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My cancer sun guy has this friend who he occasionally spoke to and liked her posts and I didn't really know who she was and he finally admitted the he had sex with her prior to our relationship and then he full on cheated on me with her when we hit a rough patch. He kept her a friend in disguise through out all of our relationship and at all cost will protect her from looking like a bad. He always looks for her on social media and will always say how grateful he is to have her as a friend. She friends zones him a lot in the conversations and I think he is borderline obsessed and scared to loose her even as a friend.

This is just my experience with a cancer guy.

Sagittarius sun, Capricorn moon, Cancer rising

Posted by jana33

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Posted by jana33

Posted by TxOgal
I've been friends with this Gemini guy for about a year now, mid-year I cut ties with him cause I felt things were getting intimate and I wasn't sure of his intentions. He's been trying to talk to me, but I was avoiding him until about 2 months later, he reached out somehow and we reconciled. Since then things got more intimate (more friends than anything) but we both developed feelings for each other. His intentions are clear that he wants to get serious (but deep down I had doubts about it due to difference in our status).

Lately I've been feeling neglected by him, for the past month we rarely talk, due to different schedules, but when we talk he's very loving and caring. He claims that it's because I'm always busy and he doesn't want to bother me (which really annoyed me) I explained this to him a couple of time, that he could always talk to me anytime and I'm not that busy as he thinks. But, still his ways didn't change.

I got so mad at him and told him he doesn't have feelings or a heart to treat me this way, since I made it clear that he doesn't seem to care or even want to talk to me anymore. And that day I slipped and responded to a guy who's flirting with me and we kind of had fun over a phone call. The next day, the Gemini apologized to me, but stupid me I also apologized and told him about that guy I talked to :/

Now things got bad, at first I apologized alot and he was trying to avoid me then, I told him that I just told him about that guy cause I wanted to annoy him back as he annoyed me all that time being careless about me (that was my friend's suggestion cause they said it was a huge mistake that I told the truth when we are not even that committed yet). Now, the Gemini said let's be friends nothing more than that. I told him I have many girl friends already I don't need a guy friend. He just said ok.

Obviously I love him so much, but I screwed things up and I am dying inside for him to talk to me again, but he seems so distant and avoiding me now I don't know what to do to get him back. I cannot send him anymore messages. He already doesn't believe that I was only saying that to annoy him. What do you think this Gemini man will do? Is it really over now? please your opinion

Him:
Sun is in 24 Degrees Gemini
Moon is in 27 Degrees Pisces
Mercury is in 07 Degrees Gemini
Venus is in 19 Degrees Taurus
Mars is in 11 Degrees Aries

Me:
Sun is in 18 Degrees Taurus
Moon is in 13 Degrees Scorpio
Mercury is in 10 Degrees Taurus
Venus is in 05 Degrees Aries
Mars is in 13 Degrees Pisces

Sorry that was long ...

Im so sorry you are going though this, I feel we are in a similar situation, My Gemini also has Venus in Taurus, they are more stable and loving in my experience and it very easy to hurt them, then they back off and shut down. Maybe the expectations is the problem, it was in my case, I was quite demanding towards him(emotionally), wanting things my way the way I like it, and Gemini will never be submissive to anyone, they just want to feel free and give when they want to give, the best way to keep him is to appreciate him for all the good things so he wants to do more of them. Any type of control or demand will push him away. I am trying to reconnect with mine too after 3 months and its really bad, hes ignoring my text, being cold and distant. I tried to apologize, explain, said I learned from this, but still he didnt want to open up and is keeping everything on a surface level, We barely talk... best thing to do is to leave him alone until he will make a move himself.

I'm sorry you're going through this too. I have a friend too who is Gemini with Venus in Taurus. He is very kind, but yeah he disappears alot too. But doesn't mean that he's not thinking of you. Hope things work out for the best. I feel your pain, it's hard when you're longing for someone.

About the Gemini I'm talking about here, It seems it's really over. I hope we remain friends.

What are your placements though?

I dont have many hopes for my Gemini too... mostly because he has very complicated chaotic family situation, ex and small kids and loads of responsibility in his life.
I am sun cancer, venus cancer, moon saggitarius, aquarius rising.
Im waaay too emotional for him, we connected intellectually, he has 5 water in his chart so hes emotional too, just very chaotic as gemini, its like hes super emotional but doesnt like others to be like that with him, also I have 5 fire in my chart too so Im very direct and he didnt like that, he felt as if im attacking him by just expressing myself.

