Will Virgo guy leave girlfriend for me? (Page 2)

Update : Virgo guy messaged me saying he cannot continue with this thing of ours because he doesn't think he can meet my expectations, he said I'm expecting over and above what he's capable of giving (he even Said that he will not be able to call and text everyday like I want him to) and me saying I don't wanna bring someone around my daughter who isn't in it for the long haul is putting too much pressure on him. He said also that he feels like I'm only considering him as a partner because things never worked out with my baby's father. He said he feels like he is my second choice and I never would have thought twice about him had i been with my baby's father. based on all those reasons he cannot be with me and he hopes that I can understand that. I'm very saddened by this I must say cause my feelings for him were genuine this time, had I dated him back then it probably wouldn't have worked out cause I would have taken him to granted. Now I'm more mature and open minded and was genuinely trying to build something with him. But I guess I was too late. anyways thanks for listening and for all the advices guys, I appreciate your time. I on the other hand wish i could turn back time and choose him but i can't so I'm just gonna let things be and let my losses be my losses.

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Simply put, we always do what we say regardless of whether it makes sense or goes against are morals or better judgment. If he says he's going to leave her he will. There's no need to push him or try to pull him. Believe me, if he had no intentions of being with you he would've just made up some lie, try to get in your knickers a 2nd time, and ran. I know it sounds a bit extreme, but only angels can be demons, and we have a side that's just as broken, hurt, raging, and cruel as everyone else does. Be patient. Has it been 60 days yet before you already feeling this way—

No. I did however write him a lenghty email telling him about how I feel about this whole situation. In the email I basically said I feel like I'm not that important to him since he can go a whole day without checking up on me. I told him I don't want to bring a man around my child who's not in it for the long haul. I told him I'm possessive and don't think I can wait for him to slowly end things with her. He never replied to my email that day and when I asked him if he got it later that day he said he read it but was still processing everything I wrote and that he was gonna talk about it the following day once he was done processing everything. We ended up discussing everything though as I believe I was pushing him to respond right away.. i'm pretty impatient.. which is when he said he doesn't think I understood when he said he's ending things gradually with her so they are still spending time together and when he doesn't call its because she's around. He said she's trying really hard to make it work so he doesn't want to hurt her by just breaking it to her. He said she's very innocent and any guy would want her but he just doesn't see them working out in the long run cause he doesn't have strong feelings for her.. but she is a nice girl and he doesn't want to bring himself bad luck by hurting her. He said I need to be patient. I feel like it's all bull!

Actually I'm a bit surprised he even responded. The moment I hear from a woman I want I want I want... me me me I I I... I'm gone. It's the most disgusting thing for any individual to try to impose their desires on another human being. It sounds like a 4 year old in desperate need of discipline. You should consider yourself lucky that the first thing that came out of his mouth wasn't, " Well, you seem assured in all your confidences and desires. Good luck with those endeavors."

I know... how can I make up for it now? I know I messed up being impatient and pushy, but how do I fix it?

Good question. By having an epiphany that love is not about you. It's about sharing with someone else. It's a selfless sacrifice for another person. Print stands... He's probably still reading it and his stomachs turning. Especially if mine turned just from those few sentences...

I feel like I've ruined any chances of us being together and there's no coming back from this 😢

Absolutely not. You are very accepting of the situation as far as giving him a chance and being understanding. I personally would admire that in you. You explained how you feel and why to him. Self awareness and solid communication. Assertive and possessive but not clingy and insecure. Again huge plus. What happens happens just keep in contact with him. Try not to go longer then 3 days without contact so you guys don't fade out.



Omg in just dawned on me.your acknowledging other peoples argument but calling them out on their nastiness at the same time. Your awesome. How the hell are you still single?

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Lol, thank you. I believe I'm still single because guys find girls like myself too hard to deal with. I know my worth and don't settle for less than I deserve and the guys I've met just don't wanna put in the work. Their loss I guess.. anyways, Virgo guy has ended whatever I was trying to rebuild. I don't think there's much I can do at this point to make him reconsider his decision... Hurts like hell but I'll be okay!

