Cap ex and his new Libra wife

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I am laughing and crying but mostly it’s my mom who is having time of her life nowadays.

My ex Cap 63 married a Libra who is 44 soon after our divorce. In about a month. Which happened like a month ago. Woman needs papers to stay in US. She also had an ovarian cancer post stage 3. He had helped her trough pre-surgery and after. He had been a real man. Yeah...imagine THAT!

So few days ago he called me complaining about her not being attentive enough. She tells him his pretty and smart and use to be successful she is and how how everything in HER country taste better and IS better and shit...

She is working hard cleaning houses. He is on SSD and he is actually learned how to run washer and VC and cooking...but he hates it because he never had to do this IN HIS LIFE!

So...she is laughing at his safe driving.

She doesn’t cook or cooks badly.

Does not apologize if she sees him upset. And he is doing shitload of work for her papers to stay here.

So few days ago he called me drunk and pissed off and I’ve listened and told him to talk to her.

He can be silent for months...

Apparently she isn’t the one to speak first as well...so they are not talking.

I am with my Aries and mom called that ex is coming overnight last night because he wants to get away from his new wife.

He texted me early morning today and I’ve called and we’ve talked and he said he is not caving in because that’s the kind of a guy he is...

So my question is what Caps and Libras like together? This couple seems a disaster. I really wish they were happy. Apparently it’s not working. Fucking woman has no subordination! He had been very good to her. I am kind of sorry for him...

Not THAT kind of sorry but still...I’ve breastfed him for 25 years and here is this!!! 👀 fuuuck...
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I’ve just googled and came up with

A Libra woman is a friendly, flirty woman. A Capricorn man is a strong, silent man. They are certainly not perfect astrological partners, but...

So there is always a BUT that comes after ‘not perfect oartners’ Explaining how actually amazing those signs together...

Never understood this shit!

Is it no or yes? Of course other placements matters.

However it ‘no but’ shit that always annoying. Why are these descriptions supposed to be politically correct? 😂
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Obedient—? Hahahahaha! Two cardinal signs? Lmao

But really my mom is a Libra & dad a Cap.

Well they made it 10 years.. I don’t really remember them together but knowing how they both are it really is a bunch of banging heads. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

He wants to be taken care of. This can’t last. You better put up boundaries or you’ll get him back!! 😂
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I mean what do you expect after getting married again 1 month after divorce? I doubt it was for love. Seems he was looking for a maid and she needed a visa. A recipe for disaster.

Exactly! Wasn’t she supposed to be more...obedient? 👀

Lol. Libras aren't that obedient. You should know. Don't you have a libra daughter? 😂
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My Libra has 5 Scorpio placements so I thought...

His ex before me is Libra but she surrounded to a man finally.

Idk...Libra or not - got to have subordination...
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Obedient—? Hahahahaha! Two cardinal signs? Lmao

But really my mom is a Libra & dad a Cap.

Well they made it 10 years.. I don’t really remember them together but knowing how they both are it really is a bunch of banging heads. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

He wants to be taken care of. This can’t last. You better put up boundaries or you’ll get him back!! 😂


LMAO. I am not. My mom seems missing cooking for somebody...😂😂😂
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"I’ve breastfed him for 25 years and here is this!!! 👀 fuuuck..."

Dead!!! Maybe you didn't give him the left tit too?? lolll

He's an idiot for marrying someone to just HELP them. Caps tend to do that though... put their shit at risk to help family and loved ones *eye roll* Fuck that shit. you should always think about person #1 which is you and all the possibly ways this deal could go wrong for you.

This is from someone who gives an arm when people ask for a hand so I'm really trying to teach myself that. My good sag but cap dominant friend says, "No good deed goes unpunished." And I love him for that quote. I hate tattoos but I'll tattoo that shit on my head so I can see it every day in the mirror. LOL!

Ok so Caps and Libras... ummm we just don't get along? Like it's tension you can cut with a knife (and not the good sexual tension) unless each has more of the other's vibing elements. For example an earthy/watery Libra with an airy/firey Cap.

