How do you know if a Taurus Venus likes you? (Page 2)

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Oh, okay, my bad. You did seem very serious and upset in how you worded it, though, which is probably why I got the impression that I did. Just putting this out there: Maybe you come off serious through texts to him as well? I know I can come off that way sometimes, and that's certainly one way to scare away a gemini... Just saying. But good, so you understood that he was joking. Why did you keep asking him about it even days later, then? Sounded to me like you were questioning him, not joking around.

As Phantom said, you need to chill. I'm saying this as someone who has been dealing with a few Gemini men (and a Taurus Venus/aries mars, but he was a cancer), and I had to learn to just sit back and be cool. Everything can't be about you - some days they'll be in a bad mood and simply can't be bothered to act pleasant. I just leave them alone, unless they actually tell me they feel depressed/sad/tired/what have you - if so, I try to cheer them up and make them laugh. Give him some space, and if you don't hear from him after a few days; text him about some lighthearted topic. Or maybe you saw him today?

And yea, getting to know Geminis with taurus placements takes time. You need to put in some effort over time, so they start to trust you and feel comfortable around you. I do feel I need to warn you about aries mars, though... I think their interest burns out fast. But I have an aries stellium myself, so I can tell you that if the person is interesting enough, I will get interested again and again and again 🙂

Thank you so much for your help 🙏 I know I can come across as serious through text that's why I use as many emojis as possible 😅 And I also know I can come across as cold in person. That's why I was trying to text him and show that I was interested in him too.

Can I ask something else? Yesterday I found out about something. He was talking to my sister's boyfriend on saturday night. They're really close friends. And my other sister overheard the conversation. He was saying that I was the one chasing him and that I was head over heels for him but that he didn't want anything with me. Now, this is the funniest thing I've ever heard in my entire life. He did all the chase, I just agreed to go see him because I started thinking that he was a good guy. But he was all over me in the beginning. And then I just enjoyed being with him. That's it... I did get anxious from his lack of communication because it changed so much compared to the beginning and not knowing what's going to happen next is something that drives me really crazy in pretty much everything in life... I've chilled out a bit... I'm not as anxious... I don't even know if I still want to give him a chance. But I was really furious yesterday and when I was outside smoking, my sister told her boyfriend "If he comes here today she'll kill him" and her bf said "He only said that so that he looks good in front of his friends... we're all like that". She told me this afterwards. How do you think I should react when I see him next?



I do think he has some self esteem issues. He had some health issues not long ago that ruined his teeth. He's saving up money to fix them. That's why I didn't care about them that much and he seemed such a great guy that I just thought it would be mean to not give him an opportunity because of that. But it definitely is something that would make someone have self esteem issues... Do you think this is why he's doing all this?

I might be overreacting but yesterday he posted a whole bunch of stuff that really seemed they were for me. He posts a lot of things but yesterday was the first time that I actually felt he was trying to tell me something. Like, I'm on the chubby side. His ex is super skinny so it's not like he has some preference for chubby girls. And he was posting stuff about how chubby girls were beautiful and men only say they don't like them because they can't handle them. And it was more than one post. And stuff like "I want to see you today, where are you?" and stuff like that. I mean, I may be overreacting but isn't that weird? He usually posts stuff about cars and stuff about revenge for his ex...

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Again. I told you to block him and leave him be. But you're still invested in a guy you only went on 2 dates with. Leave him alone. Stop texting, stop initiating any form of communication.

Zero communication.

1.) He talks about his ex while on the only 2 dates with you. Multiple times.

2.) Hes barely responds when you initiate.

3.) Hes told mutual friends that you're a stalker and 5 stage clinger.

And you STILL want to give him a chance? You still make excuses for his behavior.

Who cares if its the truth or not. This is the story he has painted about YOU.

Hes probably wondering why you take all this disrespect and keep coming back.

You misunderstood me. I'm not giving him a chance. It's over. I don't need him and I don't want him anymore. What happened yesterday completely changed my mind. My scorpio venus, obviously wanted to have a little sweet revenge but then I thought he's not worth it and I don't even have time for that in my life. BUT I do want to understand WHY he did all this. I always look for answers in everything in life. Always. It's this stupid and useless habit I have. Don't judge me for that please 😅 I know I should just let it go but I need to understand why he acted this way. I will probably never be able to but I want to anyways. That is why I'm making all these theories inside of my mind.

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Hes also a Gemini. You have to come across as interesting and have something undeniably interesting to text about.

Hes probably bored af and his thoughts go to his ex...who to him is an interesting thought.

I do consider myself an interesting person but how am I supposed to show him that if he doesn't give me the chance to? He doesn't text anymore, he doesn't want to hang out...

It sounds like he's just not that into it. It doesn't have to be anything you said or did wrong, just a lack of spark on his end.

Naah he is busy getting his life back on track .

Back on track from what?

From being lost to gaining control.

So, you think he's interested in her but doing this so he has the upper hand?

I'm just seeing a guy who is not that into her or at least hasn't gotten into her yet.

Naah I think he is busy and is not considering this girl at all at the moment.

