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Capricorn men
Posted by LethalFantasia
I don't think they're picky daters necessarily
some can definitely be very picky about who they decide to commit to/get into a relationship with
it's the /littlethings that impress them imo
many are lowkey actually very humble even though Capricorn is considered a very #materialistic sign
some can be very complex indivduals
the men are definitely very typical men many of the times and like to be treated w/respect from what I've noticed x
Can you please elaborate on the little things that impress them?
I didn't like my capricorn dating experience.. it was too formal for my style , too distant, loved himself and his life way too much ..
Posted by LethalFantasia
I don't think they're picky daters necessarily
some can definitely be very picky about who they decide to commit to/get into a relationship with
it's the /littlethings that impress them imo
many are lowkey actually very humble even though Capricorn is considered a very #materialistic sign
some can be very complex indivduals
the men are definitely very typical men many of the times and like to be treated w/respect from what I've noticed x
That’s the most general observation of all! Caps do like respect? As supposed to other men of any sign who prefer to be treated as shit? 🤔
Posted by PoloChatPosted by LethalFantasia
I don't think they're picky daters necessarily
some can definitely be very picky about who they decide to commit to/get into a relationship with
it's the /littlethings that impress them imo
many are lowkey actually very humble even though Capricorn is considered a very #materialistic sign
some can be very complex indivduals
the men are definitely very typical men many of the times and like to be treated w/respect from what I've noticed x
Can you please elaborate on the little things that impress them?click to expand
Serve them. Tell him you’ve never met such a grand noble man...kiss his ass so he has purple marks as a prove of your ass kissing...there you go!
But do you really want it?
Yeah...praise their mother! Be like her.
Well...you’ll never reach that height but you must try to get as close to perfect that task...brrrrrr👅
Posted by GemitatiPosted by PoloChatPosted by LethalFantasia
I don't think they're picky daters necessarily
some can definitely be very picky about who they decide to commit to/get into a relationship with
it's the /littlethings that impress them imo
many are lowkey actually very humble even though Capricorn is considered a very #materialistic sign
some can be very complex indivduals
the men are definitely very typical men many of the times and like to be treated w/respect from what I've noticed x
Can you please elaborate on the little things that impress them?
Serve them. Tell him you’ve never met such a grand noble man...kiss his ass so he has purple marks as a prove of your ass kissing...there you go!
But do you really want it?
Yeah...praise their mother! Be like her.
Well...you’ll never reach that height but you must try to get as close to perfect that task...brrrrrr👅click to expand
That's not living
Where's the fun in that? 😬
Posted by PhoenixStorm
You will just need to be yourself.
My sons dad is a cap and he always said that he knew he wanted to be with me over the other women he met because he knew that I would be a good mom. Which was weird to me, because I didn’t have kids when we first met I just had a dog. Lol but we both have cancer moons.. and I do have a nurturing type of personality so maybe he picked up on it even without me having kids.
I used to be on here 11 years ago looking for advice on how to snag him and I read everything from “must be ladylike, must not make a scene, must dress conservatively” etc you will hear all types of things. But that’s all superficial stuff.. it’s the deeper stuff that they’re paying attention to, the stuff you can’t fake. So just be yourself and if it’s meant to be, it will be.
Wow!!! Thanks so much 🙂
Posted by G6Posted by PhoenixStorm
You will just need to be yourself.
it’s the deeper stuff that they’re paying attention to, the stuff you can’t fake.
@foreveryoung haven't seen a better answer about Caps on dxpnet than this. The rest are just details you're losing in for nothing.click to expand
Why does it feels like every Cap wom I meet just wanna fuck, chill and be lowkey? lol please explain someone
People always ask the wrong questions, thus why they never figure it out.
Self Esteem:
Social interactions and appearances are traits that should have mastered before you hit high school. How can anyone claim to love you when they don't love themselves— Many Capricorns have mastered these traits and look for common ground to start off with. It has nothing to do with we think were better or picky.