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Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.

You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’

Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...

I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!

You’re mad, cuz this story remind of yourself. Sweetheart

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Probably not but apparently virguys lead double lives...so maybe? But still doubt it...

they need another mutable/mutable dominant to put them in their double living space ;p

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Simply put, we always do what we say regardless of whether it makes sense or goes against are morals or better judgment. If he says he's going to leave her he will. There's no need to push him or try to pull him. Believe me, if he had no intentions of being with you he would've just made up some lie, try to get in your knickers a 2nd time, and ran. I know it sounds a bit extreme, but only angels can be demons, and we have a side that's just as broken, hurt, raging, and cruel as everyone else does. Be patient. Has it been 60 days yet before you already feeling this way—

No. I did however write him a lenghty email telling him about how I feel about this whole situation. In the email I basically said I feel like I'm not that important to him since he can go a whole day without checking up on me. I told him I don't want to bring a man around my child who's not in it for the long haul. I told him I'm possessive and don't think I can wait for him to slowly end things with her. He never replied to my email that day and when I asked him if he got it later that day he said he read it but was still processing everything I wrote and that he was gonna talk about it the following day once he was done processing everything. We ended up discussing everything though as I believe I was pushing him to respond right away.. i'm pretty impatient.. which is when he said he doesn't think I understood when he said he's ending things gradually with her so they are still spending time together and when he doesn't call its because she's around. He said she's trying really hard to make it work so he doesn't want to hurt her by just breaking it to her. He said she's very innocent and any guy would want her but he just doesn't see them working out in the long run cause he doesn't have strong feelings for her.. but she is a nice girl and he doesn't want to bring himself bad luck by hurting her. He said I need to be patient. I feel like it's all bull!

Actually I'm a bit surprised he even responded. The moment I hear from a woman I want I want I want... me me me I I I... I'm gone. It's the most disgusting thing for any individual to try to impose their desires on another human being. It sounds like a 4 year old in desperate need of discipline. You should consider yourself lucky that the first thing that came out of his mouth wasn't, " Well, you seem assured in all your confidences and desires. Good luck with those endeavors."

I know... how can I make up for it now? I know I messed up being impatient and pushy, but how do I fix it?

Good question. By having an epiphany that love is not about you. It's about sharing with someone else. It's a selfless sacrifice for another person. Print stands... He's probably still reading it and his stomachs turning. Especially if mine turned just from those few sentences...

I feel like I've ruined any chances of us being together and there's no coming back from this 😢

Absolutely not. You are very accepting of the situation as far as giving him a chance and being understanding. I personally would admire that in you. You explained how you feel and why to him. Self awareness and solid communication. Assertive and possessive but not clingy and insecure. Again huge plus. What happens happens just keep in contact with him. Try not to go longer then 3 days without contact so you guys don't fade out.



Omg in just dawned on me.your acknowledging other peoples argument but calling them out on their nastiness at the same time. Your awesome. How the hell are you still single?

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You a dude?

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Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.

You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’

Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...

I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!

You’re mad, cuz this story remind of yourself. Sweetheart

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And you care because...you have no stories...🖕

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Update : Virgo guy messaged me saying he cannot continue with this thing of ours because he doesn't think he can meet my expectations, he said I'm expecting over and above what he's capable of giving (he even Said that he will not be able to call and text everyday like I want him to) and me saying I don't wanna bring someone around my daughter who isn't in it for the long haul is putting too much pressure on him. He said also that he feels like I'm only considering him as a partner because things never worked out with my baby's father. He said he feels like he is my second choice and I never would have thought twice about him had i been with my baby's father. based on all those reasons he cannot be with me and he hopes that I can understand that. I'm very saddened by this I must say cause my feelings for him were genuine this time, had I dated him back then it probably wouldn't have worked out cause I would have taken him to granted. Now I'm more mature and open minded and was genuinely trying to build something with him. But I guess I was too late. anyways thanks for listening and for all the advices guys, I appreciate your time. I on the other hand wish i could turn back time and choose him but i can't so I'm just gonna let things be and let my losses be my losses.