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I can imagine... cancer placements are intense. Probably your fire placements can help you move on.. My heart is with you but be sure whatever happens is for good..

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Posted by jana33

Posted by TxOgal
I've been friends with this Gemini guy for about a year now, mid-year I cut ties with him cause I felt things were getting intimate and I wasn't sure of his intentions. He's been trying to talk to me, but I was avoiding him until about 2 months later, he reached out somehow and we reconciled. Since then things got more intimate (more friends than anything) but we both developed feelings for each other. His intentions are clear that he wants to get serious (but deep down I had doubts about it due to difference in our status).

Lately I've been feeling neglected by him, for the past month we rarely talk, due to different schedules, but when we talk he's very loving and caring. He claims that it's because I'm always busy and he doesn't want to bother me (which really annoyed me) I explained this to him a couple of time, that he could always talk to me anytime and I'm not that busy as he thinks. But, still his ways didn't change.

I got so mad at him and told him he doesn't have feelings or a heart to treat me this way, since I made it clear that he doesn't seem to care or even want to talk to me anymore. And that day I slipped and responded to a guy who's flirting with me and we kind of had fun over a phone call. The next day, the Gemini apologized to me, but stupid me I also apologized and told him about that guy I talked to :/

Now things got bad, at first I apologized alot and he was trying to avoid me then, I told him that I just told him about that guy cause I wanted to annoy him back as he annoyed me all that time being careless about me (that was my friend's suggestion cause they said it was a huge mistake that I told the truth when we are not even that committed yet). Now, the Gemini said let's be friends nothing more than that. I told him I have many girl friends already I don't need a guy friend. He just said ok.

Obviously I love him so much, but I screwed things up and I am dying inside for him to talk to me again, but he seems so distant and avoiding me now I don't know what to do to get him back. I cannot send him anymore messages. He already doesn't believe that I was only saying that to annoy him. What do you think this Gemini man will do? Is it really over now? please your opinion

Him:
Sun is in 24 Degrees Gemini
Moon is in 27 Degrees Pisces
Mercury is in 07 Degrees Gemini
Venus is in 19 Degrees Taurus
Mars is in 11 Degrees Aries

Me:
Sun is in 18 Degrees Taurus
Moon is in 13 Degrees Scorpio
Mercury is in 10 Degrees Taurus
Venus is in 05 Degrees Aries
Mars is in 13 Degrees Pisces

Sorry that was long ...

Im so sorry you are going though this, I feel we are in a similar situation, My Gemini also has Venus in Taurus, they are more stable and loving in my experience and it very easy to hurt them, then they back off and shut down. Maybe the expectations is the problem, it was in my case, I was quite demanding towards him(emotionally), wanting things my way the way I like it, and Gemini will never be submissive to anyone, they just want to feel free and give when they want to give, the best way to keep him is to appreciate him for all the good things so he wants to do more of them. Any type of control or demand will push him away. I am trying to reconnect with mine too after 3 months and its really bad, hes ignoring my text, being cold and distant. I tried to apologize, explain, said I learned from this, but still he didnt want to open up and is keeping everything on a surface level, We barely talk... best thing to do is to leave him alone until he will make a move himself.

I'm sorry you're going through this too. I have a friend too who is Gemini with Venus in Taurus. He is very kind, but yeah he disappears alot too. But doesn't mean that he's not thinking of you. Hope things work out for the best. I feel your pain, it's hard when you're longing for someone.

About the Gemini I'm talking about here, It seems it's really over. I hope we remain friends.

What are your placements though?

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I dont have many hopes for my Gemini too... mostly because he has very complicated chaotic family situation, ex and small kids and loads of responsibility in his life.
I am sun cancer, venus cancer, moon saggitarius, aquarius rising.
Im waaay too emotional for him, we connected intellectually, he has 5 water in his chart so hes emotional too, just very chaotic as gemini, its like hes super emotional but doesnt like others to be like that with him, also I have 5 fire in my chart too so Im very direct and he didnt like that, he felt as if im attacking him by just expressing myself.