Self Control:
There is a time and place for everything. Mastery of ones actions and emotions is an other trait that should have mastered before you hit high school. Going out in public and doing things against these principals shows neediness. It also opens up the door for you to be judged, shamed or outcast-ed. Also, showing off for status, fame or respect shows approval seeking behavior. If you are who you are, than you should not have to prove it. It show in due time...
Now, to answer your question putting aside everything I have mentioned above.
-I am impressed with someone when they are who they portray themselves to be.
-I am impressed with someone when they accept their flaws/insecurities and work toward fixing them.
-I am impressed with someone that has told me there goals, and I see them working toward them.
-Blah blah blah, I can go on forever... Which is not the point if you understood what I have written.VALUE
If your goal is to impress me, I will not be impressed.
Being true to who you are, or correcting/improving who you are, will yield your desired results.
Food for thought:
Don't be complacent, always move forward, for a better life for yourself. You only live once. Reach for the stars... We will notice.
Self Esteem:
Social interactions and appearances are traits that should have mastered before you hit high school. How can anyone claim to love you when they don't love themselves— Many Capricorns have mastered these traits and look for common ground to start off with. It has nothing to do with we think were better or picky.
Self Control:
There is a time and place for everything. Mastery of ones actions and emotions is an other trait that should have mastered before you hit high school. Going out in public and doing things against these principals shows neediness. It also opens up the door for you to be judged, shamed or outcast-ed. Also, showing off for status, fame or respect shows approval seeking behavior. If you are who you are, than you should not have to prove it. It show in due time...
Now, to answer your question putting aside everything I have mentioned above.
-I am impressed with someone when they are who they portray themselves to be.
-I am impressed with someone when they accept their flaws/insecurities and work toward fixing them.
-I am impressed with someone that has told me there goals, and I see them working toward them.
-Blah blah blah, I can go on forever... Which is not the point if you understood what I have written.VALUE
If your goal is to impress me, I will not be impressed.
Being true to who you are, or correcting/improving who you are, will yield your desired results.
Food for thought:
Don't be complacent, always move forward, for a better life for yourself. You only live once. Reach for the stars... We will notice.
I’d a friend who was married to a Cap guy, he was always at work, she may as well been single. She contacted an ex and they became lovers again. Cap ends up finding him hiding in their wardrobe when he came home early one day. Seems it was too late for him, he never listened to his wife when she pleaded with him to have a functional rship with her.
Posted by MyStarsShine
I’d a friend who was married to a Cap guy, he was always at work, she may as well been single. She contacted an ex and they became lovers again. Cap ends up finding him hiding in their wardrobe when he came home early one day. Seems it was too late for him, he never listened to his wife when she pleaded with him to have a functional rship with her.
😢
Poor Cap. He just hoped this wouldn't happen. He waited patiently for the treason to happen and went as far to catch her in the act. That should prove he was listening and paying attention.
One mans garbage, is an other man's gold... More power to her! She got what she wanted.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by SureShotCap
People always ask the wrong questions, thus why they never figure it out.Self Esteem:
Social interactions and appearances are traits that should have mastered before you hit high school. How can anyone claim to love you when they don't love themselves— Many Capricorns have mastered these traits and look for common ground to start off with. It has nothing to do with we think were better or picky.Self Control:
There is a time and place for everything. Mastery of ones actions and emotions is an other trait that should have mastered before you hit high school. Going out in public and doing things against these principals shows neediness. It also opens up the door for you to be judged, shamed or outcast-ed. Also, showing off for status, fame or respect shows approval seeking behavior. If you are who you are, than you should not have to prove it. It show in due time...
Now, to answer your question putting aside everything I have mentioned above.
-I am impressed with someone when they are who they portray themselves to be.
-I am impressed with someone when they accept their flaws/insecurities and work toward fixing them.
-I am impressed with someone that has told me there goals, and I see them working toward them.
-Blah blah blah, I can go on forever... Which is not the point if you understood what I have written.VALUEIf your goal is to impress me, I will not be impressed.
