Is it possible to get Taurus man back?

Our story has been quite long and would be romantic if it didn't finish 😄. We met online durind the pandemic 1,5 years ago, we lived in different countries at that time. Although there was no really chance for us to even meet in reality, we continued talking.

After 1 year and several month of communicating (we were not commited, but our conversations were romantic), I moved to the same country and the same place where he lived (not for him, because I planned it before, but he's been motivating me a lot). He's been very supportive during all the process, picked me up at the airport and helped to settle the first days.

It's been 2,5 month of me living here, we've met several times (he works really hard, has 12 hours shifts almost every day, I knew it long before moving), even spent weekend together in another city. At first he's been very caring, texted every day, asked me out, when we were together was constantly touching me, was always into conversation and easily got horny 😄.

But couple of weeks ago I noticed that I'm the one who is always initiating conversation, asking him out. He said that he doesn't have much time and energy to go out, and as far as I "need all the time to be dedicated just for me when we're together" sometimes he prefers not to ask me out because he can't guarantee me that.

We talked and figured things our afterwards, but eventually, things got worse. After our last meeting, he didn't text me for week, before I texted myself, and then ignored me for days before replying. He offered to meet but I could,t that day so we didn't.

So I initiated conversation about the situation and he said that he doesn't know what he wants and what he feels, he likes me physically and for some personal traits, but we live completely different lives and he is not sure we are compatible. That he really enjoyed every time we were together, and he did't see anyone else in the meantime and he feels that he doesn't need to. But he believes that most probably we won't work.

I offered him to meet (because I wanted to discuss it face to face, as this conversation lasted several days because it took him hours or even days to reply), but he said it's not a good idea. I asked him if he thinks we should.t meet at all, and he simply doesn't open my message.

The question is: have I lost him forever? Is it possible that he's still thinking about us or he just lost his interest and doesn't want me anymore? Did the fact that I said that I want more with him, scared him? Is there a chance to fix anything? I've been analazyng my behavior and realized some of my mistakes, but I'm not sure he needs it at all... Also I don't understand how he could change his mind in couple of weeks after 1,5 year talking.

I'm getting lost between the "Taurus man" threads!

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Wich is your sign so i know were to dig?

*PLEEEEEEEASE don’t be a Scorpio*

Probability is like 88%

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I'm Cancer ))

Posted by Maxian

Maybe the online fantasy didn't measure up with reality?

I guess take his word for it when he says he thinks you're not compatible.

What kind of behavior have you been putting out?

Yes I also think it's the reason.

Maybe when we hang out offline I was a little bit cold, but we both were interested in each other's lives during conversation, and there was always physical contact (apart from sex, he always touched me etc)

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Posted by Parilicium

Wich is your sign so i know were to dig?

*PLEEEEEEEASE don’t be a Scorpio*

Probability is like 88%

I'm Cancer ))

Oh no! Please don't say you moved for him there!?

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No, I didn't. I planned to move before we met, he just motivated and supported a lot through the process

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Posted by MareInfame

Posted by Parilicium

Wich is your sign so i know were to dig?

*PLEEEEEEEASE don’t be a Scorpio*

Probability is like 88%

I'm Cancer ))

Oh no! Please don't say you moved for him there!?

No, I didn't. I planned to move before we met, he just motivated and supported a lot through the process

But you said "Although there was no really chance for us to even meet in reality...", I assume he was the biggest incentive?

You wouldn't say that if you were going to plan moving there.

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No, not really. It was the beginning of pandemic and I didn't know when would it finish, so I wasn't sure when exactly I will move (we met in april 2020, I moved in august 2021, so I never could've thought we will continue keeping in touch for that long).

Also at the time we met, he also lived in different country, he moved back for work.