@ATheGreat
6 Years
Taurus gf broke up with me but I want her back
Will a Taurus girlfriend return after a breakup due to personal struggles
Taurus women value stability and loyalty. If she is truly committed, she may come back once she feels ready and her issues are resolved. Patience and understanding are key during her healing process. Focus on respecting her space and showing your support without pressure to maintain a positive connection.
Both Taurus women I know went back to their partners after a period of separation. However, their partners were their husbands of many years, not someone they dated for months.
Nobody knows if she will come back to you or not. It depends on many things...how good your relationship was, if she was in love with you, if depression made her break up, or it was some other issue she had with you.
"I told her that she is my one and only and I will stay and wait for her no matter how long it takes". This is a beautiful sentence....about yourself. How much you are able to care for someone, how determined, how patient you are. I wish you to be able to move on, if she doesn't come back to you soon.
I stopped at "in a LDR-ONLINE rs"
Have you met her in real life in those 11 months? If you haven't, I'm sorry but she's not your girlfriend.
Also, have you video chatted at all during this time? Being "rushed to the hospital" as an excuse for not showing up to be with you on her birthday screams catfish imo
If it truly was a real relationship you had, ime Tauruses will only come back when it doesn't work out with their new prospect. Don't be a doormat. While waiting for someone who dumped you to come back, you're missing out on someone who won't dump you in the first place.
Good luck to you : )
She sounds depressed. Give her space and try and contact her again later.
Im a Taurus male and my current GF and I have broken up a few times but always got back together after a few months of no contact. She would also block me on social media but once I initiated contact again she we would pick things up from where they left off.
Take a break from her, let her sort her issues out and try contacting her again later.
We make firm decisions after a long and deep thinking. You can ask why she broke up... this thought must be lingering her since a very long time... I am also in relationship with a capricorn man and really thinking to break up but it's taking me months to decide the final verdict. It's unacceptable for us to take a u-turn, as it hurts our time and decision making process.
Looks like emotional issues where she does not connect to you. I am fully aware of how capricorn men sometimes are not able to fully show emotional support to others, its okay ... give a try. Ask about problems one at a time and try to work on it at emotional level. All we want is support in life, stability and someone to trust to open the cocoon we live in.
Sometimes we just need to be alone. Hopefully if you respect her wishes, she will come around. If I were you, I would focus on what is important in my life and bettering your own situation. Make sure you work on yourself so you can be the best partner and version of yourself, then even if it isn’t her, you’ll feel good about the next relationship you decide to have. I wouldn’t focus on romance if you’re young. Focus on you and making yourself whole and strong. Things will fall into place when you’re ready and there’s no telling when that will be. You gotta make the best of your life every day for you and no one else. Learn to love yourself and have fun! Best wishes!
"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were."
I would tell her this:
I care a lot about you. Though I would like to check in on you, I respect your decision and your need for space. I won't contact you again unless I hear from you first. Please do not hesitate to contact me, even if you just need someone to talk to. Take care and good luck.
(or something to this effect)
It tells her that you are there for her and you respect her ability to make decisions for herself.
"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were."
I would tell her this:
I care a lot about you. Though I would like to check in on you, I respect your decision and your need for space. I won't contact you again unless I hear from you first. Please do not hesitate to contact me, even if you just need someone to talk to. Take care and good luck.
(or something to this effect)
It tells her that you are there for her and you respect her ability to make decisions for herself.
Awwww! I love this! This is really sweet. ❤️ I would never think to say this sort of thing.
My take on this is she’s dealing with real issues in her life and needs a real relationship, someone who can show up in person. LDR don’t work well In the long run for earth signs/dominant earth sign peeps.
My take on this is she’s dealing with real issues in her life and needs a real relationship, someone who can show up in person. LDR don’t work well In the long run for earth signs/dominant earth sign peeps.
We kinda planned to meet up this year but due to the COVID-19 pandemic, we have to wait till it’s over or at least when we were still together..
My take on this is she’s dealing with real issues in her life and needs a real relationship, someone who can show up in person. LDR don’t work well In the long run for earth signs/dominant earth sign peeps.
Disagree. My last 3 relationships have been long distance. Only failed in 2 of them due to dating crazy bitches.
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Hi, I am a Capricorn male and my girlfriend (currently an ex) broke up with me few days ago. We have been dating for 11 months now in a LDR-ONLINE rs and she got hospitalized few days before her birthday. She was going through depression and She said she has family problems, new health problems which she have to deal with BY HERSELF. Even though I offered my help, she doesn't want it. She broke up with me because she doesn't want to be a burden in our relationship and wants me to move on and live my life, find my "true" love. However, I told her that she is my one and only and I will stay and wait for her no matter how long it takes because I want the be part of her life as much as I want her to be part of mine. She blocked me in all social medias and I do not know if she will ever talk to me again although she did say she wanted to remain best friends with me.
I would like to ask any Taureans who have done similarly to this before and went back to their ex, Do you think she will come back to me after her problems have been solved?