Cap man

Hi everyone,

I have a big question, I never dated or be interested in Capricorn man, but now for 4 weeks I started to chat with this cap man, I found him online, at the beginning we had a short convo, then I stopped to write him and he contacted me again.

We had a big bound at the very first msgs, he was super funny ( cap, moon in aqua - he have a big stellium in aqua-…dk the raising sign), I'm a Gemini, raising sign Leo, moon in sag with a stellium in 12th house.

He has been into me for all this time, asked me one million of questions, also strange questions, msgs with hearts, compliments of every type, he said: I like you ...

And then he started to be sexual in a joking way, ok, no problems I played with him..But he never took the sexual side seriously, as if he were the one starting the subject and then backing out.

The strange thing it's that he is really so much into porn and hot pictures, he told me that clearly, so i thought that probably with a girl that he like would be natural for him to have that desire...then he He revealed to me to be Virgin ( and ok, also my best friend is still virgin and is a cap, she is so Insecure), but for me was ok, nothing bad ...he told me some little details about his life and his self that I accepted without problems.

Last night also he was so close, also sent the good night ( he doesn't always send the good night, only the good morning every day).

In these two days I noticed that he ignores my msgs, we exchanged WhatsApp, and i noticed that when I'm writing the answer of his msg he go online, in that moment I sent the message so he received the notification, but he doesn't answer..ok, i always waited, also if he make me wait hours I waited, never been pushy or clingy, never asked him nothing..

Then I noticed that he go online on the website where we met, and if I sent a msg to him while he is online he doesn't answer.. honestly I think he is talking with other girls.

At the beginning when he was acting all kind with hearts and all I made him understand that his behavior had an effect on me, then he told me that he want to be my friend and that we will see the future...c mon, friend doesn't act like that, he is going on with appreciation etc...why he is acting like this?

I don't want to lose my time for an idiot...

His Chiron it's in Scorpio.

Someone can share an opinion?

Thank you so much

He is an online flirt buddy, of course he can talk to other women.

He asked some questions, told you he was a horny virgin who enjoyed porn, and tried to make the convo sexual to see how game you were.

I fail to see how he is an idiot in this situation...

Did he say he wanted a relationship or in any way indicate he was looking to lock you down as a gf? If not I think don't be so pressed about some internet flirtation, its not that serious.

Have fun and don't put any expectations on it cause its online and not real until ya'll meet in person and see if you vibe irl. And if you can't handle that and you feel like continuing to communicate with him is 'wasting your time' then no harm no foul. Block his ass and engage with the next.

"In these two days I noticed that he ignores my msgs, we exchanged WhatsApp, and i noticed that when I'm writing the answer of his msg he go online, in that moment I sent the message so he received the notification, but he doesn't answer..ok, i always waited, also if he make me wait hours I waited, never been pushy or clingy, never asked him nothing..

Then I noticed that he go online on the website where we met, and if I sent a msg to him while he is online he doesn't answer.. honestly I think he is talking with other girls."

Not saying this is the case, idk him. But sometimes people who don't have much experience communicating with romantic interests get some anxiety over what to say. They need to take a step back and think of what to say instead of replying very quickly.

Also he could be feeling awkward from getting personal so quickly, telling you he's a virgin etc.

Him not replying right away doesn't necessarily mean he is no longer interested. You really are overthinking. If he is interested he will continue the convo going even if its not on the timeline you desire. Also he will suggest you meet up in person. That matters more then his response times. Ijs.

Posted by alexscaries

@LadyNeptune We don't know how many messages she sent or what was sent. He could have been spammed silly. There's a three day rule if you get no reply and you send something to make contact again.

True. And it feels like some people just go all in too quickly. People can change their minds, its all good. Early days a few weeks in your getting to know someone its ok if interest fades. That's part of the process. Doesn't make him a bad guy or her somehow less if this doesn't pan out. It is what it is.

Ok, thank you for all the replies.

His behaviour it's pretty controlling if I have to be honest, if I say I go out he want to know if I go out with a men, and he told me: you are different for me ...this is why I'm looking carefully about this guy if he is just playing or what ( most probably yes 😂), he likes to make a lot of questions like also asking where I am etc ....so it's a little strange, but anyway, I ll take him not so seriously, thank you

@LadyNeptune I haven't asked him nothing, I mean..all what he said to me has been his decision, he told by his own choice to be virgin, I don't do questions to him, in all this he take the charge wanting to know me ..

And i don't reply to his message immediately, often I answer to his msgs after 1 hour if I have no time.

I'm not the type of person that ask so personal questions, normally I prefer when people open to me freely without my pression..

Sorry my English, is not my mother language 😅

Mmm.. the app that I downloaded wasn't about dating, was about language exchange then he appeared because his city was in the list of the places that I would like to visit..

I like to talk with people from all over the world males or females, as I have normal convos with other people..

But yes..if he wanna ghost me, ok ..in the end we have nothing