Looove...you can cry on my shoulder! I would never admit what you just did!

You are a good woman! And God watching out for you! Doesn’t matter what religion you are or even if you are an atheist...wake up and say God...thanks for this day! Send good man my way...but remember Gods timenis his own...notnour time! He can do it in 20 min or a year! Just keep bugging Him. He doesn’t mind...

And for your trouble...trust me...day will come...you will be happy!

I am waiting for mine for 9 years and don’t doubt one second that we are going to be together OR someone else will happen!

I wish you luck. You can pm me.

I feel your pain and I am admiring your courage!!! Love you!

This guy already has a baby mama. A girlfriend. And now a girl on the side.

Who knows how many other girls he's involved with? And have you actually seen the gf or are you just going off of what he said? At this point I would take everything this guy says with a grain of salt.

I can't understand how Virgos (not all) act like they are clean/saints and keep fucking around randoms.

You have a kid. Just make a decision off of what he is doing. Tell him to leave the girl then get back to you. You'll wait. Until then just don't bother.

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Update : Virgo guy messaged me saying he cannot continue with this thing of ours because he doesn't think he can meet my expectations, he said I'm expecting over and above what he's capable of giving (he even Said that he will not be able to call and text everyday like I want him to) and me saying I don't wanna bring someone around my daughter who isn't in it for the long haul is putting too much pressure on him. He said also that he feels like I'm only considering him as a partner because things never worked out with my baby's father. He said he feels like he is my second choice and I never would have thought twice about him had i been with my baby's father. based on all those reasons he cannot be with me and he hopes that I can understand that. I'm very saddened by this I must say cause my feelings for him were genuine this time, had I dated him back then it probably wouldn't have worked out cause I would have taken him to granted. Now I'm more mature and open minded and was genuinely trying to build something with him. But I guess I was too late. anyways thanks for listening and for all the advices guys, I appreciate your time. I on the other hand wish i could turn back time and choose him but i can't so I'm just gonna let things be and let my losses be my losses.

Hes telling you some of his insecurities to make sure you really into him.b4 he cuts off this other women.

You're going to have to reassure him that youre down

That's not fair tho that he flipped the script and made this about you and your flaws.

Hes worried about being a second choice!!! When you are his second choice.

Ok dude.

Girl

Good luck

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Posted by GemCurio

Simply put, we always do what we say regardless of whether it makes sense or goes against are morals or better judgment. If he says he's going to leave her he will. There's no need to push him or try to pull him. Believe me, if he had no intentions of being with you he would've just made up some lie, try to get in your knickers a 2nd time, and ran. I know it sounds a bit extreme, but only angels can be demons, and we have a side that's just as broken, hurt, raging, and cruel as everyone else does. Be patient. Has it been 60 days yet before you already feeling this way—

No. I did however write him a lenghty email telling him about how I feel about this whole situation. In the email I basically said I feel like I'm not that important to him since he can go a whole day without checking up on me. I told him I don't want to bring a man around my child who's not in it for the long haul. I told him I'm possessive and don't think I can wait for him to slowly end things with her. He never replied to my email that day and when I asked him if he got it later that day he said he read it but was still processing everything I wrote and that he was gonna talk about it the following day once he was done processing everything. We ended up discussing everything though as I believe I was pushing him to respond right away.. i'm pretty impatient.. which is when he said he doesn't think I understood when he said he's ending things gradually with her so they are still spending time together and when he doesn't call its because she's around. He said she's trying really hard to make it work so he doesn't want to hurt her by just breaking it to her. He said she's very innocent and any guy would want her but he just doesn't see them working out in the long run cause he doesn't have strong feelings for her.. but she is a nice girl and he doesn't want to bring himself bad luck by hurting her. He said I need to be patient. I feel like it's all bull!