I've been dealing with that Libra for a while now and I love waht I learn from him which is to be more selfish and discretionary when it comes to love.
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"I’ve breastfed him for 25 years and here is this!!! 👀 fuuuck..."

Dead!!! Maybe you didn't give him the left tit too?? lolll

He's an idiot for marrying someone to just HELP them. Caps tend to do that though... put their shit at risk to help family and loved ones *eye roll* Fuck that shit. you should always think about person #1 which is you and all the possibly ways this deal could go wrong for you.

This is from someone who gives an arm when people ask for a hand so I'm really trying to teach myself that. My good sag but cap dominant friend says, "No good deed goes unpunished." And I love him for that quote. I hate tattoos but I'll tattoo that shit on my head so I can see it every day in the mirror. LOL!

Ok so Caps and Libras... ummm we just don't get along? Like it's tension you can cut with a knife (and not the good sexual tension) unless each has more of the other's vibing elements. For example an earthy/watery Libra with an airy/firey Cap.

I've been dealing with that Libra for a while now and I love waht I learn from him which is to be more selfish and discretionary when it comes to love.


Omg from another cap dominant sag that is so true! I’m trying to figure that one out myself. I don’t think the answer is selfishness but self-care. It’s a tricky balance I think. I seem to attract a lot of selfish people... but is the answer to not be caring & kind to people. If so, it’s a sad world.
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Posted by PuzzlePieces
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"I’ve breastfed him for 25 years and here is this!!! 👀 fuuuck..."

Dead!!! Maybe you didn't give him the left tit too?? lolll

He's an idiot for marrying someone to just HELP them. Caps tend to do that though... put their shit at risk to help family and loved ones *eye roll* Fuck that shit. you should always think about person #1 which is you and all the possibly ways this deal could go wrong for you.

This is from someone who gives an arm when people ask for a hand so I'm really trying to teach myself that. My good sag but cap dominant friend says, "No good deed goes unpunished." And I love him for that quote. I hate tattoos but I'll tattoo that shit on my head so I can see it every day in the mirror. LOL!

Ok so Caps and Libras... ummm we just don't get along? Like it's tension you can cut with a knife (and not the good sexual tension) unless each has more of the other's vibing elements. For example an earthy/watery Libra with an airy/firey Cap.

I've been dealing with that Libra for a while now and I love waht I learn from him which is to be more selfish and discretionary when it comes to love.

Omg from another cap dominant sag that is so true! I’m trying to figure that one out myself. I don’t think the answer is selfishness but self-care. It’s a tricky balance I think. I seem to attract a lot of selfish people... but is the answer to not be caring & kind to people. If so, it’s a sad world.
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Amazing catch....! self-care is great but when people don't communicate it can be translated as selfishness when they are not willing to give what they want.

But i like the positive vibe so I'll use the word self-care for myself 🙂
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"I’ve breastfed him for 25 years and here is this!!! 👀 fuuuck..."

Dead!!! Maybe you didn't give him the left tit too?? lolll

He's an idiot for marrying someone to just HELP them. Caps tend to do that though... put their shit at risk to help family and loved ones *eye roll* Fuck that shit. you should always think about person #1 which is you and all the possibly ways this deal could go wrong for you.

This is from someone who gives an arm when people ask for a hand so I'm really trying to teach myself that. My good sag but cap dominant friend says, "No good deed goes unpunished." And I love him for that quote. I hate tattoos but I'll tattoo that shit on my head so I can see it every day in the mirror. LOL!

Ok so Caps and Libras... ummm we just don't get along? Like it's tension you can cut with a knife (and not the good sexual tension) unless each has more of the other's vibing elements. For example an earthy/watery Libra with an airy/firey Cap.

I've been dealing with that Libra for a while now and I love waht I learn from him which is to be more selfish and discretionary when it comes to love.

Omg from another cap dominant sag that is so true! I’m trying to figure that one out myself. I don’t think the answer is selfishness but self-care. It’s a tricky balance I think. I seem to attract a lot of selfish people... but is the answer to not be caring & kind to people. If so, it’s a sad world.

