Taurus men are confusing

I'm a Cancer woman who has been with a Taurus man for almost two years. I didn't hear from him for a month ( he was sick). He did call me to tell me what was going on and everything was good. It's been over a month since then and I'm about to call it quits on this relationship. I just want to know what is up with the disappearing acts, especially when nothing bad has happened. You can't play with people like that.

It's the women too. Been 7 months since things with me and my Taurus ended things. Shes a Taurus/Libra Moon. Im a Cancer as well Scorp Moon & I still dont understand her moves, her words or her motives at times..

Taurus's ( the non mature ones) are walking Conundrums. Find something VERY distracting to do. You'll never understand. But when they want you they want you. and even when they do there is still a thin line of uncertainty with them Its odd because I have a close female friend thats a Taurus as well and I NEVER have to guess where I stand with her. And she LOVES and ADORES me to DEATh!

Really?

I’ve always found them basic af and easy to read.

2 yr relationship and he's gone dark for a full month? if he isn't quarantined w/coronavirus, I'd say something else is up....but really, all you can do is reach out to him and wait for his answer....I'd probably be showing up at his place.....astrology, tarot cards, crystal balls, cat ladies - none of these can really help....anyone that thinks you can understand behavior like this based on a sun sign, is liable to give shitty advice....people of every sign pull disappearing acts....

i dont find them confusing either.

if you have a question, ask it. they'll answer.

Posted by ArilovesAqu

Did you reach out to him or are you just waiting for him to initiate communication? Maybe he’s waiting on you

I've tried, it's like pulling teeth.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Really?

I’ve always found them basic af and easy to read.

I find them basic too but I can't read them.

My ex husband is a Taurus and we have two kids together. During our initial dating years he never did anything like that.

However, I have dated a sag who did this he just stopped talking to me one day out of nowhere.

Take it as you two are not together anymore, him being sick is no excuse.

A whole month? That’s ridiculous.

Posted by Metatron

2 yr relationship and he's gone dark for a full month? if he isn't quarantined w/coronavirus, I'd say something else is up....but really, all you can do is reach out to him and wait for his answer....I'd probably be showing up at his place.....astrology, tarot cards, crystal balls, cat ladies - none of these can really help....anyone that thinks you can understand behavior like this based on a sun sign, is liable to give shitty advice....people of every sign pull disappearing acts....

I've never disappeared on anyone, I'd rather tell someone I want to break up face to face. I plan on popping up on him tomorrow but I don't want to further damage our relationship.

Posted by Klh1203

My ex husband is a Taurus and we have two kids together. During our initial dating years he never did anything like that.

However, I have dated a sag who did this he just stopped talking to me one day out of nowhere.

Take it as you two are not together anymore, him being sick is no excuse.

A whole month? That’s ridiculous.

Did the sag give a reason??

That's so crazy

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by LadyNeptune

Really?

I’ve always found them basic af and easy to read.

How dare you!

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It’s not a bad thing!

You know they say simple, boring, routine makes for longevity in a relationship

Posted by dilettante

is this a long distance relationship?

Yes, it has been for over a year now. We met when he lived in my area and had been together for months before he had to go back home for safety reasons.

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Posted by jazzybellexo

I'm a Cancer woman who has been with a Taurus man for almost two years. I didn't hear from him for a month ( he was sick). He did call me to tell me what was going on and everything was good. It's been over a month since then and I'm about to call it quits on this relationship. I just want to know what is up with the disappearing acts, especially when nothing bad has happened. You can't play with people like that.

Put on your inspector gadget hat...something ain't right...

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Oh, I plan to. I'm going to his hometown tomorrow.

Posted by jazzybellexo

Posted by Metatron

2 yr relationship and he's gone dark for a full month? if he isn't quarantined w/coronavirus, I'd say something else is up....but really, all you can do is reach out to him and wait for his answer....I'd probably be showing up at his place.....astrology, tarot cards, crystal balls, cat ladies - none of these can really help....anyone that thinks you can understand behavior like this based on a sun sign, is liable to give shitty advice....people of every sign pull disappearing acts....