Then, why did he ask my brother-in-law for my number? Why was he texting me all the time? Why was he asking me to hang out all the time? After our first date, why did he tell me that he really enjoyed spending time with and that I was an amazing person and that he wanted to be with me again asap?

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He really Likes you !! But He is stresst Out because ..His Situation with his ex !

You need to be Patient ! ...and try to think from His Side ...He Likes you but ...thats it for now ...dont to much....can you See him somehow ?? ..dont be to much in His face ...but Show him what He could lose ...

And i think Taurus Likes to have controll ...

So keep him thinking ..( do she Like me or dont ) ...you are the First price (;

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Hes also a Gemini. You have to come across as interesting and have something undeniably interesting to text about.

Hes probably bored af and his thoughts go to his ex...who to him is an interesting thought.

I do consider myself an interesting person but how am I supposed to show him that if he doesn't give me the chance to? He doesn't text anymore, he doesn't want to hang out...

It sounds like he's just not that into it. It doesn't have to be anything you said or did wrong, just a lack of spark on his end.

Naah he is busy getting his life back on track .

Back on track from what?

From being lost to gaining control.

So, you think he's interested in her but doing this so he has the upper hand?

I'm just seeing a guy who is not that into her or at least hasn't gotten into her yet.

Naah I think he is busy and is not considering this girl at all at the moment.

Then, why did he ask my brother-in-law for my number? Why was he texting me all the time? Why was he asking me to hang out all the time? After our first date, why did he tell me that he really enjoyed spending time with and that I was an amazing person and that he wanted to be with me again asap?

Please refer back to my post in your other thread.

Honestly, he has you right where he wants.

His indifference and pull back has you putty in his hands. Now, he knows he just has to say Hi and you're ready to do anything just to get more attention from him. Every crumb he feeds you has you more desperate waiting for a bigger better crumb.

I did take into consideration what you told me last time. I didn't text him. We saw each other because my friend's father owns the restaurant where he works and the other day my friend suggested us going there. He found some petty excuse to come to our table and say hi. He texted me later asking if I was mad and I said no. I wanted to seem as indifferent to his games as possible.

Aaaand the truth comes out. You're playing games too and confusing him.

Why do I get involved in these dramas? So frustrating.

Why was I playing games? The guy wasn't replying to me, I didn't want to bother him or put pressure on him. I did have to control myself a bit 'cause I wanted to text him but I didn't... But I honestly don't think I was playing games.

The bolded part. It sounds like you were mad that he had not texted you enough or quickly enough so he came to say hi to you in person (which you referred to as him being petty, and I don't know why), and you were cold to him because you wanted to seem indifferent. Is that not what happened?

I am really confused right now... I wasn't mad because he didn't text me. I was mad because I thought he was playing games so I didn't want to show him that his games were working in other to stop them. I don't like games, really... I truly understand he might still have feelings for his ex and that's okay with me. But he doesn't have to play with me like this 'cause this is driving me crazy. I also came out of a complicated relationship not long ago and I don't want to go through the same thing again. I just want us both to be honest... I do admit that I am a bit cold about my feelings. I don't know how to show them. But I am trying my best to show him that I like spending time with him and all and he does this. If I'm going on dates with him, if I'm talking to him, it's because I'm interested, right? The day of our second date we had agreed that we would see each other the next day. He cancelled last minute saying he was tired. I understand that, there was a special event at the restaurant where he works. I've worked there a few years ago too and I know how tiring that event is. But he was barely speaking to me after that. The next day he texted 'hi' I replied and he didn't say anything else. Then he doesn't text me for days. I may sound high maintenance but I'm not, really. It's not that I want him to shower me with attention. But he was so attentive when we first started talking that I can't help to think that he lost interest. I genuinely want to spend time with him and build some connection with him and see where it goes. But he's not giving a chance to do that.

Dating is messy and trying to explain the subtleties of it is even messier. How long ago did he last text you?

An hour ago? I texted him first today. It went:

Me: Hi

Him: Hi

Me: How are you?

This is how we always start our conversations only that today he didn't ask how I was.

Him: Fine

Me: I'm fine too thank you (with a laughing emoji as it was meant as a joke)

Him: That's good

Me: You still haven't told me why you're scared of me.

(That's where our conversation ended last night)

And then he didn't reply while he was online on Facebook and posting stuff there. That hurt once again so I said: Okay, I get it. Bye.

I don't usually have this kind of reaction but I'm so hurt right now... Like, to be honest with you, I wasn't really interested in him the first couple of times we texted but even then I didn't ignore him the way he's ignoring me now. And then he replied to the other text saying he was joking when he said he was afraid of me. (We were talking about my car last night because it's making a few noises and I was joking about him being afraid of me driving it). I haven't replied to that text and I don't think I will. Honestly, he's just being mean now. I won't put up with that behaviour. I've been hurt way too many times to allow someone to do this to me. I never did anything wrong to him, I don't deserve this.

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Forget about him ..for First ...hes emotional Not avalible ! ...He knows you Like him ...

But He want to hate His ex ! ...i think

U will habe to wait ..but Dont let him do this to you