. Smh...astrology is meant to be a guideline. It's not supposed to dictate how you live your life or treat others. You could miss out on a really good person because of that.
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I know it's fucked up... but I'll take my chances 😉
I'm not sprung on Virgos.
Posted by iVirgo
She is independent,
confident,
she seems to have a passionate drive to get things done. She has really stepped in and taken charge at work, she knows what she wants and isn't afraid to step up and not back down, which I think is inspiring. I must admit I thought she would be just another flirt , who has the guys all up on her coat tail. She is intimidating to say the least.
yup she knows what she wants, you at 8pm alone in the office.
Well Scorpio vented
And snapped on me at first , it was just talking more and more, she was yelling loud,
Which I expected,
She said you filed a police report against me, are you F....K..g serous do you know how that can damage my life.
I guess the cops paid her a visit and questioned her intent regarding the text message
She called me fake, a bartered, she said she wasn't going to actually hurt me, I'm just a coward who is afraid of women,
and she wants me to stop the case I filed on her by Monday, so she can continue on with her life,
She just doesn't want to get harassment charge which might effect her job as a pre-school teacher and understand that, but dnt threaten my safety.
she went on and on how she really like me in the past, she thought I was amazing guy , but she said she thought I may have been gay that's why she didn't want to go any further.....and her suspicion with her husband she didn't want go thru that a second time,.
..o...K....
Her coming on to me was her being desperate and needing attention, she said she never wanted to hurt her friend so I dnt need to tell her anything, it would mess her head up, if I told her.
But she thought I was always into her, because I play flirted with her at a Christmas party 2 years ago. So when the opportunity came she just wanted see if there was something physical at most. Her and her husband do not have sex at all apparently she is sex deprived.
I told her just like this"
I will drop the charges but I need you to
Just stay away from my wife, stay away from me. I have a too much going on right now, and obviously you do too. You made a threat that was serous, and I'm not gay , but my gun came out of the closet. So I would appreciate it if you went your way and we can just dissolve this friendship forever.
She said o.K if i can agree to that you will drop all charges
I said "yes
So she walked away, crossed over the street got into her car, she put on her sunglasses as she was starring at, she told her window up and sped off.
I need a cat nap.
@sensitiveblue
I my Co worker is a cancer
I know because I always ask ppl in conversation s
"what is your sign.
Bad habit
Exclusive since day 1 no negotiations in relationships
Posted by iVirgo
She is independent,
confident,
she seems to have a passionate drive to get things done. She has really stepped in and taken charge at work, she knows what she wants and isn't afraid to step up and not back down, which I think is inspiring. I must admit I thought she would be just another flirt , who has the guys all up on her coat tail. She is intimidating to say the least.yup she knows what she wants, you at 8pm alone in the office.
ya possibility of fuking in this. Virgo is gonna want to taste that water.
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Well yea, Crab water is yummy. 😄
Posted by SensitiveBlues
but when you wrote about this COWORKER i had an inkling she was a CRAB. Everything you said about her. Was like Crab crab crab.but i had to add on the other two just so i can hedge my bets.
Yup the crab manipulation begins at 8pm on a Saturday night. You guys are just as bad as Virgo.
Watch, we'll see a thread in a month.... I cheated on my wife, now this crab won't get.off my nuts.
Aqua wife just needs to divorce this guy!! Virgos are not worth it.
Exclusive since day 1 no negotiations in relationships
Ohhh okay.
Your wording is funny.
"She feels she should have told me when things got more serious,"
I clearly read that as you guys where not serious.
*shrug*
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This story just seems so dramatic! That is my only reason for doubting you iVirgo. IF your story is in fact true I wish you luck...but I naturally second guess what most people say and overanalyze it.