I've never disappeared on anyone, I'd rather tell someone I want to break up face to face. I plan on popping up on him tomorrow but I don't want to further damage our relationship.

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just the personal opinion of a very proud person, but if someone I'm dating is ignoring me for a month (especially during an alleged illness to where I'd probably be worried about them), fear around damaging the relationship would be the last thing on my mind....wanting to know what the hell is going on is totally normal at this point....if it turns out the dude is just basically ignoring you, there shouldn't really be any fear around losing him at all....

Posted by ArilovesAqu

Posted by jazzybellexo

Posted by ArilovesAqu

Did you reach out to him or are you just waiting for him to initiate communication? Maybe he’s waiting on you

I've tried, it's like pulling teeth.

He’s ignoring you?

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I would say he is.

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Posted by jeane

i dont find them confusing either.

if you have a question, ask it. they'll answer.

the 8-ball of romance.

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was going to say we need a dxp version where the only response is "you in danger gurl", but I guess that's what these boards are for....

Posted by jazzybellexo

Posted by Metatron

2 yr relationship and he's gone dark for a full month? if he isn't quarantined w/coronavirus, I'd say something else is up....but really, all you can do is reach out to him and wait for his answer....I'd probably be showing up at his place.....astrology, tarot cards, crystal balls, cat ladies - none of these can really help....anyone that thinks you can understand behavior like this based on a sun sign, is liable to give shitty advice....people of every sign pull disappearing acts....

I've never disappeared on anyone, I'd rather tell someone I want to break up face to face. I plan on popping up on him tomorrow but I don't want to further damage our relationship.

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I dated a Taurus awhile back and he pulled a 3 week disappearance act in me after a disagreement. He said he changed phones and no longer had my number. I am pretty sure he was lying. He wrote me Off after the disagreement and wanted to see if I would come after him. Which I mindlessly did. Where there is smoke, there is always fire. I dated him for awhile longer but later regretted it. Unless your bf had some type of near death illness, I would leave his ass, block him and not look back.

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Posted by jazzybellexo

Posted by Metatron

2 yr relationship and he's gone dark for a full month? if he isn't quarantined w/coronavirus, I'd say something else is up....but really, all you can do is reach out to him and wait for his answer....I'd probably be showing up at his place.....astrology, tarot cards, crystal balls, cat ladies - none of these can really help....anyone that thinks you can understand behavior like this based on a sun sign, is liable to give shitty advice....people of every sign pull disappearing acts....

I've never disappeared on anyone, I'd rather tell someone I want to break up face to face. I plan on popping up on him tomorrow but I don't want to further damage our relationship.

I dated a Taurus awhile back and he pulled a 3 week disappearance act in me after a disagreement. He said he changed phones and no longer had my number. I am pretty sure he was lying. He wrote me Off after the disagreement and wanted to see if I would come after him. Which I mindlessly did. Where there is smoke, there is always fire. I dated him for awhile longer but later regretted it. Unless your bf had some type of near death illness, I would leave his ass, block him and not look back.

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We didn't have any disagreements, everything was fine. I'm convinced that Taurus men are just immature children parading as men.

They are quite childish. 1 month is far too long. He’s taking you for granted.

Posted by Black-Mamba

Who disappears on someone they dated for 2 years? That's fuking evil.

This.

What the— 1 month??

Define 'been with' for two years?

Posted by AgentP911

Define 'been with' for two years?

"Been with" meaning he asked me to be his girlfriend, our families know we are together, and he would constantly ask when are we going to get married and have children.

I decided to not go to his hometown. It wouldn't make sense to waste gas for someone who can't pick up a phone for me. He's going through some financial woes and taking care of legal issues but there's still no excuse to leave a significant other in the dark. If he calls, he calls. I'm over it.