2 capricorns had an argument, honest advice needed

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Caprixxgirl
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Hello, I am in a relationship with another capi, I am capi too.

We had a split up previously, then after a few months we came back together on his initiative. We were happy, just been on a holiday together, I took some hormonal pills that really affected me and my mood, we were arguing alot.

He drove home and said he is done. Now he is giving me a silent treatment, blocked me on socials and his phone, but not on Whatsapp. Is it true that when capi is done he would cut all communications? He said he wants space, and that he doesnt want to be together anymore, at least for now after our last argument.

I agreed on space, but I asked him to come back when he is ready to talk. He is been ignoring my messages.

Still has my stuff and when I asked if we can meet he said he dont want to see me, maybe in a week or a month..

What should I do and how can I approach him? Argument was my fault and I am in the wrong here, so I tried to be kind and said I am here when he wants to talk, I had no response. Thank you..
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Give him time.

As you know, Capricorns don’t like starting at the bottom of the mountain over n over again.

Once they start climbing, they tend to stick around and become immovable due to DUTY and investment.

If he comes back, you’ll know that you’re worth the squeeze.

HOWEVER, you still need to really know if you still want to climb this mountain. All this breakups to makeups is not what Capricorns enjoy.

Capricorns need forward movement. Progress.

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Caprixxgirl
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We had just been on a beautiful holiday together, the weather was not the best but we had etch other.

On Tuesday when we argued he left home, at midnight after , and hes had a few drinks, so it was over the limit to drive.

Next day he texted me saying that he put his future in danger by driving that night and its my fault, I cause an argument and didnt let him to calm down even he asked me.

And I admited that its my fault and I said I will be better, I will try harder, I told him for the first time that I love him after being 1 year together l was not able to say it out load ever.

He said he knows about my feelings and wants space, but he doesnt want to take any more chances and dont believe it will ever work.

He hasnt blocked my on his phone and still have some things of mine, I admit I text now and then, with no answer at all now, I just know that its delivered. I dont know what else to do?

I am thinking of deleting him and blocking him from everywhere and stopping this emotional manipulation because treating someone with silence is a form of it. Would that make everything worse? I am lost at this point..
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Posted by Caprixxgirl
We had just been on a beautiful holiday together, the weather was not the best but we had etch other.

On Tuesday when we argued he left home, at midnight after , and hes had a few drinks, so it was over the limit to drive.

Next day he texted me saying that he put his future in danger by driving that night and its my fault, I cause an argument and didnt let him to calm down even he asked me.

And I admited that its my fault and I said I will be better, I will try harder, I told him for the first time that I love him after being 1 year together l was not able to say it out load ever.

He said he knows about my feelings and wants space, but he doesnt want to take any more chances and dont believe it will ever work.

He hasnt blocked my on his phone and still have some things of mine, I admit I text now and then, with no answer at all now, I just know that its delivered. I dont know what else to do?

I am thinking of deleting him and blocking him from everywhere and stopping this emotional manipulation because treating someone with silence is a form of it. Would that make everything worse? I am lost at this point..


Are you silly or something?!

You talk about him emotionally manipulating you with silence meanwhile you want to emotionally manipulate through blocking.

Y’all deserve each other
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xxAjuxx
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Posted by DMV
Give him time.


As you know, Capricorns don’t like starting at the bottom of the mountain over n over again.


Once they start climbing, they tend to stick around and become immovable due to DUTY and investment.


If he comes back, you’ll know that you’re worth the squeeze.


HOWEVER, you still need to really know if you still want to climb this mountain. All this breakups to makeups is not what Capricorns enjoy.


Capricorns need forward movement. Progress.



Wow.



Probably the best* way to ever describe

this energy. For Capricorn. Wow



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