Amazing catch....! self-care is great but when people don't communicate it can be translated as selfishness when they are not willing to give what they want.

But i like the positive vibe so I'll use the word self-care for myself 🙂
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True but there is a difference. My ex cap admitted to me he is selfish. The most recent guy I dated ( a Libra & a Cap moon btw) told me he is a selfish bastard to explain some of his behavior 😳 what they do is selfish. But there are some things the Cap does are self-care. You don’t have to treat someone in an uncaring way to practice self-care. It takes more courage though.
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Obedient—? Hahahahaha! Two cardinal signs? Lmao

But really my mom is a Libra & dad a Cap.

Well they made it 10 years.. I don’t really remember them together but knowing how they both are it really is a bunch of banging heads. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

He wants to be taken care of. This can’t last. You better put up boundaries or you’ll get him back!! 😂

Yeah its a square aspect. The doomed
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He divorced Libra before me after 7 years...but they were leaving the country and he needed her. Maybe that’s why....
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I don't buy it. She is better for him than you were. At least they have sex.


Yeah...I have to laugh...

About a week ago he sent me a text with a pic of a cream that says

Apply small amount to your penis in 25 quick strokes...

He didn’t know what ‘strokes’ meant...lmao

Later he said it didn’t work. 🤦‍♀️

I did yell at him but he told me anyway...oy vey...😂😂😂
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Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown

You used to like her. I'm sure he would like the men you cheated on him with.

Leaving the other person alone is the best thing after divorce.


Are you speaking from your own experience?

I can’t pretend I don’t know him.

And I don’t remember asking if I should be talking to him...have I?

As long as he is talking to me I am happy to help within means...

If he is silent - I am silent.

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Don't get sucked in.

I don’t remember asking what to do about it.

What else is this thread?

I don't get your reaction. If my ex was involved with someone who treated them like shit i would be like 'YES' ha ha ..i am winning!
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People who are happy normally want others to be happy. He didn’t do anything to me for me to be happy for his misfortune. I am actually feeling guilty almost...

He doesn’t want to hear about Aries but he tells me about his Libra all of it...and I AM feeling sorry for him.

He just said he is back in dating site.

Stupid but he isn’t vicious...
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Don't get sucked in.

I don’t remember asking what to do about it.

What else is this thread?

I don't get your reaction. If my ex was involved with someone who treated them like shit i would be like 'YES' ha ha ..i am winning!

People who are happy normally want others to be happy. He didn’t do anything to me for me to be happy for his misfortune. I am actually feeling guilty almost...

He doesn’t want to hear about Aries but he tells me about his Libra all of it...and I AM feeling sorry for him.

He just said he is back in dating site.

Stupid but he isn’t vicious...

I see.

Yes he seems really naive and immature.

He doesn't seem to have much worldly experience. He needs to get out and have some fun. Postpone the wedding for a year etc.

Probably if he said I want to put the wedding off for a year. She would go ..uh oh better be nice to him for a while.
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Too late! He is married...
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Posted by Foxy777
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Don't get sucked in.

I don’t remember asking what to do about it.

What else is this thread?

I don't get your reaction. If my ex was involved with someone who treated them like shit i would be like 'YES' ha ha ..i am winning!

People who are happy normally want others to be happy. He didn’t do anything to me for me to be happy for his misfortune. I am actually feeling guilty almost...

He doesn’t want to hear about Aries but he tells me about his Libra all of it...and I AM feeling sorry for him.

He just said he is back in dating site.

Stupid but he isn’t vicious...

I see.

Yes he seems really naive and immature.

He doesn't seem to have much worldly experience. He needs to get out and have some fun. Postpone the wedding for a year etc.

Probably if he said I want to put the wedding off for a year. She would go ..uh oh better be nice to him for a while.

Too late! He is married...

What an idiot! Lol!

He just should have stayed with you.

I guess he thought oh she is young ..she can be 'molded.'

That's what you do ...let guys think they can 'mold' you ..then..nope...bye bye
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He couldn’t stayed with me because I wouldn’t stay with him...🤦‍♀️