Being true to who you are, or correcting/improving who you are, will yield your desired results.Food for thought:
Don't be complacent, always move forward, for a better life for yourself. You only live once. Reach for the stars... We will notice.
In this society, you're likely to be judged one way or another. If the other person is so concerned as to avoid opening doors to judgment, they are probably not really being themselves, out of fear of being judged, no? I think the acceptance of judgment may be more likely to result in a person being true to themselves. A person should want to have self esteem and self control, not as a consequence of avoiding judgment.
Having said that, I don't think 100% sincerity is humanly possible for much of our adult lives since social etiquette, to which self control is a by product of, requires an outward mask when human interactions are required in society. Like how I sometimes hear that Cap guys may lie to avoid being the bad guy. 😛
What is your opinion in this?click to expand
Cap I knew was a huge liar. He faked a whole personality just to fuck.
After fucking he became more his self, but still lied about.... Well almost everything. Even dumb shit.
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by MyStarsShine
I’d a friend who was married to a Cap guy, he was always at work, she may as well been single. She contacted an ex and they became lovers again. Cap ends up finding him hiding in their wardrobe when he came home early one day. Seems it was too late for him, he never listened to his wife when she pleaded with him to have a functional rship with her.
😢
Poor Cap. He just hoped this wouldn't happen. He waited patiently for the treason to happen and went as far to catch her in the act. That should prove he was listening and paying attention.
One mans garbage, is an other man's gold... More power to her! She got what she wanted.click to expand
He never listened to her sadly....his work was his God
Posted by xoxflute
In this society, you're likely to be judged one way or another. If the other person is so concerned as to avoid opening doors to judgment, they are probably not really being themselves, out of fear of being judged, no? I think the acceptance of judgment may be more likely to result in a person being true to themselves. A person should want to have self esteem and self control, not as a consequence of avoiding judgment.
Having said that, I don't think 100% sincerity is humanly possible for much of our adult lives since social etiquette, to which self control is a by product of, requires an outward mask when human interactions are required in society. Like how I sometimes hear that Cap guys may lie to avoid being the bad guy. 😛
What is your opinion in this?click to expand
A human is supposed to mature with failure. So many are scared of failure that they make excuses (lies) or remain in denial (believing in their lies) avoiding growth and maturity. Liars automatically block their maturity. Accepting being different is being unique, original and interesting. Trying to fit in makes you dull, boring and the same.
Advice given when not asked for will get you in trouble every time. Listening and nodding through the conversation instead of jumping in and giving your opinion shows respect and self control. Waiting for the person to ask "what's your opinion" presents respect, understanding and a possible connection. Lying will almost always kill that connection.
A confident person is not guarded, they remain vulnerable because they accept themselves and welcome the constructive criticism...
Posted by MyStarsShine
He never listened to her sadly....his work was his God
I too am a victim of this fate. A great reward, with no one to share it with...
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by MyStarsShine
He never listened to her sadly....his work was his God
I too am a victim of this fate. A great reward, with no one to share it with...click to expand
That is sad 😞
"Nobody on their death bed said I wished I'd spent more time at work"
I was married to a workaholic.....he still is and now has no friends, it has affected both our sons and my llfe...the only thing he seems to become animated about is work, sweet work....
I actually completely agree with “caps do like respect” you cannot cancel on him last minute without really explaining why. You can’t give the answer that you changed your kind or you feel tired. You have to really explain.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SureShotCapPosted by MyStarsShine
He never listened to her sadly....his work was his God
I too am a victim of this fate. A great reward, with no one to share it with...
That is sad 😞
"Nobody on their death bed said I wished I'd spent more time at work"
I was married to a workaholic.....he still is and now has no friends, it has affected both our sons and my llfe...the only thing he seems to become animated about is work, sweet work....click to expand
Homeless people might say “I wish I’d spent more time at work”?
