Aquaman2501Iz
@Aquaman2501Iz
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Taurus woman likes me one day, then she ignores me
sounds like she's trying to just be a friend and when you push it too far, she backs off - she may be on the fence but she's not moving to either side before she's ready - so find someone who wants to be with you and just be a friend to this Taurus woman - Taurus women don't particularly like to feel smothered
I'm with a Taurus women...I think your problem is the distance thing. Mine constantly wants to spend time together so she can touch me and cuddle lol. It can be annoying some days.
Posted by LuxePurr
If she comes and goes it sounds like she's dating around, probably would meet and date someone else whenever you guys stop talking.
Have you two met in person?
You're right, when we talked (4 days ago) she mentioned things like, guys around me likes some things from me, but not the real me. So, of course she is looking for other guys or at least that's what I understood.
And no, we haven't met.
Posted by Librasetting777
I'm with a Taurus women...I think your problem is the distance thing. Mine constantly wants to spend time together so she can touch me and cuddle lol. It can be annoying some days.
Lol that doesn't sounds bad at all. You're probably right, distance might be a problem, not for me, but maybe for her. I think she isn't sure about what she wants.
Posted by tctapp007
sounds like she's trying to just be a friend and when you push it too far, she backs off - she may be on the fence but she's not moving to either side before she's ready - so find someone who wants to be with you and just be a friend to this Taurus woman - Taurus women don't particularly like to feel smothered
Sure, that was the problem at the beginning, but believe me she is the one that push me to do such things, obviously I'm not saying is her fault, but she is at the same level as me when it comes to be romantic. I've been trying to be her friend, and is like any compliment or when I show that I care she thinks I want to push thing to another direction. Which is not true, and every time I want to talk about it with her is like a forbidden topic and she totally blocks herself.
The easiest way would be doing what you're telling me, but the thing is that I really care about her at this point. She means something to me. With other woman I would perfectly do that, but no her. She might be so imperfect, but don't want to give up.
Posted by black-coffee
Did you ask her what those mistakes are?
Like a thousand times, she thinks I'm too fast. That I want a relationship like tomorrow and is not true. By nature I'm like this, romantic, attentive, etc. At the beginning she was right, but now is like every little thing explodes.
The thing is she never wants to speak about it, that's when "problems" begin, if you can call that a problem of course. Idk is so confusing
Posted by MadTwins80
Check out avoidant attachment style on youtube - maybe she has that? She might not but see if it rings any bells
OMG... just saw a video, can't be 100% sure if she has that, but there's several signs, not to say she has them all... so, what should I do? how can I help her?
Btw just sent her a message "Hope you're having a great day (call her by her short name), anything you need I'm here to listen, wish medicines are helping (she has really painful headaches) Take care"
She just answered, don't call me like that 🧐
Then me okay, my bad. Should I send her another message?
You know at certain point makes me feel sorry for her, she's an amazing person and it feels like impossible to reach her out emotionally or smth like that.
Posted by black-coffeePosted by Aquaman2501Iz
but now is like every little thing explodes.
Can you give an example?click to expand
Haha like she sends a photo of herself then I tell her, "wow you look amazing, red suits you perfectly, love your jacket" things like that lol.
I just sent her a message today saying "Hope you're having a great day (call her by her short name), anything you need I'm here to listen, wish medicines are already helping (she has really painful headaches) Take care"
She answered "don't call me like that"... she even told me one day I can call her like bt that short name... like what's wrong here 😂😥
Posted by Librasetting777
I'm with a Taurus women...I think your problem is the distance thing. Mine constantly wants to spend time together so she can touch me and cuddle lol. It can be annoying some days.
Oh yeah, definitely. I hate long distance 😟 I need a man to be right in my face or else I feel a bit disconnected.
Uh first of all, you guys need to meet face to face ASAP. Taurus need physical/sensual stimuli (a warm hug, smell you perfume, feel your arms, taste your lips) the way air signs need communication. I honestly have never felt attached to any guy I have only exclusively texted. Which is probably why you are not getting the level of reciprocation you want.
Posted by Aquaman2501Iz
Aquarius man here. Well my story is kinda long, I'll try to summarize everything.
Basically when I met her (July 2019) our feelings were reciprocal, she was responsive, feelings everywhere, then honestly I came too strong and we stopped talking until this year (April 1) then things started really positive, with tons of chemistry between us, long chats, video calls, and then, the same thing happened, but this time I didn't do the same mistakes.
The thing is that when I compliment her or send her like encouraging texts about us, she still thinks I do the same mistakes. Well, we stopped talking and she came back again (August), last time we were interacting from April till May or June maybe don't remember.
This time the same thing, same chemistry, long chats, etc. But I thought we were handling things perfectly fine, my approach was even more friendly than before, but giving her signs I still like her, everything went perfectly fine, I even sent her a parcel (our relationship is from a distance), and she did the same thing, she sent me really special things, In which she wrote me a letter telling me she knows how much effort I put every day, that I have a great heart and that she believes in me.
Well, guess what, the same thing happened later, she told me I make the same mistakes. We stopped talking at the beginning of October and she came back again December 15, she was asking about me, my family, then out of the blue she told me "I think of you often" then she open up telling me other things wondering if she will ever meet someone that treats her like I did.
I told her, what's next? What she wants to do? And answered idk, just want to speak out. Then I said to her, "it's okay, no pressure, I appreciate it" "if it helps, I'll wait forever for you, so don't worry about that" "we can keep being good friends for now if you want, try to make an effort to understand us better" "I'm telling you this because don't want to rush you into anything, I'm really patient"
She just told me "No, that's how you see yourself, but is not true" then we continued talking and after a couple of days she stopped answering and ignoring my messages and here I am lol.
What do you think? What should I do? When things like this happen I tend to give her space and stop sending her messages. I hate doing that because, I feel she needs support, that sometimes her insecurities make her take those "bad" decisions. But you know, I don't feel like giving up or smth like that, it's just that she confuses me. This time is different, I believe I'm standing in a new situation here.
Hi,
So you told her
"I wait forever"
"we can be friends for now"
👀 You need do disappear asap!
She has no respect for you.
You maybe think you just honest but for her you sound desperate!
Imagen.. A girl say this things to you?!
Dayum.. You will lose interest very fast!
Don't be a all over the place Aqua..
Fall back!!!
Let her come to you!
Tbh. I would move on..
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The thing is that when I compliment her or send her like encouraging texts about us, she still thinks I do the same mistakes. Well, we stopped talking and she came back again (August), last time we were interacting from April till May or June maybe don't remember.
This time the same thing, same chemistry, long chats, etc. But I thought we were handling things perfectly fine, my approach was even more friendly than before, but giving her signs I still like her, everything went perfectly fine, I even sent her a parcel (our relationship is from a distance), and she did the same thing, she sent me really special things, In which she wrote me a letter telling me she knows how much effort I put every day, that I have a great heart and that she believes in me.
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