Actually I'm a bit surprised he even responded. The moment I hear from a woman I want I want I want... me me me I I I... I'm gone. It's the most disgusting thing for any individual to try to impose their desires on another human being. It sounds like a 4 year old in desperate need of discipline. You should consider yourself lucky that the first thing that came out of his mouth wasn't, " Well, you seem assured in all your confidences and desires. Good luck with those endeavors."

I know... how can I make up for it now? I know I messed up being impatient and pushy, but how do I fix it?

Good question. By having an epiphany that love is not about you. It's about sharing with someone else. It's a selfless sacrifice for another person. Print stands... He's probably still reading it and his stomachs turning. Especially if mine turned just from those few sentences...

I feel like I've ruined any chances of us being together and there's no coming back from this 😢

Absolutely not. You are very accepting of the situation as far as giving him a chance and being understanding. I personally would admire that in you. You explained how you feel and why to him. Self awareness and solid communication. Assertive and possessive but not clingy and insecure. Again huge plus. What happens happens just keep in contact with him. Try not to go longer then 3 days without contact so you guys don't fade out.



Omg in just dawned on me.your acknowledging other peoples argument but calling them out on their nastiness at the same time. Your awesome. How the hell are you still single?

Lol, thank you. I believe I'm still single because guys find girls like myself too hard to deal with. I know my worth and don't settle for less than I deserve and the guys I've met just don't wanna put in the work. Their loss I guess.. anyways, Virgo guy has ended whatever I was trying to rebuild. I don't think there's much I can do at this point to make him reconsider his decision... Hurts like hell but I'll be okay!

I've done what he just did before. We dated for a long while and connection was very strong.I let her go. Minus the second choice comment reasoning. It was the right thing to do even though it hurt. It wasn't fair to her and I couldn't see how to move it to the next level because my personal life was in a toxic state.She was pushing to meet her kids and move in together. I just broke up with my ex who I was living with and had kids. My girls came first and ex didn't work and relationship was toxic. I allowed my ex to rush things btw. We really were not right for each other. So I couldn't see away to make it work with the girl and felt I was stringing her along. I love her and always will. Even counciled and helped her with another guy she had a thing for. Love is love.

Ya move forward and Good luck to you.

Oh you wouldn't happen to be quirky/dorky in public yet actually loud, passionate, and expressive privately or vis versa would you? And maybe live in the central valley?

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Yea.. I'm gonna do just that.. if he does change his mind though i'll take him back in a heartbeat 😛

Lol .. why do you ask?

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Update : Virgo guy messaged me saying he cannot continue with this thing of ours because he doesn't think he can meet my expectations, he said I'm expecting over and above what he's capable of giving (he even Said that he will not be able to call and text everyday like I want him to) and me saying I don't wanna bring someone around my daughter who isn't in it for the long haul is putting too much pressure on him. He said also that he feels like I'm only considering him as a partner because things never worked out with my baby's father. He said he feels like he is my second choice and I never would have thought twice about him had i been with my baby's father. based on all those reasons he cannot be with me and he hopes that I can understand that. I'm very saddened by this I must say cause my feelings for him were genuine this time, had I dated him back then it probably wouldn't have worked out cause I would have taken him to granted. Now I'm more mature and open minded and was genuinely trying to build something with him. But I guess I was too late. anyways thanks for listening and for all the advices guys, I appreciate your time. I on the other hand wish i could turn back time and choose him but i can't so I'm just gonna let things be and let my losses be my losses.

Hes telling you some of his insecurities to make sure you really into him.b4 he cuts off this other women.

You're going to have to reassure him that youre down

That's not fair tho that he flipped the script and made this about you and your flaws.

Hes worried about being a second choice!!! When you are his second choice.

Ok dude.

Girl

Good luck

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He didn't leave that option though.. He basically said point blank that *He cannot do this*.. So he left me with no choice but to move on with my life.