Posted by MyStarsShine
That is sad 😞
"Nobody on their death bed said I wished I'd spent more time at work"
I was married to a workaholic.....he still is and now has no friends, it has affected both our sons and my llfe...the only thing he seems to become animated about is work, sweet work....
My father was also a Capricorn (12/31), his fate was the same. But I did not let him die alone. Though he was strong at will, he died because of a broken heart. He didn't have to tell me. I felt it with my soul because I can relate.
Some feel productive at home, some feel productive at work. I guess to evolve, you must master both...
Posted by AriesJoPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SureShotCapPosted by MyStarsShine
He never listened to her sadly....his work was his God
I too am a victim of this fate. A great reward, with no one to share it with...
That is sad 😞
"Nobody on their death bed said I wished I'd spent more time at work"
I was married to a workaholic.....he still is and now has no friends, it has affected both our sons and my llfe...the only thing he seems to become animated about is work, sweet work....
Homeless people might say “I wish I’d spent more time at work”?click to expand
Apparently not all of them. I was to someone homeless volunteers who told me some of the guys refused the offer of work....
Posted by xoxfluteSo you have been 100% honest, 100% of the time, even in situations where lying might be warranted (i.e. situations like patient being told that they are getting better when they are not, so the patient's health doesn't get negatively affected by the bad news)?
" Listening and nodding through the conversation instead of jumping in and giving your opinion shows respect and self control."
---> This is why I said 100% sincerity seems not humanly possible, due to effects of social etiquette . I do exactly that, listening and nodding along a conversation, but in truth, a lot of times, my attention span has long since drifted. I am being respectful to the person, and yet from my end, I'm wearing a mask. I can't say I'm being true to myself.
I have an Aries friend who talks a lot. I can barely inject a sentence here and there, let alone waiting to be asked for my opinion. What about in those kind of situations? Stay quiet? What if that's not who you are?click to expand
Being a Capricorn, I am blunt with my words. Being a rising Virgo (MASK SIGN) makes me even worse at the mouth. If I have nothing good to say, I would rather stay quite. Now, if you ask me, I will tell you the truth no matter what the consequences are.
All way ask yourself, will my words make any difference in there or my life? If the answer is NO, don't say nothing.
Caps take a long time to trust .. or at least a certain cap sun, Virgo moon, cap Venus does.
He’s back again. What I find interesting is that he has been making progress this year, little by little. Now he says he wants to work on his insecurities and break down his wall. Huh. It seems he’s been listening to the things I’ve said over the last year, and the in between silences are him working on it. I suppose the progress says something..
I said you need to to prove it to me 🤷♀️
He’s back again. What I find interesting is that he has been making progress this year, little by little. Now he says he wants to work on his insecurities and break down his wall. Huh. It seems he’s been listening to the things I’ve said over the last year, and the in between silences are him working on it. I suppose the progress says something..
I said you need to to prove it to me 🤷♀️
Posted by TxOgal
I didn't like my capricorn dating experience.. it was too formal for my style , too distant, loved himself and his life way too much ..
but those sound like really good things though......
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SureShotCapPosted by MyStarsShine
I’d a friend who was married to a Cap guy, he was always at work, she may as well been single. She contacted an ex and they became lovers again. Cap ends up finding him hiding in their wardrobe when he came home early one day. Seems it was too late for him, he never listened to his wife when she pleaded with him to have a functional rship with her.
😢
Poor Cap. He just hoped this wouldn't happen. He waited patiently for the treason to happen and went as far to catch her in the act. That should prove he was listening and paying attention.
One mans garbage, is an other man's gold... More power to her! She got what she wanted.
He never listened to her sadly....his work was his Godclick to expand
The cap i know doesn't listen to me at all you know.
I mean the other day i asked him to suggest me few songs so that i can relate with my "angry yet disappointed mood".
He came back hours later saying sorry that he was busy with too much work(which he was) and then we talked some about his work and then his plans for the night(drinks with friends).
He never came back suggesting me those songs nor did he bother to ask me about my mood!
So done with him and his busy world.
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