So I met my cap 4 months ago. Everything was going so well. We connected immediately. We have the same values, interests, and way of thinking (kind of). I’m an aqua (Pisces rising and Gemini moon). He’s a workaholic (has 2 jobs), so I don’t see him much, but I’m a patient person and I let him do his own thing. He’s stated he appreciates it. He’s opened up to me a lot and we go to each other when things go wrong. I always listen. He has a lot going on in his life. He’s told me before that I’m different, in a good way, and he likes it. Anyway...I think we’both been on the same page. However, we’re not official and I wanted that label. I kind of pushed it on him one night and drunkenly blew up on him about it. He’s had trouble with his past and doesn’t want to make another mistake cause he gets hurt easily. I realize what I did was too much and I apologized. He’s been going through a lot and he probably didn’t need that drama. Anyway...he explained to me how he felt about it. Said he likes me a lot, but needs to clear his head. I told him I understand and have been giving him space and that if he needs me, I’m there. Our convos have died down from what it was in the beginning. Prob like 1-2 texts or he doesn’t talk to me one day. But he usually initiates. I’ve only initiated once to send him something funny, but that’s it. He recently opened up again about stuff going on in his life, but then went back to being quiet. I’m trying hard to be patient and understand him, so I’m leaving him alone. I did have a moment where something in my life changed and he listened and asked me if I’m ok and that he’s there for me too. We haven’t seen each other in a while and we haven’t made plans to see each other. He’s a little bit of an introvert. I’m kind of worried he’s losing interest. I actually like this guy and see a lot of potential with him. Am I over reacting?