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Posted by GemCurio

Simply put, we always do what we say regardless of whether it makes sense or goes against are morals or better judgment. If he says he's going to leave her he will. There's no need to push him or try to pull him. Believe me, if he had no intentions of being with you he would've just made up some lie, try to get in your knickers a 2nd time, and ran. I know it sounds a bit extreme, but only angels can be demons, and we have a side that's just as broken, hurt, raging, and cruel as everyone else does. Be patient. Has it been 60 days yet before you already feeling this way—

No. I did however write him a lenghty email telling him about how I feel about this whole situation. In the email I basically said I feel like I'm not that important to him since he can go a whole day without checking up on me. I told him I don't want to bring a man around my child who's not in it for the long haul. I told him I'm possessive and don't think I can wait for him to slowly end things with her. He never replied to my email that day and when I asked him if he got it later that day he said he read it but was still processing everything I wrote and that he was gonna talk about it the following day once he was done processing everything. We ended up discussing everything though as I believe I was pushing him to respond right away.. i'm pretty impatient.. which is when he said he doesn't think I understood when he said he's ending things gradually with her so they are still spending time together and when he doesn't call its because she's around. He said she's trying really hard to make it work so he doesn't want to hurt her by just breaking it to her. He said she's very innocent and any guy would want her but he just doesn't see them working out in the long run cause he doesn't have strong feelings for her.. but she is a nice girl and he doesn't want to bring himself bad luck by hurting her. He said I need to be patient. I feel like it's all bull!

Actually I'm a bit surprised he even responded. The moment I hear from a woman I want I want I want... me me me I I I... I'm gone. It's the most disgusting thing for any individual to try to impose their desires on another human being. It sounds like a 4 year old in desperate need of discipline. You should consider yourself lucky that the first thing that came out of his mouth wasn't, " Well, you seem assured in all your confidences and desires. Good luck with those endeavors."

I know... how can I make up for it now? I know I messed up being impatient and pushy, but how do I fix it?

Good question. By having an epiphany that love is not about you. It's about sharing with someone else. It's a selfless sacrifice for another person. Print stands... He's probably still reading it and his stomachs turning. Especially if mine turned just from those few sentences...

I feel like I've ruined any chances of us being together and there's no coming back from this 😢

Absolutely not. You are very accepting of the situation as far as giving him a chance and being understanding. I personally would admire that in you. You explained how you feel and why to him. Self awareness and solid communication. Assertive and possessive but not clingy and insecure. Again huge plus. What happens happens just keep in contact with him. Try not to go longer then 3 days without contact so you guys don't fade out.



Omg in just dawned on me.your acknowledging other peoples argument but calling them out on their nastiness at the same time. Your awesome. How the hell are you still single?

Lol, thank you. I believe I'm still single because guys find girls like myself too hard to deal with. I know my worth and don't settle for less than I deserve and the guys I've met just don't wanna put in the work. Their loss I guess.. anyways, Virgo guy has ended whatever I was trying to rebuild. I don't think there's much I can do at this point to make him reconsider his decision... Hurts like hell but I'll be okay!

I've done what he just did before. We dated for a long while and connection was very strong.I let her go. Minus the second choice comment reasoning. It was the right thing to do even though it hurt. It wasn't fair to her and I couldn't see how to move it to the next level because my personal life was in a toxic state.She was pushing to meet her kids and move in together. I just broke up with my ex who I was living with and had kids. My girls came first and ex didn't work and relationship was toxic. I allowed my ex to rush things btw. We really were not right for each other. So I couldn't see away to make it work with the girl and felt I was stringing her along. I love her and always will. Even counciled and helped her with another guy she had a thing for. Love is love.

Ya move forward and Good luck to you.

Oh you wouldn't happen to be quirky/dorky in public yet actually loud, passionate, and expressive privately or vis versa would you? And maybe live in the central valley?

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By the way you Virgos are too practical and logical when it comes to matters of love.. I honestly believe that you only live once and if you feel strongly about someone and the feeling is mutual there's no need to overthink, let the past get in the way or let fear of it not working out get in the way. I don't think you should have let your previous relationship destroy what you could have potentially had with that lady. It never hurts to try and give something your 100% ... and least you won't live with regrets.